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Jay Schoolnick Obituary



Jay Scott Schoolnick, 47 lost his valiant fight with colon cancer on Sunday, November 17, 2013. He was the loving son of Linda Rosenberg of Charlotte, NC, devoted brother of Gerald Schoolnick & his wife Michelle of Canton, CT & uncle to Allison Schoolnick & PFC David Schoolnick USMC both of Stafford, CT. He also leaves many cousins & close friends. Jay was predeceased by his father, Leonard Schoolnick. A graduate of Hartt School of Music, Jay was well known in the CT theater circuit, getting his start at the Hartford Jewish Community Center & appearing in in many venues across the state. Graveside services will be held Thursday, November 21st at 11AM at the Beth Hillel Cemetary on Wolcott Rd. in East Granby, CT. Memorial contributions may be made to the Jay S. Schoolnick Musical Theater Fund at the Hartford Jewish Community Center.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 20, 2013.

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Thomas Sullivan Jr

November 14, 2021

Has it really been 8 years? You are missed and thought of everyday.

Judy Simons

November 14, 2019

Dear Family,
I watch Jay grow up to be a very kind and caring person. RIP Jay. I miss you and think of you often.

cheryl roninone

December 19, 2013

I am so sorry to have JUST found out about losing Jay, and it truly is a loss. He was friends with my sister Susan Beckwith. My heart goes out to Jay's entire family.

Tom Sullivan

November 24, 2013

It has been one week since Jay's passing and I am missing him so very much and thinking of him every day. I can still hear that laugh of his and it brings a smile to my face.My prayers are with him and his family.

Bonnie Tillman

November 22, 2013

Gerry and Family. I am so sorry to hear about Jay. I have many fond memories of him from our days at Curtis. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this difficult time.

Dianne Mirabito-Hough

November 22, 2013

To Gerry and Family,

So very sorry to hear about Jay. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Dianne Mirabito-Hough

November 22, 2013

My prayes are to you all. Jay always made us laugh at Curtis 1000, with his singing. He will be missed greatly.
-Myra Mojica

Sarah Fournier

November 22, 2013

Gerry and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Many fond memories of Jay at Curtis and seeing him at the theater performing. My regards, Sarah Fournier

November 22, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about Jay - My deepest sympathy.
Theresa Veneziano ( Bryant Pond Maine)

Mike Ross

November 21, 2013

Jerry and family, you have my heartfelt condolences. Jay was a special guy who will be deeply missed.

Mark Rosenberg

November 21, 2013

Our deepest sympathy. Jay was a wonderful man. May his memory be a blessing.

Gail and Don Sama

November 21, 2013

Linda and family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Please know we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
Keep in touch.

Sheila Rapp

November 21, 2013

So very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Fond memories of working with Jay at Curtiss 1000.

Karen Jolicoeur

November 20, 2013

To the Schoolnick Family,

Jay was ahead of me at Hartt, and I remember him fondly. We have been in touch in recent years via Facebook, most recently about the passing of Bob Hess, a beloved coach, for whom Jay passionately wanted to organize a memorial. He never once let on that he had been fighting a battle of his own. He was a love and a bright light, and will be missed.

With deepest condolences,

Sherry Levine

November 20, 2013

Dear Linda and Jerry,
I am so sorry for your loss. I babysat for both Jay and Jerry at your first home in Bloomfield.

Pietro Funiciello

November 20, 2013

My deepest condolences to Jayson's family and friends. I only knew Jayson for a short period of time, but I know he had a good heart and was loved by many including myself. I pray for you all to be comforted by the words of God and the love of others. Jayson is at peace in heaven, singing to God and others that have gone before him, and he is looking down upon us with that great smile. Until we meet again, my friend.

