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Alyssa ONeill Obituary
Alyssa J. O'Neill, age 18, passed away unexpectedly Wednesday, September 4, 2013, at her residence in Millcreek. Born in Erie on July 27, 1995, she was a daughter of Jason and Sarah (Parsons) O'Neill.
Alyssa was a 2013 graduate of McDowell High School, and was entering her freshman year at Penn State Erie-The Behrend College. While at McDowell, she was a member of the cheerleading squad and participated in competitive cheerleading. She was an Ambassador for the Epilepsy Project.
In addition to her parents, she is survived by a brother, Jace O'Neill, and two sisters, Ansley and Ava O'Neill, all at home; maternal grandparents, Larry and Chris Spaeder Proper, and Terry Parsons, all of Erie; paternal grandparents, Richard and Robyn O'Neill, of Pittsburgh; maternal great-grandmothers, Gert Spaeder and Roslyn Parsons, both of Erie; paternal great-grandmother, Val Jean Henzler, of Pittsburgh; her best friend and guardian, Dylan Ukasic, of Erie; and several aunts, uncles, cousins, and nephews. She was preceded in death by maternal grandfathers, Jerry Spaeder and Graham Parsons, Sr.; paternal grandfather, Milton Hensler; paternal grandmother, Lois O'Neill; and her uncle, Graham "Chip" Parsons.
Friends may call Thursday from 7 to 9 p.m. and Friday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. at Brugger Funeral Homes & Crematory, 1595 West 38th Street at Greengarden Boulevard, and may attend a Funeral Mass Saturday at 11 a.m. at Sacred Heart Church, 806 West 26th Street. Entombment will follow in Calvary Cemetery Mausoleum.
Memorials may be made to the Epilepsy Project, 1660 Wintergreen Lane, Fairview, PA 16415. Condolences and photos may be sent at www.bruggerfuneralhomes.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Alyssa ONeill
Linda Thompson
August 30, 2022
I will always treasure the memory of you and I dancing to Toxic.
July 27, 2014
Happy Birthday
March 25, 2014
I was blessed to meet some of Alyssa's friends at the National Walk for Epilepsy in Washington DC on March 22, 2014. My son, who also has epilepsy, was familiar with her story from the internet and recognized the "Forever in Our Hearts" and #ajo on the t-shirts. Thanks for inspiring others to support epilepsy research, and also to inspire others to pay it forward.
Barbara Whiting
March 4, 2014
God bless you all. You are in my prayers and on my heart.
Sincerely,
Barbara Whiting
(formerly of Erie, PA)
LaQuitta Blalock
October 4, 2013
May God bless and keep the ONeill's The Couch's will continue to pray for you'll.. we love you!!
Scott Chamberland
October 4, 2013
Please accept my Deepest Sympathies
Judy Nagare
October 1, 2013
Terry and family,
God bless you & keeping you in my prayers. I am truly sorry for your loss.
Barbara Whiting
October 1, 2013
My very deepest sympathy to Alyssa's family. May she rest in peace as you honor her by "paying it forward." God bless you.
Sincerely,
Barbara Whiting
(formerly from Erie, PA)
Ron
October 1, 2013
God Bless the O'Neill Family, I recently read about your daughter and would like to express my condolences to you. Please know that God will protect you,and that Alyssa is safe in heaven with him. When we believe in God we know that Eternal Rest is ours, and that we as friends, family,we will all be joined again in heaven when the Lord calls us back. I will pray for you.
Susie Flores
September 28, 2013
God has Alyssa in his arms and she is now rid of her epilepsy . She is now the ambassador to help those who are still on earth to fight against epilepsy. I too have an eighteen year old daughter with epilepsy. We will continue to join hands and help find a cure for it. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your extended family/friends.
Phil Weitzel
September 28, 2013
The rain coming down gently as I'm having my morning coffee. How appropriate is the rain this morning, like tears from heaven as I read the story of Alyssa.
I have lived my life with a pay it forward philosphy. Today I will dedicate my day in the honor of your daughter.
May you have comfort knowing that your daughter is touching lives all over the world. May the random acts of kindness continue. #AJO
The James O'Neill Family
September 27, 2013
We are saddened to hear the loss of your dear daughter. We will keep you in our prayers and ask the angels to comfort and guide her soul. God bless your Family. May you be healed to find peace.
