OLSZEWSKI, Irene C.
Atty. Irene C. Olszewski, 52, of East Hartford, partner of Deborah A. Gingras, died at home Saturday, (August 31, 2013) in East Hartford surrounded by her friends and family. Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Zigmund P. and Louise R. (Miller) Olszewski and lived in East Hartford most of her life. Irene was a graduate of Penney High School, Charter Oak State College and then Quinnipiac University School of Law, Class of 2001. She was admitted to the Connecticut Bar Association in 2001. Irene had a private law practice for 10 years in Manchester and then East Hartford. She performed pro bono work for The Law Works for People in 2003 and worked with Collaborative Divorce Professionals of Connecticut. Irene had five articles published in the Connecticut Law Tribune, an article in the Connecticut Post and did an interview for the BBC on Gay Law, Same Sex Marriage and Gay Adoption. She also wrote three law blogs; Attorney O's Midnight Musings, CT Law Blog and CT Lesbian & Gay Blog. Irene had an accomplished musical career that started at age 10 as a band leader for Irene's Polka Playmates and then the Irene Olszewski Orchestra as well as several other polka bands including the Twin City Connection and the Dick Pillar Orchestra. Most recently Irene was the leader of the Lavender Hearts Trio. She was an accomplished composer, arranger and producer releasing six CD's; two Christmas CD's with the Lavender Hearts Trio, three vocals and one instrumental of her own music. Irene and Debbie have a seasonal campsite at Brialee Campground in Ashford and leave many friends from the wine trail and throughout the campgrounds. They also celebrated music with the "porch hang gang" for many years. She is survived by two sons, Jason Kobelski Olszewski and Matthew Kobelski, both of East Hartford; her best friend Gail Saunders of East Hartford; two brothers, Michael Smith of Waynesville, NC and Joseph Olszewski, East Hartford; a sister, Bertha Webb of Glastonbury; an aunt, Mary Boltz and her husband Bob of Florida; a cousin, Kim Buckley; her goddaughter, Julie Bromley of Storrs as well as several nieces, nephews and dear friends. She was predeceased by a sister, Kathy Walters of East Hartford.
The funeral is Thursday Sept. 5, 2013 beginning at 9 am from the D'Esopo East Hartford Memorial Chapel, 30 Carter St., East Hartford, CT 06118 followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 am at SS Cyril and Methodius Church, 63 Popieluszko Ct., Hartford, CT 06106. Burial will be private. The family will receive relatives and friends on Wednesday from 4-7 pm at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made in Irene's name to the Quinnipiac School of Law, 275 Mt. Carmel Ave., Hamden, CT 06518-1908. For on-line expressions of sympathy, please visit www.desopo.com.
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Alexis Johnston
August 29, 2023
Rink - still miss your smiles and laughter.
Love you always - Lexi
April Cooke
November 4, 2013
My daughter Kasia is Irene's 12 year old niece. She was shocked to hear of Irene's passing on Facebook and wondered why she hadnt written back. I was thankful to Irene for reaching out to her. My condolences to the family. Kasia would love to hear from any of her relatives.
Lexi Johnston
October 27, 2013
Dear Deb...I just learned today of Irene's passing and have been fighting back the tears. I was about to send an 'e' card for her birthday and decided to check fb and see what was happening in your lives before doing so and then learned she is gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you as she has left a huge void in so many lives and especially you and the boys.
Alexis Johnston
October 27, 2013
Jason and Matt...I am SO sad and sorry to hear of your Mom's passing...I am in shock...I loved her dearly...she was a great woman indeed...God Bless
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Ellen Roth
September 15, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Irene's passing. She was my attorney when I first came to Connecticut, and she really provided solid legal advice with a good heart. I am so stunned to hear the news, and will be grateful always for how easy she was to work with and the specific work she did to help and protect me during some difficult times.
Cindy Houghtaling Rose
September 5, 2013
Words can not empress the sadness one feels when we lose someone so dear to us. Irene was a remarkable and talented women. We've shared many laughs over the last forty years.One of my most fondest memories is when the Ice storm of "73" hit. No power for a week, three families bunked at the Olszweski's staying warm around the pot belly stove that Ziggy had just put in.Irene although you will be missed by so many of us here, I will always put on a smile when I think about the great company you are now in.Rest in peace my friend!
Thoughts and prayers are with Debbie, Jason and Matthew today and always.
Judy Narus
September 4, 2013
Jason and Matt,
I was so sad to hear of your Mom's passing. My heart reaches out to you both. I didn't know her that well but will never forget how she helped my son when he was going through some anguishing legal battles. After reading the obituary I realizing what an extrodinary person she was. You must be very proud of her and her accomplishments. May she rest in peace and your memories of her live on forever in your hearts. Love, Judy
Irene Arabek
September 3, 2013
From Irene S. Arabek.......To Irene Olszewski -in heaven now - the first time I met you was in a cemetary - and the last time I will be with you is in a cemetary. My heart is broken - you were a very special friend to me and my family.I will never forget you and your family for the fun times we had, with our kids in Irene's Polka Band. My daughters Karen Olszewski and Debra Serafin enjoyed playing in your band - for many years......Thank you for the fun times and your love for me and my family. I will miss you dearly.......All my love - Irene Arabek. Hugs and Kisses.RIP my love...........<3
Stacia Filipiak Falkowski
September 3, 2013
I met Irene when I was recording at a studio. Later, I performed with her in a violin-accordion duo and was very impressed by her talent. In addition to being an accomplished musician, she was also a loving mother and successful attorney. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. God bless you. R.I.P. Irene.
