MARVIN, Lucile
Lucile (Calano) Marvin, "Lu," of Hartford died on Friday (November 8, 2013) at Hartford Hospital as the result of a heart attack. Lu was born in Hartford on February 12, 1930 and was a proud graduate of Hartford Public High School, where she was a popular member of the class of '48, a member of the National Honor Society, and voted "Most Talkative," a title she took seriously as those who knew her would attest to. She graduated from Katherine Gibbs School, Providence, RI, and started her first full-time job as a legal secretary at the Hartford firm of Buck, McCook & Kenyon. During that time she was an active member of the Young Republicans and attended numerous conventions. She continued her love of politics in Annapolis, MD, where she resided for several years and was employed as District Secretary to the Speaker of the Maryland House of Delegates. Upon returning to Hartford, she was employed as Unit Supervisor at the Bureau of Special Education and Pupil Services of the State of Connecticut. Lu was a voracious reader, a lover of history, and had a strong interest in local and national politics. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, friend, and her generosity knew no bounds. As one of her nephews remarked, "I've never met another person like her." She made an indelible mark on everyone she touched, all of whom will miss her dearly. Lu was the daughter of the late Marye and James Calano of Hartford. She was the former wife of the late Matthew Marvin, who was a descendant of one of the founders of Hartford (also named Matthew Marvin). She is survived by her children, Atty. Mary Jean Matthews of Ft. Lauderdale, FL, Stuart Sands Marvin of Cromwell, Sally Sands Marvin George of Brooklyn Heights, NY; and four beloved grandchildren: Andrew Marvin, Bethany Marvin, Jeannie Matthews, and Raymond E. George, IV; she is also survived by her sister, Lorraine DiLorenzo, and her brother-in-law, Atty. Theodore DiLorenzo, of East Hartford. The family wishes to acknowledge the heroic efforts of Hartford Hospital's doctors and nurses.
At her request, services will be private. Those wishing to may make a donation in her memory to Hartford Camp Courant, 285 Broad St., Hartford, CT, 06115.
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Lisa Meehan Curran
November 17, 2013
Lucille lived the following: Be the kind of woman who, when your feet hit the ground, the devil says, "Oh, crap. She's up." Now she is truly DIVINE. Lovely memorial yesterday.
Maxine Singh
November 14, 2013
MJ, although I never met your mom I felt I knew her through your many stories. She must have been a great person to have a daughter like you. My thoughts are with you and Jeannie at this sad time. I hope you both will be comforted by your memories of good times spent together.
Tracy Roach
November 14, 2013
MJ and family,
My condolences to you and your famuly during this difficult time. I know she will be missed dearly but know her soul is at peace. My prayers are with you.
November 14, 2013
Dear Sally and Family:
I was so sorry to get your call about losing your mother. Love the photo you selected of a beautiful woman. I will miss hearing her voice and laughter, but I'll always have her wonderful letters and fond memories of fun times together. Lu was a wonderful friend who always gave me great advice -- it was an honor to be her friend. I know she's at peace and hope she'll save a place at the table for me until we meet again.
My love and sympathy,
Bette Wilson, Annapolis MD
George Tanguay
November 14, 2013
My sincere condolences to Stu, MJ, Sally and Lori
Mrs. Marvin was my 2nd mom. At times my 1st one
She had a “Wicked' sense of humor and a stare that could cut through metal
She took Crap from No One!
She was Kind, Generous and Loving!!
I am honored to say ”She was my friend”
I will miss you dearly!
George Tanguay
November 14, 2013
My sincere condolences to Stu, MJ, Sally and Lori
Mrs. Marvin was my 2nd mom. At times my 1st one
She had a “Wicked' sense of humor and a stare that could cut through metal
She took Crap from No One!
She was Kind, Generous and Loving!!
I am honored to say ”She was my friend”
I will miss you dearly!
George Tanguay
Cindi Willis
November 13, 2013
I was so glad to have a chance to see her this summer.she will be so missed. She was such a great woman and a great mom.
Prescille Yamamoto
November 13, 2013
To the Marvin & DeLorenzo Families:
It is never easy to loose a loved one, especially now! Those of us who had the privilage of meeting this fine Lady, send our deepest sympathies! The RiverPoint community shares your loss.
Sincerely,
Robbi Uptegrove
November 13, 2013
Your mommie sounds like a wonderful woman MJ - big hug. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time....
Veronica O'Brien
November 13, 2013
Dear Loraine, Ted, MaryJean, Stuart and Sally, I am so sad for you and for all of us who were her friends. Lu has left a void that no one can ever fill. She was ever only herself, so full of life, so happy to be with others. Her friends are legend, yet she was always just your own when she was with you. I will miss her forever. As Shawn's godmother she became Aunt Ceil in our family, she loved it. Bobby and I and all our children send our sympathy and our love. Ronnie O'Brien
Sheila Keenan
November 13, 2013
Sincere sympathy to all the family on the loss of this beautiful lady.
As a resident of the Regency Towers I had the opportunity to chat with Lucile on many occasions as we went in and out of the building. She would tell me of her grandchildren and the fun they were having. It was always an occasion for joy.
Lucile has left an lasting impression and will be remembered by many for her humor, kindness and love of life. I truly will miss her.
Cindy George
November 13, 2013
Stu and family,
Deepest Sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. I know she'll be missed but will be welcomed and taken care of by some pretty awesome people. Love and prayers.
Gina Antonacci
November 13, 2013
I want to extend my deepest sympathies to Lu's entire family. Lu was one of the most important people in my life. Growing up she was like a grandmother to me. I cannot tell you how many vacations she joined us on, or how many times she baby-sat me and fed me McDonald's(my first fast food experience was with her, and there was nothing like it)!
I am devestated by this loss. It cuts like a knife for me, and I can only imagine how it is for you, her family. Please accept my condolences. Also, thank you for sharing such an amazing person with me.
Marie Aligata
November 13, 2013
Marvin & DiLorenzo Families -
I wish to express my heartfelt condolences on the passing of Lu....I knew Lu from working with her at the CSDE for many years...she was a wonderful, kind and giving person, she was always upbeat and never ceased to make me laugh...and I am sure she will be missed by all those whose lives she touched. Please know that you are in my prayers at this time.....
Nancy Miner
November 13, 2013
I am heartbroken to hear of the news of Auntie Lu. She was my mom's best friend and just one of my most favorite people in the whole world. I have so many years of wonderful memories. We had lunch together at the First and Last Tavern in Hartford a few months ago. We had a wonderful time. I am so glad we got together. There was simply no one like her. Mary Jean, Stuart, Sally, Lorraine and Ted please accept my sincere and and heartfelt condolences. Condolences also to her wonderful grandchilren. I never had the pleasure of actually meeting any of you, but I heard wonderful things about you. I'm sure things are happy and lots of fun up in Heaven now that you're there, Auntie Lu, but we're sure going to miss you here. RIP until we meet again. Love, Nancy
Susan & Keith Higgins
November 13, 2013
DiLorenzo Family -
Heartfelt condolences in the loss of your sister and auntie. May your wonderful memories of Lucile bring you comfort.
bruce chamberlain
November 13, 2013
Lu was my beloved secretary at the Education Dept. in the mid 70s. I have wonderful memories of her great sense of humor and dearly miss her.
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