O'ROURKE, Patricia (Hussey)
Patricia (Hussey) O'Rourke, 85, beloved wife of the late Patrick O'Rourke died peacefully at her son's home in Portland on Wednesday morning, (June 12, 2013). Born on March 24, 1928 in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Edward S. and Della (Clancy) Hussey. Pat grew up in West Hartford where she attended local schools. She married her husband Patrick in 1951 and the couple relocated to East Hartford and raised their family. A longtime resident of East Hartford, Pat was a parishioner of St. Mary's Church. Upon the death of her husband in 1974 she earned her insurance license and worked as an agent for AAA for many years. In 1979 Pat faced the unexpected loss of her daughter Maureen; she was instrumental in caring for her grandchildren Sean and Shannon. Later on in her life she moved to South Windsor. Pat's favorite pastime was shopping and gardening. She also enjoyed knitting, taking Cruises around the Caribbean, weekend visits to Giants Neck Beach and vacations on Cape Cod and Martha's Vineyard. A loving wife, mother and grandmother, Pat will always be remembered for her strength, courage, independence and dry sense of humor. Pat is survived by her children: Margaret Morrell and her husband Charlie of Portland, Ann Marie O'Rourke and John Brennan III of South Glastonbury; John P. O'Rourke and his wife Patricia of Windsor, Michael D. O'Rourke and his wife Suzanne of Portland; her brother Edward Hussey and his wife Lillian of West Hartford; her sister Anita Hudak and her husband John of East Hartford; nine grandchildren and four great-grandchildren whom she cherished and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her beloved daughter Maureen Smith; her infant granddaughter and great-granddaughter and her special cousin Betty Hussey.
Her Mass of Christian burial will be held on Saturday June 15, 2013 at 10 a.m. at St. Mary's Church, 15 Maplewood Ave., East Hartford. Everyone is asked to go directly to the church. Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery, Burnside Ave., East Hartford. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Stempien Funeral Home, 450 Broad St., Meriden. Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Friday evening June 14, 2013 from 4-8 p.m. at the Stempien Funeral Home. To send an online expression of sympathy please visit www.stempienfuneralhome.com. In lieu of flowers donations in memory of Mrs. O'Rourke may be made to the Connecticut Down Syndrome Congress (CDSC), Team PRO, c\o the Stempien Funeral Home, 450 Broad St., Meriden, CT 06450.
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June 13, 2014
I light this candle in your guestbook for the last time tonight! till we meet again know I love you & miss you more and more each day.
April 12, 2014
10 long months ago we heard your voice for the last time! Oh how we wish the hands of time would rewind! Love you always!!!! Xoxo today tomorrow and always
March 24, 2014
Happy Birthday Gram!! Sending my love to above today and always!!
March 12, 2014
Xoxo Miss you xoxo
February 12, 2014
Ok Gram, can you work some magic We are getting tired of all this snow!!!
Love you can't believe 8 month's have passed without you! Sure do Miss you
January 12, 2014
Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts!
January 1, 2014
Xoxo Happy New Year's Gram!! Xoxo
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas Gram!!! We love you! Had some chocolate cream pie last night Not as good as yours but pretty close! Ha ha oh you would have just said 'What' and we would have had a nice laugh!
Xoxoxoxoxo
December 12, 2013
Xoxo
Michael Quinn
December 6, 2013
Michael, sorry for your loss, your mom was always very nice.
December 5, 2013
Gram 6 months ago I gave birth to the most beautiful little boy. One week later I said good bye to you. Talk about a high and low in one week
I know I write here often, I hope you don't mind. I was so use to just picking up the phone, just to ask you if any husseys were in the house. Ah how you would laugh, followed by no, only Mrs. O'Rourke. Or you calling me at work and me having to remind you, Gram we are being recorded.
Havent been back to your lovely breakfast joint friendly's yet. Gosh those potatoes you so loved were awful.It was the only place well besides red lobster we could go with out hesitation!! Well, getting your nails done was a hit too!
Just wanted to take a trip down memory lane with you today. Hope you enjoyed it. I'll never forget you!
Thank you, for all the joy you brought to my life, I'll be forever greatful! Love you!!
November 28, 2013
First holiday without hearing your voice! Man do I miss you!!
Happy Thanksgiving Xoxo
November 12, 2013
5 long months have passed. Life is a bit different now. Miss you & Love you always!
October 10, 2013
Everyday that passes I seem to miss you more. I miss our lil chats I miss the way you laughed. I miss your smile Gram.
Life seems a bit empty without you.
Sending you a kiss and my love to above.
Thank you for all the memories!!
Please shine the sun for Bridget's big day Saturday. I know you will be there in sprirt all jazzed up like you always did.
Love you bunches!!!! Xoxo
September 11, 2013
So I'm watching the today show and the smuckers birthday list of all those 100 year olds is on.
I got a good chuckle thinking of all the times I'd tell you, we would have you on that show too when it was your turn!!
I miss you tons love you more!!
August 12, 2013
Xoxo
July 25, 2013
Hi Gram,
Well I hope your transition to being a bigger angel than you were here was easy!
I miss you more each day, I know I was lucky to have you for 34.5 yrs but that truly wasn't long enough.
All the memories we shared I thank you! I can't wait to share them with Dylan!
Gram, I really hope you know how much I LOVED you!!
Ok, enough sap carry on my dear Grandmother! Enjoy peace now!! Xoxxoox
July 2, 2013
Missing you!!! Love you
Brian Mikkelson
June 14, 2013
Jack, Mike & Family: Please accept my deepest and sincere condolence in your loss. I was away in Maine on business and received a call from Bill Barber and Tony Fuster who informed me of your mom's passing. Whenever I'm in the old neighborhood and I ride past your home I still think about all of you. God bless you and your family.
My love always, Shannon
June 14, 2013
Gee Gram, Im really not ready for these next few day ahead of us. We always talked about how you were going to live to 100! We weren't done making memories yet. Well I'm happy your at peace. Rest easy love you bunches. I'm sure gonna miss you!
June 14, 2013
Ann and Jack,
We are sorry for the loss of your mom. We know how special she was to you, and seeing her enjoy your summer home with you all these years was a pleasure. “Of all the blessings in heaven and earth, there is none more beautiful than a mother's love.”
Alda, Michael, Nick and J
Michael Bilz
June 13, 2013
Dear Jack & family,
I am sorry to read about your Mom's passing. I'm sure you and your family have a world of wonderful memories to draw on for inspiration during this trying time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Mike Bilz

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Linda
June 13, 2013
Michael and Suzanne, Sorry to read of your Mom's passing. May cherished memories comfort you in the days ahead.
Amy (Sexton) Berlin
June 13, 2013
My family was friends with the O'Rourke family for many years. Mrs. O'Rourke is in many of my childhood pictures from birthday parties to holidays. Even though I haven't seen her in years I have very fond memories of her and what a cool lady I thought she was. My sincere condolences to the family.
June 13, 2013
Ann Marie & Jack,
Our thoughts, prayers and sincere condolences are extended to the O'Rourke family during this time of loss. It is never easy to lose a loved one and we hope all may take comfort that Patricia lived a long life with many joys and happy experiences.
With Sympathy,
Mario & Mary Beth DiLoreto
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