THIESEN, Raymond B., Jr.
Raymond Bertrand Thiesen, Jr., 81, of Cromwell, beloved husband of the late Kathleen (Daly) Thiesen, passed away Monday, (November 4, 2013) at Middlesex Hospital with his family by his side after a lengthy battle with Dementia. Born in Meriden and raised in Rocky Hill, he was the son of the late Raymond and Edythe (McKnerney) Thiesen. Ray was a graduate of Wethersfield High School and subsequently served in the U.S. Navy during the Korean Conflict aboard the U.S.S. Monrovia, following which he earned a B.S. in Accounting at Bryant College. Ray lived in Cromwell for 52 years and was a member of Saint John Church, where he was a lector, member of the Church council, and a member of the Finance Committee of the Board of Directors of Bethany Housing. Ray was a distinguished Field Agent for the Internal Revenue Service prior to becoming a Certified Public Accountant and forming his own accounting practice, and was very active in town governance serving on the Cromwell Board of Finance as a member and chairman, and as a member of the Cromwell Charter Revision Committee. Ray was active in the Boy Scouts during his youth, attained the rank of Life Scout, and received a red ribbon for meritorious service to Troop 23. He was later active as a den and pack leader in the Cromwell Cub Scouts. He was also a member of the Cromwell Lion's Club and Carlson Scovill Post 105 of the American Legion. Ray loved to travel and was fortunate to visit most of the United States, the Caribbean, and Europe. He is survived by three sons, Raymond Thiesen, III of Middletown, Donald Thiesen (Rhonda) of Hebron, and Brian Thiesen (Joan) of Cromwell, and three grandsons, Devin, Erik, and Adam as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins. Besides his wife and parents, he was predeceased by two infant daughters and a sister, Patricia Saunders. Ray's family would like to give special thanks to his caregiver, Susan Ryan, CNA for her gentle kindness and professional care during the past year.
Funeral services will be held on Saturday, November 9 from the Cromwell Funeral Home, 506 Main Street, Cromwell at 9 a.m. followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at Saint John Church, 5 Saint John Court, Cromwell. Interment will follow in Cromwell Hillside Cemetery West where full military honors will be accorded. Friends may call on Friday evening from 5-7 p.m. at the Cromwell Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ray's memory to Alzheimer's Association CT Chapter, 2075 Silas Deane Highway, Rocky Hill, CT 06067. Messages of condolence may be sent to the family at www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.
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Jay & Valerie Montalbano
November 2, 2014
Dear Brian, Joan and Family-
As the one year anniversary approaches, may you have many wonderful memories to comfort you.
Blessings of comfort-
Jay & Valerie
Joseph & Susan (markowski) Morin
November 11, 2013
Dear brian and the rest of the Thiesen family. Our condolences to all of you. I enjoyed serving with your dad on the Board of Finance and the Town Committee. He will be missed. Our prayers are with him and Kathy.
Sharon Fournier
November 11, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Thiesen family on the passing of their father. Erin told me the sad news and my first thoughts were that Kathleen and Raymond are now together in eternal peace. The last time I saw Kathleen and Raymond was at Erin's wedding five years ago. They were dancing together and Ray got to close to Kathleen and she gently nudged his shoulder. They looked so happy and I am so grateful that they came to the wedding. My condolences to the entire Daly family as well.
Sharon and Erin
Tom Caracuzzi
November 9, 2013
Dear Kathleen-- My deepest sympathy to you and your family..Ray was one of the most honest & gentle people I knew..
he will be in my prayers constantly
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Celi and Jim Walpole Griffin
November 8, 2013
Dear Raymond, We were very sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. You and your family are in our prayers
Jay Montalbano
November 8, 2013
Dear Brian, Joan and Family-
Valerie and I were sorry to learn that Brian's father had died.
After reading his obituary, it is obvious that he led an exemplary life. I am sorry that I never had the chance to meet him.
May you have many wonderful memories to comfort you in your loss.
In deepest sympathy-
Jay
Lana Rose
November 7, 2013
Ray,Don & Brian, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I hope it comforts you to know that your mom and dad are now at peace together.
Tom & Dolores Cosker
November 7, 2013
Ray, Donald & Brian, Tom and I are so very sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Your mother and father were the best neighbors. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you.
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