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Daniel A. VECE Jr.

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Daniel VECE Obituary

VECE, Daniel A. Daniel A. Vece, Jr. entered into eternal rest on April 16th 2011- with his family by his side on the property he was born on. He was 86. Dan was predeceased by the love of his life and devoted wife of 47 years, Isabel; grandson Daniel Benjamin; and parents Clotilda and Dan Sr, longtime residents of Clinton. Dan leaves behind a brother, Gerald "Bud" Vece and wife Carol; three children: Tom Vece and wife Theresa, Marsha Vece, and Nancy Shuss and husband Chuck; two grandchildren Ashlee Fox, Garrett Fox and wife Abbie; and great-grandson, Ryker Fox. Dan also leaves behind several nieces and nephews as well as his longtime companion Dibirma Burnham. In 1943, Dan proudly joined the Marine Corps as a senior in high school. Two years later, he was sent to fight at Iwo Jima --an event he spent the rest of his life honoring, most noticeably originating Clinton's Memorial Day Parade and acting as its parade marshal for 40 years. After the war, Dan returned home to work for his father at Shoreline Plumbing. When his brother Bud returned from Korea the two opened a local business--Shore Television and Appliance, still in operation today. Dan served eight years on the Clinton Board of Selectman and three terms as First Selectman from 1972 to 1978, where he lead the construction of Library Lane and revitalization efforts of the downtown. He worked at the State Economic Development Agency for three governors, first for Ella Grasso in 1980, retiring as Sr. Developer in 1992. Dan was a lifetime member of the Clinton Volunteer Fire Department, serving as Assistant Chief for 20 years and Chief for 10 years. Today, the department's Firefighter of the Year Award bears his name. This summer Dan was looking forward to participating in its 100th anniversary celebration as its honorary chairman. Dan also volunteered his time for the Clinton Police Commission, Council of Small Towns, Park and Recreation Commission, Clinton Historical Society, VFW Post #9918, and American Legion Post #66, serving as Commander. He co-chaired Clinton's bicentennial celebration in 1976 and its tercentenary celebration in 1963. As head of the Valley Shore Mutual Aid Association he implemented the Valley Shore 9-1-1 Emergency System in place today. Dan was also a parishioner of the St. Mary's Church of Clinton and President of the Iwo Jima Memorial Association. Dan loved serving his town and did so unselfishly and often anonymously. He was humbled to receive of the Distinguished Citizen Award, Chamber of Commerce Man of the Year and Clinton Spirit awards, and public service awards from the Rotary Club, Lions Club, Republican Town Committee, Democratic Town Committee, Junior Women's' Club, The Morgan School, American Legion and the Connecticut State General Assembly. In 2009, Dan was one of eleven individuals to be inducted to Connecticut Veteran's Hall of Fame, a recognition that held a special place in his heart. "I am honored to be in such distinguished company," he said. Family and friends may visit the Swan Funeral Home, 80E Main St. Clinton, Monday April 25, from 2 p.m. to 8 p.m. A mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday April 26, at 11 a.m. at St. Mary of the Visitation, Grove St. Clinton. Interment will follow at Beaverbrook Cemetery with full Military Honors. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Clinton Vol. Fire Dept. or Iwo Jima Survivors Association. Services will be held at Swan Funeral Home in Clinton. Please visit www.swanfhclinton.com for tributes and condolences.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 19, 2011.

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Mary Tesoro

August 29, 2011

Dear Tom Marcia and Nancy, I'm so sad to find out that your father has passed. I saw it on internet as I was googling Clinton to be sure you were all ok/safe from hurrican Irene. Coincidentally, my mother (Irene) died 3 weeks prior, and her Brooklyn sister Bertha passed 2 weeks after your dad. Please accept my condolences My heart goes out to all of you. I really liked your dad - my Uncle Dan. With love, Mary Tesoro ([email protected])

C Tronnes

August 14, 2011

I just saw mr vece on a program on the history channel. I googled him and was sad to see he has passed
away. I am in California. He sounds like a wonderful man

Liz Devine

April 29, 2011

To the Vece Family:

The students at Hall High School mourn the loss of Daniel Vece. He visited our school for several years and each time he spoke with compassion, humor and clarity. He and his fellow Iwo Jima survivors taught my students a lot about service to our country. I am so grateful to have known him. I will keep his and other survivor stories alive in my history class. Know that he will be missed...we are thinking of you.

