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Donald and Linda Jensen
August 22, 2020
Jack was one of a kind. He did it his way which always seemed to be the best way. He was not only an employer, he was a dear friend to our entire family. He treated us like family and we are forever grateful to have known him. We speak of him often. He was a huge part of our lives for many years. We hear some cowboy poetry from time to time and it brings a smile and a memory. He loved his cowboy poetry. He will be forever missed.
Anne Lowe
September 8, 2012
Wonderful tribute to a great man. Our condolences to all of the Alder family.
Rich and Anne Lowe
August 29, 2012
I was sorry to read of Jacks passing. I know how hard it is for all of you to have lost both of your parents. I certainly remember all the things that they did for Loren and our family. I especially remember flying home to Salt Lake for a family wedding with your Dad in his plane and how much I appreciated him for that. I rememeber the great times we had eevry year, going to Bear Lake and then Peoa, to the "cabin", and the fun Christmas parties. Our children remember the bicycle built for two, wading in the river and the nightly sing-a-longs by the fire. We loved your parents, Jack and Kaye were the best. Jack was a great boss and we loved him for that. I am sorry for your loss, and I am sure that you have lots of fond memories that each of you will keep near and dear to your hearts forever.
Love
Lorraine Kapp (Ricks)
Ernie Poulson
August 28, 2012
We saw it coming. You could tell by the sound in his voice. He just ran out of steam. He was a good man, and she was a good woman. He was a wonderful influence in my life - trusting me to fly his plane. I will never forget his generosity and compassion. I'm very sorry for your loss. He was a good friend.
Annette Poulson Cumming
My thoughts today are dominated by the knowledge that my old bud Jack Alder died last night. I should be used to this by now, but I'm not. We have spent many hours chatting one on one on many subjects, and our minds were in harmony on most issues. Helen and I have taken Many delightful trips with the Alders, including several to Europe. Also, we've enjoyed Elderhostel trips/programs with them. Now both are gone but not forgotten.
Ernie Poulson
Don and Linda Jensen
August 23, 2012
Dear Alder Family;
We were saddened to hear of Jack's passing. We will forever be grateful to Jack and the Alder Family for all they have done for our family over the years. Jack was a wonderful man, a true friend and an extra ordinary boss. It was an honor to have known him and to know him was to love him. He taught us much and he will be greatly missed.
Love to you ALL
Don and Linda Jensen and Family
Dan & Jill Shoell
August 18, 2012
Thanks for your friendship while I was employed at ACC. Jack will be missed. He was a giant of a man.
Dan & Jill
Craig Zwick
August 18, 2012
Dear friends Steve, Sue Ann, Bruce, Coralie, Ted, Susan and Greg,
So many wonderful memories fill my mind and heart as I have reflected this morning on the lives of your wonderful parents Jack and Kay. Your great dad was a gifted man who reached out to everyone. I was always warmed by his laugh and by his unique way of telling short humorous stories which were always appropriate and which always included lessons for life. He was a mentor in the world of construction and his depth of integrity and character were exemplary for me. His leadership in the AGC was singular.
Steve and Bruce, I remember with fondness many times in your home as young boys. Your great Dad had a quality to make us all laugh and to just be right there as one of us. He will be missed. Although I have not seen him for several years, I assure you that the fond and cumulative memories of so many great times together will live on forever in my mind and heart. Thanks to each of you for carrying on his great legacy of courage and goodness.
With much love and genuine appreciation,
Gary and Nadine Riddle
August 17, 2012
Steve and Sue Ann, We send our sincere condolences. Your father's legacy is here--we see him in your lives. Gary and Nadine Riddle
Lisa Staiger
August 17, 2012
I had the pleasure of meeting Jack at the Alder Summer Party. We had talked about snow college since my daughter was attending there that year. He had made me feel more comfortable about her leaving. I will always be grateful for the knowledge and advice he gave me. He had made a great impact in my life within the short time that I knew him. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the Alder Family.
Erica Hansen
August 17, 2012
I'm so sorry to learn of Jack's passing.
I met Jack and his family through my association with SLCC and The Grand Theatre.
On a few occasions I had the privilege of singing for Alder gatherings at Jack's ranch in Peoa. I was continually struck by the grace and generosity of the entire Alder family - so warm and welcoming.
On one such occasion, I sang at the ranch and was several months pregnant. When it was time to leave, Jack gave me some money and said "go buy a crib." Which I did...
