BOLLING, Paula Mynette
Paula Mynette Bolling, 43, of Ellington, peacefully entered into eternal rest on Saturday, (July 27, 2013). Born in Hartford on April 1, 1970, Paula was the daughter of Jaunita (Bolling) Zellous, James Davis and William Zellous; mother to son James "JJ" Simmons whom she loved with all her heart and sould. Paula attended Northwest Catholic High School and East Hartford High School. Paula also attended Springfield College. Paula worked for over 20 years in the Human Service field as a CNA, Hospice Aide, Residential Staff, Residential Program Manager and Residential Supervisor. Paula enjoyed traveling; especially going on cruises with her family and friends. Paula was a passionate cook thoroughly enjoyed cookin Italian meals for her friends and talked of going to Italy one day. Besides her loving parents and beloved son she is also survived by her grandmother, Mary (Hart) Bolling; five brothers, Roderick, Duran, Jimmy, Wade and Faray; two sisters, Anne and Vicky; aunts, Barbara (Bolling) Scales and Dorothy Conway; two uncles, Raymond and Carlton Bolling; dedicated god-mother Rosalind Cobb; and a loving host of aunts, uncles, cousins, and many cherished and dedicated friends; Ladonn, Briana, Crystell, Yolanda, Jamice, Stacy, Marilyn, and Shelene. Paula is predeceased by her grandparents, Charles R. Bolling, Frank and Lillie Zellous; aunt Mary Ellen Beaver; uncles, Charles R. Bolling, Jr., and Lawrence Bolling. A very special thank you to Visiting Nurse Health Services of Vernon and Paradigm Health Care Facility in South Windsor for the care given to Paula throughout her illness.
A Memorial Service will be held at a later date, which will be announced in the Hartford Courant. All Faith Memorial Chapel of South Windsor is assisting the family.

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July 27, 2014
It's hard to believe my niece has been gone for one year today. I always think about her especially when I look at the picture of us when we roomed together on our cruise in 2009. I miss you dearly but will see you one day in heaven. Love Auntie Barbara
Rob Bolling
March 3, 2014
I just want to give my condolences to my cuz Aunt Juanita. I hope that you are doing better
Yusef
November 22, 2013
Fond memories. Heart felt condolences.
Jibrelle Williams
September 12, 2013
Blessings
Such a shock...I'm deeply sadden...Paula & I met at Eastern CT State University...we were always clowning around in class..Prayers to her son & family...To her son..keep your head and always know she is never far away...
Peace & Grace
Jibrelle
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Juanita Zellous
September 9, 2013
Thinking of you today my daughter. Love You Mom
Malinda Diaz-Amaro
September 8, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about your passing but knowing your in a better place with no more suffering. I'll remember your beautiful smile & loving ways & knowing that you will be watching down on all your loved ones.
Yolanda (Yokie) Harris
August 13, 2013
Auntie Nee Nee & James,
I am so sorry about Paula. She will truly be missed. We shared so many great times and memories throughout the years growing up. She sent me a letter and picture back in December of the two of us and she remarked that I was more like her sister than cousin. I will never forget those words and I will always cherish our time together. You're free now cousin, rest in peace and may God be with you.
Love Yokie
Niecey Molden
August 13, 2013
Deepest sympathy....prayers are with your family......MOLDEN FAMILY
katrina syms
August 13, 2013
Paula i have nothing but sweet memories of you Godspeed
August 9, 2013
Juanita & James,
I was so sorry to hear about Paula. We loved her dearly and will truely miss her. I will always remember the good times we had together especially last October. Rest in peace Paula and we all will see you some day.
Love Auntie Barbara
August 9, 2013
"Blessed are those who mourn, God will comfort you" Juanita this is your twin for sure....Robin Jennings from the State of CT, DSS, Fiscal Analysis
Roderick Torbert
August 6, 2013
My sister and I had a great relationship. Though we didn't see each other a lot, we spoke & expressed our love for one another. I love you & will miss you dearly.
Val and Mr. Chris Doute
August 4, 2013
Dear Juanita, James and Bolling Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Paula's passing. May your memories of her get you through this most difficult time. You are in our prayers.
