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Abigail Lizotte Obituary
Abi was a light of hope to others, and every time you were around her you felt this overwhelming sense of love and inspiration. Deeply intense in a beautiful way, Abi was a writer, an athlete, and an amazing, loving mother to her perfect little human, her baby boy Parker. She loved music. It was a huge part of her life that helped her find her words and express her feelings.
Abi was currently attending SMCC in Portland pursuing a Bachelors degree in Behavioral Science, so she could continue to help more people. She was working at Unified Parking Partner in Portland, where they were promoting her to a management position.
My husband John and I (Tammy), along with her sister Elizabeth Lizotte, and brother Clay Hobbs, will always carry her in our hearts. Abi was predeceased by her sister Whitney Jeanne Lizotte.
Abi was a vibrant, loving, shining beacon of hope to so many. It's now our responsibility to shine for her.
"God, please have your love work through me, into the lives of others" –Abi.
SERVICES: There will be a celebration of Abi's life on Saturday, December 9, 2017, at St. John's United Methodist Church, 28 Cataract Ave., Dover, NH 03820. Doors will be opening at 11 a.m. A service will start promptly at 11:30 a.m. Following the service you are welcome to attend to a time of remembrance and fellowship at SOS Recovery Community Center, 4 Broadway, Dover, NH 03820.
In lieu of flowers, Abi's family asks that you donate to Portland Recovery Community Center, 486 Forest Ave., Portland, ME 04101; to Hope on Haven Hill, 326 Rochester Hill Rd., Rochester, NH 03867; or NAMI of Maine www.namimaine.org. Care for the Lizotte family has been entrusted to the Bernier Funeral Home. Online condolences may be made by visiting www.bernierfuneralhome.net.
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Memories and Condolences
for Abigail Lizotte
Andy Martin
December 22, 2017
I was so sorry to hear about your passing.
You were a bright light that inspired many with your smile and kind way. I enjoyed your openness about your addiction and sharing with me the things that you valued. I wish I could have been there for you at the end.
I would have shared with you all the things that made you special, hopefully discouraging you from straying from the correct path.
I will never fully understand addiction. What makes people choose the path that leads to the end when there is so much to live for.
You were a special person, there is a deep loss suffered by humanity now that you are not around to spread your light. I wish I knew you better, it was a pure joy knowing what I know.
I will miss you. I only desire your family will find peace. They say that time will heal all wounds; I truly hope healing will be swift for them.
Your light was extinguished far to soon, but your spirit and kindness will live on through those that knew you. Rest easy, I hope to see you on the other side.
Lynn
December 13, 2017
Tammy, what a touching tribute! Addiction is truly 'insidious'. My hope is that someone, anyone find this as a wake up call and turn around. My deepest sympathy for your loss. Comfort can be found in the thought at 2Kings 20:5
Sandra Cincotta
December 12, 2017
John & Tammi an all the family.
Prayers an thoughts are with you in this sadden time.
I did not have the honor of knowing Abi but heard of her good work an caring person she is.
She will be forever in your hearts an never forgotten.
She will be watching over all of you an exspecially Parker..
Hugs being sent your way when ever you need them...
AL Mazza
December 11, 2017
There are no words that will heal this pain. We are here for you
Kim Doucette
December 9, 2017
Tammy and John, I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction is a horrible thing for a person/family to go through. I have been going through this for a long time with a family member. It is so heartbreaking to see these young people struggling with this disease. I have only met Abi a couple times when she was younger. What I have read she was quite an inspiration to many. Hold that close to your heart and be proud that you raised a very caring daughter. To care about others as she did and still have to fight her own battle with disease is amazing. My prayers to your family. Love ya!
Recovering Heroin Addict
December 9, 2017
She helped push me to want better for myself and told me there are so many more beautiful doors to open and helped me check my self into rehabilitation to help me pull my self out of the dirt and shine . I was and still am heartbroken to hear the news but her passion to push me has lit a fire in my heart to want to do the same for others . I am so sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers
Deb Houle
December 9, 2017
Dear Tammy and family,
I only knew Abi for a brief part of her life in 2014 but her hope, goodness and love for her family radiated from her. She loved you so much; your faith and hope inspired and helped her to reach out and help others. My heart goes out to you in this time of loss and sorrow.
Paul Norrish
December 9, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 8, 2017
Your brave, loving tribute tells me everything about Abi - she loved and was loved. May you find solace in that.