Celia Tryzbiak
September 27, 2013
"Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy"
Jason & Sarah- I saw this article on Yahoo and it immediately struck a cord with me... my younger brother age 22 had passed away in his sleep on the same day as your daughter did from a seizure as well. My heart breaks for you and your family. Please know that your message is being heard around the country as we speak and it is a beautiful message, as beautiful as your daughter was.
I will pray for your family in this difficult time.
Jane Carlson
September 27, 2013
What a beautiful family - God bless you all!
Jane
Sandra
September 22, 2013
Although you don't know me, I too have lost a daughter way to early. Sending prayers that God may comfort you at this difficult time in your life. Lean on your family and friends for comfort. May #AJO spread and enlightened the world about epilepsy.
September 17, 2013
WE ARE NOT ACTUAL FRIENDS OF YOUR FAMILY; BUT, WE HEARD ABOUT YOU FROM THE NEWS. WE DO SEND YOU OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS OF JOY~~WE ARE SURE GOD'S JUST LOVE IS IN ACTION: ALYSSA GAVE OF HERSELF TO BE AN AMBASSADOR FOR THE EPILEPSY PROJECT; NOW, GOD HAS CHOSEN HER FOR A HEAVENLY PROJECT~~AMBASSADOR OF CARING LOVE FROM ABOVE.~~YOU W I L L FEEL HER.
LOVE AND PRAYERS, BOB AND ROSE FANNING
Josh Begandy
September 13, 2013
My heart goes out to the O'Neill Family. Alyssa was a sweet and beautiful young lady. Forever will she stay in the hearts of those who knew her. God Bless
September 12, 2013
My Prayers to the family...
Cheyenne Fogle
September 12, 2013
Alyssa was definitely a light to the world. She is greatly loved and missed. Keep spreading the love! #AJO rest easy beautiful. <3 Prayers with family and friends.
Christine
September 11, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Lobaugh Family
September 11, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. You are celebrating her life in such wonderful ways. Know that she is looking down on you all proudly!
Danita Rhea
September 10, 2013
This is such a shock to hear and am heavy hearted for your loss...Please know that I am thinking of you and understand your pain....Love to you ALL!!
Danita Rhea
Donna Chivari
September 10, 2013
God has taken another beautiful angel home!! May God bless all of her family with strength and understanding at this time. My granddaughter was diagnosed 4 years ago on her 13th birthday with this dreaded disease. My heart goes out to all of you! Alyssa will be cheering on all she has left behind.
Katey Halstead
September 9, 2013
Sorry for your loss O'Neill family. Prayers and thoughts go out to your family and friends. My deepest sympathy. RIP angel and watch over us. Sadly missed but always remembered in heart and memories.
Beth Groves
September 8, 2013
Ava and Ansley, Mrs.Groves will be there for you at school any day at any time. I will check on you but please know you can come to me if you need anything.
September 8, 2013
Celebrate her life through your smiles. Her smile was inspirational and deserves to be carried on through the grieving. Stay strong with a lot of prayer
Lynn Kostek Jones
September 8, 2013
To the entire O'Neill, Spaeder, and Parsons families, there are no words. Prayer, support, and the willingness to have Alyssa's memory live on in all of your hearts will be your comfort in these difficult days ahead.
Chiill Brand
September 7, 2013
Sarah and Jason, My heartfelt deepest sympathy goes out to you. I am so sorry and will keep Alyssa in my prayers. I only had a couple of occasions to be around her but she appeared to be a very special out-going young lady and from the video and tributes I can see that she was indeed.
Sue Amann
September 7, 2013
You have my deepest sympathies. I know exactly what you are going through. Its like your heart has been ripped out of you. I lost my only son 2 years ago on the 4th of July. I found him in our 4 foot deep swimming pool. He also had epilepsy and apparently had a seizure. I tried to revive him doing CPR but he was already gone. He lived at home with me and was with me every day of his life. He was my life and I didn't want to go on without him in it, but you find the strenght to go on. The only comfort you get is you know they didn't suffer. God will be with you in these terrible times and will get you through this. We will see our children again. My heart goes out to you, from one grieving mom to another. You are in my prayers.
