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Ralph Conley Obituary

CONLEY Ralph Conley Jr. went to be with the Lord, Monday, April 6, 2009 at Riverside Methodist Hospital. He was a Computer Programmer and Pharmacy Technician. He was the Minister of Music at Zion Christian Assembly. Survived by wife, Melinda; son, Nicholas; mother, Mrs. Ethel Conley; sisters, Myra Conley, Patricia (William) Polley, Gloria Mitchell; and a host of relatives and friends. Ralph will lay in state at The First Church of God, 3480 Refugee Road, Monday, April 13, 2009 after 3 p.m. Family will receive friends at 5:30 p.m. until the time of service at 7 p.m. Bishop William M. Polley, Officiant. Interment 10 a.m. on Tuesday at Green Lawn Cemetery. Arrangements by C. D. WHITE & SON FUNERAL HOME, 1217 Mt. Vernon Avenue.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Apr. 11 to Apr. 12, 2009.

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Mr. & Mrs. Edward E. Poindexter, Jr.

April 6, 2025

Our love, prayers, sympathy and deepest condolences to the Conley family. We are heartbroken for you all. Praying for your strength and peace. May God hold you close as you go through this difficult time of loss. Ps. 46& Psalm 121

Kelly Murphy

December 27, 2021

Today I was reminded of Ralph's passing and even though it's been 12 years it still is unreal. I remember a man so full of life, a teammate, friend, and athlete who impressed me every day and encouraged me to be my best. I am forever thankful. I miss him all over again.

Evette Jarvis

October 8, 2009

"To: Melinda and Nicholas, I knew Ralphie in high school in the ABC house in Concord N.H. He was such a good friend to me, in fact to all of us in the house. He made us laugh so much, especially during quiet homework time when we were supposed to be studying. I have so many wonderful memories of the two years that I knew him. I am so sorry for your loss. Heaven has a wonderful person and it will be really nice to see him again when I get there. One of the ways he would make us laugh is he would speak Spanish at a really fast rate, did he still do that? (smile)..."Evette Jarvis (Chichester, N.H.)

Teri Hill

June 19, 2009

Melinda,
I'm so sorry,I just found out about Ralph. Ralph was such a good person and I remember being so happy that you found each other. I can hardly think of any two people that deserved each other and complimented each other. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with you and your son. I know that your faith will see you through.

Teri Hill,(Nationwide)

Marcia Worth

May 4, 2009

To Melinda, Nicholas, Sis. Conley and the entire Williams and Conley family. I share in your sorrow. Ralph was special in many ways. His excellent musical ability was only surpassed by his unique personality. He will definitely be missed. I know that all of you are well acquainted with Great The Comforter. And I am confident that you will stand on His promises. Love Ya'll Much!!!

April 28, 2009

To: Melinda and Nicholas, our condolences to you. I pray God will continue to bless you and keep you during this time. Brother Ralph was a blessing to everyone he came in contact with. He was truly annointed with a sense of humor. The Cummings Family (Cathedral of the Covenant)

Jeff Bernhardt

April 24, 2009

I just learned of Ralph's death. While I have not been in touch with him in a long time, we were friends in college and I enjoyed Ralph's good heart and his wonderful sense of humor and warm smile. May his memory be for a blessing and may he rest in peace.

Gloria Wald

April 23, 2009

I was so saddened to hear about Ralph's death. I have such fond memories of him from our time at Brandeis University together. I especially remember when I and my Jewish friends would attend his Gospel Choir concerts. There was so much energy in the room. It is clear from reading the other entries that music was a major part of his life as it was in college. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Ralph's family.

Eboni Littleton-Price

April 22, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Bruce Kottler

April 21, 2009

I was Ralph's college room mate at Brandeis in our Sophomore and Junior year. I am so very saddened to hear of his passing. Some wonderful memories and friendships last forever and his will. Ralph was a great triple jumper, a humorist, a talent in many ways, My sympathies to you all.

