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SELAVKA, Eleanor O.
Eleanor O. Selavka, 82, of East Hampton, widow of the late Lary Selavka, died Wednesday (October 31, 2012) at her home surrounded by her family. Born March 5, 1930 in Brockton, MA, she was the daughter of the late William and Alice (Sweeney) Owens. Eleanor was raised in Brockton where she was a graduate of St. Patrick High School in Brockton and a graduate of the College of St. Elizabeth in Morristown, NJ. Eleanor was a resident of East Hampton since 1957 and was a communicant of St. Patrick Church in East Hampton. She volunteered at Middlesex Hospital, Meals on Wheels and the League of Women Voters. Eleanor was involved in many civic organizations in the East Hampton community. She is survived by her four sons Mark Selavka and his wife Anne of Manchester, William Selavka and his wife Stacey of Vernon, Philip Selavka of Colchester, James Selavka of East Hampton; two daughters Susan Rauscher and her husband Eric of Manchester, Gail Bennett and her husband Everett of Colchester; 13 grandchildren Katie, Molly and David Rauscher, Kerianne, Mark and Gregory Selavka, Erin and B.J. Selavka, Sarah, Philip and Brian Selavka Grace Bennett and George Kittredge, and several nieces, nephews and in-laws. She was predeceased by her two brothers Robert and William Owens and her sister Mary McDonald.
Friends may call at the Spencer Funeral Home 112 Main St. East Hampton on Tuesday, November 6, from 4-7 p.m. A Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated on Wednesday, November 7 at 11 a.m. in St. Patrick Church East Hampton. Burial will follow in the family plot in St. Patrick Cemetery. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105 or by visiting www.stjude.org . To leave online condolences please visit www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com.
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November 6, 2012
Larry and Eleanor SELAVKA I can't fathom the fact that time takes even the really grand people...
Apologies to the children from Clyde: didn't get the word until a few moments ago.
Clyde Washburne
November 6, 2012
To the Selavka family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Eleanor.
My families' thoughts and prayers go out to you and your loved ones in this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Bill Hankard
CCAFO
Mary Howley
November 5, 2012
With heavy hearts, we send you happiness and our deepest sympathy at the loss of your Mom, one of the most wonderful, strong, enlightening, insightful, courageous women I've ever known. She showed tremendous grace, dignaity and determination to express her last words to all who would listen. In the short time we've come to know "Ellie", she was a bright light in our world. We are forever grateful to have been in her presence. May she rest in peace and look after us, All of us, at Old Lyme Shores.......with sand between her toes..and grasping onto yet another storm.........may her waves be calm now, and the winds be gentle.
All of our love,
Mary Howley, Shawn Getman, Brian Phelps, and Joshua Dyer.........Good Job Ellie!!
November 5, 2012
To the Selavka family,
My sympathies to all of you on the loss of your mom. Our families made many memories together growing up in East Hamptom. The summer nights at Sears Park, cocktail parties our parents would host at each others homes with the Mannings, Riouxs, Hughes and Selavkas. I always remember your mom being so energetic and full of life. It's funny how the years go by so fast, and so many of our parents are now gone. May she rest in peace, and I'm sure Larry, Jack, Bob, and Gary were happy to welcome her home with the Lord. God Bless your family during this difficult time. Sincerely,Michelle Lisella (Mikie Russell)
Carrie French (Johnson)
November 5, 2012
During this time of grief I am thinking of all of you with the deepest of sympathy. Growing up with your Mom's kindness in my life will never be forgotten. She was such a special lady and now she graces the heavens with her presence. Take care of each other.
Tricia Anziano
November 5, 2012
Dennis and I are sending prayers and sympathy to all of you; immediate and extended family...Eleanor was a very special lady. I will miss her a great deal.
Lynn Hines
November 4, 2012
My dearest condolences to Eleanor's family. She was a big part of my life with the Tuesday Night Out Girls Bowling League. We shared many nights of fun and laughter and many trips to Rutland Vermont for our annual league tournament. I will always remember her sense of style and wit. I have many great memories of Eleanor and our mutual friends that I will always cherish especially driving Miss Daisy wherever she needed or wanted to go.
November 4, 2012
Dear Susan, My mom called me to tell me of your loss. I know what a hard time this is for you. I remember her laugh when i would come visit you, having coffee in the kitchen how she loved life.Lets pray she has met Burt and is having some Irish whiskey.I am so sad for you all.Love Carol Ryan Barkett
Herb Shedroff
November 4, 2012
My deepest sympathies to the Selavka families and to those Selavka children who served as my students in the East Hampton school system.
Sincerely,
Herb Shedroff
Lenny Langlois
November 4, 2012
My sincere condolences and sympathy for Eleanor. My prayers go out to the family in this time of grief and sadness.
Jackie Gashun
November 4, 2012
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Mother.
Jackie Gashun
Mary Miller
November 4, 2012
Condolences to the family. Prayers of comfort to all.
Kathleen Taylor
November 4, 2012
To the entire Selavka Clan is is with heavy heart I extend My deepest condolence in the Loss of Your Beloved Beautiful Mom who was a Dear Friend to Our Family.I Loved to stop in and check up on Her where She would be more comforting to I than vice versa.She always offered Me wine and cheese!I used to Love going to see Her and Your Dad at the package store They Co-owned with My Ma & Dad!Our Families shared so many fun times Together and I shall cherish Her Loving Memory forever as I am sure You All will.She Loved You All so much and used to proudly speak about All Her Children and GrandChildren upon My visits where I'd see All of Your photographs displayed in Her warm & cozy home where You grew up.Take comfort in the Memories and knowing She is safely back in Your Dad's arms in Heavenly eternal Peace She so richly deserves.Love,Kat
JoAnn (Cheney) Magyarik
November 4, 2012
To the Selavka family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. She was a great lady and will be missed by everyone who knew her. I hope all of your happy memories will help you through this very sad time.
Jim O'Connell
November 3, 2012
Jay, Mark Please remember the good times with your mother. They will help ease the pain. Stay close with your family and may god bless you and yours in this difficult time. Jim O
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