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Thomas Sullivan Jr
November 14, 2021
Has it really been 8 years? You are missed and thought of everyday.
Judy Simons
November 14, 2019
Dear Family,
I watch Jay grow up to be a very kind and caring person. RIP Jay. I miss you and think of you often.
cheryl roninone
December 19, 2013
I am so sorry to have JUST found out about losing Jay, and it truly is a loss. He was friends with my sister Susan Beckwith. My heart goes out to Jay's entire family.
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Tom Sullivan
November 24, 2013
It has been one week since Jay's passing and I am missing him so very much and thinking of him every day. I can still hear that laugh of his and it brings a smile to my face.My prayers are with him and his family.
Bonnie Tillman
November 22, 2013
Gerry and Family. I am so sorry to hear about Jay. I have many fond memories of him from our days at Curtis. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this difficult time.
Dianne Mirabito-Hough
November 22, 2013
To Gerry and Family,
So very sorry to hear about Jay. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Dianne Mirabito-Hough
November 22, 2013
My prayes are to you all. Jay always made us laugh at Curtis 1000, with his singing. He will be missed greatly.
-Myra Mojica
Sarah Fournier
November 22, 2013
Gerry and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Many fond memories of Jay at Curtis and seeing him at the theater performing. My regards, Sarah Fournier
November 22, 2013
I am so sorry to hear about Jay - My deepest sympathy.
Theresa Veneziano ( Bryant Pond Maine)
Mike Ross
November 21, 2013
Jerry and family, you have my heartfelt condolences. Jay was a special guy who will be deeply missed.
Mark Rosenberg
November 21, 2013
Our deepest sympathy. Jay was a wonderful man. May his memory be a blessing.
Gail and Don Sama
November 21, 2013
Linda and family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Please know we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
Keep in touch.
Sheila Rapp
November 21, 2013
So very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Fond memories of working with Jay at Curtiss 1000.
Karen Jolicoeur
November 20, 2013
To the Schoolnick Family,
Jay was ahead of me at Hartt, and I remember him fondly. We have been in touch in recent years via Facebook, most recently about the passing of Bob Hess, a beloved coach, for whom Jay passionately wanted to organize a memorial. He never once let on that he had been fighting a battle of his own. He was a love and a bright light, and will be missed.
With deepest condolences,
Sherry Levine
November 20, 2013
Dear Linda and Jerry,
I am so sorry for your loss. I babysat for both Jay and Jerry at your first home in Bloomfield.

Pietro Funiciello
November 20, 2013
My deepest condolences to Jayson's family and friends. I only knew Jayson for a short period of time, but I know he had a good heart and was loved by many including myself. I pray for you all to be comforted by the words of God and the love of others. Jayson is at peace in heaven, singing to God and others that have gone before him, and he is looking down upon us with that great smile. Until we meet again, my friend.
Lynne Bride
November 20, 2013
Dear Old Friend,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Roberta Rudin
November 20, 2013
Linda,Jerry and Michele,
Harold and I are heartbroken with the loss of our beloved Jay. His memory will live in our hearts. Our prayers are continuing to be with all of you at this most difficult time.
We will cherish all the wonderful moments we shared together.
Roberta and Harold, aka Bubbe and Zayde
Nancy BenanitoSgromolo
November 20, 2013
Dearest Linda,
Your sweet son is now at peace...there is no more suffering... Our deepest sympathies for you and your loving family.. We are here for you...with love, Nancy,Joe, Mom, and beloved pets
Jen & Dan Shourds
November 20, 2013
Our sincerest condolences to the Schoolnick family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Jay helped us with our wedding invitations in 2012 and made the process so much fun we had to invite him to our wedding! Jay, you were truly one of those shiny bright personalities and the world is a little less bright with you not in it... May you rest in peace, Jen & Dan Shourds
November 20, 2013
Light to Jay, his Beloved Family, and Friends.

November 20, 2013
Lynn Spencer
November 20, 2013
Dear Linda and family - my thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn your darling son. I'm here for you anytime you need to talk and will do whatever I can to help you and yours through this time. Love to all, Lynn
David Nelson Oravez Martinez
November 20, 2013
Jayson - You were a friend to so many, and Nelson and I will treasure the fun times we all had together. You were a true fighter! Our hearts to go out to your family and other friends who are trying to wrap their arms around your loss. Heaven has just received a wonderful angel. Watch over us, Jayson.
We love you!!
November 20, 2013
My dearest Linda, I have no words to express my heartfelt sympathy for you and your family. I pray that the Lord will wrap his arms around you for comfort and peace that passes all understanding. Please let us know if you need anything at all! We love you dearly, Kerry and Vicki McDaniel
Fran and Richie Sackter
November 20, 2013
My sincere condenses to all.....
Laura Marks-Reisner
November 20, 2013
My sincere condolences from the old Burnwood Drive gang.
November 20, 2013
Beloved Family,
May precious memories always linger....
Lovingly,
Riley and Cerise Johnson
Patti Manion
November 20, 2013
Michelle, Jerry and all the family,
I am so sorry you are going through this. Jay will be greatly missed. I wish you all the strength you need to get through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers, always!
Judy Simons
November 20, 2013
Dear Linda, Jerry, Michelle and Family,
I knew Jay since the day he was born. Our sons played together. My heart is just broken. He was such a wonderful and warm person. He will always live in my heart. Jay is now with his father whom he adored. My God comfort you in this most difficult time.
November 20, 2013
To Linda , I am so sorry about the passing of your son Jay. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Kathy Majewski
Michael Morgan
November 20, 2013
To all of Jay's loved ones, please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time. May he rest in peace and shine down upon us
Terry L. Davidson
November 20, 2013
To the Schoolnick Family
It is with great sadness to learn of Jay's passing. I hope that your many fond memories will help guide you through this difficult time. Jay is now resting peacefully with his Dad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lucille Bartee
November 20, 2013
Dear Linda,Jerry & Family
I'm truly sorry to hear of Jay's passing. He truly fought a good fight but the battle is now over and he's at peace. I'm glad I got to know him over the last couple of years. Linda I'm only a phone call away. i will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Andrea von Bargen
November 20, 2013
To the Schoolnick family, so sorry to hear about the passing of Jay. He and I entered Hartt the same year. One of my first friends in school. He will be missed by many.
November 20, 2013
To Linda, Jerry and family: My condolences to all of you on Jay's passing. I will miss him very much as he was a wonderful neighbor and friend. Love, Sandy.
Lori O'Neil
November 20, 2013
Jerry, Michelle, Dave and Allison - There is nothing I can say to express the deep sorrow in my heart. You are all in my prayers. Peace.
November 20, 2013
Rest in peace Jay.
Linda Halpin
November 20, 2013
To the Schoolnick family, So sorry ti hear of the passing of Jay. He will be truly missed.
Elliott & Elissa Donn
November 20, 2013
Dear Bobby and Friends,
We're so sorry to learn of your nephew Jay's passing. You have our sincerest condolences.
Although we did not know him, we did know Lenny. As we have chilren in that age range, we can't imagine anything worse.
May he rest in peace.
dianne Connors
November 20, 2013
So sorry that I can't be with you during this painful time. Know that you are all in my thoughts and heart.
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