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STEBBINS, Richard
Richard Stebbins, 83 passed away, Thursday, May 16, 2013. He was born in Middletown on July 31, 1929, the son of the late Raymond T. and Wanda (Cyronwicz) Stebbins. Rich was raised by his stepmother Helen T. (Mikulski) Stebbins. He lived in Middletown for fifty years before moving to Portland to live with his son, Raymond and best friends, his grandchildren, Raymond, JR. and Tyler. It was a move that made a strong family stronger. Rich was a hard worker and provider, working till he was 72 years old. He was one of the premier softball players in Middletown for many years, including playing for and organizing the State Moose Lodge Softball League. He was a veteran of the U.S. Army serving in Germany during the Korean War. Rich traveled many times to Europe with his long time companion Vivian Arrigoni. They never needed a tour guide, with all the friends they made along their journeys. "To all my friends that went before me and to all I leave behind, I love you all. God Bless." Rich. Rich is survived by four sons, Richard R. Stebbins, Jr. and his wife Shirley of Hartsville, SC, Tim Stebbins and his wife June of Corinth, MS, Richard Stebbins II and his wife Karen, Raymond T. Stebbins and his companion Angela, two daughters, Kathleen M. Daley and Frances A. D'Amico, numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren and the one true love of his life, Carol Giesbrant. He is also survived by his brother, Henry Stebbins of FL and his sister, Mary Lou Stebbins Cappiello of Middletown. He was predeceased by two sisters, Patty Stebbins Barone and Lorraine Stebbins Dasconio. The family would like to give a special thank you to Richard's daughter Frances for the extra care and compassion she shared with Richard and her strength to help the family through this very difficult time.
Funeral services will be held Monday, May 20th at 7 p.m. at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver Street, Middletown, CT. Friends may call at Biega Funeral Home prior to the service from 5-7 p.m. Burial with military honors will be held at the convenience of the family. Memorial contributions may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project at 4899 Belfort Rd, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Richard STEBBINS
Bill Wilson
May 23, 2013
I am very sorry for your lose as your Dad was a very good man and my Dad had great respect for.
Kim Bellamo
May 23, 2013
So very sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed talking to Mr Stebbins when he came into the Portland Post Office. He was a very nice man and I'm sure will be missed by many.
May 23, 2013
To the Stebbins family, sorry for your loss.
Andrew Rak
Butch D'Amato
May 22, 2013
My Deepest Sympathy goes out to Ray Jr. and Family, I remember well your Dad at the Softball games in Portland.
John Robinson
May 22, 2013
To the Stebbins Family,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of one of Middletown's Original at Softball players. Rich was a Golden Glove player on and off the field. I started my softball career playing with Rich when I came out of the service in 1968. He was such a competitor on the field and it rubbed off on everyone on the team. May the good Lord be with the family at such a time as this.
Rick Stebbins
May 20, 2013
Each year I looked forward to our rides through the countryside and the stop at Aunt Loraines house. I felt like I was home. Miss you... Say hello to my Mom. Love, Rick (SC).
May 20, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Stebbins family during this difficult time. Your father will be greatly missed by many. He was a true gentleman and a wonderful friend. I could sit and listen to his stories for hours. The world has lost a great man. Bev Aliff and Mark Swiridowsky
Rob Markham
May 20, 2013
R.I.P. Gramp. You will be greatly missed.
May 20, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to family. God bless everyone in this difficult time.
Christine Cameron
Shelli Nolan
May 20, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dona Susanne Jason Stevens Dellavalle
May 20, 2013
Richard will be missed by many. We are so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Rich was a fun loving and kind man. I miss our little talks we shared at the little store. And Raymond was Rich's best friend. I am truly going to miss him.
Anna Stevens
May 20, 2013
Dear Kathy and family
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I have fond memories of visiting when we were young and of your Dad making my favorite: macaroni with butter and milk! Oh how I loved that! I know that times like these are hard and sorrow abounds, but try and remember the good times and the laughter, especially remember the love you shared. God bless and comfort you all
Kevin J Moore
May 20, 2013
Very sorry to hear of Richards passing God bless everyone
Terry & Wendy O'Rourke
May 20, 2013
R.I.P.
Cheryl Hill
May 20, 2013
My condolences to the Stebbins family. I will miss your dad. He was a great man who always treated me like one of his kids. RIP
meghan daley
May 19, 2013
Rest easy grandpa <3 we will all miss and love you so Much
mr&mrs mark pierini
May 19, 2013
We are thinking of you all. with love mark,doll & family
kimberly flanigan
May 19, 2013
Ricky, Ray, Kathy and Fran... I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families at this difficult time. May you find comfort within each other and within all the wonderful memories you have of him. I know I will remember him fondly. Godspeed Rich!
KELLY JONES
May 19, 2013
RIP GRAMPA
David Daley
May 19, 2013
To the Stebbins Family, I am very sadden to hear of the news of your Dad. All the good times that I had with him and your family. I never forgot and never will. Love Ya Rich
May 19, 2013
To the entire Stebbins Family, Jack and I would like to express our deepest sympathy to his children, grandchildren and all who will sincerely miss him. Sincerely, Jack & Lynda Herrmann
Jacqueline Barker
May 19, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to all the Stebbin family, especially my grandsons, Raymond and Tyler. Big Ray, you were a wonderful son to your father and may that help you in your sorrow. Jackie and Harvey
Diane Burghardt
May 19, 2013
Dear Rich,Karen,Ray,Angie and all the members and friends of the Stebbins's family, my deepest condolences, sorry for your loss, we are never prepared for this but know the thoughts, prayers,and time will comfort you. Diane Burghardt, Killingworth,Ct.
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