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Jack Alder Obituary

1921 ~ 2012
Jack C. Alder, our dearly loved father, grandfather, brother and friend, died peacefully at his home August 11, 2012. He was alert and in charge until the end when his body, exhausted by a full life, finally gave up. He gracefully gave his family instructions, said his goodbyes and left us too quickly. Jack was a pilot and a builder, and throughout his life he provided guidance to many and spent his abundant energy building a strong family and assisting his community.
Jack was born to Ferd and Leah Alder on August 31, 1921 in Manti, Utah. His father taught school and the family kept chickens, livestock and a garden to help meet their needs. Jack and his two sisters learned early the benefits of frugality and hard work. Jack attended local Snow College for one year before joining the National Guard at the beginning of World War II. During his training he qualified for the Army Air Corp. where his proficiency as a pilot resulted in his appointment as a flight instructor for B-17s.
At the end of the War Jack enrolled at the University of Utah in civil engineering. While attending the University, he renewed his acquaintance with Katherine Rasmussen from Ephraim, Utah, and soon they were in love. Jack and Kay were married June 18, 1946 in Bountiful, Utah, and spent their first summer living in a small trailer while Jack worked as a surveyor at the new Grand Teton National Park. They loved their experience and continued to vacation there throughout their lives.
After graduation Jack began employment as an engineer with Ellis Barker, a local contractor. After a short time he and two friends started their own construction company. MAC Construction Company was short lived, and morphed into Alder-Child Construction. Jack literally started his business from scratch, with a little capital borrowed from his mother's insurance after his father's death. They started building their own homes to create jobs and eventually grew a successful company; building many schools, bridges, and public projects throughout Utah. The state-wide expanse of their work provided Jack the excuse and opportunity to return to flying, and he bought his own plane. Flying was one of Jack's loves and provided his family and friends with many great adventures for the rest of his life. In 1966, Jack began Alder Construction. He had formed a successful team of superintendents and engineers and Alder Construction grew to become a prominent builder of projects throughout the intermountain area. Jack was a strong advocate for Utah's construction industry and served as president of the Utah Associated General Contractors (1974) and in 1977 received the Eric Ryberg Award, AGC's highest award recognizing a lifetime of service to the industry.
Jack joined the Murray Rotary Club early in his career and the club and its members became an important part of his and Kay's life. Jack was club president among other offices, and attended many international conventions with club members. Jack had a strong affinity for the values of Rotary and was an active and enthusiastic supporter of its community and international service projects. Jack and Kay's Rotary friendships continued to be of special value to them throughout their lives.
Jack was raised as a member of the LDS Church and as he grew up he was infused with an understanding of the value of community and the importance of integrity and moderation in his life. When he built his new home in Salt Lake City, Alder-Child Construction built the Monument Park Ninth Ward building and shortly after Jack was asked to serve as its first scoutmaster. He and Kay continued to be part of the Ninth Ward for the rest of their lives. Jack and Kay greatly valued these associations and had great love for the members of the Ward, forming many life-long friendships that included study groups that continue to meet to this day. The loving service received from the Ward by the family throughout their lives was deeply appreciated by Jack, although he chose to debate points of doctrine. Jack always enjoyed a good discussion on any subject, especially politics, history and religion. He was an inquisitive and active reader and never stopped learning and exploring new ideas. He loved a chance to discuss a new book or idea with his many friends.
Jack's generosity and his wisdom and business acumen were valued by many. Jack appreciated that he had benefited from a strong community and had been provided many opportunities and he believed in giving back and helping others. Jack was often the person who quietly helped someone he knew, including many who worked with him, with a loan, a gift or an opportunity to improve their life. Jack was a supporter of Agi Plenk in the creation of the Children's Center and the construction of a building for their use. He helped Camp Kostopolis provide bunk houses and facilities. He was a founding member in 1983 of the Salt Lake Community College Foundation providing scholarships to students needing financial help, serving as president in 1996, and as a trustee until his death. SLCC awarded Jack an honorary doctorate for his support. Throughout his life, Jack donated generously with his time and money to these and many other charities he supported, including the University of Utah.
Jack and Kay raised four children: Steve (Sue Ann Johnson), Bruce (Coralie Ashton), Ted, and Susan (Greg Robinson). He was a firm but loving father and was adored by ten grandchildren and ten great- grandchildren. Jack is survived by his loving sister Barbara O'Bagy who always lifted his spirits and who has provided much needed comfort especially since Kay's passing. All of his family loved and cherished the joy and excitement of spending time with Jack. There was no end to the adventures: whether exploring Lake Powell, boating at Bear Lake, camping at Jackson Hole or in the Uinta Mountains, working at his ranch in Peoa, or traveling around the world. The lessons of life were taught with love and patience. He always had a project and was continually engaged in improving something. He truly believed that "rest was rust" and never slowed down until he just ran out of strength. Jack and Kay loved to entertain and always provided a great party. Jack loved to sing around a campfire and tell jokes. We were lucky to share his generous spirit and sense of humor for so long. We will all miss that quick smile and the sparkle in his eyes.
A memorial service will be held in the chapel at Wasatch Lawn on September 7, 2012 at 2:00 p.m. The family will receive visitors prior to the service beginning at 1:00 p.m. Jack's ashes will be scattered by the family at a private service at his ranch in Peoa. In lieu of flowers, Jack would urge friends to provide contributions to the Salt Lake Community College or The Children's Center. Online comments can be shared at: www.legacy.com

