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Robert McFadyen Obituary

McFadyen Robert Lynn McFadyen, devoted family man, born June 20, 1960, age 53, passed away suddenly Friday, September 27, 2013. Preceded in death by father James and mother Marilyn McFadyen. In addition to his parents Robert was preceded in death by his nephew Matthew Koshgarian and father-in-law Russell E. Johnson. Robert is survived by loving wife of 29 years, Debra; son, Ryan; daughters, Michelle (Chance Miller) McFadyen and Paige McFadyen; grandchildren, Chandler and McKenna Miller; sister, Susan (David) Koshgarian; brother Mark (Jeanie) McFadyen; brother-in-law, (Michael (Paula) Johnson; mother-in-law, Lois Johnson; nieces, Lindsay (Gregory Grason) Koshgarian, Drew and Samantha Koshgarian; nephews, Andrew, Miles and Spencer McFadyen; nieces, Amanda and Heather Johnson; and a great niece, Margaret Koshgarian Grason. Robert attended Whitehall Yearling High School where he played football and graduated in 1978. Following high school, he worked a variety of logistics management roles with The Limited Brands, while attending The Ohio State University for some time, eventually rising to Director of Physical Distribution, Transportation and Logistics for Henri Bendel. Robert left The Limited in 1991 to spend more time with his family and start his own business. He was heavily involved in Pickerington Youth Sports as a coach and baseball/softball umpire for 20 years. Robert was inspired by his mother's health care experience to pursue a career in nursing and had recently fulfilled that dream, graduating in 2013 from Chamberlain College of Nursing with an Associate's Degree in Nursing. Robert's greatest achievement and sense of fulfillment in life was in helping his own children and grandchildren realize their own dreams. Friends may visit 3-5 and 7-9 p.m., Wednesday, at the DWAYNE R. SPENCE FUNERAL HOME, 550 Hill Road North (St. RT. 256) Pickerington 43147, where the funeral service will be held 11 a.m., Thursday. Interment Glen Rest Memorial Estate. Contributions may be made to St. Jude Childrens Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN, 38105. in Robert's memory. Online condolences at www.spencefuneralhome.com
Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Sep. 27 to Sep. 30, 2013.

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Paige McFadyen

July 31, 2014

I miss you every single day Dad. Your love and laughter is a great absence in our lives and it's a hard thing to accept, but I keep my head held high knowing that's all you would want. I can't believe you have almost been gone a year now.

Marie Casne

October 23, 2013

I knew Bob from nursing school. I'll never forget all the times he made me laugh and all the time we spent together in clinicals and in class. He helped me get through some tough times and he was always willing to listen. So sad to hear of his passing. I won't forget him.

kimberly jordan

October 22, 2013

i am so sorry to learn this news of bob's passing. i had the pleasure of meeting him in nursing school. we had clinicals together several times. he was always so nice and helpful to everyone. he was such a good guy who clearly loved his family too.
thoughts and prayers to all his family.

Taryn Hill

October 14, 2013

My thoughts go out to Bob's family. I was so sad to hear of his passing. His smile always shined a light in the halls at Chamberlain and I enjoyed having him as a student. I will hold him in my thoughts, always.

Professor Taryn Hill

Francy Caprino

October 14, 2013

It's been a long, long time but you never forget your first love. RIP Bob, hugs and kisses.

October 13, 2013

As you journey through your grief as a family know you are being lifted in prayer by friends. May His unfailing love be your greatest source of comfort and reassuring peace.
Sending my heartfelt sympathy, ~ Gina Spicer Davis

Lisa Dennis

October 10, 2013

My family and I are terribly sorry for your loss. I knew him in school and he was always very kind to me. May his light and love always be in your heart.

October 3, 2013

My heart and prayers go out to Debbie and her family and Mark , Susan and families. Bob was like another son to me . Our families have been intertwined for many years going back to Bob's Dad when I was a young girl. Bob has a place in my heart . Memories of him will always be with me and our family. He had a special place in our family. Our family will always cherish all our memories of him. God' blessings and comfort be with Bob's family and may Bob have enteral live and may the angels lead him into paradise. Love and prayers.

Dee Layton

Tiffani Parise

October 2, 2013

Bob will be truly missed. He was a great man in every aspect. I was blessed to have worked with him and he defenitely made long days not seem so bad. I loved his humor. He will be missed. My heart goes out to every person affected by this loss.

RIP BOB!!