Thank you Jack and Alder family for letting me get to know a remarkable man.
He will be missed.
chelsea
August 17, 2012
Each time I text you good morning,
it's not just a morning greeting. There's a silent message saying I thought of you as I woke up this morning! Good morning!
Dee & Debbie Foust
August 16, 2012
There simply aren't enough words to describe the Giant of a man you were. Your positive influence & impact were felt by so many.
Thank You for allowing us to live in Peoa and make so many wonderful memories for our young family.
We will miss you and our 4th of July parade visits. We are honored to call you friend.
Teri Shaw
August 16, 2012
Sorry to hear of Jack's passing. He was a good man and employer. I will never forget when he let me fly his plane coming back from St. George after visiting one of the job sites. I don't think I was much older than 12.
JR and Jan Evans
August 16, 2012
Jack is a Great example of a life well lived. We will treasure the memories of his friendship and generosity. We will miss you dear friend.
Jolene Wilkinson
August 16, 2012
Thank you for allowing my team to help during Jack's last days. It was an honor and privilege to be of assistance. May you all be blessed with peace.
August 16, 2012
We were sorry to learn of Jack's passing. The Alders have been long time friends of the Dyrengs. I have such happy memories of Mrs. Alder, our next door neighbor and her wonderful children, their spouses and especially the grandchildren who were some of my favorite playmates when they came to visit in Manti.
The last time I saw Jack and Kay was when they were visiting with Ruth Johnson and my Mother, Helen Dyreng in my home. Jack was always a strong, kind, bigger than life personality.
I'm sure he is having a wonderful reunion with his father and mother as well as Kay and the many loved ones and friends who have preceded him in death.
Please know of our love, admiration and sympathy for you as you say a temporary "farewell" to a fine man.
Sincerely, Marilou Dyreng Myers
Carla Freebairn
August 16, 2012
I have so many fond memories of Jack and Kay Alder. Their daughter, Sue, and I were close friends growing up. I lived across the street and considered Jack and Kay to be my "second parents." One of my favorite memories of Jack occurred when I was probably 7 or 8 years old. They invited me to go to Bear Lake with them for a few days. Sue and I had so much fun there. One morning Sue and I were going to fix breakfast. I turned the gas on the stove and we got distracted and I forgot the gas was on (I suppose I was too young to realize that leaving the gas on was dangerous). When we returned to light the stove, a mild explosion occurred. I don't remember any damage but I do remember the fear that we all felt. Ted happened to be standing by the stove when it exploded and it was assumed by Jack that Ted was responsible for the problem. Jack was upset with Ted and tried to explain to him why leaving the gas on could have caused a bigger explosion and how lucky we all were to be alive. I listened carefully to his instructions to Ted, feeling badly that Ted was taking the blame for something I did but I was afraid to tell Jack that it was me and not Ted who had made the mistake. Jack was understandably angry. I finally got the courage to "fess up" . . . Jack was so kind to me. He apologized to Ted and then he sat down and talked to me and Sue about the dangers of gas. I'll never forget how afraid I was and how kind he was to me. His kindness taught me that "honesty truly is the best policy." I've always loved him for his kindness to me in a very scary situation. I could go on and on with stories of Jack and Kay and their neverending kindness. I love them both and will miss them.
August 16, 2012
I echo my brother, Karl's words. He was one of the kindest, larger than life people I knew. He made a lasting impression on me that stuck with me through my entire life. I LOVED it when he gave us rides in his plane. A life well lived and worth celebrating. The picture says a lot.
Karl Mellor
August 15, 2012
As young boys, my brothers and I idolized Jack, especially after he took us for a ride over Mount Olympus in his plane. My father, Rod Mellor, told us many stories about his own boyhood escapades with Jack, (and the stern reprimands from Uncle Ferd.) In college, I interviewed Jack for a school project. That candid discussion and the advice he bestowed ultimately led me to pursue my own successful career in the construction industry. To the Alder Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Blake and Rachel Marchant
August 15, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
I will remember Jack for making every moment count. It was a pleasure for me to have worked for Jack during my "college summers" on his ranch in Peoa. It was always a pleasure to be around Jack, he was a very thoughtful person and very kind to me and my family.
I will forever be grateful that Jack allowed me to use his one horse open sleigh, on a beautiful snowy December day, to propose to my wife some 27 years ago. Be assured that we will never forget Jack's kindness and will forever be thankful for that wonderful start of our family.
