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Calvin ZIEKY Obituary





ZIEKY, Calvin "Cal"


Calvin "Cal" Zieky, 79, of West Hartford, died peacefully on Tuesday, October 15, 2013 in the comfort of his home and surrounded by his loving wife and family, after a courageous three-year battle with pancreatic cancer. He was the beloved husband for over 40 years of Sandra Travis Zieky. Born in Hartford, he was the son of Harry and Nellie Shuman Zieky. Cal grew up in West Hartford and graduated Hall High School and the University of Pennsylvania. He was owner and president of Standard Mechanical Contractors in Hartford when he was offered a position as Vice President and Manager of the northeast district of Natkin and Company of Denver, CO. He retired as Senior Project Manager for B-G Mechanical Contractors. Many major construction projects in the Greater Hartford area and throughout Connecticut and Massachusetts benefitted from Cal's expertise and leadership. Cal's sense of fairness and honesty were recognized by all who knew him, from subcontractors and tradesmen to other business associates to his friends, his golfing buddies, and on to his wife and family. Cal's major love was his family; he was a devoted husband, father, brother, grandfather and uncle. Cal was an accomplished golfer and, in his retirement years, he began to play bridge and recently achieved the level of Life Master. He and Sandy were members of the Beth El Temple in West Hartford and Tumblebrook Country Club. In addition to Sandy, he is survived by five children: Arthur Zieky and his partner William Witkowsky of Newington, Linda Zieky Ahern and her husband Richard of Acton, MA, Pamela Zieky Messing and her husband David of San Ramon, CA, Elizabeth Rosenberg and her husband David of Lafayette, CA, John Rosenthal of Hartford, and seven adored grandchildren: Max, Ben and Sam Ahern, Jack and Josh Messing, and Ally and Jake Rosenberg. He is also survived by his sister, Shirley Zieky Marholin, his nieces and nephews, Debra and Richard Glassman and Elizabeth and Craig Flanders, and his brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Roger and Alison Travis as well as many lifelong dear friends.
The funeral will be TODAY Thursday, October 17 at 12 p.m. in the sanctuary of the Beth El Temple, 2626 Albany Ave., West Hartford with Rabbi James Rosen officiating. Interment will follow at the Beth El Cemetery, 15 Jackson St., Avon. Following interment the family will receive friends at Cal and Sandy's home with an evening service at 7:30 p.m. and again on Sunday from 3-7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations in Cal's memory may be made to the Jewish Family Services, 333 Bloomfield Av, West Hartford, Smilow Cancer Center at Yale New Haven Hospital or to a charity of the donor's choice. The family expresses heartfelt appreciation to Dr. Howard Hochster and Oncology Nurse Karen Underwood, at the Smilow Clinic for their outstanding care. Cal will be forever in the hearts and minds of all those who shared life with him. Funeral arrangements provided by Hebrew Funeral Association, West Hartford.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Oct. 16 to Oct. 17, 2013.

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November 2, 2013

Dear Sandy
Just heard about Calvins passing. please accept my deepest sympathy .My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
Love, Sandy Gladstein Morrison. Buffalo,NY

Joel & Ellen Mandell

October 28, 2013

Sandy,

So sorry to learn of your loss of Cal. Our thoughts are with you.

Joel & Ellen

October 21, 2013

Sandy,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family at this difficult time. Cal was such a sweet, caring man and will be missed by many.
Much love and support, Sheri Slobin Shea

JANET AHL-KEARNS

October 21, 2013

To Art & family; my heartful condolences. May your memories bring you comfort at this time. "When you loose someone you love, you gain an angel you know. Take care, time is a great healer.

October 20, 2013

We are very saddened by this news. Cal was a special spirit. Wishing you strength and peace, Sandy and family.

Pam and Roger Freedman

October 18, 2013

Dear Sandy,

I only found out about Cal's death last night from an email from Ilene Mahler. My sincere condolences. He now gets added to my list when I say the Kaddish.

