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Thomas Winkelmann Obituary



Thomas L. Winkelmann, 71 of Moodus, CT and formerly of Deposit, NY, passed away peacefully at home on January 10, 2014, in the arms of his beloved wife, Elizabeth, surrounded by his family and pets. Born October 29, 1942 in Syracuse, NY, he was a son of the late Paul and Mildred (Hinds) Winkelmann. Tom was a proud veteran, having served with the U.S. Air National Guard during the Berlin Conflict. He raised his family in Deposit, NY, where he built his own home and owned his own restaurant, Winks Place. He retired several years ago after 42 years as a Union Iron Worker with his final role being Superintendent for Riverside Ironworks in Gouverneur, NY. He was a member of Union Local 424 New Haven. Tom was an avid boater, Captain of the "Satisfier" and he was a member of the Pattaconk Yacht Club, having served on several committees and was the former Dock Master. He will be sadly missed but always remembered by his loved ones as a devoted husband, father and grandfather. In addition to his wife Liz, he is survived by six children, Paul and wife Cynthia Winkelmann of Thomaston, CT, Robin Winkelmann of Cocoa, FL, Kevin and wife Diana Winkelmann of Monticello, IN, Kevin and wife Nicole Grechika of Haddam, CT, Kyle Grechika of Norwich, CT, Kassie and husband Jon Gosnell of Chester, CT; five sisters, Irene Slattery of Kirkville, NY, Kathy Stanton of Clay, NY, Shirley Lough and Kandy Wiemeier, both of Mattydale, NY and Pauleen Winkelmann of Constantia, NY; nine grandchildren and numerous extended family members and friends. He was predeceased by two brothers, Leonard and Robert. Calling hours will be held on Sunday, Jan. 19th from 12 - 3 PM at the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home, 167 Old Hartford Rd, Colchester. A memorial service will follow immediately at 3 PM at the funeral home. Burial will be private. Donations in his memory may be made to the Middlesex Hospital Hospice, 28 Crescent St., Middletown, CT 06457. For online condolences, please visit www.auroramccarthyfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 12, 2014.

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Michael Paul

January 8, 2022

8 years seems like a few weeks.
I think of you every Oct and Jan, knowing you are resting well. I laugh out loud at various family debacles you took in stride.

You are missed by your family and friends....

Jim Miller

January 18, 2014

Liz, We were so sorry to hear about Tom. We just saw him at the end of the season at Pattaconk with Bob Yedresek. They were out for a drive and came up the creek for a visit. It was always good to see his smiling face. He was a great guy. He is at
peace now. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ana and Jimmy Miller

January 14, 2014

Liz,
I was so sorry to hear about Tom. I'm sure he's at peace now. He was a good man and that's the best you can say about anyone.
Joe Bevivino

Shana EG Salon

January 13, 2014

My condolences to Liz (the best and most loving wife ever) and all of Tom's children. Kassie, he looked as happy as you at your wedding! May he finally rest easy. I will always remember him even though we only met a year or so ago. Thinking of all of you always :)
-Shana @EG Salon

The Scaglione Family

January 13, 2014

Liz and Family, we are saddened by the passing of Tom, he was such a wonderful man! May he rest in peace! Tracy and Family

Kim Francisco

January 12, 2014

Love and miss you Uncle Tommy. Rest in peace. Heaven just gained a special angel. You are truly going to be missed.

pat grechika

January 12, 2014

My heartfelt sympathy to liz and family. May tom rest in peace

Sherly Lough

January 11, 2014

Love you tom rest in peace I will miss you

Becky Gillespie

January 11, 2014

Rip uncle tommy.. You will be missed.. Love you

Kim Francisco

January 11, 2014

Love you Uncle Tommy. Aunt Liz my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you. Kim Fraancisco

Dan o'mara

January 11, 2014

Sorry for your loss guys. Tom was a great man one of the funniest guys I've met it saddened me when I heard the news. Much love and a ton of sympathy to Kyle Kevin and the rest of the family

Michael Paul

January 11, 2014

Uncle Tom, Godspeed my friend. Thanks for your counsel in my teen years. Thanks for your dry sense of humor and wit. You were and are admired by us all. I will deeply miss your "huh".. As well as so many good times and laughs! I will miss your laid back attitude. So long, Uncle Tom. Love

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