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Frances Patricia Oller

1928 - 2013

Frances Patricia Oller obituary, 1928-2013, Hartford, CT

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1928

DIED

2013

Frances Oller Obituary



Frances Patricia (Pinkston) Oller, 85, of South Windsor, died peacefully on Tuesday, November 26, 2013, at the Village of Buckland Court in South Windsor, CT, surrounded by her family. She was born on May 1, 1928 in New York City, NY, daughter of the late Frank and Jeannette (Carrencejie) Pinkston. Frances grew up in Manhattan, NY, and was a graduate of Cathedral High School with the Class of 1947. Frances was married to the love of her life, Raul N. Oller on February 24, 1957. Together they settled in New Jersey, where they raised a family. Frances worked as a legal secretary for Schiller, Vizas & Squeo for over 20 years. She also spent a great deal of time working with and helping to fundraise for St. Patrick' Church and school in Jersey City, NJ. She was a hardworking, social and giving woman who will be greatly missed. Along with her husband, Raul, of over 56 years, she leaves her sons, Roy Oller of Somerset, NJ and Jeffrey Oller and his wife Donna of Tolland, CT; a brother, Arnie Pinkston of Montville, CT, a sister, Agatha Lorenzo and her husband Tony of Norwich; five grandchildren, Jeffrey, Roy Jr., Justin, Alanna and Ian and a host of nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. Her family will receive friends on Saturday, from 12-2 p.m., at the Samsel & Carmon, 419 Buckland Rd., South Windsor, CT. A memorial service will follow at the funeral home at 2p.m. Burial will be private at the request of her family. In lieu of flowers memorial donations in her memory may be made to the American Heart Association, 1 Union St., Suite 301, Robbinsville, NJ 08691-1483 www.americanheart.org and/or American Diabetes Association, 2080 Silas Deane Highway, 2nd Floor, Rocky Hill, CT 06067 www.diabetes.org/honor . Please visit us at www.carmonfuneralhome.com for online condolences and guest book.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 28, 2013.

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Jeffrey Oller

November 22, 2021

Always thinking about little old Frannie. Especially during the holidays when we always got together as a family. Even during the difficult times when she or my father took turns being in the hospital, we made sure that family time and traditions continued.

Jeffrey Oller

December 19, 2013

Thank you to all for your kind words. My mother was a wonderful caring person that will be missed dearly.

Yolanda De Jesus

December 5, 2013

I will miss you very much

Rev. 21:3, 4 ~ Kim

December 3, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Debra McCormick

November 29, 2013

i pray that God will comfort your during your time of bereavement. Fran's sweet and kind spirit will be deeply missed.

Kathleen and John Gutch

November 29, 2013

Sorry to hear of Frans Passing. I have fond Memories of her. We worked together at Patrick House. Our sons Jimmy and Jeffery went to St. Pats school together.

November 29, 2013

On behalf of the Finn Family of St.Patrick's in Jersey City, prayers and condolences are sent for Fran and for her wonderful family. Fran was loved and admired as a "real woman".

Ellen Finn Zadroga

November 28, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.

Sarah Gore

November 28, 2013

Rest in peace Fran. You will be missed.

Dahlia

November 28, 2013

May Aunt Fran rest in eternal peace. Lifting my uncle and cousins in prayer. (((Hugs)))

November 28, 2013

Please accept my sincere sympathy for the loss of Fran.We had several pleasant conversations on the occasions of her visits. I found her to be sweet interesting and fun. Betty consolini.

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