Semaria and Briana
August 3, 2013
Words can't express how deeply saddened I am about this lost. Paula thank you for all the fun times we had as kids and as adults. I will miss your beautiful smile and crazy laugh may God keep you close to his heart and I will do the same
August 2, 2013
Dear Juanita and family: Jean and I were so sorry to hear about yur daughter, May God bless you in this time of sorrow.
Sincerely yours Janice C Edwards. New Britain.
August 1, 2013
Juanita:
I was so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing.
God Speed!
LoriBeth (LB)
August 1, 2013
Juanita so sorry to hear about Paula,remember, God's promise is to give you only what you can handle, so trust in him and he will give you all the help and strength you need. God bless and take care.
Patricia Bell
August 1, 2013
Juanita I'm so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. She's free of pain now and with God . A true angel has been called home. God bless you and your family
July 31, 2013
Juanita I was so saddened when I heard of your loss. May you and your family find comfort in the knowledge that God has called Paula home. Peace be still. Another angel has her wings.
Karen Huggins
July 31, 2013
To Jaunita,James,and the entire Bolling family. We are so sorry for your loss, R.I.P Paula.You will always be in our heart's .Love always.The Huggins family.
Patsy Dailey
July 31, 2013
My deepest condolences to the family & friends of Paula. May God watch over you in your time of loss.
jerdis smith
July 31, 2013
she will always be n my heart. loved her today yesterday and forever.
July 31, 2013
May our Father in Heaven,
Bless the Bolling Family on the Home Going of Paula with Healing, Love, Joy, & Peace while you all make it throw theses days to come in Jesus Name I Pray Amen!!! Thomas Davis
Anna Robles-lee
July 31, 2013
Juanita, so sad to hear about your loss. I am glad that I got to meet Paula, she was a lovely and kind person and now is in Heaven at peace with the angels. God bless you and your family and give you comfort and peace.
Anna Robles-lee
July 31, 2013
Juanita, I am so sad to hear about your loss. May God give you and your family comfort and peace. Glad that I got to meet Paula, she was a lovely and kind person. She is now in Heaven at peace.
Pat Pion
July 31, 2013
Juanita & Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers and love are sent too you & the family.
God Bless
Denise Morrissey
July 31, 2013
My dear friend, Paula.....the day I met you in kindergarten when you were crying because you felt alone....I took your hand and told you not to cry, I would be your friend. I meant that with all my heart. Even though we had time and distance between us, I will always covet our friendship and you will truly be missed. To all of Paula's family, may peace find and comfort you in this time of sorrow.
Vivian DeLawrence
July 31, 2013
To Juanita and the Bolling Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May sweet memories bring you comfort and May God grant you the peace that surpasses all understanding.
Linda Williams
July 31, 2013
Juanita my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, no more suffering, no more pain and no more tears God has called home another one of his Angels.
July 31, 2013
Juanita and JJ, my prayers are with you. I am so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. I thank you for the opportunity of getting to know Paul when we were on a cruise. She was always, such a funny and cheerful person. May the peace of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ be with you and your family. Cheryl and Harry Lawrence
Marisa Hayes
July 31, 2013
To Juanita & family, words cannot properly express what we have in our hearts. We do know, however, that God did not make a mistake when He called an angel home to Him. With love and continuous prayers, Marisa, Ronnie & Jarae.
Beth Bockus
July 31, 2013
To the entire Bolling family, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I grew up with the Bollings just down the street from me and they are the most kindest family in the world!RIP my friend Paula, you are now with Koran & Jahan, tell them I said I love them and miss them dearly!Until we meet again. May god comfort the entire Bolling family forever.
Carma Sanchez
July 31, 2013
Paula always said You get in life, what you take from it! Now May you rest easy!
Kathy Manning
July 31, 2013
I wish you much comfort, peace, and happy memories of Paula to get you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lori Bell-Carter
July 31, 2013
Juanita & Family?
Sorry to hear about Paula. Know that a good angel will accompany on her trip to heaven to meet the rest of our family.
Always ,
Cousin Lori Bell-Carter & Bell & Bolling Families
July 31, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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