You know how much I enjoyed both of you at bridge and how elegant and classy you both were in playing. We all watched the situation as it enfolded, but nary a peep out of him and I can imagine the toll it took on you and the family, but also know you are firmly embedded among many great friends who will see you through this next yicky phase of life.

I read the obit, never knew that about Cal, very impressive. I will always remember him for his laughter, which is such an important thing we have to give to each other.

I will add Cal to my list of people I say Kaddish for. And you take care of yourself-be gentle on yourself.

With sincere condolences, much empathy, and love,

Elizabeth Garner
Portsmouth NH

October 17, 2013

Sandy and family. I'm so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Mr. Zieky.
Rachel Fontanazza

lesley meyers

October 17, 2013

my deepest condolences, sandy, to you and your family on cal's passing. he fought a most courageous battle with spirit and fortitude. fondly,

October 17, 2013

Sandy, We are all thinking of you and
your family. We will miss Cal so much
at our bridge tables. It was great to
celebrate his life master event.. Mary Eisenberg

Claire Gammo

October 17, 2013

Sandy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Claire Gammo

Laurie Porter Borges

October 17, 2013

Linda, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Mark Finneran

October 17, 2013

Linda and Rich, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you gather today to be with friends and share a story and say goodbye. He was a wonderful father and grandfather to you and the boys.
Mark, Pia, Phoebe and Jack Finneran

October 17, 2013

Deepest sympathy inyou time of sorrow

Herman H Glassman

Cheryl and Ron Bloom

October 17, 2013

what a loss to everyone - cal was a uniquely wonderful person -

October 16, 2013

My sincere condolences to Sandy and Family.
Judy Schwartz

October 16, 2013

Sandy, I was so very sorry to read of your husband's battle with cancer and now his death. I wish you courage in the months ahead as you deal with his loss. It will not be an easy time.
Your friend from years and years ago,
Muriel Rosenblum Fleischmann

Jim Vineburgh

October 16, 2013

My sincere condolences, Sandy, to you and your entire family. Although it has been some time since our paths have crossed, my memories of Cal (and his quick wit) are fond. I am glad that I knew him.

Steve and Diane Provo

October 16, 2013

Sandy please accept our sincerest condolences to you and your family. Cal was a great man and will be missed by many.

Susan Greer

October 16, 2013

Sandy and John - Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. May you be comforted by memories of the good times.

Diana Cyr

October 16, 2013

Art, Sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

Richard Gionet

October 16, 2013

To Cal Zieky Family we would like to send our condolences .Cal was good friend.Richard Gionet We will miss all the good times in the job trailers. With love and Prayers

Betty Marr

October 16, 2013

Sandy,
I am deeply saddened to learn of Cal's passing. He was a dear friend, and an extraordinary man. My sincere condolences go out to you and your family.

Betty Marr

Karen Harrison

October 16, 2013

Sandy, It was truly an honor and privilege to know Cal as well as lots of fun. I send my heartfelt sympathy and will see you when I return from South Carolina. My thoughts are with you.

Suzanne, Brian, Laura and David Kissane

October 16, 2013

Linda, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry for the loss of your father.

elsa and peter Gassner

October 16, 2013

Dear Sandy and family, We'll never forget Calvin for his wonderful sense of humor and contageous laugh. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. love elsa and peter

Janice Cartin

October 16, 2013

So sorry for your loss Sandy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jane Dowling

October 16, 2013

God bless you and your loved ones ~ Rest in peace.

Edward Karl

October 16, 2013

Sandy,
Tobye and I are thinking of you!
Cal will be missed.
Ed and Tobye Karl

Linda French

October 16, 2013

Sandy,
Our deepest sympathy to you and all of your family with Cal's passing. I think of you often.
Linda Isaacson French and Bill French

Bill Sweeney

October 16, 2013

Art,
My sympathy and prayers are with you and your family at this time of grief.

Gloria Azia

October 16, 2013

Sandy
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time......So sorry for your loss.

Gerald Sack

October 16, 2013

Condolences to Sandy and the family for the loss of this sweet and wonderful man. Gerry and Susan Sack

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