December 8, 2017
Rest peacefully Abi
December 8, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Rob Watson
December 8, 2017
Fly high sweet Abi
Donna Mcloughlin
December 8, 2017
I did not know Abi personally, but I followed her story and cheered her on. I was so heartbroken to hear of her passing. My thoughts and prayers to Abi's family and friends. May she rest in peace.
Jennifer Decker
December 8, 2017
To all of Abi's friends and family,
Although I did not know Abi well, I know she was incredibly kind and would give all she had if someone needed help. I met Abi while taking the RCA Recovery Coach Academy classes, and we have stayed in touch. When I last saw Abi after she finished treatment, she came running up to me and gave me a huge hug. She was a beautiful lady, and her spirit will live on through her family, through Parker, and through the amazing legacy she left in the recovery comminity. Rest well sweet Abi.
Greg Marley
December 8, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. Know that NAMI Maine is here to help if you need it.
[email protected] Greg
Rena Keays
December 8, 2017
Tammi & John!
Words cannot express the sadness we feel for you! Please know we are always there and we are keeping you and Parker Close in thoughts and prayers. Love you both, Sincerely, Rena & Jim
Karen
December 8, 2017
I'm so incredibly sorry to hear of the loss of this beautiful soul- I've lost my nephew, two other family members, and am very close to losing two other people in my life to this dreadful disease. It seems this thing has a power that very few can overcome- but reading the messages, it shows that she had a strength and determination that impacted the lives of so many others in her shoes, and is an inspiration to many to continue the fight. That alone made her an angel here on Earth long before she truly got her wings. Thoughts and prayers are with you all, and may you have peace in knowing that she's no longer fighting and in pain- she's finally at peace and watching over you all with love and light, now and always.
Michelle, Kenneth, Kelsey, Macey Maple
December 8, 2017
So sorry for your loss.
Jim and Jeanne Moser
December 8, 2017
We unfortunately know that words do not reach the depth of your pain now, and we share that pain. Your vision to "shine" for your daughter is wonderful, and when you are ready to do that, we would be glad to walk beside you. We are all in this together. Best.
Joanne Stikeman
December 8, 2017
I did not know Abi, but I wish to send my sincere condolences to her family and friends. May God provide you with the peace and comfort in knowing she is now, in her peace.
God Bless,
Eileen Shevelin
December 7, 2017
Dear Tammy, As I read Abi's beautiful obituary, I not only felt your pain and your sadness but I also felt your love and your respect. Your words are truly a gift to your sweet angel and to all who struggle with addiction. As you and your family face the days ahead, I pray that you will be able to find a peaceful place filled with happy memories. May the dear Lord bless all of you, and may Abi's peace shine down upon you. With Golden love, Eileen and Brady
Ella Wimett
December 7, 2017
I knew Abi when I was at Green Mountain Treatment Center. She called me litte mama. She convinced me to become a Recovery Coach and I have walking that path. She will always hold my heart. Ilove her dearly. Know she changed lives.
Jessie Hurlbert
December 7, 2017
Abby thank you for being a part of my journey. I can't believe you're gone!
Stacy Goodale
December 7, 2017
Please know that her light will continue to shine forever. sending prayers and love ..
Hazel Raynes
December 7, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Yes this is a very cunning disease! May God be with you at this very sad time!
PETE GENDREAU
December 7, 2017
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.. STAY STRONG
December 7, 2017
May the love of friends and family wrap around you and bring you comfort and strength. My deepest sympathies.
Mary B
December 7, 2017
I'm very sorry for the loss of Abigail love and light! <3
Rene Hokinson
December 7, 2017
John and Tammi, My heart breaks for you both. I hope all the good memories help during this devastating time. RIP Abi
Cheryl Moore
December 7, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Rest in peace Abi.
carol battersby
December 7, 2017
I didn't personally know Abigail but i have known so many Abigail's and pray she is at peace now...Even though she is gone physically she is certainly in the hearts of people she met on this journey and the hearts of people who go through this horrific disease.Thank you for being supportive of your lovely daughter and never giving up hope, that's what loving parents do. As your Daughter was a power of example to so many so were her Mom and Dad. Rest in peace Abi♥
Lauren Sullivan
December 7, 2017
I am so sadden to her of Abi's passing. She was one of my favorite students. My heart goes out to her family.
December 7, 2017
Sorry for your loss. RIP Abi
Dennis Drake
December 7, 2017
I didn't know Abi but I like to extend my condolences to her family and friends. She served a purpose that many will benefit from...she won't be forgotten.
Arlene Bean
December 7, 2017
Tammi and John: I am so saddened for your loss of Abi.
Bill Gagnon
December 7, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to your family.
