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Shepley Ross Obituary

BARRINGTON - Shepley L. Ross, 87, of Barrington, died Monday, October 12, 2015. He was the only child of his dear parents, the late Owen and Ara (Thing) Ross of North Shapleigh, Maine.

He graduated from Boston University with A.B., A.M., and Ph.D. degrees. He received his doctorate in mathematics in 1953.

He was the husband of Virginia Rivinius, and they were married in Cambridge, Mass., in August 1954. They celebrated 60 years of marriage prior to her passing in 2014.

Mr. Ross taught mathematics at Boston University and Northeastern University before coming to the University of New Hampshire, where he taught from 1955 until he retired in 1989. He was the author of the textbooks "Differential Equations", and a shorter version, "Introduction to Ordinary Differential Equations". They were among the better-selling texts in their field for many years.

Mr. Ross was an avid collector of generally useless "stuff", and his hobbies were collecting, music, gardening, and travel. He and his wife visited 49 states, most Canadian provinces, and over 25 countries in Europe, Central America and the Caribbean Islands. Their travels included many national parks and cities, including Moscow and St. Petersburg, Russia.

Mr. Ross was a Christian believer and attended Durham Evangelical Church.

Mr. Ross was predeceased by his wife, Virginia, and their son William, both of whom he loved dearly. He is survived by son Shepley L. Ross, II, known as "Chip", and Chip's wife Karen, of Auburn, Maine; daughter Judith Frase and her husband Stephen of Strafford; daughter Karen Harton and her husband Thomas of Barnstead; and Gwen Ross of Rochester. He loved all of them. He also leaves his grandchildren Trisha Anderson, Bethany Ross, Katie Freeze, Michael Frase, Nicole Harton, Sarah Ebner, Peter Frase, April LaRoche, Joshua Frase, Corey Ross, Stevie Frase, and great grandchildren Aria Anderson and Marvel LaRoche. He loved them too. He is also survived by his brother-in-law Richard Rivinius and his wife June of North Carolina, his sister-in-law Shirley Rivinius of California, a number of nieces, nephews and cousins and a few special friends.

SERVICES: At Mr. Ross' specific request, there will be no public services, services of remembrance, or flowers. A very short family-only graveside service will be held at a later date. He requested that any remembrance donations be made to Durham Evangelical Church for Christian missionary work. To sign our online guestbook, please go to www.purdyfuneralservice.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Oct. 15 to Oct. 18, 2015.

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Jim Haley

October 24, 2015

Mr Ross's son Bill and I were friends in the same grade at Barrington Elementary. We were 9 yrs old and Mr Ross was driving us home from roller skating at the Humoresque in Rochester (there's a throwback). He was always trying to engage us with his sharp mind, prodding, quizzing, and was asking us who was the greatest pianist that ever lived; Beethoven, Chopin, Bach. I really didn't know them so I just said the one I saw on TV the night before - "Liberace". He laughed so hard I thought he was going to swerve off the road. My condolences to the whole Ross family. Fifty years later I remember professor Ross and his keen mind well.

Karen Harton

October 23, 2015

The Ross family thank you for your memories and kind words my parents were amazing...

Clinton Dodge

October 20, 2015

Shep was "one of a kind". He was interesting, funny and intelligent. He added flavor to this life. His eternal life has been secured. Sandy and I will always remember him.
Love to all his family,
Clint and Sandy

libby lanoie

October 18, 2015

Karen and family, Though it's been many years since we worked together at RRH, I remember our conversations about your parents. It sounds as if they enjoyed their lives together. It is so hard to let them go! You are in my thoughts. Fondly, Libby Lanoie

Richie & Andrea Silva

October 18, 2015

To Shep's family,
Richie and I always enjoyed seeing Shep and Virgina cruzing past our home in his sporty convertable going to their lake camp. Didn't he love his convertable cars. We enjoyed our summer visits and lovely conversations. Often catching up on children and grandchildren, they were so proud of them. We miss Virgina and now Shep too. How time passes so fast.
Our sincere sympathy. Gods Blessings to all.

marilyn penney

October 18, 2015

He was more worried about you then him self. He well be greatly missed Marilyn

Bill Taylor

October 18, 2015

In 1969 Dr.Ross came to the Barrington school to teach a handful of us 8th graders advanced algebra.I never realized the opportunity we were given.To us he was just Chip's dad.Maybe the most important thing he taught us was to"smoke"a stick of chaulk,not cigarettes.

Marie Gaudard

October 16, 2015

We are so sorry to hear this news. Shep was one of my all-time favorite people. In my early years at UNH, he took me for a ride down Route 4 in his Triumph, driving in the breakdown lane the entire time! We would have long chats, and believe me, they were entertaining. I loved Shep's down-east accent.

Once we moved to Florida, we thoroughly enjoyed Shep's and Virginia's company on their annual Florida visits. They were so proud of their children and grand-children. We miss them both and will never forget them. They both live on in our hearts.

Marie (and Don)

Mary Henderson

October 16, 2015

Judy and family;
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. He was a very special person and I am fortunte to have had the chance to meet him.

John Svenson

October 15, 2015

So very sorry. My thoughts are with all of the Ross family. God bless all of you.

Samuel Ellis

October 15, 2015

As a neighbor I enjoyed many conversations with Mr Ross as he took his daily walks and on occasion we would run into each other at the market or at Wendy's. A very nice man and I will miss him.

Karen Graham

October 15, 2015

My sincere sympathies. He was a valued colleague and mentor during my time as a faculty member at UNH.

Thomas Harton

October 15, 2015

You were a great man and will be missed by many . I'm glad I was able to marry into your family and share many fond memories with you all . I'm glad you let a guy you "hardly knew " marry your daughter. I hope that you think it was a good choice . Say hi to Virg and Bill for us and tell them not a day goes by without us thinking of them . "Mr. Harton"

October 15, 2015

Our sincere condolences.

The Homemakers Health Services

October 15, 2015

We will always have fond memories of our dear neighbor, Mr. Ross. We will miss seeing him on his daily walks and stories he so kindly shared. Sincere condolences to his family and friends.

The Ashe Family

Rick Walker

October 15, 2015

To the family of Mr. Ross
I miss his nearly daily walks around the Public Safety building with his trusty walking stick, If the doors were open he would stop by and chat for a few minutes or a quick wave and continue on. My condolences to each of you on his passing and may the good Lord hold each of you in his loving arms during this most difficult time. RIP Mr. Ross.

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