Chp CJ. L Everhart, Sergeant (RET)

April 20, 2009

Ralph's talent touched so many lives. He played at my mother's funeral, Betty Jones, and both of my grandparents. I was unable to make it back to Ohio in time for his funeral, but my heart and prayers were there and I continue to pray for comfort during the family's bereavement. His crown is surely full of jewels as he allowed Christ to use him as a vessel for bearing much fruit. May you feel our love across the miles and know that we are praying for you during this difficult time.

Peace, comfort, and love,

Felicia Jones

April 20, 2009

I just heard today about Ralph's passing from my sister. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family. Ralph was talented and touched my life as a young teenager. His love for music motivated me to learn more about this craft. There were a few times were Ralph played for me, my mother (Betty Jones), and my aunt (Celestine Mitchell). Ralph will truly be missed; but, his love for music and life will live on through his family, friends, and the many lives he touched. God Bless you Sis. Conley, Melinda, and the rest of your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Felicia L. Jones (Daughter of the late Betty J. Jones - Church of Christ of the Apostolic Faith/Brentnell)

Gail Brazell

April 17, 2009

To the Conley Famliy,
Please except my humblest condolences at the loss of Ralph. May you find God's comfort and strength, so rich in our hours of need. God bless you and I'm praying for you.

Jacki Tate

April 17, 2009

To say that I was shocked to hear of Ralph's passing is an understatement. He was a incredibly talented musician and very much a gentleman, exhibited a calm seet spirit and I will miss that smile and his sense of humor. My prayers are with you..... Ralph will be truly missed.

Sheree Ziemba

April 16, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Ralph at Chase when it was still Bank One. It was good to work with him. My prayers are with you.

April 16, 2009

To the Conley Family.
My prayers are with you. May God grant you comfort in your hour of Bereavement. Ralph was always encouraging and he was very talented and gifted in music and used it to the Glory of the Lord. God Bless.

Elder William N. Johns

Barbara & James (Pullien)-Jackson

April 14, 2009

To the Conley Family

Our prayers are with you and the loss of Ralph. May God give you the comfort that you need. Until we all get to that final resting place. So many wonderful memories of years gone by. God Bless you.

With Love the entire Pullien Family

Brenda Talley

April 14, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Darlene Freeman-Rosser

April 14, 2009

To the Conley Family "May you take comfort in your memories of Ralph, his music and his love. "

Harriet Hightower

April 14, 2009

Melinda and the Conley Family. May the peace of God which passes all understanding keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus during this your time of bereavement. God is truly the God of ALL comfort and He is with you and will bring you through this experience one day at a time. Know that our thoughts are with you and we are praying for you here in Texas. With deepest sympathy. Harriet M. Hightower, Pastor
River of Life Ministries of East Texas, Inc. -- Henderson, Texas

J. Smith

April 14, 2009

Ralph was in a class by himself when it came to his great sense of humor, and his professionalism as oraganist-pianist. We will miss him, but will continue to uphold the entire family in prayer.

Beverly Walker & Sybil Taylor

April 14, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Evangelist Theodora Collier-Higgenbotham

April 14, 2009

To the Conley Family.
On this side we shed tears, and on the other side Ralph has heard the most beautiful,joyous music only one could imagined. Home at last. My prayers are with the family.

April 14, 2009

With sincere sympathy in the loss of Ralph.

The Eaton Family, Columbus, Ohio

Sandy, Sheri,Sheila,Steve, & Sylvia Waters

April 14, 2009

Dear Conley family,
Our prayers and love for Ralphie and you extend many years. We know the God of our salvation is a Keeper; He is a the only God of grace, mercy & comfort. Trust Him. Remember we love you dearly, and we know He will carry you through this difficult journey.

Kathy Bolden

April 14, 2009

Melinda and the Conley Family: Praying that God will sustain you and wrap you in the comfort of his arms. Ralph will be missed, he was such a gentleman. Praying for the family in the days to come.

Kevin Alred

April 13, 2009

Melinda, Nick and the Conley Family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I worked with Ralph at JPMorgan Chase. I consider Ralph a friend and will miss him and his sense of humor.

Glenn Steele

April 13, 2009

"To The Conley Family: I am praying your strength in the Lord continues to strengthen you. I just found out today of your passing and you will be truely missed. Your friend Glenn Bryan Steele, 5240 Locust Hill LN, Dublin, OH 43017

April 13, 2009

It is with deepest sincere sorrow that I express my condolences to Ralph's mother, wife, son and family members. May Jesus heal your pain and grant you all peace and grace.