The Orelski Family
September 7, 2013
Sara and Jason and little ones, our thoughts and prayers are with you and know that Alyssa is a special angel to watch over you. She will be missed by all who knew her.
Sharon Gerlach
September 7, 2013
Dear Mr an Mrs O'Neil. I know you do not know me, and I never had the pleasure of knowing your beautiful daughter. My son Brandon Sitter just graduated from McDowell in her class. My heart goes out to you and your family...I could not even imagine....truly. There are no words that can be said to take away the immense loss you must be feeling except please know that your separation is only temporary and you will see your beautiful daughter again. She is beautiful and is now an angel in heaven....My utmost sympathies in your grief...Sharon
Karen Ramos
September 7, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about your beautiful daughter Alyssa. My daughter has suffered her whole life with Epilepsy and still continues to fight it. She will be 25 next week, but not a day goes by that I don't worry about her. My heart goes out to you and your family and know that God will be there to guide her into the beautiful heavens where beautiful people rest in peace. Prayers to you and God Bless.
Danelle Milk
September 7, 2013
Sarah, Jason and family,
My deepest sympathy for you and your family. Many prayers for you during this very difficult time. Even though I didn't know Alyssa, she has touched so many lives and such a beautiful young lady. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Matthew 11:28
“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
Christina Halli
September 7, 2013
I did not have the pleasure of knowing Alyssa but I was at the game last night and felt deeply the love and light she brought to McDowell while she was with us. What a beautiful girl with an amazing spirit.
September 7, 2013
May perpetual light shine upon her and grant her eternal rest!
Nancy
Amy Church
September 7, 2013
Sarah,
Thinking of you and your family today as you send Alyssa off to Heaven. There are no words to ease your heartbreak, but know that there are so many people sending prayers for your strength and healing. Goodbyes are never easy but you will see her again someday, and she will be the beautiful girl you will always remember.
Debbi
September 7, 2013
I lost my 16 year old daughter last August to epilepsy. I am so sorry for your loss.
Colleen Weber
September 7, 2013
Dear Mr. & Mrs. O'Neill, you don't know me by name, but I have watched Jace in the Daycare at Lecom and always thought what a nice young boy he was and that he had to have wonderful parents. When I hear of the sudden loss of your daughter it broke my heart and I knew I had to say how very sorry I am that you lost your daughter. I'm sure that with the support of each other and your family you will, in time, begin to heal. God bless you all.
Marissa Romanski
September 7, 2013
I'm so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. She'll always be your angel.. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family .
September 7, 2013
Jason and family you are in our thoughts. There are no words to soothe your pain,remember Alyssa was loved by so many and so are all of you. It was nice to see all the purple being worn by Mcdowell students this past Friday.
Take Care.
Copella and her family
Carla Fillak
September 7, 2013
Rest in Paradise sweet girl.
deanne
September 7, 2013
Angels truly do walk among us
Allison Sivillo-Lamp
September 6, 2013
Sarah,Jason and family,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. keep every memory close to your heart. she obviously made an impact on everyone who knew her. I am praying for you all.
Cindy T
September 6, 2013
I didn't know Alyssa but just watched some of the video that was shared on Facebook. I made it through about 3 minutes. As a mother, I can only imagine the pain all of you are experiencing right now. There are no words I have to offer that would begin to heal the enormously deep wounds you have been left with. I can say with certainty that God is with you, He loves you, and He will make a way for you to get through this. I will finish watching the beautiful video tribute to Alyssa and will pray for all of you.
Cindy T
September 6, 2013
I didn't know Alyssa but just watched part of the video of her that was posted on facebook. I had to stop after about 3 minutes. As a mother, I can only imagine the pain you are experiencing right now. There are no words I have to offer that would begin to heal the enormously deep wound that you are left with. I can only say that God is with you, He loves you and somehow He will make a way for you to get through this. I will watch the rest of this beautiful video tribute to Alyssa and will be praying for you all.
Paul Cousins
September 6, 2013
My deepest regret for your loss. You are a strong and loving family. My prayers are with you all.
