NELSON, Hazel (Salmon)
Hazel (Salmon) Nelson, 97, of Farmington, beloved wife of the late Russell J. Nelson, passed away peacefully Wednesday, (November 30, 2011) at her home. Born on March 17, 1914 in Twining, Michigan, daughter of the late Herbert and Ethel Salmon. Hazel grew up in Plainville with her siblings Jim Salmon (Bristol, CT), Jean Anderson (deceased) (New Britain, CT), and Earl Salmon (Hilton Head, SC). Hazel and Russ were married in September 1937 and lived and raised their family in Farmington prior to moving to Groton, CT after their retirement where mom took on the role of "Base Commander" for dad's role as a "Lobster Man" and Shellfish Warden. Mom and dad moved to Bristol, CT to keep an eye on two of their sons, Jack (Claire) and Steve (Diane) who, despite their advanced ages were still emotionally unstable and needed their parents strict discipline and guidance. Clyde (Audrey), who they had banished to the mountains of Colorado due to his unruly behavior while in his early 20's, managed to have two sons, Kyle and Alec, who, despite being brought up in a cabin, are now able to sit at a table, use utensils to eat and do not growl when approached by humans. Jack and Claire's kids Russ (Angela), Cynthia, and Brian (Monika) still play with fire trucks and race cars, are tethered to their parents and not allowed to live more than a 1000 feet from home. Steve and Diane, despite advice from professionals not to, have two of their own misfits, Chelsea (Seth) who is not allowed back on the west side of the Connecticut River and Zach living and breeding in a cult society in northwest Connecticut. Regardless of how her own kids and grandkids turned out, and probably because she was such a loving, caring, and elegant woman she managed to have four and counting beautiful and loving great grandchildren, Brianna and Jared with Russ and Angela, Luke with Brian and Monika and Emerson with Chelsea and Seth. Hazel was formerly employed as an office manager at Perma-Type Co. in Farmington before retirement. She was a member of Grace United Church in Farmington. She asked that we thank her friends, nieces and nephews, her "family" at Village Gate, her Sunday crew at Grace United, the care givers at Bristol Hospital Home Care and Hospice and especially her niece Jeanine, who was her "wheels" and "body guard" the last 6 years for the friendship and kindness shown her throughout her life.
Funeral services will be held on Saturday at 11 a.m. at Grace United Church, 110 South Rd, Farmington. Burial will follow at Riverside Cemetery, Farmington. Erickson-Hansen Funeral Home in New Britain is in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Grace United Church, 110 South Rd., Farmington, CT 06032 or East Farmington Volunteer Fire Department, 94 South Rd., Farmington, CT 06032. Please share a memory of Hazel with the family in the on line guest book at www.ericksonhansen.com
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Pamela Frame
November 26, 2012
It's beautiful and full of love.
Barbara Perry
March 26, 2012
Outstanding! Great memorial to your Mom!
Tim Page
January 11, 2012
Now this is the way a real-life obituary should be written -- with love and humor and honesty and respect for the eternal strangeness of human experience. Hail and farewell, Ms. Nelson -- I wish I'd known you.
Tim Page
Journalism Professor
University of Southern California
bruce hayes
December 11, 2011
Dear"Aunt Hazel"-Our familes'(the Hayes')long friendship with yours was highlighted by the grace of your presence!With a lovely smile and a kind word for everyone,you were a joy to know!
To Jack,Steve,and Clyde;may your grief be tempered by the blessings of having such a wonderful mom.Peace and love be with you.
Bruce B. Hayes
Silra Duperval
December 9, 2011
Hazel - You have a wonderful family. You were truly blessed and My prayers are with you and your family in this hard time. I personally lost my grandfather in November and I'm sure your family loved you and misses you just as much as I love and Miss him.
Songbird
December 9, 2011
I wish I had known Hazel and her family. I can only imagine the laughter in her home. xoxox
Stephanie
December 9, 2011
What a wonderful and loving tribute to your Mother. I bet she's smiling with the angels. God bless and peace to you.
Laurie Ann
December 9, 2011
What a wonderful family. Wishing you all love , peace and comfort. Rest gently sweet Hazel.
Carol
December 8, 2011
I can only hope my family loves me enough to post my obituary thus. My condolences to your family and friends. It looks like God gained quite an angel.
December 8, 2011
Hazel, be very proud of your family. Enjoyed reading about them and their sense of humor. What a lovely life you must of had with the laughter that so few are unable to enjoy. God bless the family. Keep a watchful eye over them.
M Young
December 8, 2011
Hazel, I have never met you, but you are what they call a Saint. You made me really giggle over the family events. My sympathies.
Sue Grenier
December 7, 2011
Hazel, You are my inspiration. I never met you, but I will never forget you. Thank you for making me giggle and realize how important the time we spend here is.