Viola Croft, Columbus

Themba Makapela

April 13, 2009

Melinda, I am writing to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Marlene and I were very sad to hear about Ralph. He was such a wonderful, Godly man. I had the honor and pleasure to know and work with Ralph.I had the greatest respect for his musicianship, generous nature and sharing his remarkable sense of humor.Please let us know whether there is anything that Marlene and I can do to help during this difficult time. You and Nick are in our prayers.The Makapela family

Min. Tia Laughlin

April 13, 2009

To the Conley's. I remember Bro. Conley playing when my mother first allowed me to join the mass choir at Brentnell. He had a wonderful talent and now he's playing for his King. You all are in my prayers. God bless. Min. Tia Laughlin

Gail & Kayla Cousar

April 13, 2009

Hi Melinda and Nick
I worked with Ralph at Bank One several years ago. What stands out in my mind is that beautiful smile he always had planted on his face. He was an extremely good natured, kind, loving, and high spirited individual. His mother did a great job raising her son. My daughter Kayla and I will pray for Ralph and his entire family. May God Bless you all. Yours truly, Gail and Kayla cousar

Ms James Vines Jr

April 13, 2009

To The Conley Family:
We're praying your strength in the Lord. Continue to look to the hills from whence cometh you help, it comes from the Lord..Raplh will me missed ..He was a humble man of God that work the works God gave him...You will missed the physical body, but keep his memories in your heart..We pray for the peace and comfort of God for you all...

Dan and Jayne Hooks

April 13, 2009

To the Conley Family and the Zion Christian Assembly Family - Dan and I first met Ralph many years ago when he became one of the musicians for Tim Hitchcock's group that we were all a part of. During those years, we were able to get to know him well and appreciate his quirky, humorous side. He was also always willing to take the time out of his busy schedule to rehearse with Dan or I if we were coming to Zion to minister. He was a great musician and will be missed by all who knew him. May The Lord watch over and keep you all during this time of bereavement.

The Tyrees

April 13, 2009

Dear Sister Conley and Family,
It is with deepest sorrow that we express our condolences for the loss of your son, brother, husband and father- Ralph, Jr. After hearing of his passing just a couple of days ago, we could only remember his quite, gently nature, and other fond memories of our growing up together at Church of Christ. At times like these, we also recall our parents' long friendship with your family and share in your loss. May the God of all grace, give you comfort and peace now and in the days ahead.

Lovingly,
The Tyree family

April 13, 2009

To the Conley Family: My deepest condolence to your family. For I only knew Ralph a short time here at work ( DFAS-Columbus) but, it was a pleasure. May the family continue to find comfort in GOD and hold on to your precious memories. Gayle Johnson (Reynoldsburg, OH)

Herchel Newman

April 13, 2009

We have a shared heritage. We now share in your sorrow. We have a shared HOPE. We will yet share in the music of life.

Grace and Peace,

The Newman families

Jamie Rathbun

April 13, 2009

To Nick & Family: We are so sorry for your loss, and are praying for you all. The teens in the youth group at GRACE have been thinking of you and praying too. Love, Jim, Jamie & Mya Rathbun

Minda K McCoy-Qualls

April 13, 2009

To the Conley Family, I am stunned by the passing of Ralph. It was just late last year that I ran into him a Byer's Import where he was encountering some problems with his car. I have known Ralph ( and Melinda) since they were both in high school working as interns for Nationwide Insurance company. Ralph was a beautifully saved young man that had a focus on serving the Lord in every way. I will forever remember that wonderful smile he had and the praise of God that stayed on his lips! Rest on Ralph for we shall all see you again when God comes back for the rest of his own. Melinda -- The Bible tells us weeping may endurth for a night but joy cometh in the morning. Please know I will be praying for you , your son and your family as you endure this separation from Ralph.


God Bless you all!

