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John Tapscott Obituary

John E. Tapscott

Des Moines

Former Iowa Senator John E. Tapscott of Des Moines passed on August 16, 2017, destination unknown. He donated his earthly body to the Des Moines University Medical School.

He is survived by his wife, Gaiana Hopkins-Tapscott, six children: Kate (Paul) Carroll, Sacramento, CA; Dr. Mark (Christine) Tapscott, San Diego, CA; Matthew (Denise) Tapscott, Decorah; Luke Tapscott, Melissa Spaur and Patrick Tapscott all of Des Moines. Nine grandchildren: Heather (Sherry Strausbaugh) Carroll, Livermore, CA; Adam (Jennifer) Carroll, Clive; Dr. Ryan Tapscott, Chicago, IL; Taylor John Spaur, Brooklyn, NY; Stefanie (William) Carter, Cedar Falls; Samantha Tapscott, Des Moines; Natalie and Noah Tapscott, Decorah and Joel Tapscott, San Diego, CA. Eight great-grandchildren, sister Margaret "Muggy" Starr of Des Moines; three sisters-in-law; one brother-in-law and 14 nieces and nephews, cousins and many friends. He was preceded in death by an infant son, John and infant daughter, Mary Margaret; parents Helen (Gooding) and Ralph Tapscott; sister and brother-in-law Mary and Charles Dunn; his former wife and mother of his children Verlene Quail Faller; foster son Delbert Atkins and great-granddaughter Kenley Jane Carter.

Among his many roles, he has been a salesman, a real estate and insurance agent; he auctioneered and operated a number of wholesale and retail businesses. He was Director of the Des Moines Area National Council on Alcoholism and Other Drug Dependencies (known today as Employee and Family Resources). In 1975 he started the Employee and Student Assistance Program evaluation center for alcohol, drug and mental health services. He served as Director until his retirement in 1995.

He was an active life-long civil and human rights advocate. In 1966, he was elected to the Iowa House of Representatives for two terms and then the Iowa Senate until 1972 when he ran for Governor on the Democratic ticket and was defeated in the primary.

We will remember his many quotes, one favorite being "Live simply so that others may simply live".

His family thanks Dr. Richard Gloor who worked with the team from HCI Hospice Care Services: nurse Cindy Fignolio; massage therapist Connie Wood; social worker Mary Jo McClain; CNA Hailey Risius and all the HCI team members for their care, concern and support that allowed John to remain at home until his death.

Contributions may be made to HCI Hospice Care Services, Food Bank of Central Iowa or ChildServe. Please honor his memory by living one of the many values he held deeply - visit with a friend (or make a new one) confined at home, in the hospital or in a care facility.

An informal gathering to celebrate John will be held on date and location to be determined. It will be posted in the Register. (For full obituary go to www.iowafuneralplanning.com)

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by the Des Moines Register on Aug. 20, 2017.

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Debra Calloway

August 15, 2024

John you always made sure that everyone knew they counted and made every body feel like they counted thank you for your love and support throughout the years and the great advice

Shahnaz

August 14, 2024

John was one of my favorite people! He would just show up at our house with his best buddy ( can´t remember his name / was in a wheelchair, been 50 years ago) . That was John ! Kind , funny , advocate for people. RIP, John!

Debra calloway

August 14, 2023

john you always were sofunny and you always had the best time when i stayed at your house and we had that party and laughed andwe had fun you always made everything fun

Debra Calloway

August 14, 2022

John you were so amazing you always support and helped me we had some fun visit thanks for being amazing

Debra Calloway

August 17, 2021

John was so amazing and he always had your best at he helped and was a blessing

Debra Calloway

August 14, 2020

John was always so wonderful to me and caring and his love and support made a difference love you john

Smiles

Debra Calloway

May 29, 2019

John your love and support meant a lot you always mAde me smile thanks

Sheri (Moon) Lightkep

August 22, 2017

Tapscott family:
I am so saddened to hear of your loss. I remember your dad from when we were kids - when you lived in the big house on Watrous. He was always a kind and caring man.

Mark and Melissa - my thoughts and prayers are with you

Shahna Da

August 22, 2017

A good friend , a true friend; many memories, lots of laughing and thought about often ! RIP, John !
Shahna
(Kate's daughter)

Sara Tapscott

August 21, 2017

RIP, John. You'll be busy saying "Hi" to your parents,my parents,your sister and all who loved you for quite awhile. You always did like being busy!

Lisa Cherry Oja

August 21, 2017

Melissa, I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. I will be praying for you and your family.

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