Betty Irwin Guidone

April 27, 2011

Tom,Marcia and Nancy so sad to read of your dad's passing.Your parents were great people.My prayers for all your family

FRANCINE SPERRE

April 26, 2011

TO THE ENTIRE VECE FAMILY, MY DAD NORMAN SPERRE WAS AN IWO JIMA SURVIVOR WHO PASSED AWAY SEVERAL YRS AGO. HE WAS A NEIGHBOR OF DAN.MY DAD ALWAYS SPOKE OF THE GROVE BEACH CASINNO, THE JUG INN,AND BILLS SEAFOOD WHERE THERE WAS SOME GOOD ENTERTAINMENT.I CAN RECALL SEEING VINEBERGS YACHT- FOOTLOOSE 1 AND 2 OUT ON OUR SHORELINE.ANOTHER ICON HAS PASSED,AND WE WILL MISS HIM.HE WAS AMONG THOSE THAT CONTRIBUTED SO MUCH TO CLINTON.MAY YOU FIND COMFORT IN THE MEMORIES, AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER IN YOUR TIME OF GRIEF.WITH SINCERE SYMPATHY, FRANCINE SPERRE.

Robin Pulaski

April 26, 2011

Mr. Vece will be dearly missed by all. It is so hard to believe, when you think of Clinton you always think about the Vece family. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family. God Bless You.

Chet Camarata

April 25, 2011

I had the honor of knowing Dan Vece, both as a colleague at the Department of Economic Development and as a good friend who’s door was always open . He was a respected professional in his work and a devoted family man . He always gave 100 percent and never asked for anything in return. His dedicated service to our Country and the Town should not be forgotten.
A truly special person has passed on.

April 25, 2011

A fire chief who taught me much.Dedication, hardwork, willingness to help all. He will be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure to know him.

Past Chief Bob Andrew
Guilford Fire Department

Iwo Jima HERO!

Rev. Lin McGee

April 25, 2011

Dear Family of Mr. Vece,
With honor and respect I send love and prayers to you. Your loved one was a hero to us all in so many ways. We will never forget him and all he has done for his country, his Corps, and each person that crossed his path in life. THANK YOU for sharing him with us!!

Rev. Lin McGee
National Chaplain, Blue Star Mothers of America
President, Connecticut Blue Star Mothers
Wife of Rev. David McGee, Chaplain for Iwo Jima Survivors
Mother of SSGT Daniel W. Matthews and CSM JamesPeter M. Matthews

If we can help in any way, please let us know.

Ooo RAH!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2Ym1rmWr3s

Bruce Swan

April 25, 2011

My very best to the whole family - The town of Clinton was a better place because of Dan Vece Jr.

April 25, 2011

The Vece Family;
During this Holly season of Easter god has called one of his special servants. I worked with Dan at the State Departmrnt of Commerce. His energy and devotion to his job and the people he serves was an insperation to everyone around him. He loved the Town of Clinton, The fire Department and his love for his Country. May he rest in peace. His spirit and leadership has impacted anyone who had the benefit of his company.
With respect and honor to a very good person.
Peter F. Burns

Lou Bougie

April 24, 2011

As I climb the stairs at the HCH Library and see the osprey above , I remember the day Dan called about an osprey lying in his yard. She had broken her neck while flying into a wire. I decided that it could be useful as an example for teaching and learning about this beautiful bird. I took it home and put it in our basement freezer and started the state and federal paperwork necessary for having her stuffed and mounted for public viewing. It took awhile but Arabella perches contentedly and visitors can get close to this bird. Dan, thanks for the call

stanley sokolowski

April 24, 2011

Tom, Marsha and Nancy

Your dad and mom were always so gracious to my late wife Brenda and myself. I will never forget the summers on his boat at the Essex Jazz Festival and the Christmas tree at the Main Street house. My heartfelt sympathy to all.

ROSE GASPARINI

April 23, 2011

Dan Vece, my beloved classmate and friend through the years. When my brother was killed in World War II, Dan was stationed nearby and returned home to serve at his funeral Mass and pay his respect to me and all my family. How fortunate the town of Clinton has been to have had such a man. My condolences to his entire family.

Tom Walton

April 22, 2011

To all the Veces, our condolences. We know he was special here, can you imagine what he will be like in heaven!