Robin Sarkisian
December 7, 2017
Abi, is a beautiful soul, full of love, laughter, light and hope. Her presence will be sorrowfully missed by all that knew her. My prayers are with your family now and always.
Love you Abi, missing our rides, music, and your strawberry milk.
A Recovery Warrior
December 6, 2017
For Abi, for her son, her parents, the rest of her family and friends we will continue to fight this fight and we won't rest until they're all free from this wretched disease that takes beautiful, sensitive souls way too soon. ❤
Patty Vallee
December 6, 2017
I was so sorry to hear this sad news. My heart goes out to your family.
David Rousseau
December 6, 2017
I am heartbroken for your family. I'm a father to a addict and I know much of the pain you have gone through. God bless your family and may Abigail Rest In Peace.
December 6, 2017
RIP...Another beautiful soul gone way too soon...
With deepest sympathy, remember the good memories.
Niki
December 6, 2017
I am truly sorry for your loss. I lived with Abi for a short time and she was an amazing person. She was a big part of the recovery community and will be greatly missed. Be free Angel ♡
Mike Page
December 6, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you all for healing, Peace and, comfort. My Abi soar with the angels, pain free...Rest In Peace precious girl...
Jake and Laurie Rodden
December 6, 2017
John Tami and family. We are so sad to hear this news it is truly heartbreaking. I hope in this time of sadness, friends family and memories will help you grieve. Our deepest sympathies.
JEAN BIRON
December 6, 2017
You have my sincere condolences. This drug epidemic has touch all our lives. I will pray for Abigail's family and her real friends to find peace.
Julia Gobbi
December 6, 2017
I did not know Abi but as a student at SMCC, my heart aches for her family. My thoughts and prayers are with them. Fly high Abi!
December 6, 2017
I do not know you, but my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Peace be with you. So sorry for your loss....
Debbie Gilmore
December 6, 2017
Dear Tammy & family. I am so saddened by the loss of your daughter Abi. She was such an inspiration to others. May her legacy live on and help others who are dealing with addiction. Sincerely, Debbie Gilmore
SMCC student
December 6, 2017
I'm so sorry you lost your beautiful girl.
Suzanne McCutcheon
December 6, 2017
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Abi but I know just from the people who did know her, that she is a beautiful person, inside and out...my heart breaks for her and for you...she is in a much better place, in the arms of God and I hope that someday, you can find some comfort in that.. Fly High, Abi, with the angels <3
Theodore Lakeman
December 6, 2017
On behalf of my partners at Unified Parking Partners, I extend my deepest condolences. We were extremely lucky to have had Abi as an employee. She was an absolute joy for her co-workers and all of our clients. We are deeply saddened. Thoughts are with her family.
David Lane
December 6, 2017
Wow! I'm just a student at SMCC, but this is so very sad my hearts breaks for you all. I didn't know you and I'm sitting here crying. Say hi to all my friends, some good people where you are. May God bless Parker and all her family and friends.
Jenn& Kevin Mort
December 6, 2017
Tammy and John, we are so incredibly saddened and so sorry for your loss. Although we had lost touch over the years, weve often thought of all of you. We cant even begin to image the pain and heartbreak you are going through. During the years we knew her, Abi was always smiling and full of life! Iill never forget the fun time we had when she joined us on our trip to Six Flags in new Jersey for Kathryns cheer competition. I think her suitcase was twice as big as her. Please know we are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May the cherished memories you have of your time with Abi provide you comfort.
Elaine Fermanis
December 6, 2017
Tammy and family,
So sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Gayle Sullivan
December 6, 2017
My heart is broken for you all and especially Abi. There just are no other words besides how sorry I am that you are going through this unimaginable ordeal. I love you guys.
Helene Plourde
December 6, 2017
Although I did not know your daughter, I too have family dealing with addiction. Every day I pray they will be able to overcome this disease. Please accept my deepest condolences on Abi's passing. She knew you loved her and were there to support her. May she rest in peace.
Mary Hilton
December 6, 2017
Abi was an amazing person she has always been there for my grandson Dominick she was a loving aunt to him . I always told her to keep talking that people exspecialy the young ones she came in contact with were listening. She was there voice . My thoughts and prayers are with her family and Parker I'm sure the lord has a special task for her . RIP Abi sorry for your loss .
Gregory Ball
December 6, 2017
To John and Tammy
This comes with great sadness that I am writing this to the both of you.God has taken a very special young lady in life early but as you know he has a plan for all of us.May he watch over the both of you and you draw your strength from your family and friends.May she rest in peace.