December 7, 2011
Hazel was truly a lady. She had a smile that would warm your heart. I met her through my Aunt Gladys Henrickson they were friends for many years. I loved to listen to the two of them talking about such good times. Hazel made me a scissors holder and I use it everyday. I also have bread recipes that her husband Russ shared with me. He also had some great stories about being a cook in the service. He was so rowdy and Hazel so quiet and gentle, they were a perfect match and I shall always smile deep in my heart when I think of them. To Hazel, thanks for the memories. Diana Corning, West Hartford, /ct.
December 6, 2011
So sorry not to have been in touch for so many years - reading the obituary made me laugh and brought back wonderful childhood memories of the Nelson family. Sincere sympathy to you all - Evelyn Rumstay Waldron
A C
December 6, 2011
I'm another stranger but just wanted to express my sympathy and thank you for a lovely and heartwarming obituary. My thoughts are with Hazel's family - so sorry for your loss. I can only hope the Base Commander has reunited with her Lobster Man.
December 6, 2011
Just love it. Hazel reminds me of my Great Grandmother. Her orbit gives me ideas for my own! Thanks Hazel would have loved to have meet you in person. Debbie in Central PA
Matt
December 6, 2011
While I have never met Mrs. Nelson, I can only imagine how much joy and humor she brought to her family. And what a fantastic send off for her! To whomever wrote her obituary, thank you for putting a smile on my face, it made my day and I hope you all have fun memories of Hazel! :)
December 6, 2011
I didn't know Hazel or any of her family. But I wish I did. This is a very wonderful obit. I hope my family will do it for me one day.
Pam Lewis
Storrs, CT
M Conlin
December 6, 2011
Wish I had known Hazel!! Love the obit and had to share on my facebook page....I wasn't the only one...rip hazel!!
Jennifer Wolfer
December 6, 2011
While I have a stinking suspicion that Hazel will come back to be 'that fly on the wall', or to be the ghost who likes to pinch rear ends, I wish her peace, and thank you for making me smile. I lost my own mother 4 months ago at too young an age..... and this brightened my day. May you all continue to keep smiles on your own faces, and the worlds !!
Lois Henrickson
December 5, 2011
Hazel & Russ Nelson, Doris & Chet Hayes, and Cliff & Gladys Henrickson (my parents) were long-time friends through my growing-up years and way beyond. I remember Hazel as warm, friendly, and smiling through life... helpful and with a little laugh, enjoyed by the people around her. She was a fine lady.
Carolyn
December 5, 2011
Your family must have laughed every day. What a wonderful legacy Hazel left behind. Wish I had known her! God bless her and her family.
December 5, 2011
Hazel - didn't know you, but I wish I did! Rest in peace.
mary mcgee
December 4, 2011
it sounds like hazel live a good long life and raised an interesting and humorous family. humor makes our lives so much more fun. rest in peace hazel.
Arvid Anderson
December 4, 2011
Hazel was a sweet, caring and classy lady who shed sunshine on everyone. As my Godmother she never failed to send me a birthday card. A grand woman; may her memory linger forever.
Elizabeth Fitch
December 2, 2011
Hazel was just like her sister, my Auntie Jean. Gracious, loving, and always ready to pitch in and help. She will be greatly missed. Thank you to whomever wrote her tribute. It brought a huge smile to my face. Elizabeth (Emmette) Fitch
Lisa Moss
December 2, 2011
Hazel...you clearly left your family an amazing legacy of laughter. May you and your beautiful family always find peace.
Paul Shaker
December 2, 2011
Hazel! I love you already! This is the most family story I have ever heard! I'm sure this is making the rounds! RIP
D S
December 2, 2011
Hazel, we in Middletown connecticut's amici's restaurant adore you for the legacy of laughter you've left. I hope you continue to bring this joy. Rest peacefully!
Gary Larkum
December 2, 2011
Oh yes The three stooges have a wonderful mother. . I especially enjoyed Easter with her this year. She will be missed by all. May God bless you.
December 2, 2011
I heard about Hazel's unique obituary here in Georgia. God bless and rest in peace.
Maureen Adams ,Buford, Georgia
Ellen Thomas
December 2, 2011
Well, it sounds like Hazel will be missed by so many. Whoever wrote that Obituary has missed his/her calling.
Rest in Peace, dear Hazel!
Htfd. Courant Reader
December 2, 2011
God Bless This Family! This is the best obit. I have ever read. May your wonderful humor get you through this sad time!!
December 2, 2011
Auntie Hazel was the absolute best, a lady's lady. I will never forget her.
Your loving nephew,
Jimmy
Tracey and Tom Bissell
December 2, 2011
Steve and Diane,
Our thougths are with you, she sounded like a wonderful women.
g conroy
December 2, 2011
R.I.P. Hazel...
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