John Gemler
September 6, 2013
Sarah, Chris and Jason,
Alyssa was such a smart, bright, nice and caring girl her entire life. Knowing her for as long as I did was a pleasure and will never be forgotten. I am so sorry for your loss it is beyond words.. Alyssa was the type of girl that instantly put smiles on peoples faces simply with her presence. Alyssa you will be deeply missed and remembered forever...
The Gemler Family
Katy Dunton
September 6, 2013
Always so respectful, positive, and bright. Alyssa made me chuckle often. I am so very sorry for your loss... as well as the world's. Parents, siblings, family, and all who knew and loved her are in my thoughts.
Mick and Sandy Dragoone
September 6, 2013
We are so very sorry for your loss. We wish you comfort now, peace soon and memories that fill your hearts with joy for a lifetime.
Chrissy Vroman
September 6, 2013
For the amazing, smiling angel watching over us.
Alyss'a 3rd grade teacher
September 6, 2013
Sarah & Jason,
Alyssa was a wonderful girl, she always was smiling and made others smile too. I had her in 3rd grade and she was an excellent student and such a pleasure to have. I am so sorry for your loss. We all now have one amazing angel watching over us. Thought and prayers to your family and Dylan.
September 6, 2013
Our deepest sympathy is with all of you. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers. Gary, Debbie and Kari Mizikowski
September 6, 2013
Sarah and Family, We are so very sorry for your loss and words cant describe our heavy hearts. We knew Sarah from Shadyside Campground and she would play with our daughter Madeline. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. BRAD, COLETTE and MADELINE, Shadyside Campground.
colleen rush
September 6, 2013
Jason and Family
My prayers are with you all in this difficult time.
Amanda Marks
September 6, 2013
I am tearing up reading about Alyssa.... My mom and Her grandma chris are friends and I remember Alyssa always being with her grandma, when we visited.... Our hearts go out to your family! (Vinnie /Amanda marks (adams))
Christy Marks Bortz
September 6, 2013
Sarah and family, So sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you find some peace and comfort in the Lord. God bless
bill johns
September 6, 2013
I am so sorry about your loss she was so pretty and she is with everyday
Ed & Barb, B & B Associates
September 6, 2013
Jason:
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Renee Lastowski
September 6, 2013
To The O'Neill Family,
My heart is truly breaking for you & your family. Alyssa was such a beautiful young lady & she touched so many lives. She was an inspiration to so many people, even to those that didn't know her very well. No parent should ever have to say good bye to their child. Words cannot express how deeply my heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. You have a beautiful angel looking over you & your family. May her memory live on forever & God bless you. We will keep you all in our prayers now & in the days ahead. May God hold you in the palm of his hands & help heal the pain in your hearts. Rest in peace sweet angel.
So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.
John 16:22
With Love,
The Lastowski Family
Laureen (Friend of Chris Roach)
September 6, 2013
Sorry for the loss of such a beautiful young woman/child/daughter/friend. You now have a special guardian angel to watch over you
Christina Iacobozzi
September 6, 2013
Sarah & Jason...My heart is broken as I try to imagine the pain you are experiencing. I'm saddened & shocked by the loss of your beautiful daughter. I'm praying for your entire family.
Ann Mucha
September 6, 2013
Sarah & Jason, how very sorry we are. Ellen just saw Alyssa this week & said how much she liked her. Prayers for you & your family. - Ann, David, Michael, Jack & Ellen Mucha
September 6, 2013
Our Jonathan graduated from McDowell with Alyssa this year. We are sending you our deepest condolences for the loss of your beautiful daughter. James, Kathryn, Benjamin, and Jonathan Strick
September 6, 2013
May you be cheering and helping others in heaven as u did on Earth....