Love,
Tom and Sandy

April 22, 2011

Dearest Tommy, Marsha, Nancy, Bud and your families. As I walked by the Clinton Fire Dept today and saw the sign, "In Memory of Former Fire Chief Dan Vece," I felt such sadness in my heart. Mr. Vece was a strong presence in my life from grammar school, through high school. It seemed he was always there to help us kids with our projects. I was very fortunate to run into him a few times during the last few years and he always remembered me. He was a special human being who will remain in the hearts of everyone who knew him.
God Bless you all,
Gloria Schoen McQueeney

April 21, 2011

My sincere condolences to your entire family.. Dan was a good friend and a great teacher.. It was an honor to know him.. My prayers are with you all..
Eleanor Keech and family Ormond Beach, Fl.

April 21, 2011

Dear Tom, Marsha, Nancy and the entire family of Dan.
Words can not express the loss everyone feels. There are so many memories of all your Dad has done throughout his life. Being in the house next of yours was one of the highlights of my life. We kids did get into mischief, but also had a lot of fun.
Let the love you feel for him replace the weight of sadness in your hearts.
Peggy York Witham and family.

Marianne & Gary

April 20, 2011

Dear Vece family,
We offer our condolences to the whole Vece family. Dan lead such a full live of service and is a shinning example for all of us. We feel honored to have known him. He was a great leader. We will always remember those great July 4th Madison parades and picnics at his house. It is our hope that we can continue on his work with the Iwo Jima Survivors. Dan will remain in the hearts and minds of those who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you now and always.

April 20, 2011

Dear Tom, Nancy, Marsha and Family, Please accept our condolences. Uncle Dan was a wonderful man and we will cherish our memories of him! His ability to smile even in these last days was incredible. Mark & Cindy Kimmel and Family

John OConnell

April 19, 2011

I remember Dan from the many parades I went to as a child. He was the man who would sing. I always thought as a boy he must be a really important man to be able to sing out of the big speakers at the parade. I remember him next when I started to work at the Town Hall. Dan would help Tom and I with the flags on the poles down Rt#1 and I have know him ever since. Dan was a gentelman and a great addition to the town of Clinton. I will miss him and my thoughts go out to all of his family and friends.

Rob & Sandi Lunn

April 19, 2011

Much sadness as I offer my deep condolences to all the Vece family members. Wonderful memories of Dan. He will be sadly missed.

Bill Edgar

April 19, 2011

Marsha & Family,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your dad. He was truly a great man. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Bill (Red) Edgar & family

Michael, Marie and Dave Wahlen

April 19, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. What a generous and giving person! He is truly missed in our lives but his memory will be in our hearts.

Regis Kennedy

April 19, 2011

A gentleman who gave selflessly to his family, friends, town and country. My old hometown will never be quite the same. Keeping the entire Vece family in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol Carlough Geiser

April 19, 2011

He was a wonderful gentleman! The Town of Clinton was honored to have his services and love. My heartfelt sympathy to all.

April 19, 2011

Our thoughts are with you and memories of times spent with your Dad and grandfather are priceless. He was a very special man. With love- Gail and Bob Fasciano

Nate & Priscilla Clark

April 19, 2011

Tom, Marsha & Nancy
Your dad was a very special man. I learned many things from him and he treated me like good friend.

Barbara and Bill Gagnon

April 19, 2011

Tom, Marsha and Nancy. Your Dad was a great guy! We cherish the many memories we have working and laughing together. Our sympathy and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Claire Sauer

April 19, 2011

Dan will be remembered by his countless friends for many of his remarkable qualities. We in the Wednesday bridge group will remember his wonderful sense of humor, his engaging personality and his willingness to always lend a hand. Our Christmas parties will never be the same without Dan leading us in the Twelve Days of Christmas.

William Hall

April 19, 2011

To Tom Vece, my student at Morgan School forty-six years ago: I extend my condolences on the passing of your father. His extraordinary life of civic involvement and family devotion is so typical of his Greatest Generation. I remember well his taking command of a bomb scare at Morgan in 1965--a Marine was there, and all would be right. Perhaps the kind of man he was explains why you are the man you've been. Best regards, William G. Hall of Newington.

Chaplin David McGee

April 19, 2011

Easter offers hope to those who grieve.

Cindy (French) Czeciuk

April 19, 2011

Tom, Marsha and Nancy, I am very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing.

Karen (Mercier) Dougherty

April 18, 2011

A wonderful example of a selfless man who dedicated his life to making his community a better place. My prayers and sincere sympathy to my classmate, Nancy and all her family.

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