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Thomas G. Berdis, Sr. October 28, 1939-October 15, 2009 Thomas G. Berdis, Sr., age 69 years, died Thursday, October 15, 2009, at his residence surrounded by his family in Harborcreek, Pa. He was born in Erie, on October 28, 1939, the son of the late Joseph and Mary Janosik Berdis. Mr. Berdis graduated from Erie Tech School. He retired from General Electric after 31 years of service. He served in the 112th Infantry of the Pennsylvania Army National Guard, being activated several times and retiring as a First Sergeant after 21 years. He was a member of the American Legion Post 105, Brother’s Bowling Association and a Life Member of East Erie Turners. He was an avid hunter and bowler, bowling a 300 game in 1971. He was also a Notre Dame Football Fan and a member of Cursillo # 143. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by a sister, Sr. Eileen Berdis, OSF; a brother, Joseph Berdis; and a stepdaughter Jessica Baker. Survivors include his wife of 28 yrs., Louise Berdis; seven children, Thomas (Elizabeth) Berdis, Christopher (Kim) Berdis, Kevin (Susan) Berdis, Therese (Michael) Duckett, Kierstin (James) Vance, Donald (Maria) Berdis and Nicole (Brady) Hunter; two step-children, Nathaniel (Jen) Baker and Antoinette (Kenneth) Mulford; twenty-seven grandchildren; and six sisters, Mrs. Eleanor Tarasovitch, Mrs. Robert (Mildred) Merski, Sr. Audrey Berdis, OSB, Sr. Kevin Berdis, OSF, Mrs. Frank (Jean) Abate and Mrs. Paul (Ann) Krauza all of Erie; five brothers, Lawrence (Johanna) Berdis, Francis (Marjorie) Berdis, James (Barbara) Berdis, all of Erie, the Rev. Donald Berdis of Farrell and Robert (Sylvia) Berdis of Akron, Ohio. Friends may call at the A. Brugger & Sons Funeral Home, LLP 845 East 38 Street, Saturday from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. and Sunday from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. and 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. and may attend services there on Monday at 10:00 a.m. followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at Our Lady of Mercy Church at 11:00 a.m. Burial with military honors in St. Gregory Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Our Lady of Mercy Church, 837 Bartlett Rd., Harborcreek PA 16421. Condolences at www.bruggerfuneralhomes.com. Sign the guestbook at www.GoErie.com/obits

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Published by Erie Times-News from Oct. 16 to Oct. 18, 2009.

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John Walsh

October 31, 2009

Donny and entire Berdis Family, I will never forget your dad, especially how much he yelled my name out at football game for the coach to put me in. He was a great man, loved by all. My and my family's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brenda Walker

October 20, 2009

Chris,Kim,Bree,Michael,&Christopher,
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household world that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.

By Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918)
Canon of St Paul's Cathedral
We are so sorry for your loss you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Brenda & Boys

Kevin and Vicke Marz

October 19, 2009

To the Berdis Family - We will always remember your dad as a really great guy - always smiling and happy. You are all in our prayers.
Kevin and Vicke (Bailey) Marz

Karen Hubiak

October 19, 2009

Chris and the entire Berdis family,

I just learned of the passing of your father. Please accept my condolences.

Carla Black (Ardillo)

October 19, 2009

Berdis Family, Kierstin and Tom, Sorry to hear of your loss. I remember Mr. Berdis always being proud of his children and cheering them on.

Breanne Flanagan

October 19, 2009

Donnie, Maria, and family, My prayers are with you in this time of need. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May your family focus on love and faith. God Bless.

Chris (Paradise) Matheis

October 19, 2009

Dear Berdis Family -
So sorry to hear about your dad. It is not easy to lose a parent, especially one as involved in your lives as your dad was. Always there cheering you on, no matter what you were doing! He is not in pain anymore, and is in heaven cheering you on still, and I am sure, his grandchildren too! He will ready the way for all of you!

