Johnson, J. Thomas
Col (Ret) J. Thomas Johnson, of Vernon—Tom, Dad, Grampa—passed peacefully from this life on Sunday morning, (September 1, 2013), as he wished: in the familiar surroundings of his home, with those he loved most. Tom was born In Middletown on March 6, 1942, to John William and Mary V. (Fitzgibbons) Johnson. He completed his elementary education at the Staddle Hill and West Side (now Spencer) Schools, and graduated from Woodrow Wilson Senior High School in 1960. In 1964 he received his bachelor's degree cum laude from St. Michael's College in Winooski, VT, and, in 1967, his J. D. from UConn Law School. In 1968, Tom was commissioned into the United States Air Force and began his long association with the military. While on active duty, he served as USAF Senior Judge Advocate from 1968-1972. After completing his active duty, he returned home and joined the Connecticut Air National Guard, serving from 1972 to 1998. During those years, Tom served as Staff Judge Advocate to the Commander, 103 Fighter Wing; to the Commander, CTANG; and ANG Assistant to the Staff Judge Advocate, Air Combat Command, Langley AFB, VA. His awards and decorations include two Air Force Commendation Medals, the Air Force Meritorious Service Medal and the Legion of Merit. On his retirement from the CTANG, Tom was promoted to the rank of Brigadier General, CTANG. He was well known across the AF JAG community as a master of his craft. His dedication, intelligence and mentorship will be missed. In civilian life, Tom served as Senior Counsel for the Connecticut Bank & Trust, and as Deputy General Counsel for Northeast Savings. He developed a private practice specializing in banking law and negotiable instrument litigation in Vernon, CT. Toward the end of his career, he served as Counsel for Tolland Bank, and then Counsel for Rockville Bank, retiring in 2011. As his family saw in his final weeks, Tom's friendships were life long, as different visitors from the many decades of his life came every day to see him. They laughed, they recollected his sincere and active love of music, and retold stories of him fondly. Those who knew him as a devoted friend, remember Tom as a man inclined to kindnesses, as one who kept confidences and contact in high regard. An ethical and professional man with respect for the Law and for engaging in debate on philosophy and other varied topics, Tom enjoyed a wonderfully dry sense of humor and fondness for wordplay. He loved to travel and enjoy fine wines and cuisine, especially good bacon. Tom was a serious and dedicated musician, composer and arranger in his spare time, and shared his love of jazz with anyone who would listen. He played bass for a number of years with the jazz combo Top Brass in the Central Connecticut area. Throughout much of his life, Tom was involved with other kinds of music, both secular and religious, and participated in high school and college glee clubs, church choirs and local organizations including the Vernon Chorale. Tom was a man of deep faith and in 1991, became a devoted supporter of the Tridentine Mass Apostolate of the Diocese of Norwich. He followed the Apostolate from North Grosvenordale to Putnam and then to Moodus, where, for many years, he served as acolyte. Tom leaves his son, Brian W. Johnson of Windsor, his daughter, Kelly M. Robinson and son-in-law Timothy Robinson of East Longmeadow, MA; his grandchildren Rachel and Ryan Robinson, and his sister, Judith Ellen Johnson of Cromwell. He also leaves his beloved "most significant other," Pamela Stockdale Villanova. In addition, he is survived by Diane Johnson of Vernon, his former spouse. Besides his parents, Tom was predeceased by his brother, William Erik (Bud) Johnson.
Burial with full military honors will take place at 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, Sept. 10 in Swedish Cemetery in Portland. In keeping with his devotion to the Tridentine rite, a Requiem Mass will be celebrated at 12:30 p.m. at Christ the King Church in Old Lyme, with Tom's pastor and very dear friend, Rev. Gregoire J. Fluet as celebrant. The family will gather to receive friends at the Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver Street, Middletown, on TODAY, Sept. 8 from 5-7 p.m. Memorial donations may be made to the Firework Team for the 2013 Boston Marathon Jimmy Fund Walk or a cancer research organization of the donor's choice.
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Dave Kennedy
September 10, 2013
We will miss Tom and his Laid Back Humor. I Performed with Tom in the Top Brass Orchestra for about ten years.
September 10, 2013
I had the pleasure of being Tom's colleague in the CBT law department in the early 70s. He was an excellent lawyer and a really great guy. Always a musician, Tom had a sign on his office door - "Bach at 1:30, Offenbach at 1:00." He had a wicked sense of humor. I remember when he built a wooden "dignity meter" as a response to a suggestion that we were, on occasion, "not dignified enough."
Requiescat in pace, Tom
Jeff Crown
Yaroslaw Lemega
September 9, 2013
I am sorry to read of Tom's passing. He was a good man. I served with him for many years in the Guard and he always was there to provide help when needed. I am sorry for your loss.
Anita Maruffi
September 9, 2013
Tom was my boss when we both worked in the Legal Dept of CBT. I did a lot of his Air Force and music documentation. A lot of years have past but I remember Tom fondly. My sympathy to his family.
Joe Gauthier
September 8, 2013
Please accept my sincere condolences. I was a class mate at St. Michael's.