Sincerely Greg Ball
Cassie and Chris Riel
December 6, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Prayers and love sent to you and your family at this horrific time and my family and I pray that the love of Christ wraps his arms around Parker and provides great comfort at such a confusing time for a little to go through
Meg Silva Sa
December 6, 2017
I'm so sorry for your loss! Abi will forever be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I too have lost 2 family members to this terrible disease and know the struggle. May God Bless you and help you through this terrible time.
Meg Silva Sa
Victoria Paolisso
December 6, 2017
RIP Abi
Wanda Dumont
December 6, 2017
So sorry for you loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray God gives you the strength you need. May she rest in peace and comfort.
Cindy Hennelly
December 6, 2017
Abi!! My heart hurts. You have touched a lot of hearts I will always cherish our times together it still doesn't feel real. Say hi to Whitney and Billy for me. I love you more
Michelle
December 6, 2017
My condolences to your family. Abi was a great inspiration and through her stories, gave me hope for my own child who battles addiction. May God bless Abi and let her continue to guide us.
Katie
December 6, 2017
So shocked to read this today. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Deb Pouliot
December 5, 2017
My heart is stunned and saddened by this news. This disease has taken another close to us last month. Tammy, and to your family, I am sending you my deep condolences along with prayers of courage, strength and love.
Tabetha White
December 5, 2017
Awwww Abi. I'm so sorry. This was not supposed to be your outcome. You fought so damn hard. I'm so sad. You touched me and many others. I'm keeping your family and your little human Parker in my prayers. May your mom and dad find peace during this difficult time. I know your now right next to Whitney catching up on the years that have flown by. I'll hold both of you close to my heart forever. Rest easy girly
Britney Maloney
December 5, 2017
Dear family of Abi, thank you for bringing such a beautiful human being into this world. Abi spoke so highly of you and all you have done to help her. She loved you all so deeply. Your daughter came into my life of recovery and gave me so much more hope. She touched my life in a way I can't really put into words. Although I was already sober, working a program, her life/passing has given me a great deal of inspiration to continue doing this for not only myself but for her. Because that's what she would want. For everyone to be happy and find recovery. I will continue to pray for you and feel the deepest sympathy for the pain you are going through. Please remember that you are amazing parents and she would run out of breaths telling me so. Xoxo my heart is with you all.
Nicole Santos
December 5, 2017
I just knew Abi from working at hope on haven hill when they first opened. She was such a bright light and inspiration to myself and others. I did not know her well but am still grieving her loss. My heart goes out to her parents, beautiful son Parker and all of her friends and family.
Maura Sullivan
December 5, 2017
To all that Abi has touched and, there are many, I am so very sorry that this terrible disease has taken her. My heart goes out to all of you. I used to babysit Abi and Whitney with Melanie when they were little. It saddens me that her powerful voice will no longer be here to guide and inspire.
May you rest in peace Abi, and be proud of the legacy of love, hope, and courage you've left behind.
Hope Rogers
December 5, 2017
Even though I do not know you, ( I know what pain you are in, I too, lost my dear boy in October to this same thing,,, ) I am so sorry and will hold you in prayers and love, there are no words to offer, just love and light, Hope Rogers
Bonnie Togliatti
December 5, 2017
Dear Tammy and John. My heart is full of sadness for both of you. I will always remember our AB'S. Mine going over to your house and yours to ours. Basketball practice and many more memories. Please know your have been in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to always
Vic and Bonnie Togliatti
Richard Horne
December 5, 2017
So sorry for your loss. May god comfort you and your family! May Aby R.I.P.
The Brogan's
December 5, 2017
Rest easy pretty girl your baby boy and family are in our prayers
Melinda Dube
December 5, 2017
Dear sweet Abagail. I know we didnt know eachother but my sister Melissa Dube knew you and i know ahes hurting from your loss right now as well as all the other special people in your life. Happy Holidays Abagail in heaven i bet its beautidul. To the family my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and through the holiday season. Theres alot of sad people out there right now but just know GODS watching and listening. Merry Christmas from my family to yours.
Erin Canterbury
December 5, 2017
Abi, there is no way to express how sad I am. I love you so much and miss you. You accomplished so much in your short life and left an impact on so many. Your name will continue to do so. I'm forever grateful to have known you and gotten so close to you. You are an inspiration. That will never change. Until we meet again. ❤
Susan Jasneski
December 5, 2017
I still don't feel like this is real. I'm sure Saturday will bring overwhelming emotions . My heart is broken and I cannot help to think of Parker right now. I love u always Abi. May u be at peace at last.
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