April 13, 2009

April 13,2009
To the Conley Family;
As President of "A State of Praise Choir"
we will always remember Ralph because of
his sweet spirit and his commitment in the organizing us as the first gospel
choir to represent the state of Ohio. He
shared his talent with us as one of our
musicians and director until God led him
to a new path and direction. Gone, but not forgotten. We know Ralph is playing
and directing that heavenly choir for the
King. May God continue to bless you and
your family in this time of sorrow.

Stanley L. Landrum, Mary Anderson, Hilda
Johnson and Lois Johnson Columbus, Ohio

Will & Gail Thomas

April 13, 2009

To Conley family our prayers are with you I have known Ralph through the professional experience together and he was very enjoyable blessed man. He will be deeply missed, but not forgotten.

Frank Moon

April 13, 2009

I was shocked to hear of Ralphs passing. To the family, be encouraged and know that SURELY GOD IS ABLE TO CARRY YOU THROUGH. Ralph will be missed by many. If ever I had trouble finding a song or a particular recording, if I could just get in touch with Ralph he would see to it that I had the correct information ASAP! His world known "ccccccooooooo" will never be forgotten. I can see him waving the "Let's go" kroger fan on the organ when service was too long. So many memories.. Rest on bruh. And again God Bless you to the family.

Jerry Helms

April 13, 2009

Dear Family,

The lines of a well-known hymn include, “Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.”

May it console your hearts to know that the God of heaven will give you the peace and comfort that you need for this difficult hour.

Be encouraged knowing that you will see Ralph again because Christians are a people with an eternal destiny!

My prayers are with you . . .

Sincerely,

Mrs. Jerry Helms

Robin Sinkler

April 13, 2009

To Melinda and Nicolas and the family, May you continue to find comfort in God and his plan. For God makes NO mistakes in what He does. Be encouraged.

The Diaz Family

April 13, 2009

To the Conley Family:

Our deepest condolences to your family. Ralph was such a talented musician and we enjoyed every time he played for our choir at Ephesus Seventh-day Adventist Church. May you be comforted by the memories and special times shared. May the God of all comfort be ever present.

Alan & Kim Tyson

April 13, 2009

To the Conley family:
Ralph will be sadly missed with his unique sense of humor. He was a great musician, and friend. Our prayers are with you.

Leonette Porter-Hollingsworth

April 13, 2009

To the Conley Family,

My family and I want you to know we truly appreciated Ralph's God given talent as a musician; as well as his beautiful character. I know we will see him when Christ returns!

April 13, 2009

The Melinda, Nick and Conley family. Ralphy will be sadly missed. I will never forget the hands that brought forth the most wonderful music one would ever hear. Lori Ann Coleman (Jefferson City, MO)

Pastor LaMarr Scales & family

April 13, 2009

To The Conley Family,
You were blessed with a great man & musician. We pray that God will carry you during your time of lost!

Linda Meador

April 13, 2009

To the Conley Family,

I was saddened to hear of my dear childhood friend Ralph's passing. Since our days at Gladstone Elem., I knew he was going to grace the world with his intelligence, humor, and sincere kind spirit.

May you know that your treasured loved one will be missed by many who was fortunate to have known him.

God Bless the Family,

Elaine Abrams

April 13, 2009

To the Conley family,

Heaven has another angel.

We had the pleasure of growing up with Ralph and was shocked to hear of his passing.
Our thoughts and prayers goes out to you all.

The Helms Family

Karen Scales

April 13, 2009

To the Conley family:

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Ralph Conley.

My prayers are with you at this difficult time.

May your memories of Ralph bring you Grace, Comfort and Peace that surpasses all understanding.

kathy smith/bealer

April 13, 2009

To Melinda and Nick and the Conley family My prayers are with you I am sad that my friend is gone i have known him most of my life his music brought joy to all of us he will be sadley missed.

Sis. Marquentia Laughlin

April 12, 2009

Melinda,Nick and the Conley family, I was truly saddened by the passing of Ralph. He was a wonderful musician who always greeted me with that wonderful smile of his. My prayers are with you all.

Nathan Washington

April 12, 2009

To Melinda, Nicholas, and the Conley family. Ralph will be missed as a friend and for his willingness to help in the music ministry down through the years. We'll also miss his sense of humor. May God bless you during this trying time.