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Published by Deseret News from Aug. 15 to Aug. 19, 2012.

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Donald and Linda Jensen

August 22, 2020

Jack was one of a kind. He did it his way which always seemed to be the best way. He was not only an employer, he was a dear friend to our entire family. He treated us like family and we are forever grateful to have known him. We speak of him often. He was a huge part of our lives for many years. We hear some cowboy poetry from time to time and it brings a smile and a memory. He loved his cowboy poetry. He will be forever missed.

Anne Lowe

September 8, 2012

Wonderful tribute to a great man. Our condolences to all of the Alder family.
Rich and Anne Lowe

August 29, 2012

I was sorry to read of Jacks passing. I know how hard it is for all of you to have lost both of your parents. I certainly remember all the things that they did for Loren and our family. I especially remember flying home to Salt Lake for a family wedding with your Dad in his plane and how much I appreciated him for that. I rememeber the great times we had eevry year, going to Bear Lake and then Peoa, to the "cabin", and the fun Christmas parties. Our children remember the bicycle built for two, wading in the river and the nightly sing-a-longs by the fire. We loved your parents, Jack and Kaye were the best. Jack was a great boss and we loved him for that. I am sorry for your loss, and I am sure that you have lots of fond memories that each of you will keep near and dear to your hearts forever.

Love
Lorraine Kapp (Ricks)

Ernie Poulson

August 28, 2012

We saw it coming. You could tell by the sound in his voice. He just ran out of steam. He was a good man, and she was a good woman. He was a wonderful influence in my life - trusting me to fly his plane. I will never forget his generosity and compassion. I'm very sorry for your loss. He was a good friend.
Annette Poulson Cumming

My thoughts today are dominated by the knowledge that my old bud Jack Alder died last night. I should be used to this by now, but I'm not. We have spent many hours chatting one on one on many subjects, and our minds were in harmony on most issues. Helen and I have taken Many delightful trips with the Alders, including several to Europe. Also, we've enjoyed Elderhostel trips/programs with them. Now both are gone but not forgotten.

Ernie Poulson

Don and Linda Jensen

August 23, 2012

Dear Alder Family;
We were saddened to hear of Jack's passing. We will forever be grateful to Jack and the Alder Family for all they have done for our family over the years. Jack was a wonderful man, a true friend and an extra ordinary boss. It was an honor to have known him and to know him was to love him. He taught us much and he will be greatly missed.
Love to you ALL
Don and Linda Jensen and Family

Dan & Jill Shoell

August 18, 2012

Thanks for your friendship while I was employed at ACC. Jack will be missed. He was a giant of a man.
Dan & Jill

Craig Zwick

August 18, 2012

Dear friends Steve, Sue Ann, Bruce, Coralie, Ted, Susan and Greg,

So many wonderful memories fill my mind and heart as I have reflected this morning on the lives of your wonderful parents Jack and Kay. Your great dad was a gifted man who reached out to everyone. I was always warmed by his laugh and by his unique way of telling short humorous stories which were always appropriate and which always included lessons for life. He was a mentor in the world of construction and his depth of integrity and character were exemplary for me. His leadership in the AGC was singular.

Steve and Bruce, I remember with fondness many times in your home as young boys. Your great Dad had a quality to make us all laugh and to just be right there as one of us. He will be missed. Although I have not seen him for several years, I assure you that the fond and cumulative memories of so many great times together will live on forever in my mind and heart. Thanks to each of you for carrying on his great legacy of courage and goodness.

With much love and genuine appreciation,

Gary and Nadine Riddle

August 17, 2012

Steve and Sue Ann, We send our sincere condolences. Your father's legacy is here--we see him in your lives. Gary and Nadine Riddle

Lisa Staiger

August 17, 2012

I had the pleasure of meeting Jack at the Alder Summer Party. We had talked about snow college since my daughter was attending there that year. He had made me feel more comfortable about her leaving. I will always be grateful for the knowledge and advice he gave me. He had made a great impact in my life within the short time that I knew him. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the Alder Family.