Mark Paradise

October 18, 2009

Dear Berdis Family,
I am sorry to hear of the passing of your father. He was a great man and he was proud of all his children. I have many fond memories of our youth and your dad cheering us on at all the Football games.He will always be in all our memories.

Njeri Porter

October 18, 2009

God bless you and your family as you grieve your husband's loss, Mrs. Berdis.

Charles Henry Hall Jr.

October 18, 2009

My deepest Sympathy's to the Berdis Family..... May God shine upon all of you during this time of sorrow..... Lots of Love to you especially Chris,Kim,Mike,and Little Chris.....

October 18, 2009

PRAYERS & THOUGHTS TO THE BERTIS FAMILY.HE HAS EARNED HIS WINGS,HE WILL BE ABLE TO FLY & WATCH THE FAMILY. A FRIEND OF NICOLE FROM PITTSBURGH. LOVE .LORI & RON.

Greg Smith

October 17, 2009

Donald,
I am sorry to hear of your fathers passing. He's with our lord now and has important things to do with him. May God bless you in your time of sorrow.
Greg

Diane (Paradise) & Harry Cottrell

October 17, 2009

To the Berdis Family,
We are sorry to hear of the passing of Mr (Tom) Berdis. What a great man he was. We have fond memories of Tom cheering on the football team, when the boys played. You could always hear him in the stands!!! :)..He was so proud of his children. I know it is hard to lose your Dad. Mine has been gone for 9 years now. But he is not suffering any more. He will be your angel in heaven watching over you all. Your family will be in our prayers
May God Bless You all

Lauretta & Rich Musantry

October 17, 2009

Louise
Want to let you know we are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.I hope the sincere sympathy of your friends will help comfort you.Tom is at peace now & I know you will focus on the good memories,your devotion to him,your faith & find strength & serenity in the days ahead.Take Care.See you soon.

CARL RIZZO

October 17, 2009

I WENT TO PREP WITH JIMMY. I GUESS TOMMY WAS MORE
PRAGMATIC THAN US PHILOSOPHERS. PERHAPS TOMMY
HAD BETTER ANSWERS TO LIFE THAN WE.
CARL COSIMO RIZZO I
[email protected]

Louis Rizzo

October 17, 2009

I haven't seen your family since 1955 but I am so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. I will keep him in my prayers. If I can be of any service please contact me at [email protected]

JoAnn Mayton

October 17, 2009

Donald, Kiersten and the Berdis Family,
Sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. I remember him from our high school years. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
JoAnn (Skrok) Mayton

geri moravek

October 17, 2009

To the Berdis Family, May God Bless your family in this time of sorrow.

Geri(Frazzini)

October 17, 2009

DEAR LOUISE, I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, BUT BELIEVE ME YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS, I DID AND I KNOW YOU WILL TO. IT JUST TAKES TIME AND YOU HAVE ALL OF US WHO LOVE YOU . IF YOU NEED ME I'M HERE JUST GIVE ME A CALL, WE ARE ALL GOING TO GET TOGETHER IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS AND THEN WE CAN TALK. TELL THE FAMILY I' M SORRY FOR THEIR LOSS. OK GIRL WILL TALK WITH YOU LATER, LOVE ROSE STIFFLER

Margaret Kern

October 17, 2009

Aunt Louise, Nikki and the rest of the Berdis family,

Uncle Tom was a great uncle and godfaher. I have many great memories of him growing up since we spent almost every weekend together! I will never forget riding to camp in the back of his truck singing all the way. My favorite story is of him shooting the turkey that was chasing after Nikki!!! Sometimes I even find myself saying his favorite dinner time saying "ye who eats the fastest gets the most" He was a great uncle and will will be missed by everyone! I love you all and I am so sorry that I can not be there with you during these hard times, but you can call me whenever you need to. Love Margaret

Holly Taccone

October 17, 2009

Kevin, Susan and the Berdis Family,
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this most difficult time.

