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Marion Scala Obituary

ROCHESTER – Marion Witham Scala, 82, of Rochester passed away on Saturday, February 6, 2016, with her family by her side after a four-year battle with multiple myeloma. Born in Lebanon, Maine, Marion was the daughter of the late Clarence and Juliette "Gagne" Witham. Marion grew up in Rochester and attended Spaulding High School, graduating in 1951.

While attending Spaulding she met her future husband John "Pete" Scala. They shared 62 years of marriage. They enjoyed dancing and dining out and made it a priority to attend their children and grandchildren's activities over the years.

She was a parishioner at Saint Mary's Church. Throughout the years, Marion was actively involved in many clubs including sport's boosters, Rochester Lion's Club, and, up until she fell ill, held chair position at Tara Estates. She retired in 1994 from Eastern Air Device.

Her greatest joy was spending time with family. Other joys included Italian cooking, knitting (with perfection), and shopping. Her crowded closets are evidence of her love of shopping.

In addition to her husband, she is survived by her daughter Susan Howard of Rochester, son Peter Scala and wife Emma of New Durham, and son John Scala Jr. and wife Kerry of Rochester. Eight grandchildren; Brian Gregoire, Jeff Gilpatrick, Chris, Shane and Jill Howard, Kasey Frisbee, Jaimee Scala, and Dominic Scala. She was known as Gigi to her six great grandchildren Hannah, Alaura, Blake, Colin, Ronan, and Dylan. She is also survived by her sister Thelma Coggio and husband Charlie of Lynn, Mass., and several loving nieces and nephews.

Marion was predeceased by her parents, Sister Dorothy and her husband Cy Hagerman, her daughter Donna Scala, grandson Tony Gregoire, and granddaughter Ashley Scala.

SERVICES: Calling hours will be held Friday, February 12, 2016, at 9:30 a.m., at St. Mary's Church in Rochester, N.H. A Funeral Mass will follow at the church at 11 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, those who wish to make a memorial contribution may send a gift to the Cornerstone VNA Home Health Hospice, 178 Farmington Rd., Rochester, N.H., 03867.

Arrangements are under the care of the R.M. Edgerly & Son Funeral Home, 86 South Main St, Rochester N.H., 03867. To sign an online guest book please visit us at www.edgerlyfh.com or find us on Facebook.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Feb. 9 to Feb. 12, 2016.

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Dan Valliere

February 9, 2016

To Pete and Family, I am saddened at the news of Marion's passing
My sincere condolences to the entire family, Dan

brian monnat

February 23, 2016

Pete ,
my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family . I know its been some time with Marion in the decline in health .She is now in a better place and now hopefully watching you and your family in their years to come .If there is anything we can do for you please call .

Dick Barisano

February 14, 2016

Pete, our prayers are with you. The Barisano family has many found memories of the Scala family.
Dick & Marie Barisano, N. Woodstock, NH

Hap and Gail Barisano

February 14, 2016

Pete--we all had some great times together. Corn eating contests and swimming/skiing at the lake. Our prayers are with you and for Marion.

Bill Gilmore

February 14, 2016

To the Scala Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Paula Baker Gilmore

February 14, 2016

Sue,
Sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom.
Thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Lorraine Brennan

February 13, 2016

Pete--My deepest sympathy to
you and your family. May God
give you the strength to take
care of yourself now. She was
always well cared for by you.
Rest in peace.

Jakki and Steve Goodell

February 12, 2016

Our deepest sympathy and love to you all.

Kim & Robert Perkins

February 11, 2016

Our sincere condolences to the Scala and Howard families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

February 11, 2016

Pete and family, We are so sorry to hear about Marion's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.

With Sincere sympathy,
Mike & Marcy Donlon

February 11, 2016

Dear Pete,

I have very fond memories of you and Marion living in Rochester. In fact, with Marion's help, I designed the addition to your home on Rochester Hill. I believe this was back in the 1960s.

Pete, i also have memories of you racing to the goal line to score 6 points for the Spaulding High football team. However, much to the disappointment of the fans and of course you, your knee buckled on the 20 yard line and you were carried off the field.

My sincere condolences to you and your family with Marion's loss.

Bob Scagliotti
Zephyr Cove Nevada
[email protected]

Cornerstone VNA

February 11, 2016

To the family and friends of Marion Scala:

All of us at Cornerstone VNA wish to express our deepest condolences upon the loss of Marion. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family and friends at this sad time. Please know that we are always here for you if you should ever need us.

February 11, 2016

my prayers are with you at this time
Betty Ciaramitaro

Carl & Elaine Hamilton

February 10, 2016

Dear Pete,Sue, and Jill,
So very sorry to learn of your great loss. You have a beautiful family and Marion left a wonderful legacy. Please let all of your happy memories help you through this time of sadness. God bless you all.

Joe & Anita Mailloux

February 10, 2016

Dear Pete and Family, we send our heartfelt sympathy and love across the miles. Take good care and may the love of family and friends get all of you through this difficult time. Marion will be remembered as beautiful woman and dear friend. Sincerely, Joe & Anita

Michael McKenna

February 10, 2016

Sue sorry to hear of your Moms passing. lots of love to you and your family.

Tina Viel

February 10, 2016

Dear Sue,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. May all your memories be a source of comfort to you during this difficult time. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Marsh

February 10, 2016

I was sorry to hear about Mrs .Scalas passing. What she and her family did for the city of Rochester is amazing .Working hard in the food service business .Very nice family.

February 10, 2016

My sincere condolences and prayers at this most difficult time. Dot Descoteaux

Dale & Andrea Bickford

February 9, 2016

Pete, Pete, Sue...
Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Lisa Laughton

February 9, 2016

Sue,
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mothers passing. My thoughts and prayers to you and your during this difficult time. May she rest in peace.

February 9, 2016

Sue, I'm so sorry about your Mom's passing. You're in my thoughts XO
Donna Davis Keelty

Gary Garvin

February 9, 2016

Hi Pete. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

Tim Ellis

February 9, 2016

Pete & Family
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss , she was a super nice lady who will be missed by all my thoughts and prayers are will all of you during this hard time.

Nancy(Charlie) Gerrish

February 9, 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss. May God's love care for you and your family

Jackke (Keating) Callan

February 9, 2016

Pete and family,
Thinking of you at this sad time.
Sending sincere sympathy.

Jeff&Betty Nadeau

February 9, 2016

Pete and the Scala family, sorry to hear of the loss of your Wife and Mother, I didn't know her ,but worked your Dad and brother Pete in G.E.May she rest in peace and may you all find comfort knowing she is in Heaven watching over you.

Mary Barney

February 9, 2016

To Pete and Family: So sorry to hear of Marions passing. She was a very good neighbor and friend to me. We served on the council together, and she was very dedicated to Tara. She will be missed by everyone. Blessings to the family Mary Barney

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