Erica Hansen

August 17, 2012

I'm so sorry to learn of Jack's passing.

I met Jack and his family through my association with SLCC and The Grand Theatre.

On a few occasions I had the privilege of singing for Alder gatherings at Jack's ranch in Peoa. I was continually struck by the grace and generosity of the entire Alder family - so warm and welcoming.

On one such occasion, I sang at the ranch and was several months pregnant. When it was time to leave, Jack gave me some money and said "go buy a crib." Which I did...

Thank you Jack and Alder family for letting me get to know a remarkable man.

He will be missed.

chelsea

August 17, 2012

Each time I text you good morning,
it's not just a morning greeting. There's a silent message saying I thought of you as I woke up this morning! Good morning!

Dee & Debbie Foust

August 16, 2012

There simply aren't enough words to describe the Giant of a man you were. Your positive influence & impact were felt by so many.
Thank You for allowing us to live in Peoa and make so many wonderful memories for our young family.
We will miss you and our 4th of July parade visits. We are honored to call you friend.

Teri Shaw

August 16, 2012

Sorry to hear of Jack's passing. He was a good man and employer. I will never forget when he let me fly his plane coming back from St. George after visiting one of the job sites. I don't think I was much older than 12.

JR and Jan Evans

August 16, 2012

Jack is a Great example of a life well lived. We will treasure the memories of his friendship and generosity. We will miss you dear friend.

Jolene Wilkinson

August 16, 2012

Thank you for allowing my team to help during Jack's last days. It was an honor and privilege to be of assistance. May you all be blessed with peace.

August 16, 2012

We were sorry to learn of Jack's passing. The Alders have been long time friends of the Dyrengs. I have such happy memories of Mrs. Alder, our next door neighbor and her wonderful children, their spouses and especially the grandchildren who were some of my favorite playmates when they came to visit in Manti.
The last time I saw Jack and Kay was when they were visiting with Ruth Johnson and my Mother, Helen Dyreng in my home. Jack was always a strong, kind, bigger than life personality.
I'm sure he is having a wonderful reunion with his father and mother as well as Kay and the many loved ones and friends who have preceded him in death.
Please know of our love, admiration and sympathy for you as you say a temporary "farewell" to a fine man.

Sincerely, Marilou Dyreng Myers

Carla Freebairn

August 16, 2012

I have so many fond memories of Jack and Kay Alder. Their daughter, Sue, and I were close friends growing up. I lived across the street and considered Jack and Kay to be my "second parents." One of my favorite memories of Jack occurred when I was probably 7 or 8 years old. They invited me to go to Bear Lake with them for a few days. Sue and I had so much fun there. One morning Sue and I were going to fix breakfast. I turned the gas on the stove and we got distracted and I forgot the gas was on (I suppose I was too young to realize that leaving the gas on was dangerous). When we returned to light the stove, a mild explosion occurred. I don't remember any damage but I do remember the fear that we all felt. Ted happened to be standing by the stove when it exploded and it was assumed by Jack that Ted was responsible for the problem. Jack was upset with Ted and tried to explain to him why leaving the gas on could have caused a bigger explosion and how lucky we all were to be alive. I listened carefully to his instructions to Ted, feeling badly that Ted was taking the blame for something I did but I was afraid to tell Jack that it was me and not Ted who had made the mistake. Jack was understandably angry. I finally got the courage to "fess up" . . . Jack was so kind to me. He apologized to Ted and then he sat down and talked to me and Sue about the dangers of gas. I'll never forget how afraid I was and how kind he was to me. His kindness taught me that "honesty truly is the best policy." I've always loved him for his kindness to me in a very scary situation. I could go on and on with stories of Jack and Kay and their neverending kindness. I love them both and will miss them.

August 16, 2012

I echo my brother, Karl's words. He was one of the kindest, larger than life people I knew. He made a lasting impression on me that stuck with me through my entire life. I LOVED it when he gave us rides in his plane. A life well lived and worth celebrating. The picture says a lot.

Karl Mellor

August 15, 2012

As young boys, my brothers and I idolized Jack, especially after he took us for a ride over Mount Olympus in his plane. My father, Rod Mellor, told us many stories about his own boyhood escapades with Jack, (and the stern reprimands from Uncle Ferd.) In college, I interviewed Jack for a school project. That candid discussion and the advice he bestowed ultimately led me to pursue my own successful career in the construction industry. To the Alder Family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Blake and Rachel Marchant

August 15, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

I will remember Jack for making every moment count. It was a pleasure for me to have worked for Jack during my "college summers" on his ranch in Peoa. It was always a pleasure to be around Jack, he was a very thoughtful person and very kind to me and my family.

