WHALEN, Paul
Paul Whalen, 83, of Rocky Hill and Vero Beach, FL, beloved husband of Pauline (Chase) Whalen, died on October 18, 2013 at his home surrounded by his family. He formerly lived in West Hartford and Newington. Paul was born on December 8, 1929 in Hartford to Thomas and Margaret (Guinan) Whalen and attended Prince Tech. He left school to join the Navy where he was assigned as an Airman 1st Class on the aircraft carrier USS Wasp. In 1953 he married Pauline, and together they had 6 children. They recently celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary at Rockledge Country Club - the same place where they celebrated their wedding 60 years ago. After his honorable discharge from the Navy, Paul worked as a Fire Fighter for the West Harford Fire Department for 28 years serving as the Motor Pump Operator on Engine 3. Paul then worked for the Hartford Insurance Group as a professional chauffeur until 1996. Paul and Pauline spent their retirement years between their home in Connecticut and a winter home in Vero Beach, Florida. He was an avid golfer, billiards player and Red Sox Fan. Paul was always ready with a helping hand to assist his family or friends whatever the need - he will be missed by many. Paul is survived by his loving wife Pauline, his children Mike and Betsey Whalen of South Yarmouth, MA, Doug and Marie Whalen of Estero, FL, Brian and Josee Whalen of Rocky Hill, Jeff and Nancy Whalen of Shelton, and Margaret "Meg" Domina and her partner Luis Calderon of Bristol. Paul is survived by his 12 grandchildren Lance, Michael, and Ryan Whalen and his wife Teresa, Shannon, Sean Whalen and his wife Heather , Colin, and Scott Whalen, Lindsey DeJohn and her husband Ben, Kyra Whalen, Derrick, Caitlin, and Joshua Domina; his seven great-grandchildren Milie, Kaydence, Liam, Sydney, Kayla, Shane and Colby; his sister-in-law Karen Whalen, of East Windsor; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his daughter Linda and his two brothers Tom and Jim Whalen.
Paul's funeral service will be held Tuesday at 9 a.m. from the Fisette-Batzner Funeral Home at Newington Memorial, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at Church of the Holy Spirit, Newington. Interment will be in Mt. St. Benedict Cemetery, Bloomfield. Relatives and friends are invited to call Monday from 4-7 p.m. at Fisette - Batzner Funeral Home. Memorial donations may be made to Newington Fire Department, 1485 Main Street Newington, CT, 06111; American Cancer Society 825 Brook St., I-91 Tech Center #3, Rocky Hill, CT 06067; or the Church of the Holy Spirit, 183 Church St., Newington, CT 06111. To share a memory with Paul's family please visit us at www.Duksa.net.

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Bob & Noella Lapierre
October 23, 2013
We are greatful of all the fond memories that we will cherish for the rest of our lives. We're also grateful to have been a part of the beautiful gathering of family and friends in honor of Paul.
Our love and support to all of the family, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob & Noella
Melissa D'Alessandro
November 6, 2013
Pauline and Family,
Paul always had such kind and thoughtful words- the kind of person you immediately like. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Melissa and John D'Alessandro
October 24, 2013
Dear Pauline and family, our condolences and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Kenneth and Lucille Forbes (Ken retired West Hartford firefighter) Surf City, N.C.
Frances GREENE
October 24, 2013
My heartfelt sympathy to all. My God welcome him into his new home.
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Cindy Holden
October 22, 2013
Pauline and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know you had many wonderful years together Pauline. I miss you . Cindy Holden
Sally Wallet
October 22, 2013
Please accept my deepest sympathy in
memory of your husband, father, and
grandfather
Maria Iannucci
October 21, 2013
With Sympathy and Love
Gina & Tony Carbone
October 21, 2013
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die." - Thomas Campbell
With sympathy to our beach family
Shelley Waxman
October 21, 2013
Doug and family, my condolences on the loss or your dad. May your family remember the wonderful memories to provide comfort at this time.
October 21, 2013
The Whalen Family,
The "boulevard" days are long gone, but the memories of the great neighbors have not been forgotten. So sorry for your lose, not an easy time, but knowing no matter how many years go by, your husband and father is fondly remembered.
Russell Hunter
October 21, 2013
Dear Pauline and family,
We were privileged to know and love Paul. We will miss him and his humor as we visited together over the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Love, Bob and Fran Wojcik
Andrew Przybylowicz
October 20, 2013
Pauline and family,
Sorry for your loss. May you find strength in the good times you shared.
Andrew and Gayle Przybylowicz
Brian Skehan
October 20, 2013
Mike - Doug - Brian ;
Sincere condolences each of you,
and your Entire families.
Pop Whalen had much to be proud of.
Ray Camarco
October 20, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with the Whalen family. God Bless you all.
Peter & Pearl Moretti
October 20, 2013
Michael & Family: Sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May he RIP.
Gloria Olesen
October 20, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mark & Nadine DiBella
October 20, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 20, 2013
Very sorry for your loss. Tall Paul was my friend and cohort at Station 3. In our off hours we would play table tennis and Hearts, and laugh all the time. So long to an old pal.
Bob
Joe Ginette gagnon
October 20, 2013
You are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. God bless you all.
Matt+ Sharon Stuart
October 20, 2013
Sorry to hear about your loss. I remember meeting Paul at the Union Christmas party and hearing guys tell stories about him early in my Career. Everybody I met spoke fondly of him-
Barry D'Onofrio
October 20, 2013
Very very sorry to hear this news. A great guy with a great family. He did do well.
Cheryl Burgan
October 20, 2013
Pauline, Doug, Marie, Shannon, Jeff, Nancy, & Kyra, I am so sorry for your loss. You and Paul are in my prayers.
Neil & Dori Sullivan
October 20, 2013
Dear Whalen Family: We are so sorry for your loss. Your dad created a Public Safety legacy which will live on for generations. May fond memories soften your sorrow and may this fine man rest in peace.
Serge Khuzkian
October 20, 2013
Dear Micheal & Family, My deepest sympathies, God Bless
Jackie ,Roger Lapointe
October 20, 2013
Dear Pauline and family .please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Jackie and Roger Lapointe .
Fisette-Batzner Funeral Home
October 20, 2013
With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.
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