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Richard Wessling Obituary

WESSLING LTC. Retired Richard B. Wessling, Jr. God saw that he was getting tired, and a cure was not to be; so he put his arms around him, and Whispered," Come with me." With tearful eyes we watched him suffer and saw him fade away. Although we loved him dearly, we could not make him stay. A golden heart stopped beating, a wonderful mind put to rest; God broke our hearts to prove to us, he only takes the best! On June 9, 2011, the angels came down from above and brought Richard Byron Wessling, Jr. home. Born July 26, 26, 1938 to Richard Byron Wessling and Lucille Willis, at Blue Island, IL; he peacefully passed away at his home in El Paso, Texas at the age of 72. He served in the US Army for 28 years retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel with numerous Military Honors. He also taught at EPCC, UTEP and Donna Anna campuses both during and after his retirement. He gave freely to many charities and organizations truly believing that giving was better than receiving. Richard was a devoted, loving husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. He is survived by his wife of 22 years, Colleen Gail Wood, and a total of five children: Michael Wessling, David Wessling (Kim), Elizabeth Eubank (Jerry), Lynelle Harvey (Jeff), and Jeffrey Baldwin (Mari). He was blessed with 14 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren. He is also survived by his brothers, Charles & Thomas Wessling and John Sandifer. Visitation will be Sunday, June 12, 2011 from 5:00 to 9:00 P.M. Funeral Service will be Monday, June13, 2011 at First Cumberland Presbyterian Church at 1:00 P.M. Interment will follow at Ft. Bliss National Cemetery with military honors. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donation to your favorite charity. Condolences may be offered at www.martinfuneralhomeeast.com Service arrangements have been entrusted to the care of Funeraria Del Angel Martin East Funeral Home 1460 George Dieter Drive, El Paso, Texas 79936. 915-855-8881. www.martinfuneralhomeeast.com

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Published by El Paso Times from Jun. 12 to Jun. 14, 2011.

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horst greimann

June 30, 2011

dear family,
i am feeling with you and i am sad dick had to go. all this month i was thinking of him and the time we met in 1965 at fort bliss. we became good comrades and later visited him at his home 1981 when passing through.
yours sincerely horst greimann
ltcol ret. german airforce

All The Glory Be To God!

David Wessling

June 15, 2011

Dad,
I will miss you. Thanks for being there for me whenever I needed help. I will always try and be the best man I can. I am so happy that you are in the warm embrace of our lord. No more pain, tears, or fears. Surrounded by love much greater than we can ever feel here in this life. I love you.
Your son, David

June 13, 2011

Dear Colleen and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I am so sorry for your loss.
With sympathy,
Virginia Zamora

Constance Trout

June 13, 2011

To Mrs. Wessling and the family: My deepest, heartfelt sympathy and condolences at the loss of your precious loved one. We spent many days at the International table at the Officers' Club talking about teaching and other topics with other officers, both retired and active duty. He was filled with wisdom and shared openly to help others on their way in life. May the Lord Jesus Christ comfort and protect you in the days ahead.

June 13, 2011

I love this picture! This is the exact way I remember him while growing up down the street from the Wesslings. I know he was loved dearly and will be missed by his friends and family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love, Karen Szilagyi

Jeff Harvey

June 13, 2011

Thank you for entrusting me with your daughter, whom became my wife, a wonderful mother and my best friend. Your approval, advice and reassurance meant more than you know. I know you are now in His hands and reunited with loved ones past. Rest in peace.

Jim Hubbard

June 12, 2011

As a fellow Air Defense Artillery Officer I knew Dick (and Collen) for lots of years. I had the honor of following in Dick's footsteps in positions at CAS, Inc. and at Southwest Institute. I always appreciated Dick's professionalism, sense of humor and for the wonderful human he was. I lost touch in recent years but have never forgotten a truly loved friend. Dick will be in my prayers for a safe trip home. May God bless him and his family.

Roy & Pam Worley

June 12, 2011

Sir, we will never forget our days in Schwabach, Germany, and at Ft Bliss, TX. It was a pleasure to serve with you. Now, rest in peace.

June 12, 2011

Our condolences to the family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Helen and Fleming Panos, Rockwall, Texas

Jerry Eubank

June 11, 2011

Dick will definately be missed. I'll miss going to the movies with him. Dick and I would go to a movie when Leisa and I would go to visit. He would always get a hot dog with one mustard and two relishes. True Grit will be a movie I remember forever since that was the last one he and I watched together. He was a great man, father, husband and friend.

Dia Jones

June 11, 2011

I met Dick when I went on a trip to DC, with him, his wife and step-daughter, Leisa. I can't help smile when I think of him driving his electric scooter. He was all smiles and no fear. I got impression that that's how he lived his life. It was enjoyable to watch, except when he was going eighty down the van ramp.
I feel very honored that I got to spend that time with him and some of his family. He was a truely special person in many, many ways. He will be missed greatly. Dia Jones, Nurse #2

David Scott

June 11, 2011

Richard, I miss you very much. I have only know you for a few years but we did see a lot of great movies together. The coffee meetings and talks at the college is what I miss the most. Our country was lucky to have you as one of our greatest soldiers. I miss your tales of adventure. If there is a heaven you are there having another adventure.

Jeff and Mari Baldwin

June 11, 2011

Thank you so much for being my second dad. You taught me lfie lessons and I think I turned out alright thanks to you. I'm glad you're finally at peace and eating that snickers bar in heaven. Say hi to Charcoal and Fanny for me. I'm glad I got to spend these last 4 years with you and mom. We will take care of her. I love you Dad # 2. Jeff

Leisa Eubank

June 9, 2011

Dad, I miss you already, but I know that you are at peace and out of pain. I have known you over half of my life and have always had advice ready when asked for it. I will miss your humor, your smile, but most of all your love. Rest well and at peace. I love you...your Stepdaughter -

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