Stacey Montgomery Dempsey
September 6, 2013
Sarah
I remember Alyssa from having her in my room at daycare. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
September 6, 2013
Sarah and Jason,
We are so sorry for your loss, May God keep you close during this time and give you the strength you need. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Frank and Paula Fernandi
Robert Erven
September 6, 2013
Today a terrible loss has affected the McDowell class of '13 and many others within our community and families. For those who don't know, our friend Alyssa was a very good person, better than all the top dogs of the more popular kids. Very smart, funny, beautiful, and talented. Most of all, her morals and attitudes outweigh all us friends combined. I knew for all 4 years of high school and I'm proud of it. She'd come to my bonfires when I had them, and looking back, I wish I had more this year. We had classes together, lunches together, and the first couple of years, we rode the bus home together. In Psych, I'd pick on her for having the same passion fruit tea every day and in return, I'd eat most of her leftover food she'd bring to class as a favor for her, which she is a very good baker. I'm very sorry for her family and her boyfriend, one of my best friends, and I will do anything for them due to this terrible situation. RIP Alyssa O'Neil=we all love you no matter what.
Tammy Fazio
September 5, 2013
Dearest Sarah and Jason,
This helped me deal with my loss, each day is a blessing
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.
T Johnson
September 5, 2013
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?
Only when you drink form the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.
Hannah Wieczorek
September 5, 2013
With the heaviest of hearts I am so sorry for your loss.
Alyssa's beautiful inside and out and it was an honor to know her. She's touched all of our lives, truly an angel. My prayers and thoughts go out to your family.
Samantha Griswold
September 5, 2013
I never knew Alyssa that well. We had some classes together throughout high school but we were just friendly acquaintances. She was always laughing and making jokes. She had a bunch of friends, all of whom will miss her dearly. Even the people like myself who didn't know her that well, will miss her. I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish her family all the best in this tough time in their lives.
Hannah Hill
September 5, 2013
Alyssa was my next door neighbor, and we were friends but I wasn't as lucky to be as close as some of you were. One thing I do know more than some others though, is that she was the most amazing sister. She and her siblings would come over all the time to play basketball, and over the sumer she spent a lot of time outside with them. She was naturally kind to everyone else too. On prom night, we were both standing in our driveways getting pictures taken and she complimented me from across the yard. Every time she caught me singing, she complimented me, and when her brother and sisters would eat popsicles with us she would always take the nasty grape one, because no one else wanted it and she wanted the kids to be happy. Just the other day we were talking about missing our deceased mutual friend kara pollard. this is so unreal alyssa. i still feel like i will see you when i pull in the driveway, and you'll laugh at my parking job. You were so beautiful on prom night and always, even when you were just outside in your pajamas i couldnt help but admire you. I can't even express how terribly I feel for your siblings and parents. You are SO loved Alyssa and I miss you already. All of Mcdowell misses you dearly<3
Shawne Adams
September 5, 2013
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you .xxoo. Shawne &ChuckAdams
Emily Lewis
September 5, 2013
Alyssa,
You were beautiful, and anyone was lucky enough to get to know you. I will cherish all the memories that we have shared together over the years. I hope your family finds peace. I know you will be smiling over all of us in heaven. I miss you, and love you. <3
Angie Brink
September 5, 2013
God bless you in this difficult time.
Anna Brink
September 5, 2013
Alyssa was a strong powerful soul, her kindness, and determination lead her to be a wonderful, intelligent driven young lady. I am thirteen years old and am at the Millcreek Middle Schools. I would just like to say that her story is heartbreaking, and I cannot find any words to describe my bewail. She was a blessing and a role-model to us younger cheerleaders. We looked up to her. She won't only be remembered for her great duties as a cheer captain, but as a diligent; positive person to be around. I cry; and my heartbreaks for the O'Neils in this time and matter of sorrow. I am a cheerleader; and frankly have had some seizures myself. In honor of Alyssa I have my whole middle School wearing purple, and I'd like to help support An Epilepsies Foundation. I cannot begin to feel or imagine how your dear family is feeling right now. My prayers go out to you and friends. We as thirteen year olds, are truly devastated. We lost an angel, but the beautiful angle gained her wings. I love you Alyssa, rest in peace. You may have lived a short time on this earth; but your impact was immense. The good Lord will take care of you and your family, in this time of destitution & dramatic death. So many people love you Alyssa. Good bye my dear role model, you will live in my heart forever. My prayers go out to the O'Neils once again. God bless your hearts. May she live in eternal happiness forever. Wear purple! Show support! And everlasting love! <3
DiJon Thomas
September 5, 2013
I'm sorry for your loss. I know it's hard lossing a loved one. I didn't know her very well but I do know that I heard a lot of good things about her.