October 2, 2013

My heart goes out to Bob's family, Debbie and Bob's beautiful children Ryan, Michelle, and Paige. It hurts to lose such a close and loyal friend as Bob. He has always been a little brother to the Layton family. I agree so much with the words from his brother Mark. There are so many wonderful childhood memories and countless good times shared in adulthood as well. Bob always had a big heart and cherished his family. There is so much to say but so hard to put into words. Bob is loved by many people and we all will miss him dearly.
My thoughts and prayers to Bob's family. I just thank God to have had Bob as a friend and for all of the happy times that he gave to all of us.

Dan Layton

1998 Class Reunion

Pam (Damron) Engstrom

October 1, 2013

Mark McFadyen

October 1, 2013

First of all, thanks for all of your thoughts, prayers and condolences. Bob was a son, grandson, husband, father, grandfather, son-in-law, brother-in-law, father-in-law, great nephew, uncle, great uncle, classmate, teammate, friend, coach, mentor, I'm sure I have left something out, and most of all, he was the younger/little brother to me and Susan. Yes, he is gone, but he will never be forgotten. For the most part, he lived by the Golden Rule, treat others how you would want to be treated. Life is way to short as we have just found out.

So when you are out there, in this world we live in and you see someone down, try to give them a hand and help them up. You may never know when you will need that same type of helping hand and affection. Let your family members and friends know you love them and care about them. Hug them and kiss them and let them know they mean something special to you. Because you never know when the last time you see them is going to be.

Tina Mcafee

September 30, 2013

My prayers go out to your whole family. We graduated the same year. Nice person

September 30, 2013

Very sad to hear of Bob's passing. Keeping Debbie, Mark, Susan and family in our thoughts and prayers.

Keith & Carol Layton

Jim Irwin

September 30, 2013

Bob was a good man, he will be missed.

Patrice Stamm-Falls

September 30, 2013

So sorry for the loss of Bob. I went to school with him and was a good man. Prayers for strength thru this sad time

Mike Dixon

September 30, 2013

Sincere condolences to the entire McFadyen family, including his brother Mark. As little kids, growing up, those two were inseparable. From WBBA to sandlot football, Bob was a good HS football player and hard-nosed Whitehall athlete.

"It takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, and a day to love them, but it takes an entire lifetime to forget them."

Thinking of his family during this difficult time.

September 30, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Cindy (Durrett) Moore

September 30, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I was also a classmate ( WYHS'78) and have good memories of our years in school. To Bob's family and closest friends, may your tears of sorrow soon be turned into only sweet memories of a terrific man. My prayers are with you all.

Leslie LaCorte

September 30, 2013

My heart goes out to the entire McFadyen Family. Sudden death is so very hard to understand. Praying
for continued strength to Bob's family and friends as they face this journey and meet again.

Tom Clements

September 30, 2013

Words at this time never really capture the thoughts and sadness one feels when one of their own passes away especially when they leave us at such a young age. My time knowing Bob and Debbie was during the early Limited years, great individuals and better as a team. What I can say...I always enjoyed his friendship, his dedication to the job we did a lot of good work together and his smile...he enjoyed the journey. We lost touch with each other over the years but he will always have a place in my heart.

Alesha Worth

September 30, 2013

Dear Debbie and Family:

I'm so sorry for the loss of Bob. I only met Bob a couple of times but he made quite an impression. He had the best sense of humor. May your memories and love of your family and friends sustain you during this difficult time. My sincere sympathy.

David Gaiser

September 29, 2013

I am very saddened to hear Bob's untimely death. I have many great memories growing up with Bob and Mark. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

CARLA CHAMBERS-LYNDE

September 29, 2013

Still shocked by this sad news. I worked with Bob at The Limited for years and he was a great and loyal friend, always there with words of encouragement, and he was so much fun. I watched him fall in love with Debbie. She made him so happy! May you find comfort in the arms of our Lord. Prayers are with you.

Buddy Shore

September 29, 2013

I knew Bob from WYHS and working at the Limited. My thoughts and prayers go out Mark and to the rest of his family.

Amy LaCorte

September 29, 2013

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

September 29, 2013

My heart is heavy to hear of his passing. Such a fun guy, and very loved. May GOD bless and watch over you all during this difficult time.
~Beth Ringwalkse (Robison)

Ed Bland

September 28, 2013

With heavy hearts we will miss Bob. Our prayers and thoughts are with you always.