October 17, 2009

I "came up through the ranks" with Tom in the Guard. A great guy and loyal comrade.My deepest sympathy to the family. MSG Pete Gonzalez USA (ret)

October 17, 2009

Dear Chris and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of your father. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Brenda and John Chmura

Joni Clover

October 17, 2009

Louise & Nikki:
My deepest sympathy.. Please know you
are in our prayers.. You have been a
gr8 wife, stepmother,granmother..You took good care of him. I hope he knows
how fortunate he was to have a loving and kind wife.. You deserve a medal
and trust me you will be rewarded..

We have been friends since childhood
days, grew up together.. Pls know Im here if you need me...
Joni & Ron Clover, Brockway,Pa.



well

Ron Sorvelli

October 17, 2009

To Tom's family,
I was saddened to hear of Tom's passing.
I bowled with him for many years in the 70's and 80's. He was a pleasure to be around because of his outgoing ways. I shared many meals and beverages with him, before and after our games truly enjoying his company.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.I will ALWAYS remember his famous quote after getting "tapped" on a strike attempt....
GIVE ME MY HITS!!!!

God Bless...

October 17, 2009

LOUISE & FAMILY... WE offer our condolences to everyone.....tom was a great guy that took care of his family & friends & was always there to help in any way...after learning of his passing memories started flashing back to yester year that brought back laughter & tears of joy to us...our prayers are with you all & know that he is at peace & sitting at the rite hand of the father & watching & guiding over everyone..GOD BLESS U ALL....jim & debbie sharples ( erie , Pa )

October 16, 2009

Berdis family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad was such a wonderful man. He was always so very proud of each of you. I smile when I remember him sitting in the stands cheering you all on. Whether it was basketball, baseball, softball, or football, he was always there for you and everyone else on the team. Never forget the love and pride he felt for all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
God bless.
Tammy (Schultz) Allen

Joni Clover

October 16, 2009

Louise and Family:

With deepest sympathy.. Didnt really know Tom only met him once..
You were a good wife to him, very caring and took care of him till
the end and also a gr8 stepmother along with being a gr8 mom
urself.. Pls know you are in my prayers and being friends for yrs
pls know Im here if you need me.... God Bless:

Jan Servey

October 16, 2009

Nikki our deepest sympathy on your loss of your father to you and your family from all of the Servey family.

Carole Arnold

October 16, 2009

Dear Louise,
I am sorry for your loss.
I want you to extend my sympathy to Nikki also.
You have been a wonderful wife and mom and caregiver and have given so much of yourself. Tom is at peace now and free from pain. Please take care of yourself. You have done an honorable job. You are strong and will get through this. I wish you peace and God Bless you! The "girls" will get together soon and remember, we are all here for you dear friend.
God Bless you!

October 16, 2009

Louise , Nikki and family, You are in our hearts and prayers, Tom has had a rough time and is now in God's hands and at peace and out of pain. Louise you have been a very attentive wife and by his side threw all of his illness,You went far beyond the medical attention to him that most could not have handled but you did it. God will reward you for all you have done for him. Jim & Judy Cristini and family Dillonvale, Ohio

October 16, 2009

Sue, Kevin, and family...I'm sorry for your loss. Thoughts, prayer, and peace to all of you. God bless! Mary Lou

Kyle Foust

October 16, 2009

I’m saddened on hearing the passing of Mr. Berdis. He was a great guy who leaves behind many fond memories. My God bless.

Shari Chilcott

October 16, 2009

Nikki and family, So sorry to here of your fathers passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Stacy Heidecker

October 16, 2009

Mrs. Berdis, Nikki and family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Mr. Berdis was so truly blessed to have had all of you as his loving and caring family. He will be missed, and thought of dearly. I will always remember him fondly as he would cheer for Nikki during her games and drive me and Nikki around when we were growing up.
Love always, Stacy and Kurt

October 16, 2009

To the Berdis Family, My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Diane Wisinski

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