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Mary Tomasky Obituary

TOMASKY Mary Tomasky, a resident of Trillium Place in Columbus, died Tuesday, January 6, 2009 at Dublin Methodist Hospital in Dublin, Oh. She was 86, and the cause of death was pneumonia. Tomasky lived most of her life in Morgantown, W.Va., moving to Columbus in 2006. She taught art and creative writing in Morgantown public schools for 30 years, until her retirement in 1983. She was a graduate of West Virginia University, from which she received both her Bachelor's and Master's degrees. Born Maria Aluisi (later changed to Lewis) in San Giovanni in Fiore, Italy, she came to America with her parents in 1928 and settled in the Morgantown area. Before college, she studied art in New York City, taking classes at Hunter College and the Art Students' League. She continued to paint through most of her life. During World War II, she went to Norfolk, Va., where she worked in radio communications in support of the war effort. She returned to New York toward the war's end and came back to Morgantown in 1949. She was married for 45 years to Michael Tomasky, a trial attorney in Morgantown, who died in 1997. She was a member of St. Thomas a Becket Episcopal Church. In addition to her husband, she was also preceded in death by a daughter Michele in 1970 and by 4 sisters Vicky Lewis, Rose Lewis, Teresa Pasko and Virginia Lohr. She is survived by a daughter, Susan of Bexley, Oh., her husband, Ronald Ungvarsky and their daughter, Victoria Ungvarsky; a son, Michael of Silver Spring, Md. and his wife, Sarah Kerr; a sister, Anne Frank of Virginia Beach, Va.; and 17 nieces and nephews. Visiting hours will be held Thursday, January 8, 2009 at ROTRUCK LOBB FUNERAL HOME-Mancinelli Chapel in Westover, W.Va. from 7-9 p.m. Funeral service will be conducted on Friday, January 9, 2009 at the St. Thomas a Becket Episcopal Church at 10 a.m. with The Rev. Julie Murdoch officiating. Interment will follow at the East Oak Grove Cemetery, Morgantown. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Thomas a Becket General Fund (tax deductible), 75 Old Cheat Rd., Morgantown, W.Va. 26508, or to Art Department-WVU Foundation, One Waterfront Place, Morgantown, W.Va. 26501. Personal condolences may be offered to the family online at www.rotruck-lobb.com.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on Jan. 8, 2009.

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Pam Tomasky

January 14, 2009

Susan,

I'm so sorry to learn about Aunt Mary's death. I wish I had known about it in time to come to the funeral home to pay my respects. Unfortunately, we found out about it only a couple days ago. You and the family have my deepest sympathy.

Terry Trimper Jones

January 10, 2009

Dear Susan,

I was so sorry to learn about the passing of your mother. I noticed her name and photo (you are the spitting image of her) in the Dispatch. I thought the write-up about her was lovely.

God Bless

Lisa Parks

January 9, 2009

Susan, so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Hugh J. Dorrian

January 8, 2009

My condolences, prayers and good wishes are with you and your family.

Dolores Ungvarsky

January 8, 2009

What a great person. We enjoyed knowing her. She will be missed. Our deepest sympathy to Susan, Ron, Victoria, Michael and Sarah.
Love, Dan and Dee

Herbert Womack

January 8, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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