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Mary Bowie Obituary



Mary (Murphy) Bowie, 93, of Newington, formerly West Hartford, beloved wife of the late Thomas B. Bowie, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, December 6, 2013. Mary was born on September 23, 1920 one of seven children born to the late Thomas L. and Catherine (Powell) Murphy. Mary graduated from East Hartford High School and worked at Pratt and Whitney Aircraft in East Hartford as an Inspector for engine components. Mary and Tom were married on October 28, 1950. This began a 51 year partnership until Tom's passing in 2001. Mary was a stay at home Mom until her children were in school. At that time, Mary began her second career, first working at Mercer and Dunbar Payroll Services, then the job she truly enjoyed jewelry associate at Michael's Jewelers at the WestFarms Mall. Mary was the first employee hired at that Michael's location. Mary retired in the late 80's when she and Tom began the next phase of their lives. Mary was a lifetime member of the Irish American Home Society. In 1990, Mary and Tom were recognized for their dedication in promoting Irish culture as founding members of the Irish American Society Feis in Glastonbury. Mary was a member of the West Hartford Democratic Women's Club and St. Francis Hospital Ladies Auxiliary. Mary leaves her daughter and son-in-law whom she made her home for the past 5 years, Katherine Green and her husband Gordon of Newington, her sons, Thomas of Hammond, NY and Kevin of Tampa, FL; her much loved grandson Michael Spalla and his wife, Elise (Golembeski) of Newington. Mary is survived by her wonderful sister, Helen Miggins of Farmington and her sister- in- law, Katherine Reynolds of West Hartford. Mary leaves Gordon's children Tom (Toni) of Bethany, Steven (Melody) of Cheshire and Dan (Lilly) of New Britain. Grandma Mary leaves Devlin (Steven), Natylee and Nolan (Tom). Mary leaves 13 nieces and nephews and their spouses and children. Mary also leaves a close family friend, Meredith Henry. Mary was predeceased by her sisters and brothers-in-law, Cecilia and Arthur Mulligan, Elizabeth and John Scully, her sister Catherine Glasson, her brothers, Thomas and Francis Murphy; her brothers-in-law John Miggins and Thomas Reynolds, her sister-in-law and brother-in-law Marion and Frank Erwin and her niece Anne Bowie Reynolds and a great-nephew Jake Scully. Mary enjoyed her trips to Foxwood and Mohegan Sun with Tom and two of her sisters, Catherine and Helen. In addition, Mary and Tom traveled to Ireland and Italy with family. These trips they truly enjoyed. Mary was the lone Yankee fan in a Red Sox family. Until recently, Mary loved attending UCONN football games and UCONN Men and Women basketball with her daughter and son-in-law. Mary would cheer for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers as part of her Tampa connection. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, December 11, at 10 am at the Church of St. Mary, 626 Willard Avenue, Newington. The family requests all to meet them directly at the Church. Burial will be at St. Mary's Cemetery, East Hartford. Calling hours are Tuesday, December 10, from 5 to 8pm at The Sheehan- Hilborn- Breen Funeral Home, 1084 New Britain Avenue, West Hartford. Memorial donations may be in Mary's name to Northwest Catholic High School, 29 Wampanoag Drive, West Hartford 06117 or Jubilee House, 40 Clifford Street, Hartford, 06114. We would like to thank Marissa, Carissa, Rose and Jackie from Visiting Angels and Interim Home Health and Hospice, especially Elaine for all their love and care. Online condolences may be made at www.SheehanHilbornBreen.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Dec. 8 to Dec. 9, 2013.

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Kevin Larkin

December 20, 2013

Please accept my deepest sympathies, your Mother was my aunt Helen's best friend and best pal as well. They had a lot of laughs together. I will always remember her Irish Soda Bread as the best! with condolences.

Gloria REDDY

December 13, 2013

To the Bowie Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was the best. I always visited her at Michaels and she would always clean my rings and earrings. They like so many of that era, was the Greatest Generation. Always so kind and happy.
I'm sure you will miss your mom but remember all the great memories.
My thoughts and prayers to everyone.
Gloria Maradie Reddy

Jim and Peggy O'Toole

December 13, 2013

We are sorry to hear about Mary's passing. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy.

Kimberly Sanders Spera

December 12, 2013

On behalf of President/Chief Administrator David Eustis and the entire Northwest Catholic High School community, I offer my deepest sympathy on the passing of Mary Bowie.

Because her children, Katherine Bowie Green '69, Thomas Bowie '73, and Kevin Bowie '77, her grandson Michael Spalla '02, and her nieces and nephews Nancy Scully Bannon '73, John Scully '75, Sally Scully '77, James Scully '79 and William Scully '80, are cherished members of our school family, we feel that Mary was, too, and we mourn her death along with all those who love her.

Please know that we are holding all of Mary's family very close to our hearts this week, and that we will include her on the prayer list at our next school-wide Mass. We are very sorry for your loss.

~ Kimberly Sanders Spera, Director of Communications, Northwest Catholic High School

Carisa Lynn

December 10, 2013

I've only known Mary for a short couple of weeks and she has left a mark on my life forever she never complained I would ask her every morning when I arrived how she was doing and her response was always pretty good in a soft angelic voice in her last weeks of life I got to spend 3 days a week with her Kathy and Gordon they to me are a perfect example of what family is she will forever remain in my heart she passed on with grace and dignity. My only wish is that I could have seen her cut a rug but now she can dance to her hearts content with her husband to all her children there spouses grandchildren and great grandchildren allow her to live on in you enjoy each other and know she will be watching forever in our hearts and prayer see you at the crossroads Mary

December 9, 2013

Thoughts and prayers extended to the Bowie family and Meredith Henry. May she rest in peace

Michael Morgan

December 9, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Mary's family and loved ones. May she rest in peace

Judie Dest

December 9, 2013

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Marybeth Gendton

December 9, 2013

To Mary's family I am sorry for you loss. Helen my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

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