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Hugh and Mary Lib Marshall Parker
May 14, 2011
To the Family of Red McElveen - We were very sorry to hear of the death of Mr. McElveen. He was a great friend to Uncle Jack Matthews as well as my Mom, Mildred Marshall. I have wonderful memories of him as a child at the store. Cherish your precious memories of your husband, Dad and Granddad. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love in Christ, Hugh and Mary Lib Parker
Pansy Baker
May 10, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. Mr. Red was a dear friend. He taught my Sunday School Class at Northside Baptist for over ten years. He was such a good teacher. He will be missed by everyone in this area.
Martha Murphy
May 10, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss. He was truly such a sweetie of a fellow. I know that there are wonderful memories and stories abound to keep him close in your hearts. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of great sadness.
Lyn Locke Martin
May 10, 2011
To "Miss" Felicia, Deborah, and Sharon- I am so sorry for your loss. I couldn't get to the service, but have you in my prayers and thoughts. Mr. Red was such a fair and good man. He always had a smile and something nice to say. He will be greatly missed by many.
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DeCar Prosserr
May 9, 2011
Sorry i could not be there for you during this rough time but know i was there in thought and prayers for you all.I know Uncle Red is so much better off now, no more pain and suffering.I will come by and see you all this weekend, he was loved by many and will be missed by all.
Brandi Newsome
May 9, 2011
Thinking of your family! Will never forget the Judge!!
LaDonna Burgess McCutcheon
May 9, 2011
Good men are hard to find, but Mr. Red was definitely one. He helped so many people out in ways that he didn't have to. He went above and beyond what many people would do. And for that, Mr. Red will always be remembered!!!! He will have many jewels in his crown for the things that he did while on this earth. Thank you, Mr. Red.
Bill & Jeanette Burgess
May 9, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Stanley & Donna Scott
May 9, 2011
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
L. Lamont and Tara Cantey
May 9, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mr. "Red" would always greet us with a "howdy neighbor" and a big smile. He was a true neighbor and will be deeply missed. He welcomed Lamont and I to Lake City and the neighborhood with a delicious pound cake. Over the years we have shared some special conversations.
Your loved one was a true treasure to all that knew him. Our family will continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. May God continue to Bless and Keep all of you in his loving arms.
Mark Collier
May 9, 2011
A woman's identity is shaped to the the greatest degree by her father. Mr. McElveen must have been a truly great servant and father as reflected in his daughter Sharon, who I am privileged to know. You have every right to enjoy knowing that your husband/father continues to live, progress and serve in a most glorious place beyond the veil. He is also very close.
May 9, 2011
I would have loved to have met Red. Scott shared his memories of Red with me and told me how great of a man he was. We wish we could be there today but our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Amanda Crawford
May 9, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. Red was one of the first people we met when we moved to Lake City. He was very kind and made us feel welcome. He will be dearly missed.
Donna Osborne
May 9, 2011
I'm so sorry of your lost , Mr Red will be missed so much before he got bad sick i waited on him every day at Prosser's RESTURANT in Lake City i miss him all ready , he was more than a customer he was my friend ,feel the same way about he's family love you all. miss you dearly Mr. Red
W. Hoyt (Slick) Poston ~Commander Nursing Center
May 9, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of Red. He was a great person and will be missed.
Janice & James Woodberry
May 9, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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FIRST CHOICE AMBULANCE
May 9, 2011
YOU HAVE OUR DEEPEST HEARTFELT SYMPATHY! WE ARE SO SORRY TO LEARN OF YOUR LOSS. IF THERE IS ANYTHING WE CAN DO FOR YOU PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO LET US KNOW.
Rev. Richard McLawhorn
May 9, 2011
I remember Mr. McElveen fondly as a boy from Sunday School RA's, etc.
May God bless your family in this time of loss.
May 9, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Mr."Red" was a wonderful man and he will truely be missed by all.
The Staff of Lake City Community Hospital
May 9, 2011
Red was a very special and personal friend of mine. While I was at Lake City High School he spoke to my government classes. He instructed them in the law and answered their questions. Always he was a witness for his Lord and Savior. Red was an avid GameCock fan and I a Clemson fan. We had many good laughs together. I will truly miss this good man and good friend.
Rev. Gerald Owens
May 9, 2011
we will always miss the storys and little red truck going around and around our lake till you caught just the right size BASS to have bragging rights for that day ,cause we knew you would be back tomorow to try to catch a bigger one .Red but you never told us how you could keep her your sweet wife in the truck while you fished!!! we loved you and will miss you very much old friend David Askins and family
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