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Frank McCOY Obituary

McCOY, Frank J. Frank J. McCoy of Vernon, CT, passed away on April 6, 2010 and joins his wife Jeanette McCoy. He was surrounded by his family. He was born on December 21, 1922 in New Haven, CT and graduated from Milford High School in 1940 before serving as a Sergeant in the United States Army for three years in the European theater during World War II. He graduated from Yale University in 1949 and the University of Connecticut School of Law in 1956. He practiced law for 54 years and served as attorney for the Vernon Fire District during its consolidation with the City of Rockville in forming the Town of Vernon. He served two terms with the Vernon Town Council and Mayor of Vernon for four terms in the 70's and 80's. He served as President of the Connecticut Conference of Mayors and served for over 30 years as Attorney representative on the advisory review board for the Whiting Forensic Institute. He was the service officer for the Soldier Sailors Marine Fund for over 40 years helping war time veterans who were in need of financial assistance. In 1960, he formed the Vernon Midget Football League, which was the impetus for football being brought to Rockville High School. He was a coach in Vernon sports for over 40 years, coaching recreation basketball, baseball and football. In 1965, he formed and sponsored the Vernon Orioles baseball team who continue to play in the Hartford Twilight League until today. He is survived by his five children: Jack McCoy (June), Wayne McCoy (Laura), Karen McCoy (Gary Blinn), Dennis McCoy (Diana) and Attorney Frank McCoy, Jr. (Jane); his four grandchildren, Jason, Kevin, Jennifer and Kathleen; his brother John McCoy and sister Helen McCoy (deceased). A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. April 24, 2010 at the Sacred Heart Church, 550 Hartford Turnpike, Vernon, CT 06066. For online condolences, visit www.fullerfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 11, 2010.

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May 10, 2010

Wayne, Jack and McCoy family, sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. What great times we all had together. I have no idea how he put up with us and with a smile on his face!

Bob and Beth Newmarker, Hilton Head S.C.

May 6, 2010

to the McCoy family ,sorry to hear of Frank's passing. he was a friend and comrade of post 5095 East hampton,Ct. V.F.W. as well as a perrsonal friend of mine. Burt Hodge Lake Worth, Fl.

April 23, 2010

Wayne and Laura: Please accept our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. Wayne -- your dad was a remarkable person. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our hope is that you will soon find some comfort in warm and cherished memories.

Karen and howard Levine

Maryjo Cosgrove

April 21, 2010

Wayne, Karen and Family. My deepest condolences on the loss of a man who was larger than life. Too many of the "good ones" have recently left us, but their legacies continue. May God's blessings be with you all and special memories keep you strong.

The Cosgrove Family

April 19, 2010

Frank, and family; I'm very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I remember going to school with you and how active your dad was. When my travels take me to Vernon and I see the McCoy signs I think of you and your dad. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Diane (Bush)Szymkowicz

bill herzog

April 19, 2010

Wayne..So sorry to hear of your Dads passing, he was such a good man.

Carl Slicer

April 13, 2010

Our sincere condolences to the McCoy family from the Slicer family. What a lifetime of walking together the Slicers had with the McCoy family. My mom always supported the "Good Guys" 100% and watch out if someone got in her way. Frank & Jeanette are a model for others to learn from and admire. When you stood next to Frank you always felt a kind heart. And Jeanette was his "Go To" gal. The McCoy family must feel blessed to have Frank & Jeanette as parents. Now the rest of the McCoy legend must work hard to maintain such a great reputation and examples set. With Love; Carol, Carl, Herb, Andrew & Nathan Slicer.

Mel Munroe

April 12, 2010

Perhaps there is no greater tribute to one's life that to say they made a difference. Frank can rest in eternity knowing he truly made a difference in the lives' of so many people. I am piveledged to have known such a man. My sympathy goes out to the whole family.

Keith & Cynthia Gray

April 12, 2010

To the McCoy Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family at your time of sorrow. Keith was just asking about your Dad the other day.

Margaret (Junius) Mann

April 12, 2010

Karen, my heart goes out to you and your family at this time and in the days ahead. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

The Campbell Family

April 12, 2010

To the McCoy Family,
Very sorry to hear of Frank's passing.
Thinking of you at this time.

Donald J. McCarthy, Jr.

April 11, 2010

Dear Frank:

I was very sorry to hear of the death of your dad. He was a very nice man and will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Don McCarthy

tom carruthers

April 10, 2010

dear mccoy family may your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived I have great memories of both your dad and mother who were close friends in the sports and political arena and a great coach for my sons

MARY BELTRANDI

April 10, 2010

Dear Dennis and family.OUR HEARTS ARE
BROKEN OVER THE LOSS OF THIS GREAT AND WONDERFUL MAN.NOW HE AND YOUR MOM ARE TOGETHER IN ETERNAL PEACE.BOBBY LOOKED UP TO HIM AS A MAN AMONG MEN.LOVE TO ALL.

April 10, 2010

Dear Dennis and family.Our hearts are
broken over thr passing of Frank.He was a Great man .Both he and you mom
deserve everlasting joy and peace now
together at last.God blessings to all.

Kathy Long

April 9, 2010

Karen (and family), I was so very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. I just couldn't believe it at first. My thoughts (my Mom's as well) are with you and your family and especially today, which, I'm sure was difficult. Your Dad was a great man, larger than life, with a great wit and sense of humor, and had always been so active in the Vernon community. He will be greatly missed by all the many peole who knew him. Take care and I'll be in touch . . . Kathy Long

Peter J. Kiro

April 9, 2010

Dear McCoy family my sympathy in the passing of Frank. There is only one word that describes him = GREAT.
He was a GREAT friend to all, coach, sponsor, and above all a GREAT person, love by everyone. He touched so many lives.
We will ALL miss him dearly.

Richard & Betsy Lundberg

April 9, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss and offer our thoughts to comfort you in your grief. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of a life well lived.

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