CONCORD — Danielle M. "Danni" Ayer, 21, died Sunday, Aug. 22, 2010, at her home surrounded by her family after a lifelong battle with Rett Syndrome.
She was born in Concord, daughter of Christopher and Ellen (Gifford) Ayer. Danni was a graduate of Concord High School Class of 2007.
She was an avid NASCAR fan, and once had the opportunity to meet Dale Earnhardt Sr. She loved flowers and the feel of rain on her face.
In addition to her parents she is survived by uncles and aunts Robert and Wanda Ayer, Kevin and Kathy Ayer, Brian Ayer, Scott and Christine Hurd, Ryan Hurd, William and Patricia Gifford, Edmund and Peggy Gifford, Ronald and Laurie Gifford, Erin Maloney, Megan and Gary Shaffer, Karen Stillman; her grandparents, Neil and Beverly Hurd of Bow; many cousins; and longtime caregivers and special friends, Carolyn Towsley and Lisa Avery.
She was predeceased by her grandparents, William and Arline Gifford; grandfather, George "Rusty" Ayer Jr.; and one cousin, Jimmy Stillman.
Visiting hours will be held on Wednesday, Aug. 25, from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at the Waters Funeral Home, 50 South Main St., Concord.
A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated Thursday at 10 a.m. at St. John the Evangelist Church, 72 South Main St., Concord.
Burial will follow in the Blossom Hill Cemetery, Concord.
Donations may be made in Danni's memory to the International Rett Syndrome Foundation, 4600 Devitt Drive, Cincinnati, OH 45246.
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Chris and Ellen
My deepest sympathies and prayers for your loss. Such a new life awaits Danni with our Lord.
Larry McCullough
September 18, 2010
Chris and Ellen, I am so sorry to hear about Danni, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jaime & Loo Loo Boynton
September 10, 2010
Chris & Ellen,
We're so sorry to hear about Danni. Our thoughts and prayers are with both of you and your family.
Amanda Wiggin
September 8, 2010
There is a new star in the sky named Danni. She will dance with our daughter Melissa who passed 5 years ago. Bless you all for the normalcy and full life you gave Danni. We are all better people for knowing her. Much love, Steve and Linda Janelle and family
Steve and Linda Janelle
August 31, 2010
Dear Ellen and Chris,
My heart is broken for you both. I was so upset when I had learned of Danni's pasting! Rett is so unfair to our daughters and us! I hope and pray your happy memories keep you and that Danni looks out for her rett sisters from above! God bless you both and know she will hold a special place in my heart forever! love and hugs Hannah and virginia (21) Garman
Hannah Garman
August 27, 2010
Ellen and Chris
I wanted to send my deepest sympathies to you. As a fellow Rett Mom, I can't even begin to imagine your pain. Please know we are all thinking about you and praying.
Jen Dalton
August 27, 2010
Dearest Chris and Ellen
I cannot imagine the pain you're feeling, but I've cried with you. Over the years, I've come to feel that we were closer than mere "Rett parents" walking along the same path in life. I just adored Danni, and she was like a big sister to my flame-haired Kayla. I know that we will all meet our angels in Heaven some day. I wish that could take away some of the pain in your heart.
All Our Love,
Beth and Kayla
Beth Doane
August 27, 2010
Chris and Ellen,
My sincerest sympathies and condolences to you in the loss of Danni. May you always cherish the memories and the love that you always gave for Danni.
Sherry Patten
August 27, 2010
Ellen and Chris,
I just read about Danni's passing I cant even find the words to say .I always read your blogs about Danni Never did I say anything I just found comfort in reading .I too have a daughter with Rett 14 yr old Gina-Marie ..May God be your Strength today and always foryou and your family ...
Annette Rizzo
New york
annette rizzo
August 25, 2010
Forever . . . . . . . .
Forever I shall see your smile in the moon, the stars, the trees
Forever I shall hear your voice in the wind, the birds, the bees
Forever I shall feel your touch with the morning sun, the evening haze
Forever I shall have your love darling Danni, forever, for always
August 25, 2010
Dear Chris and Ellen, we send our deepest sympathy and condolences at this time. Prayers and love, Brian and Kelly (Ayer) Schutt
Brian and Kelly Schutt
August 25, 2010
So sorry for your lose. May God bless and give you the strength and peace to sustain you in the coming days. She is now free from pain, but i know yours is still with you.
Joyce, Delbert, Lisa Norris
August 25, 2010
Ellen and Chris,
You have been foremost in our thoughts this week. We are so sorry for your loss and pray for healing for you both. All our prayers are with you. Terri and Abby KCMO RS 5 years
Terri Vejrosta
August 25, 2010
Sending prayers from Arkansas. Please accept our condolences
August 25, 2010
Our thought and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We hope you can find comfort in your memories.