Rita Davidek

September 28, 2013

So sorry to hear of Bob's death. He was my daughter's first love and I have many good memories of him and trh time he spent at our home. He was a wonderful young man. Please accept my sympathy and my prayers.

September 28, 2013

We were so sad to learn of Bob's passing. We sure had a lot of fun when Bob and Dan coached together. Bob always had a smile on his face. Upbeat and so much fun! Great memories! Sending our thoughts.
Dan and Robin Nichols

Cynthia Toth

September 28, 2013

Our hearts are very heavy, we are so sorry to hear about Bob passing. The McFadyen boys are legendary is Whitehall, he will be missed by many.

Bev Raptoulis

September 28, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Debbie, Ryan,Michelle and Paige at this very difficult time. Bob and his fun, outgoing personality will be missed by many. Once a neighbor, always a friend.

Linda Harrison

September 28, 2013

Omgoodness I will miss him. Prayers to your family.

Nina Roubin

September 28, 2013

So sorry to hear of Bobby's passing. I will always remember his beautiful smile. My sister, Francy and I have found memories of our high school days and the McFayden boys. Mark ill never forget what a great brother you were.
Nina Caprino Roubin

Eric Lordier

September 28, 2013

Shocked to hear - what a great guy to pass so young. Prayers to his family

Steve Sammons

September 28, 2013

Shocked and saddened to hear of Bob's untimely passing. I graduated with Bob and share fond memories of those years. Blessings to his family and friends in the days ahead.

Phil Wenger

September 28, 2013

Very saddened to hear of Bob's passing. My condolences go out to his family. He will be missed.

Cris Lopez

September 28, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of this my prayers are with the family and friends .

Pam Damron Engstrom

September 27, 2013

Bob, So many memories of our school days. God Bless You Always Always! Peace be with you.

September 27, 2013

Sending our love and prayers to Debbie and the children and to Bob's sister and brother . He will be missed so much by our family . His smile and laughter will always stay with us and so many memories that we cherish...The Layton Family and Williards

Lani Chin

September 27, 2013

Shocked and saddened to hear of Bob's passing. We were former classmates in junior high and high school. We both also worked at The Limited during my years at Ohio State. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

Cynthia Danforth/Bennett

September 27, 2013

To the family & friends of Robert McFadyen; I went to school with him. My heart is saddened that he has passed way too soon. My sincerest condolences to all of you. God Bless.

D.J. Richards

September 27, 2013

Our prayers go out to Mark and all Bob's family and friends, way to soon. Another great from Whitehall gone way too early. "May god give you comfort during these tough times"

Deb Brewer Foster

September 27, 2013

Your light will shine in the hearts of many. Condolences to Bob's family and friends. God bless and comfort you during this sorrowful time. Grace and Peace, Deb Brewer Foster (WYHS Class of 78)

Robert Frasure

September 27, 2013

I'm greatly saddened to hear of bobbie's passing .will never forget the Mcfadyen family. My prayers go out for the entire family.Bob, mark and I walked to school together a thousand times.Blessed to have seen bob a few months ago and have fellowship.Blessed to know Bob andMark.I'm so sorry for your loss!

September 27, 2013

Shocked and saddened to hear of Bob's passing. We were former classmates in junior high and high school. My deepest condolences to his family and friends.

September 27, 2013

To all of Bob's family! So very sad to receive the news that he had passed away so suddenly. I went to grade School with him... Praying our Lord will wrap his arms around each of you as you process your loss. Terri Patrick

September 27, 2013

Very saddened to hear one of my classmates has passed away. Lots of memories from high school days. Sending prayers your way and hope that is gets a little easier with each passing day.

Lauri Strapp

Melissa Gonzales-Harris

September 27, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Bob's family at this most difficult time. Bob was a childhood friend. He will be missed by many.

chris parkevich

September 27, 2013

to mark and family, so sorry to hear of this, think about you guys often as i cruse through whitehall...prayers your way

Jon Becker

September 27, 2013

Very sorry to hear this. Our thoughts are with you. The Beckers, Jon, Tanya, Alex, Max

Sue Gray Jones

September 27, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear about Bob. I have some good memories of us as kids. Will keep him and his family in my prayers. God bless.

Lori Percy Uxley

September 27, 2013

We are saddened to learn of Bob's passing! We just spoke with him last night, 09.28.13! May God be with his wife and children in the days to come!

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