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John Cook Obituary

John C Cook IV
John Cartwright Cook IV died Tuesday, April 25th at Stamford Hospital at the age of 81. He was diagnosed with brain cancer in December 2016 and fought the disease the way he lived - competitively and with every cell in his body. Born in New York City on July 23, 1935, he grew up in Bronxville, New York and attended Roosevelt High School. He graduated from the Georgia Institute of Technology in Atlanta, Georgia. He fulfilled his dream of flying, and was an airline pilot for more than four decades. As a Lieutenant and Naval Aviator in the United States Navy, he was designated Patrol Plane Commander in the P2V model aircraft. He subsequently flew for Pan Am for 25 years and Delta Airlines until his retirement in 1998.
John lived life fully and had many avid interests. He put his whole self into everything he did: skiing, tennis, running, speed skating, photography, astronomy, and competitive sailing, including the Newport to Bermuda race in 1982. Triathlons were his greatest passion/obsession for over twenty years. He competed in races all over the world and was a member of the USA Triathlon team. In 2011, he won the World Championship in Beijing. In 2015, he received the USA Triathlon All American Award. He completed nine Ironman races, including seven in Kailua-Kona, Hawaii. He completed his most recent triathlon this past September in Malibu at the age of 81, just prior to being diagnosed with glioblastoma. He has donated his brain to science through Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in order to help further the understanding of this devastating disease.
Ironman John Cook is survived by a large and loving family, including his wife, Jennifer "Kiki" Cook; children Karin Cook, Jennifer Polk, Courtney Flynn, John "Hatch" Cook, and William Cook; and his grandchildren Lucian, Georgia, June, Asher, Billy, Jameson, and Kayla; and his sister Sara Meehan. He was predeceased by his first wife Joan Barrett Cook and his brother E. Thomas Cook. He leaves behind a legacy of lasting friendships forged through a vibrant and varied community of life enthusiasts.
There will be a service on Saturday, May 6, 2017, 10:30am at St. John's Episcopal Church at 628 Main Street in Stamford. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to one of the following charities close to his heart: Save the Children, Kids in Crisis, Palliative Care Center of New York and Connecticut and St. John's Episcopal Church. Arrangements under the direction of Thomas M Gallagher Funeral Home, Stamford. To send on-line condolences to the family, please visit www.gallagherfuneralhome.com

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Published by Stamford Advocate & Greenwich Time on Apr. 28, 2017.

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Richard Hohlowski

May 5, 2017

Dear Kiki and family. We were so saddened by John's death. He was a good friend and fellow Pan American sole mate. Now he has earned another pair of wings and will watch over his beautiful family from above. John, may your journey West have fair winds and following seas. Love and prayers Dick and Barbara Hohlowski

Laurie Brannigan

May 5, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. John loved you all and he will be missed, but he lives on in your beautiful family.

Terry Lohmeyer

May 4, 2017

In the circle of life, John left behind a great legacy in his children and grandchildren. I had the pleasure of knowing him as a parent of my students and as someone i admired. Kiki and family, I'm so sorry for you loss and wish you happy memories.

Frank Schageman

May 2, 2017

Tom, Gianina, and entire Cook family, Justine and I were sorry to hear this news. The obituary was a great tribute to Uncle John. I will always have a fond memory of meeting Uncle John for the first time at the 2003 Ironman world championships in Kona while we cheered Tom on to his first Kona finish. God bless, Frank Schageman (lifetime friend of John's nephew, Tom Cook)

Ann Garrett

May 2, 2017

Dear Kiki, Hatch and family we are so sorry for your loss. The wonderful memories of John will be with your family forever.
Ann and Hal Garrett

Ann Barnett

May 1, 2017

Dear Kiki and family, What a lovely tribute to John's life! I am thinking of all of you and am hoping that your many happy memories help, in a small way, to ease the grief... lots of love, Ann

First Name. Merry aka Bunny Last Name Flaherty

April 30, 2017

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John and Kiki always walked throughout the Southfield Point streets with their beloved d
Dog each morning and will be greatly missed. RIP
MERRY STRADA FLAHRRTY

Mr. & Mrs. Jean Daniel;

April 30, 2017

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Ken Pfrang

April 30, 2017

Enjoyed flying with John many times at both Pan Am and Delta. Just a very nice guy with whom to spend those many hours. Very sorry to hear of his passing. Condolences to his family.

David Yockelson

April 29, 2017

To John's family I send sincere condolences on your loss and that of the community. John always had a smile (and a camera) and a kind words, and he was the most modest of world class athletes I've met. Each time he'd apologetically talk about winning his age group at a race because he was the only one in it drew a smile and a sarcastic laugh - he was all business competing, but he seemed to love what he did and those he did it with.

Alphonso

April 29, 2017

To the family of John C. Cook IV., I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you will miss him dearly. Please find comfort in knowing one day we will see our loved ones again. John 6:40. Matthew 5:5.

Dennis Panzer

April 29, 2017

Truly a super gent. We traveled parallel careers in aviation. Being from Yonkers, I worked in Bronxville in my early years. I wish that i knew john back then. Fair winds, John and the blue side up forever. RIP

Sue Saba

April 29, 2017

Dear Kiki and family, I am truly sorry to about your loss. John was a great person. I have great memories of my time working with him.

Laurie and Bob Dolian

April 28, 2017

Dear Kiki and Family,
We were saddened to read about John's passing. I have vivid memories of him attending all the events at Newfield Swim Club and his love for his family. Thinking of all of you at this time.

Reed Collyer

April 28, 2017

Incredibly saddened to hear of John's passing. His smile had a way of lighting the room and making you feel comfortable at the same time and his competitive spirit was infectious. We hope that he is up swimming, running and cycling the stars.

Sara Meehan

April 28, 2017

Dear Brother ; My heart is heavy now. I looked up to you all my life. I will miss you. You were always there for me and my daughter, Meghan. I look forward to seeing you and our brother Tommy one day. Rest in peace dear brother.

Betsy Finley

April 28, 2017

Bruce and I are so sad to hear about the passing of sweet John. His vivacious spirit and generous soul will continne to inspire us. We were lucky to have known him and his wonderful family. With love Bruce and Betsy Finley

April 28, 2017

A life well lived... love to you all, Melinda and family

Toni Kokoros

April 28, 2017

Will and family,
What an extraordinary man your father was.
My deepest condolences to you. May he RIP

Mike Tamborrino

April 28, 2017

So sad to read in today's Stamford Advocate that John passed away! I knew him from the local racing scene. My condolences to the family :(

April 28, 2017

Thank you for serving our country.
A grateful American

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