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Robert Carlson Obituary

NORTHWOOD - Robert M. "Sid" Carlson, of Northwood, N.H., (formerly of Barrington, N.H., Stoneham, Mass., and Woburn, Mass.) passed away peacefully in his sleep on Thursday, August 18, 2016. Beloved husband of Norma (Richardson) for 55 years. Devoted father of Pamela Ganem and her husband, John, of Exeter, N.H., and Gary Carlson and his wife, Judy, of Northwood, N.H. Proud grandfather of Ryan, Justine, Derek, Sean and Jared, and great-grandfather of Mackenzie. Loving uncle, cousin and friend.

Predeceased by his parents, Greta and Albert Carlson, and his seven siblings: Helen, Doris, Edie, Eddie, Eleanor, Donald and Jean.

Known by his many names: Bobby, Robert, Uncle Bobby, Uncle Bob and the Gov, Sid's early career began as a barber in Woburn Square, a Navy reservist and a Stoneham police officer. He then trained at the Massachusetts State Police Academy and earned rank of Sergeant; during his tenure he was special aide to Governor Frank Sargent. After his retirement, he created Carlson Detective Agency and remained an active private detective until his passing.

Above all, he was a devoted and dedicated family man. The youngest of eight, he transmitted his ingrained "children learn what they live" motto to his children, grandchildren, great-grandchild and his extended family of many nieces and nephews. He organized yearly reunions and holiday get-togethers as well as co-hosted with his loving Norma years of Christmas Eve gatherings and summer flockings to Nippo Lake, Barrington.

With Norma and friends, he founded Suburban Special Needs Committee, enlightening children and young adults with developmental delays with yearly "proms" and visits from the likes of "Killer" Kowalski (wrestler) among others, who became endeared friends. He has been a member of the Barrington American Legion and for 26 years proudly carried the American Flag in the color guard in the Barrington Memorial Day Parade. He and Norma have been presiding members over the Barrington Historical Society for over 20 years.

Over the past 12 years he and Norma have wintered in Myrtle Beach, S.C. They became the Activities Coordinators of the Sandcastle South Snowbirds, planning excursions, daily adventures and fostering friendships.

We struggle with the sudden loss of our beloved Husband, Dad, Papa, Sid, Bobby, Robert, Governor. He has touched thousands of hearts with his unselfish, infectious personality, funny poolside pranks, joke gadgets and "when I was with the Governor" stories. We are forever blessed to have crossed his path in this lifetime. You are missed...

SERVICES: Friends and family may call from 4-7 p.m., on Tuesday, Aug. 23, 2016, at Purdy Memorial Chapel, 2 Concord Rd., Rte 4, Lee, N.H., 03861. Funeral service will be held at 10 a.m., on Wednesday, Aug. 24, 2016, at Purdy Memorial Chapel with Rev. Miram Tirabassi, officiating with burial to follow at Pine Grove Cemetery in Northwood, N.H.

To sign our online guestbook, please go to www.purdyfuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Aug. 20 to Aug. 23, 2016.

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JOHN LECCESE

August 14, 2019

"Sid" was a great guy. As a fellow former law enforcement officer and private investigator, we worked together on several cases over the years. I will miss "Sid" as a friend and associate. RIP

Ann Jewell

August 23, 2016

Norma my eyes filled up when I heard of Sid's passing. I know he will be missed by many in many places. I'm glad I touched lives with both of you and praying for God's arms to comfort you. Hugs! Ann (Johnson) Jewell.

August 22, 2016

Dear Gary, Norma, & Pam. Lisa and I are so saddened to learn of Sid's passing. We loved Sid dearly! Since I was 6 years old, I only have the fondest and laugh out loud memories which I'll always cherish. Our thoughts and prayers are with all. Love always Karl & Lisa Touet

Carol Mitchell

August 22, 2016

Dear Norma and Family:

Ralph and I are deeply saddened by your sudden loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all at this difficult time.

Priscilla, June and Bill Kirk

August 22, 2016

Dear Norma and Family, We are so sorry to hear about
Sid. We will truly miss him at all of our gatherings in Myrtle, Beach and the Red Barn. we sure did have great times, (Bingo)..... Our prayers are with you and the family. May he rest in peace. Love

John Leccese

August 21, 2016

My deepest condolences to the Carlson family. I was shocked to hear of Sid's death today after we just recently communicated. He was an old friend and a great guy. Sid will be missed dearly.

August 20, 2016

Dear Norma, Gary and Pam.

There aren't words that we can say to truly make you feel better, but, just remember that you have such wonderful memories that will always be with you and he will always be there as you remember those days. Our love and prayers are always with you. Norma, Anthony, John and Veronica Gianferri.

August 20, 2016

Dear Norma, We are so saddened to hear of your loss.
We will keep you in our prayers and our hearts at this time. With all our love Susan, Gary, and Devon.

August 20, 2016

I am Scotland reading this in disbelief with tears and a very full heart. Heartfelt prayers. Best neighbor along with Norma in the World. I am so sad I didn't get to say Goodbye. Please know I'd be there if I could but won't be home in time.

Nancy Swain

August 20, 2016

Norma and family
The loss of a loved one is one of lifes hardest things.
God blessed you both with a love you shared together
For 55 years. That love you both shared with family and friends.
Sid was one of the most amazing man i have ever met.
He touched my heart in so many ways. I always loved coming home and always being greeted with a big hug and kiss and kniw he was glad to see me. He was so funny and loved all his stories.
He loved my Mom and she would always brighten up to see Sid.
We all will miss him but we all will feel his presence in all the love he gave to life and community.
Norma know you are surrounded by so many people that love you.
Heaven has just received one of god's best. Sid truly was a Angel to many.
We send all our love... And prayers.
Mom and i were so glad we got to see him recently.

Sid and Denise Bowdidge

August 20, 2016

Dear Norma, Pam and Gary. We are so saddened to hear of your loss. Sid was a wonderful guy! I have fond memories of your family, especially when I baby sat for Pam and Gary many years ago. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

August 20, 2016

Norma,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this sad time. We will always remember what a wonderful influence Sid had on all of us in helping you to bring our classmates together and bringing joy and friendship to our group. We will miss him dearly.
Love, Rosalie & Mike

Ron Goulet

August 20, 2016

Dear Norma and family ,our heartfelt condolences go out to all of you, what a great man and person to have known both my wife and I are deeply saddened for your loss, God bless you all.

Noni Sauls

August 20, 2016

Dear Norma, Am so sorry for your loss. Miss you and Sid visiting in Myrtle Beach. Love, Noni

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