I will forever be grateful that Jack allowed me to use his one horse open sleigh, on a beautiful snowy December day, to propose to my wife some 27 years ago. Be assured that we will never forget Jack's kindness and will forever be thankful for that wonderful start of our family.

Duane Karren

August 15, 2012

I will certainly miss Jack. He contriubted so much to to all the great times we had in Rotary. Remember - "flying up, landing down".

Cherie Summerhays

August 15, 2012

After my husband, Jerry joined the Murray Rotary Club in 1990, the first activity we attended was the annual summer party at the Alder Ranch in Peoa. It was there that I first met Jack and Kay. They were immediately so warm and welcoming to me. As time went on, I truly grew to love Jack. Although he wasn't really old enough to be my grandfather, I always thought of him that way because he reminded me so very much in every way of my beloved grandfather. I will miss Jack very much. May your family always remember and treasure your times together and find comfort in knowing that he was one of the best!

Dick Jorgenson

August 15, 2012

So sad to hear of Jack's passing. I knew Jack and his ranch in Peoa. Just recently we attended a party with him at the ranch. He was always gracious and helpful with community events when we approached him. He indeed made a difference.

May the Lord bless all of his family and friends.

Karen Bettilyon

August 15, 2012

We were so sorry to read of the loss of Jack. It is so difficult to lose a parent. The obituary was so interesting and what an amazing man he was. May God grant you strength in the days to come. Karen and Barney Bettilyon

Charlene Barker

August 15, 2012

Dear Steve and Sue Ann,
"Mr. Alder's" obituary was so beautifully written. I recognized your hand in its composition many times! I am proud to be able to say I know Jack Alder, and that I was a recipient of his welcoming smile,warm way, hospitality, and his unique way of teaching by example. I extend my love and sorrow to you and Sue Ann and your wonderful children,grandchildren and extended family at this time. Steve, your loving kindness and caring, generous ways joined with so many of the, either learned or genetically acquired desirable qualities of your dad, live on in you. Your values of hard work, constant learning, being a gracious and welcoming host (along with Sue Ann's many entertaining talents), your daring explorations (in flight, on the water, or on land), and your gift of silent service are tributes to "Mr. and Mrs. Alder" for the examples they were, resulting in raising an incredible son. Many thanks to them for the part they played in sculpting you, as what you are has played an inconceivable part in our family. We will all love you forever for the amazing way you "looked after" our mom for so many years and for being more of a brother to us than a brother-in-law. With sympathy and great love, Charlene

Cindy Schumann

August 15, 2012

Oh, I'm going to miss Jack, my friend, my brilliant teacher! I will miss his wisdom, advice, encouragement and friendship. He was so generous with all of these. He made such an impact on my family and so many others families. Always concerned and happy in knowing that he had a hand in making others lives better. "How far your candle throws its beams." I was so lucky to have had him in my life this past 35 years, now it's so hard to say, Goodbye. I hope I said "Thank You" enough!

Kent Bond

August 15, 2012

Very sorry about passing of Jack, He was one of better guys that iv'e evey know.

Wynn Tate

August 15, 2012

Jack was one the most special persons I have ever met. I will never forget him and his warm hospitality hosting Rotary outings at his ranch. I will sorely miss him and speaking with him at our Rotary meetings

BEVERLY BERNTSON

August 15, 2012

THE WORLD LOST AN AMAZING MAN ON SATURDAY. I'VE ALWAYS ENJOYED TALKING WITH JACK WHETHER IT WAS AT WORK OR AT THE COMPANY PARTIES. HE ALWAYS HAD A GREAT STORY AND WAS ALWAYS INTERESTED IN WHAT I HAD TO SAY. I WILL SINCERELY MISS HIM ROLLING AROUND THE OFFICE IN HIS CHAIR OR CALLING ME ON THE PHONE WHEN HE NEEDED HELP WITH THE COMPUTER OR COPYING THINGS. I WOULD LIKE THE ALDER FAMILY TO KNOW THAT I AND MY FAMILY TRULY FEEL BLESSED FOR KNOWING JACK AND HIS FAMILY. GOD SPEED JACK AND HAVE A GREAT REUNION UP THERE.

Baldwin Family

August 15, 2012

Dear Steve and Sue Ann and Family,

We are sorry about the passing of your father. What an impressive life he lived. The obituary was so thoughtful and well written. We loved the photo. Steve, you truly have so many qualities that your father had. We love you and are thinking about you. We are honored to be your next-door-neighbors!

Love, The Baldwin Family

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