Nathan Washington & Family

Harriet Martin-Grace

April 12, 2009

To Conley Family;
My prayer is that you will know that God knows your pain during this difficult time. Lean on Jesus and let Him comfort you.

Joycanne Robinson

April 12, 2009

To the Conley Family. I am very sorry to hear about the death of Ralph. He was a very talented person. I had the pleasure of working with Ralph at DFAS Columbus. Also I enjoyed his wonderful music. I will be praying for the comfort of the family at the loss of their dearest love one. May you find comfort in the Lord and I will pray for the family during this time.

Toni Goode

April 12, 2009

Dear Melinda & Nicholas & family I am very sorry to hear about the death of Ralph. He was always polite and had a sweet spirit about him. My prayers go out to you . Love ya &miss ya Melinda!

Jane Greenwald (Guidance Counselor)

April 12, 2009

Dear Nick: I am so sorry about the death of your beloved father. Although I did not know him, he must have been a very special man to have such a great son. I am sure you will have sad days ahead, but you have many friends and a good support network at Westerville South. Please let me know if you need anything. I cannot attend the service because I will be out of town, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom.

Saundra Kennedy

April 12, 2009

To the entire family - My prayers and thoughts are with you. Bro. Ralph will be missed.

Micole Spicer

April 12, 2009

To the Conley Family,
Bro. Ralph will truly be missed. Whenever he came to our church to minister through music he was kind,anointed, pleasant and comical. Kept us laughing! My prayer is that God will comfort you during this time.
Love,
Micole Spicer

Angela Adams

April 12, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Darlene Cathcart-Marshall

April 12, 2009

On behalf of the Cathcart family, we are
very sorry to hear about your loss Ralph was dear friend and a very kind person. He will be dearly missed.

Sister R. Laughlin

April 12, 2009

To be absent from the body is to be present with the lord. Bro Conley is most certainly present with the lord, (probably playing him a song!) My heart and prayers go out to Sis. Melinda, Nicholas and the entire Conley family.

JACKIE SMITH

April 12, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Beverly & Lennard McMillan

April 12, 2009

Melinda and Nicholas,
May God provide the strength you will need in the days to come. We are praying for you and the family during this time of sorrow.

Nikkie Green and family

April 11, 2009

Melinda,nicholas,and the Conley family as a whole. I want to start by saying Bro Ralph will sure be missed. We always had a good time laughing and learning. He's a great man of God. Now that he has gone to see the King you know you will meet him on the other side. So I pray that you have comfort, peace,and power to endure. I know losing someone you love isn't easy but to God be the Glory. I love you and I will keep the family in my prayers.
Love you Always

Theresa Hill-Denton

April 11, 2009

Sister Melinda and family I'm truly sorry for your lost. Our deepest prayers and condolences are with you daily. May the Lord continue to strengthen and keep you all. God Bless!! Sister Theresa and Family.

Eld. Carl A. Emerson, Sr.

April 11, 2009

Melinda, Nicholas, and the Conley family, my deepest condolences to the family in this time of berevement. Bro. Conley and I have worked together for a number of years with various choirs. His talent, sense of humor, and presence will be missed. Calisa, Celina, Carl, Jr., and I are praying your strength and comfort. Blessings.

Kevin Harris

April 11, 2009

To Melinda and Nick and Mother Conley and the rest of the family. My prayers are with you during this time. Know that I truely share your pain and my heart is heavy as well. Ralph was a great friend and a wonderful musician to work with probably the only one that I could get along with.

You are in my prayers and I am here for YOU.

Brother Kevin D. Harris

Terence & Sharon Clemons

April 11, 2009

Melinda,
We were so shocked to hear the news of Ralphs passing. He will surely be missed. We will keep you and Nicholas in our prayers. Know that God will comfort you during this difficult time.

We Love you!

Tameko Martin

April 11, 2009

To the Conley Family - You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Ralph will truly be missed.

April 11, 2009

Melinda and Nick, We love you and are praying for both of you, The Beachlers

M Miller Jr

April 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Mr Ralph Conley. One incredible talent that will truly be missed

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