Maria Zarrillo
September 3, 2013
It has been a few years now that I lost touch with Irene; however, I knew her as the glue that held everything and everyone together. It is very hard for me to imagine her not playing that huge role; she is now playing a much larger role, a beautiful angel watching over and protecting her two sons which she cherished to the moon and back. Irene, rest in peace knowing you did it all, your way!!
Renee Mazuraitis
September 3, 2013
From our Family to yours our love and thoughts are with you all, she was a wonderful person and she will be missed. So glad to have had the chance to meet her. Dave, Renee, Greg, Kyle, & Tyler Mazuraitis.
Sandy Norman
September 3, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Deb, Matt , Jason and all of Irene's family. We've been friends for five years since the day we met at the sports bar at Brialee. We were both excited to hear that each of us would become seasonal. We've had some great times together. Many parties, campfires, karaoke and lots of laughs. I will miss you dearly. Love Ed & Sandy
Connie & Kirk Severance
September 3, 2013
Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers
Vic & Steffie Riva/Dulka
September 3, 2013
Deepest sympathy,
as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
kathleen matson
September 3, 2013
may you and your family find peace in knowing you will all meet again
Cynthia Parent
September 3, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to Irene's family. She will always be remembered.
Penney High classmate
Carol Kelly
September 3, 2013
I am so very sad to hear of the Passing of a Dear Friend Irene and I am lost without words!! hearing she has gone to her new home in Heaven my prayers go out to your family,we now have a New Shinning Star that will shine always and a New Beautiful Guardian Angel Watching over your Beautiful Family always and forever,,you now will walk with God, forever GOD be with your family at this time ,,Irene you now sleep with all the Angels,,good bye beautiful Irene,,your friend and Neighbor ,,Carol Kelly xoxoxo
Michael, Tracy, Sara, Alli and Cameron Brunette
September 3, 2013
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim and Deb Scully
September 3, 2013
There are no words to express the loss of our friend. We turned 50 together and she would always say to me life begins at 50. Deb cannot image what you are feeling god bless you and Irene's entire family now and forever. I will always keep my karoake buddy in my song and heart.
Donna Schneider
September 3, 2013
Sending condolences to Deb and the boys, and Irene's entire family. We will miss her deeply, but she sure created a lot of great memories that will live on for many years. And, we are all so lucky to be able to enjoy her music. Moby, when I feel sad and miss you, I have to think back to the day you, me, and Deb drove up to the rec at Brialee to get internet service and while we were in the rec hall, we heard shouts that the golf cart was on fire! out of that evolved another one of your amazing songs. We may not have you here with us in the physical sense, but your spirit lives on! Rest in peace, and thank you for being such a great friend. Love, Donna and Bob
Elaine Liebegott
September 3, 2013
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of Irene. I didn't get to know her as much as I would have liked. She was such a talented person and will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers to the family. Sing with the Angels, Irene.
Gary, Tracy, Zak and Logan Violette
September 3, 2013
There are no words to express the sorrow that we feel. We send our deepest sympathy to Deb, the boys and the rest of Irene's family and friends. She will truly be missed, but never forgotten. We love you!
Andrea Desrosiers
September 3, 2013
You will be dearly missed. Our deepest sympathy and prayers for Irene, Deb and her family and friends.
Andrea, Dave, Ashley and Derek Desrosiers
Tina Huard
September 3, 2013
You are held in the heart of Love Irene...
Always so kind and real you were...
Tina
Jen Tobias
September 3, 2013
Irene was an amazing, talented and compassionate person. I will miss our late night chats at camp and of course beer tasting and campfire stories! I will always remember what you did for me when my little girl, Taz, died. You are forever in my heart.
Jen
Robin DePinto
September 3, 2013
I will never forget you. What a ride! Sleep peacefully
Michele Field
September 3, 2013
I worked with Irene many years ago when she was a court appointed attorney in the Family Magistrate court in Hartford. I am sad to hear of her passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her family, especially her children, during this difficult time. She often spoke of her boys and you could tell how much she loved them and the pride she took in their accomplishments. May God bless you all.
Betty Bishop
September 3, 2013
May god be with you all at this time ! She was amazing person and will be missed dearly !
JIM AND BARB GINGER
September 3, 2013
FROM BRIALEE SITE 28,,SORRY FOR YOU LOSS,,GOOD SINGER ,,HEARD HER LOTS OF TIMES,,NOW SHE WILL SING WITH THE ANGELS
Ann Bartlett
September 3, 2013
Irene there is a new bright and shining star in the heavens and I will be looking for it. Till we meet again, lone you.
Chasity Hotaling
September 3, 2013
Am lost without words, my prayers go out to your family. May you walk with god, forever, and you're candle of eternal flame always be lit. GOD be with your family at this time .
Tony Novak
September 3, 2013
Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Irene. I have not seen her in years but many of my younger memories are riding around the state of Ct. with her and Joey and the band and working as their roadie to help them set up for many shows that they performed. We had some really great times and she will be surely missed by all that knew her.
Joyce Beatty
September 3, 2013
One less brigt light in the world today. God speed Irene.
Cyndi Brown
September 3, 2013
Thanks for the laughs, the love and the music you brought into our lives.
Love you girl.
Cyndi & Paula ("The Porch Hang Gang")
Michelle Hébert
September 3, 2013
It is amazing how heavy the heart feels on the third day following her passing. I cant begin to immagine the mix of emotions her family and friends must feel. You are all in my thoughts and prayers durring this time of memories, sorrow, laughter and tears. Irene was a special woman who touched many lives and will live on forever. Rest peaceful my beautiful friend, it is so hard to say Goodbye, but I am comforted by your music, and the powerful messages it conveys. Your Tommorrow has come, and you are now our 'Angel in the Sky'. Miss you, and Love You!
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