INGRAHAM SR., Donald P.
Donald P. Ingraham Sr., 76, of East Hampton passed away peacefully with his Fiancé Deborah Foell by his side. Donald was born Dec. 20, 1936, son of the late Elmer and Emily Kate (McKinney) Ingraham. Donald was a lifelong resident of East Hampton, attended East Hampton Schools and retired from Standard Knapp after 28 years as a lathe operator and set up man. He was a member of the IAM. Donald was a 55 year member of the East Hampton Volunteer Fire Department Company 1, where he held the offices of Lieutenant, Captain, and Deputy Chief and for many years was Captain of the Fire Police. He was a member of the Middlesex County Fire Police Assoc. and the Middlesex County Fire Chiefs Assoc. He was a life member of the East Hampton Fireman's Recreation Association. While serving as a Captain he was placed in charge of overseeing the East Hampton Ambulance Assoc. when they were under the East Hampton Fire Department. He would later serve on the Board of Director's for many years. He was very devoted to his town and community. Donald was voted Citizen of the Year in 2009 by the East Hampton Village Lions and the following year, 2010 was voted Volunteer of the Year by the East Hampton VFW. He was a member of the St. Joseph Society of Colchester. Donald was an avid golfer and bowler winning many trophies in both. He loved to play setback and played for many years in the firehouse setback league. He loved camping in his RV with traveling up north as his favorite. He also enjoyed trips to Florida in February. He was a fan of country music, NASCAR, UConn football and men's and women's basketball teams, the New England Patriots and Boston Celtics.
Donald is survived by his fiancé Deborah Foell and his best friend Bowie of home. He is also survived by his daughter Elaine Ingraham and her partner Anthony Perri of East Hampton, his son Donald Ingraham Jr. and his wife Heidi of East Hampton, four grandsons Nicholas, Dorian and Logan Tanasi all of Granby and Jacob Ingraham of East Hampton, his mother-in-law Dorothy Flood of Flagler Beach FL, three sisters Claire Swenson of Norwich, Nancy Andrews of Uncasville, and carol Herzig (Warren) of Durham and several nieces, nephews, an uncle and many cousins. He also leaves his extended family and his many friends. He was predeceased by his wife Elizabeth (Flood) Ingraham. The family would like to thank the many doctors, nurses and staff at Middlesex Hospital and DAVITA who cared for Donald for the eight and a half years. He never gave up and lived every day to the fullest. He will be greatly missed by everyone he touched. Funeral services will be held Saturday Dec. 29th at 12 noon at the Spencer Funeral Home 112 Main St. East Hampton. Burial will follow in Lakeview Cemetery. Friends may call at the Spencer Funeral Home on Friday evening from 4PM until 8PM. Memorial contributions may be made to East Hampton Volunteer Fire Dept. 5 Barton Hill Rd. East Hampton, CT 06424, the East Hampton Ambulance Assoc. PO Box 144 East Hampton, CT 06424 or to Weiss Hospice Center of Middlesex Hospital c/o Middlesex Hospital Department of Philanthropy 55 Crescent St. Middletown, CT 06457. To leave online condolences please visit www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com.

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Amy krauth
January 7, 2013
Such an awesome patient! He will be missed <3
Lorraine Ceder Liswell
January 5, 2013
Elaine, I am sorry for your loss. Though I didn't know your dad, I know he was an accomplished and well regarded man. I remember you fondly from many years ago. My prayers are with you, Deb and your family.
January 1, 2013
Don and your family,
So sorry to hear about your loss.
May God give you and your family peace during this difficult time.
Linda Chambers-EHHS
Terry Newfield
December 31, 2012
Elaine, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Donna Lower
December 29, 2012
Deb, my prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss.
December 29, 2012
deb
so sorry for the loss of don will always remember his great laugh kathy stein and dick light
Tom & Cindy Siena
December 29, 2012
To Deb, Donnie & Elaine...our hearts go out to you as Donald will be truly missed. We had a lot of good times together of which we'll always remember.
John Hanson
December 28, 2012
Donnie and your family,
Donald was a extraordinary good man.
John F. Hanson
Anna DeFeo
December 28, 2012
Elaine, so sorry for the loss of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May your Dad RIP.
Roxanne Moore
December 28, 2012
To Elaine and her family, sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you all. May you find comfort in the many loving memories you'll carry in your heart forever. With Deepest Sympathy.
Susan Baughman
December 28, 2012
To my friend Elaine and her family I send you love and light at this time. May you find peace.
Clayton & Vicki Bergeron
December 27, 2012
Don & Heidi, We just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this heartbreaking time. Let us know if there is anything we can do. May God bless you all. Love, Clayton & Vicki
David Rose
December 27, 2012
To the Ingraham family...Sorry for your loss...I knew Don when I was a member of the EHFD (Cobalt) years ago. He was truly a fine man.
Linda and Ron Wallace
December 27, 2012
Dear Deb, What a glorious battle he gave. He will be dearly missed. Thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace, Don....
Paul & Pat Royce
December 27, 2012
To the family of Donald, we are so sorry for your loss. We had many a good times together. He will be missed and remembered forever.
December 27, 2012
My sincere sympathy on the passing of Don. May you take comfort in all of your wonderful memories.
Tina Sklar
December 27, 2012
Deb, our sincerest sympathies on the loss of Don. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Bubsie and Sue
Kim Smith
December 27, 2012
Elaine and family~ I am so sorry for your loss. May The Lord comfort you and keep you during your time of sadness.
December 27, 2012
So sorry you lost the battle Don. It has been our priviledge to have called you friend. Maureen and Geoff Taylor
Claire Magrath
December 27, 2012
We want you to know we are here for you and are deeply sorry for the loss of your dad. Hang on to your memories and the sharing of stories will help with your healing process. We love you and you know we are here for you. Love always, Bruce & Claire
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