I hate to hear that someone so young could just pass away like that, it just brings me to tears.
September 5, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God give you strength.
Sincerely,
Jason, Tricia Bish and Family
September 5, 2013
Sarah, Jason and Terry, We are so very very sorry for your loss. Our sympathy to you and your family. Ginny and Lenny Vommaro
Tammy Mtchell
September 5, 2013
Sarah and Jason, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
Jennifer Sack - Martin
September 5, 2013
Sarah my heart breaks for you, Jason, your adorable babies whom Alyssa adored, and the rest of your family and friends. Words cannot express how sorry I am... Rest in paradise princess!!
Melaura Cranford
September 5, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to you all. We're so sorry for your loss.
Maggie Born
September 5, 2013
My Deepest Sympathy goes out to Alyssa, family, and close friends. May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Sincerely,
Maggie Born
Renee Schonthaler
September 5, 2013
So sorry for your loss. Alyssa was as sweet as anyone could be. Our daughters were on the cheer squad together and whenever I would see Alyssa, she always had a huge smile on her face. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Schonthalers
Jared Malinowski
September 5, 2013
She will be missed, even by the ones who didn't know her to well, everyone knew she was a fun and amazing woman. Praying for her.
Frank and Paula Fernandi
September 5, 2013
We are both so-sorry for your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Lisa B.
September 5, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Alyssa's family and friends. May her memories live on.
Colleen, Pete and Austin Gomolekoff
September 5, 2013
Sarah, Jason, Chris and all of my cousins,
We are all so very sorry about the loss of such a beautiful, young life. We will keep you all in our prayers now and in the days ahead. May God bless all of you and help your hearts heal and cope with all of this pain.
September 5, 2013
I AM TERRIBLY SORRY SARAH! MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
ERIN GAUTHIER-DESANTO
Karen Davis
September 5, 2013
With Deepest Sympathy for your loss. I don't know the family but this has touched my heart as I have a daughter who graduated in 2010 from Behrend...its hard to imagine the pain you are feeling. May God help you through this difficult time.
September 5, 2013
May you find peace during this difficult time.
Sheryl Bennett
MIHS math dept.
September 5, 2013
Sarah and family , my deepest sympathy goes out to you at this difficult time. Although I never met Alyssa, its easy to see what a strong, beautiful girl she was. I prey that you are able to find comfort in your memories and beautiful pictures . Love, Mike & Melanie Bennett & family.
Betty Bolla
September 5, 2013
Jason, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. She's a beautiful young lady.
Walt & Nicole Kalista
September 5, 2013
Dear Sarah, Jason, and Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear about Alyssa. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May God hold you in the palm of his hands and bless you always.
The Papucci Family
September 5, 2013
Sarah,Jason,Kids,Friends and Family:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to every one you as you deal with the untimely death of Alyssa. She was an amazing girl and had such a beautiful personality. May you be comforted in the upcoming weeks/months with the knowledge that she is now in the arms of the angels and will cheer and dance amoung them in heaven until you meet again.
CHRIS & MIKE KOZEN
September 5, 2013
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. mY HUSBAND AND I MET ALYSSA THROUGH OUR FRIEND DYLAN UKASIK, SHE WAS LOVELY AND SWEET, OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
Kim Dlugas
September 5, 2013
Jason-
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. As a parent I can not even imagine the loss you and your family must feel. My deepest sympathies are with you all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
September 5, 2013
I am a neighbor and did not personally know Alyssa but I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy on the loss of your beautiful daughter. May she rest in peace and know that know you have a beautiful angel watching you from above. God Bless! The Ricci Family
Faith Lux
September 5, 2013
God bless all of you.
Abby DeSantis
September 5, 2013
To Alyssa's family and friends,
Alyssa was such a beautiful girl--inside and out. She had the most kind and caring heart. Whenever I saw her at school, she was always smiling.
I'm sending my condolences to you today and always. I prayed to her last night, and I will continue to keep her, and you all, in my prayers. She is now a beautiful angel in Heaven. Her soul on Earth was so strong, so I know for a fact that her soul will strongly shine through from Heaven.
Sincerely,
Abby DeSantis (A classmate of Alyssa's)
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The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
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Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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