Rose, Mike & Renee RS 29 y/o
Bandura Family
August 25, 2010
Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your precious Danni. We'll be keeping you in our prayers in the days ahead, and will keep Danni in our hearts forever.
Hal, Leslye, and Leah Furniss
August 24, 2010
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for the loss of your precious Dani. Kathleen Rauscher and Family.
Kathleen Rauscher
August 24, 2010
We are praying for your family here in Alabama. We are so sorry for your loss and know that Dani is in an absolutely beautiful place!
Kristi Byers and Family
August 24, 2010
Our prayers are with Danielle and your family during this time. ~ Mary Cannizzaro & Family
August 24, 2010
So sorry about your loss,Deepest sympathies to you and your family,your Angel is always with you.RoseMarie & Colby Young~ Rett Family from Maine
RoseMarie Young
August 24, 2010
We are so sorry for the loss of your sweet Danni. Our heart breaks for you. You will be in our prayers and thoughts.
Tonya and Sara Hanna
August 24, 2010
Chris & Ellen, My sister Shirley Seykot has talked about Danni and you over the years she has known you and told us about your special angel. We too are keeping you in our prayers. Sharon, Dennis & Erick Scherfel
Sharon Scherfel
August 24, 2010
Dear Family, I was very sad to learn about Danni's passing. My prayers are with Danni and your family at this time.
Sincerely, Linda McInnis, MA
August 24, 2010
So sorry to hear of Danni's passing. Our prayers are with you. The Rett community are all here for you...
John, Linda,&Linda Louise 10yrs Greiff
August 24, 2010
Our deepest sympathy of the loss of your daughter,our hearts and love go out to you.
joanne morrish
August 24, 2010
Chris & Ellen, I was heartbroken when you called me on Sunday. Please know that we are here for you. Our hearts and prayers are with you. If you need anything please call. Danni was a very special angel to us and we were blessed knowing her. The Seykots Paul, Shirley, Kelsey and the boys.
Shilrey Seykot
August 24, 2010
Ellen and Chris, so very sorry to hear about Danni.....
Walther Family
Maureen Walther
August 24, 2010
Sending you all our love hugs and butterfly kisses , I will add a new flower to Alexis garden .
Penny Horsfall
August 24, 2010
Chris and Ellen, You are held in our hearts, our thoughts and our prayers. May you find strength in the memories of your beautiful daughter. She was amazing in the love she shared and the battle she fought so bravely.
Priscilla and Darleen Sherman
August 24, 2010
Ellen and Chris our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So very sorry for your loss.....
Tim,Vickie,Desiree,andRebecca Ayer
August 24, 2010
Ellen and Chris our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So very sorry for your loss..... Tim,Vickie, Desiree, and Rebecca Ayer(Dover,NH)
August 24, 2010
We just want to say how very sorry we are for your loss...Our angels are such gifts and I know all of our Angels have a very special guardian angel looking after them now..hugs and prayers from The Ramsey family in Colorado and a special hug from RS angel Karley
Janice Ramsey
August 24, 2010
Chris and Ellen,
May you be showered with the peace that passes all understanding during this difficult time.
Forest, Carol & Jennie Cox
August 24, 2010
Ellen Chris and family,
No words can take away the grief you are feeling now, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Danni is in a better place now; running, talking and smiling. She is looking after you as you did her when she was here with you.
Lisa Rushin
August 24, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers will be with your family during this difficult time. As a parent of a child with Rett syndrome, we feel we have lost one of our own. We will be praying for peace to be abundant in your family in the days ahead.
Ashley, Mark and Edie Hagg
August 24, 2010
Ellen, Chris and family,
Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you as you face the days to come. Know that you are loved and thought of often. God Bless you all!
Dawn Dilts
August 24, 2010
Our love and prayers are with you!
Angel hugs....
Catherine/Bill & Sarah,rs,34 Coile
August 24, 2010
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
The Budd Family
August 24, 2010
Dick and Pat Girard send our deepest condolences for the loss of your daughter, no words can really express how you and your family are feeling
August 24, 2010
Chris & Ellen~
We are so heartbroken of the loss of Danni no words can truly express. What a joy it has been to know Danni through ClubRett, she has brought such joy and happiness to all of us. I'm certain Danni never missed her aim when she captured hearts because she sure stole ours. Please know that Danni, you and your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Anita, Jeff, Lauren (15 RS) and Tyler Walker
August 24, 2010
Chris & Ellen,
Our thoughts are with you.
Gary & Heidi Hamer
August 24, 2010
Offering our deepest condolences at this difficult time.
The Entire Staff of Waters Funeral Home
August 24, 2010
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