Ron Palmer
September 8, 2013
A good man has left us.I served with Tom in the Air National Guard and he will be missed. Your family is in my prayers
Michael Martin
September 8, 2013
Tom was a gentleman and a scholar. He had strong principles and he stood by them. The world is a lesser place now that he has passed.
September 8, 2013
PLease accept my deepest condolences. Tom and I knew each other well while at St. Mike's but not so much afterwards. He will not be forgotten anytime soon.
Paul Harper MD
SMC '64
Pierre Piffarerio
September 8, 2013
Tom and I traveled together extensively via Vermont Transit some 50 years ago as members of the SMC Glee Club. I was deeply saddened to hear another member from the Class of '64 will not make our 50th reunion. But I know that Tom is singing now in God's choir and will be looking down on us all next year.
Piff
September 8, 2013
I visited Tom during his last illness at the hospital, the rehabilitation center, and his home. On none of those occasions do I recall Tom complaining. That is not to say I, or anyone for that matter, was not told by Tom about his situation, but it was like a medical briefing, delivered in great detail, in classic Johnsonian style – calm, measured, precise and sarcastically witty. To be sure there are a great number of things for which Tom will be remembered, but for me - the classic Johnsonian style - will be near the top. Tom McHale, St Michael's College, Class of '64.
Bob Lilly
September 8, 2013
I was deeply saddened to hear of Tom's death, but know that he is in a better place. I have known him since our Freshman year at SMC and always enjoyed talking to him at reunions and to hear from him on the Class of '64 email listing. He will be missed.
Tom Ehmann SMC '64
September 8, 2013
My sinserest condolences to Pamela and the entire Johnson family
Maribeth McHale
September 8, 2013
Rest in peace, Tom. You were a wonderful friend to my father and the fond memories of yesteryear will always live on.
Walter Dec
September 7, 2013
I met Tom exactly 53 years ago as we started out as Freshmen at St. Michaels. Both of us were Mathematics majors, roomed together for several years and paired up on the Debate Team, even defeating Harvard once! And, we spent plenty of time at the Mill discussing the philosophy of life. Our friendship became life-long. In recent years Ellen and I had the good fortune to travel with Tom and Pam all over Central Europe, Ireland, Italy (just last October for a glorious week) and Barbados.
My great friend, we will miss your sharp mind and wonderful sense of humor. May God grant you eternal peace.
Robert Twarkins
September 7, 2013
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Robert Twarkins, CTANG (Ret)
Dennis Marr
September 7, 2013
Our class of St. Michael's College, 1964, has lost a valued member. I knew Tom well in college but didn't realize how extensive his distinguished military career was until reading the obituary. My condolences to the family.
john comstock
September 7, 2013
Please accept our condolences and prayers on Tom's passing. We were classmates at St. Mike's.
Brig. Gen. George Demers
September 7, 2013
Tom Johnson's family & Pam
I was sadden to learn of Tom's passing.When I talked to him at the CTANG Old Timers Day in June he told me he was obtaining a new medication. Tom will ways remembered as a leader in military law. He was a an exceptional person and good friend.
Brigadier General George Demers
September 7, 2013
Tom was a classmate at St. Michaels College like Tom I became an attorney and always enjoyed talking to Tom at our reunions in Vermont may God care for Tom ed goutas
Marty Burke
September 7, 2013
For Pam & family,
Tom was a classmate of mine at St. Michael's College in VT long ago. We remained friends through the years and Tom will be well remembered by me and his other classmates. May you now rest in peace, Tom.
Brig. Gen. George Demers
September 7, 2013
Tom Johnson's family & Pam
I was sadden to learn of Tom's passing.When I talked to him at the CTANG Old Timers Day in June he told me he was obtaining a new medication. Tom will ways be remembered as a leader in military law. He was a an exceptional person and good friend.
Brigadier General George Demers
Jo and Larry Ierardi
September 7, 2013
We were devasted to learn of our good friend's passing. We were "music friends" for many years in Vernon where Tom composed and arranged music for Sacred Heart Church and the Contemporary Music Group. May the Lord receive Tom with loving arms. Our sincere condolences to his family and close friends.
June Adams
September 7, 2013
Jay, we were so saddened to hear of your dad's passing. He seems to have packed two lifetimes into the years he spent on earth. Please know your family will be in our prayers.
MICHAEL J SCANLON
September 7, 2013
TOM WAS A DEAR FRIEND AND NEIGHBOR IN CROMWELL I WILL NEVER FORGET THE DAY I CAME HOME AND TOM CAME RUNNING OVER THE LAWN WAVING A LETTER SAYING HE HAD PASSED THE BAR EXAM I'M NOT SURE WHICH OF US WERE MORE EXCITED BUT WE TOASTED HIS GOOD NEWS IN OUR KITCHEN. I WILL MISS MY OLD FRIEND.AND PRAY FOR HIM. JUDY I KNOW THIS WILL BE A DIFFICULT TIME FOR YOU TRUST IN CHRIST. GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY.
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