Duane Karren
August 15, 2012
I will certainly miss Jack. He contriubted so much to to all the great times we had in Rotary. Remember - "flying up, landing down".
Cherie Summerhays
August 15, 2012
After my husband, Jerry joined the Murray Rotary Club in 1990, the first activity we attended was the annual summer party at the Alder Ranch in Peoa. It was there that I first met Jack and Kay. They were immediately so warm and welcoming to me. As time went on, I truly grew to love Jack. Although he wasn't really old enough to be my grandfather, I always thought of him that way because he reminded me so very much in every way of my beloved grandfather. I will miss Jack very much. May your family always remember and treasure your times together and find comfort in knowing that he was one of the best!
Dick Jorgenson
August 15, 2012
So sad to hear of Jack's passing. I knew Jack and his ranch in Peoa. Just recently we attended a party with him at the ranch. He was always gracious and helpful with community events when we approached him. He indeed made a difference.
May the Lord bless all of his family and friends.
Karen Bettilyon
August 15, 2012
We were so sorry to read of the loss of Jack. It is so difficult to lose a parent. The obituary was so interesting and what an amazing man he was. May God grant you strength in the days to come. Karen and Barney Bettilyon
Charlene Barker
August 15, 2012
Dear Steve and Sue Ann,
"Mr. Alder's" obituary was so beautifully written. I recognized your hand in its composition many times! I am proud to be able to say I know Jack Alder, and that I was a recipient of his welcoming smile,warm way, hospitality, and his unique way of teaching by example. I extend my love and sorrow to you and Sue Ann and your wonderful children,grandchildren and extended family at this time. Steve, your loving kindness and caring, generous ways joined with so many of the, either learned or genetically acquired desirable qualities of your dad, live on in you. Your values of hard work, constant learning, being a gracious and welcoming host (along with Sue Ann's many entertaining talents), your daring explorations (in flight, on the water, or on land), and your gift of silent service are tributes to "Mr. and Mrs. Alder" for the examples they were, resulting in raising an incredible son. Many thanks to them for the part they played in sculpting you, as what you are has played an inconceivable part in our family. We will all love you forever for the amazing way you "looked after" our mom for so many years and for being more of a brother to us than a brother-in-law. With sympathy and great love, Charlene
Cindy Schumann
August 15, 2012
Oh, I'm going to miss Jack, my friend, my brilliant teacher! I will miss his wisdom, advice, encouragement and friendship. He was so generous with all of these. He made such an impact on my family and so many others families. Always concerned and happy in knowing that he had a hand in making others lives better. "How far your candle throws its beams." I was so lucky to have had him in my life this past 35 years, now it's so hard to say, Goodbye. I hope I said "Thank You" enough!
Kent Bond
August 15, 2012
Very sorry about passing of Jack, He was one of better guys that iv'e evey know.
Wynn Tate
August 15, 2012
Jack was one the most special persons I have ever met. I will never forget him and his warm hospitality hosting Rotary outings at his ranch. I will sorely miss him and speaking with him at our Rotary meetings
BEVERLY BERNTSON
August 15, 2012
THE WORLD LOST AN AMAZING MAN ON SATURDAY. I'VE ALWAYS ENJOYED TALKING WITH JACK WHETHER IT WAS AT WORK OR AT THE COMPANY PARTIES. HE ALWAYS HAD A GREAT STORY AND WAS ALWAYS INTERESTED IN WHAT I HAD TO SAY. I WILL SINCERELY MISS HIM ROLLING AROUND THE OFFICE IN HIS CHAIR OR CALLING ME ON THE PHONE WHEN HE NEEDED HELP WITH THE COMPUTER OR COPYING THINGS. I WOULD LIKE THE ALDER FAMILY TO KNOW THAT I AND MY FAMILY TRULY FEEL BLESSED FOR KNOWING JACK AND HIS FAMILY. GOD SPEED JACK AND HAVE A GREAT REUNION UP THERE.
Baldwin Family
August 15, 2012
Dear Steve and Sue Ann and Family,
We are sorry about the passing of your father. What an impressive life he lived. The obituary was so thoughtful and well written. We loved the photo. Steve, you truly have so many qualities that your father had. We love you and are thinking about you. We are honored to be your next-door-neighbors!
Love, The Baldwin Family
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