CALLAWAY, Chaudoin "Shad"
Chaudoin "Shad" Callaway, 80, of Vernon CT, beloved husband for 52 years of Margaret Deane (Emrich) Callaway died Sunday April 14, 2013. Born and raised in Chickamauga GA, to Chaudoin Callaway Jr. and Anna (Barr) Callaway. Shad graduated high school from The McCallie School in Chattanooga TN, obtained his undergraduate degree at Southern Methodist University in Texas, graduated from Yale Divinity School in CT, was in the second graduating class of the American Foundation of Religion and Psychiatry, now Blanton-Peale Institute in New York City, was ordained an Elder in the United Methodist Church, was a diplomate of the American Association of Pastoral Counselors, founded and led the Pastoral Counseling Service of Northern New Jersey, and obtained his Doctorate of Ministry from Drew University in New Jersey. Shad practiced privately for 42 years as a Marriage and Family Counselor, and wrote the foreword to Dr. Hector J. Ritey's book The Human Kingdom. He was a beloved mentor, colleague, friend and counselor to many and devoted many years and scholarly writings to the meaning of compassion in our lives. In addition to his wife, Margaret, he is survived by his son Joseph Morgan Callaway of West Hartford, CT, daughter Megan Ann Callaway Duffy, son-in-law Joel Robert Duffy, grandson Bryan Patrick Duffy all of Columbia, CT, and nephews, Garnett McMillan of Chickamauga, GA and Sandy McMillan of Signal Mountain, TN. He was predeceased by a sister, Peggy Ann McMillan.
There are no calling hours. A memorial service will be held at the South United Methodist Church, 1226 Main Street, Manchester, CT 06040 on Friday, April 26th at 1:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the South United Methodist Church Elevator Fund, to make all activities at the church accessible. His thoughtful and gentle presence will be missed by all who knew him. To leave an online condolence please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com
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Tom and Patti Pfaff
April 29, 2013
Dear Margaret and family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family as we mourn the loss of Shad.
We were best friends and we always worked together to solve life's little problems.
He will be greatly missed!
Tom Pfaff
Kathy McNulty
April 23, 2013
Dear Margaret, Joe, Megan, Joel, Bryan and all Shad's family, my deepest and loving condolences to you all. Shad performed our wedding cermony 25 years ago! May God bless him and his family. May God surround you all with peace and love. May you feel Shad's presence as he guides the rest of your lives. He is my mentor and my beloved friend. He lives forever in our memories.
With love and blessings,
Kathy, Henry, Eryn, Kelsey and Shawn.
Simon Azavedo
April 22, 2013
My deepest sympathy to you and the family Margaret. He was a bright and kind man with a love for God and compassion for his fellow man. -Simon
Louisa Ovanessian
April 22, 2013
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Deb Ingraham
April 22, 2013
Margaret,
You and your family are in my prayers. His smile will be missed.
Robin Bado
April 22, 2013
Dear Margaret and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn the loss of Shad. He was a wonderful mentor and friend, and will be terribly missed.
Gloria Crane
April 22, 2013
Margaret and Family, My prayers are with you at this time. May God bless you and give you peace and comfort. It was truly a blessing to know and care for Shad.
Marie Pinto
April 21, 2013
My other Dad, you know I won't let you go until I'm ready...and I'm not ready. Find Momma and tell her you finished the job. Margaret thank you for 32 long years of your patience and support. I wouldn't have made it without him and Our Lord Jesus Christ.
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