Lynne Bride

November 20, 2013

Dear Old Friend,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Roberta Rudin

November 20, 2013

Linda,Jerry and Michele,
Harold and I are heartbroken with the loss of our beloved Jay. His memory will live in our hearts. Our prayers are continuing to be with all of you at this most difficult time.
We will cherish all the wonderful moments we shared together.
Roberta and Harold, aka Bubbe and Zayde

Nancy BenanitoSgromolo

November 20, 2013

Dearest Linda,
Your sweet son is now at peace...there is no more suffering... Our deepest sympathies for you and your loving family.. We are here for you...with love, Nancy,Joe, Mom, and beloved pets

Jen & Dan Shourds

November 20, 2013

Our sincerest condolences to the Schoolnick family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Jay helped us with our wedding invitations in 2012 and made the process so much fun we had to invite him to our wedding! Jay, you were truly one of those shiny bright personalities and the world is a little less bright with you not in it... May you rest in peace, Jen & Dan Shourds

November 20, 2013

Light to Jay, his Beloved Family, and Friends.

November 20, 2013

Lynn Spencer

November 20, 2013

Dear Linda and family - my thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn your darling son. I'm here for you anytime you need to talk and will do whatever I can to help you and yours through this time. Love to all, Lynn

David Nelson Oravez Martinez

November 20, 2013

Jayson - You were a friend to so many, and Nelson and I will treasure the fun times we all had together. You were a true fighter! Our hearts to go out to your family and other friends who are trying to wrap their arms around your loss. Heaven has just received a wonderful angel. Watch over us, Jayson.

We love you!!

November 20, 2013

My dearest Linda, I have no words to express my heartfelt sympathy for you and your family. I pray that the Lord will wrap his arms around you for comfort and peace that passes all understanding. Please let us know if you need anything at all! We love you dearly, Kerry and Vicki McDaniel

Fran and Richie Sackter

November 20, 2013

My sincere condenses to all.....

Laura Marks-Reisner

November 20, 2013

My sincere condolences from the old Burnwood Drive gang.

November 20, 2013

Beloved Family,

May precious memories always linger....

Lovingly,

Riley and Cerise Johnson

Patti Manion

November 20, 2013

Michelle, Jerry and all the family,
I am so sorry you are going through this. Jay will be greatly missed. I wish you all the strength you need to get through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers, always!

Judy Simons

November 20, 2013

Dear Linda, Jerry, Michelle and Family,
I knew Jay since the day he was born. Our sons played together. My heart is just broken. He was such a wonderful and warm person. He will always live in my heart. Jay is now with his father whom he adored. My God comfort you in this most difficult time.

November 20, 2013

To Linda , I am so sorry about the passing of your son Jay. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Kathy Majewski

Michael Morgan

November 20, 2013

To all of Jay's loved ones, please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time. May he rest in peace and shine down upon us

Terry L. Davidson

November 20, 2013

To the Schoolnick Family
It is with great sadness to learn of Jay's passing. I hope that your many fond memories will help guide you through this difficult time. Jay is now resting peacefully with his Dad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lucille Bartee

November 20, 2013

Dear Linda,Jerry & Family
I'm truly sorry to hear of Jay's passing. He truly fought a good fight but the battle is now over and he's at peace. I'm glad I got to know him over the last couple of years. Linda I'm only a phone call away. i will continue to keep you in my prayers.

Andrea von Bargen

November 20, 2013

To the Schoolnick family, so sorry to hear about the passing of Jay. He and I entered Hartt the same year. One of my first friends in school. He will be missed by many.

November 20, 2013

To Linda, Jerry and family: My condolences to all of you on Jay's passing. I will miss him very much as he was a wonderful neighbor and friend. Love, Sandy.

Lori O'Neil

November 20, 2013

Jerry, Michelle, Dave and Allison - There is nothing I can say to express the deep sorrow in my heart. You are all in my prayers. Peace.

November 20, 2013

Rest in peace Jay.

Linda Halpin

November 20, 2013

To the Schoolnick family, So sorry ti hear of the passing of Jay. He will be truly missed.

Elliott & Elissa Donn

November 20, 2013

Dear Bobby and Friends,

We're so sorry to learn of your nephew Jay's passing. You have our sincerest condolences.

Although we did not know him, we did know Lenny. As we have chilren in that age range, we can't imagine anything worse.

May he rest in peace.

dianne Connors

November 20, 2013

So sorry that I can't be with you during this painful time. Know that you are all in my thoughts and heart.

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