ARESCO, Louis P.
Louis P. Aresco, 70, of Portland, loving husband of Patricia (Shanahan) Aresco for 44 years, passed away peacefully at home with family on Thursday, (August 8, 2013). He was the son of the late Joseph and Frances Puglisi Aresco. Louis graduated from Middletown High School ('61), St. Michael's College (BA '65), and Hartford Connecticut State Technical College ('67). He joined Monarca, Aresco, & Mazzotta Inc. Construction Company in 1969 as a bricklayer. He later served as project foreman, superintendent and project manager. In 1988, he assumed the role of President of the business, and changed the name to Aresco Construction Company. In 2013, he turned control of the 66 year old family business over to his son, Joseph. During his time as President he was proud to have worked on many local municipal and private construction projects, including Middlesex Hospital, Middletown City Hall, and numerous local banks and schools. His kindness, concern for others, attention to details, respect for his employees and clients, and fair treatment of others led to the growth of the business under his tenure. It was in the same spirit that he lived his personal life with his family, friends, and beloved grandchildren, to whom "Papa" was the light of their eye. He served in the 76th Division United States Army Reserve Band, was a lifetime member of the Knights of Columbus, the IACO, the Elks Club, and served on the Board of Trustees of Mercy High School, which awarded him the Catherine McCauley Award in 2002 for his lifetime service to the school. He was a longtime member of St. Mary's Parish, Portland. He also enjoyed his years as a member of the Tuesday morning Men's Senior Golf League and Friday night couples golf leagues at Portland Golf Course. Having lived with cancer since 1995, he lived by the motto "it is what it is." His disease never stopped him from his work, golf, trips to Notre Dame, BC football games, winters spent in Naples, FL, working in his vegetable garden, or spending time with his friends and family. He firmly believed there is life after cancer diagnosis. Besides his wife Patricia, he is survived by his son, Joseph D. Aresco and his wife Angela of Portland; his daughter Jennifer Brennan and her husband Peter of Marblehead, MA; his sister Antonia Cubeta and her husband Angelo of Portland; his brother-in-law Robert Wimler, and his sister-in law Jeanne Cullinan. He also leaves behind his beloved grandchildren: Alysha Ledbetter, Devin and Josh Aresco, and Caroline and Patrick Brennan, as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts and close friends. He is predeceased by his sister, Ann Wimler, and brother-in-law Robert Cullinan. The family would like to thank Dr. Miklos Fogarasi and the Middlesex Cancer Center for their compassion and care during these many years of treatment.
Funeral services will be held Monday August 12, 2013 at 10 a.m. from Portland Memorial Funeral Home, 231 Main St., Portland with a Mass at 11 a.m. at St. Mary Church, 51 Freestone Ave., Portland. Burial will be in St. Mary Cemetery, Portland. Relatives and friends may call on Sunday from 4-8 p.m. at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that donations be made to Mercy High School, 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT 06457; Xavier High School, 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT 06457; St. Jude's Thadeus Shrine, 205 West Monrow Street, Chicago, IL 60606 (please note "for use of the Shrine); and the Middlesex Hospital Cancer Center, 536 Saybrook Road, Middletown, CT 06457. To send an online expression of sympathy, please visit www.portlandmemorialfh.net.
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August 26, 2013
Aresco family: We just hearn of the passing of Lou and want you to know what a wonderful man he was. A special note to Joe and family, your Dad was really special and we will miss him very much. His work for Xavier and Mercy was really appreciated and will not be forgotten. My family will keep you in our prayers and hope to see all of you soon.
The King Family,
Maureen, Jack, Matt, Josh, and Zac.
Marylou & Nick Pini
August 14, 2013
Dear Pat and Family. So sad to hear of Lous passing. I know my husband Nick enjoyed coaching the Little League Red Sox with Lou.He always spoke highly of Lou. I know his family will miss him greatly. May God be with you and Bless you in this sad time. Marylou & Nick Pini.
Pete Baron-Krieger
August 13, 2013
Dear Pat & family: My thoughts and prayers are extended to you at this difficult time. Lou has joined Dad whom left us in 1995 to cancer. May you find comfort and strength from the love & prayers by family & friends and knowing he has joined the other saints triumphant!
Anne-Marie Prchal Farez
August 13, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Celebrate the wonderful times you have shared together. He will never be far away.
Thomas Lastrina
August 12, 2013
Toni, so sorry for your loss. It's been so many years that the last time I saw you last.Good times with the prayer group.God bless
Ron Bish
August 12, 2013
Great guy, pleasure to know.
Paul & Barbara Fazzino
August 11, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Linda & Dennis Norton
August 11, 2013
Pat and family,
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Sorry to hear, my prayers are with you.
Molly and Mike Molloy(Mulholland)
August 10, 2013
Thinking of you and Joe and Jen. May you all find strength in your memories!
Rick Renzella
August 10, 2013
Joe and family, I am sorry to hear of the passing of your father. I did not know him well, but I saw that he was a presence in your life. My condolences to you and your family.
Tom Colangelo
August 10, 2013
Pat,
I am sorry to learn of Louis' passing. We were classmates at St. Mike's and he was a truly fine young man. I'm sure he has the heavenly chorus playing for you and all his loved ones.
Lou and Sue Scianna
August 10, 2013
Dear Pat, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Joe and Jen. Lou was a "good man" and will be missed by all.
Rose Rivera
August 10, 2013
Pat, Joe, Jen and Family,
My deepest sympathy and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I've come to know and love Lou through my years at Aresco Construction and will always remember Lou with love and kindness. He will be greatly missed.
Tom & Dolores Cosker
August 10, 2013
Pat, Joe & family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Tom & Dolores Cosker
John Milardo
August 10, 2013
So sorry to hear about your loss. Lou was a good man.
August 10, 2013
Pat, Joe and family,
I'm deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I've grown to appreciate over the years what a godd man Lou was.
My prayers to you and the family.
Greg Gatter
August 10, 2013
Dear Pat, Jen and Family, our prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow. His quiet manner spoke volumes about the gentle man within. Cherish the wonderful memories of family times together. With condolences, Joseph and Barbara Bioty
JOHN SWEENEY
August 9, 2013
Sorry for you loss,
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