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VINEBURGH, Mary Jane
Mary Jane Vineburgh, 67, of New York City and Easthampton, NY died suddenly on October 12, 2012. Born in Hartford and raised in Bloomfield, MJ was educated at Oxford School, The Newport School for Girls and Finch College. For many years, she owned and operated MJ & Company, a party planning and catering business. Known for her contagious laugh, a marvelous sense of humor, immeasurable generosity and unconditional love of her partner and her family, she is survived by Laurie Hall, her partner of over 20 years; her brother, James and his wife Nancy of Bluffton, SC; two nephews, James Jr., and his wife Maggie and their children, Victoria and James III of Cedar Rapids, IA and Philip, a Boston resident.
A Celebration of MJ's life is planned for Dec. 8 on Long Island.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mary VINEBURGH
BOB ALLEN
June 26, 2013
We all lost a great friend.......so sorry I only found out. She was a dear friend and client for many many years and a big supporter of my own catering company (the Food Squad) in the west village. She was always a joy to run into out in the Hamptons.......I am truly sadden by her loss.
With love always, Bob Allen
Nicole Kimball
November 5, 2012
On behalf of the entire Kingswood Oxford School community, we offer our deepest sympathy on the passing of Mary.
As a cherished member of the class of 1963, Mary will always be a part of our school family, and we mourn her death along with those who loved her.
Please know that we'll keep the family in our thoughts in the days and weeks to come. We are very sorry for your loss, but join you in celebrating the life of a wonderful woman.
- Nicole Kimball, Dir. of Alumni and Constituent Relations, Kingswood Oxford School, West Hartford, CT
Tobie Gordon
November 1, 2012
One of a kind. Irreplaceable. A joy to have known. Thoughts and prayers Laurie.
Michele Murphy
October 31, 2012
If someone asked me who the coolest person I've ever known was I'd have to answer MJ, and I've known many cool people. She encouraged me through some dark times, we celebrated many happy occasions and holidays together. She was family, is family, and surly loved by anyone who was lucky enough to cross her path. The world became less interesting the day she left us. Rest in peace sister.
Lou Avanzato
October 26, 2012
The good you have done will live after you in all of our hearts
Ruth Vitaglione
October 24, 2012
My thoughts and prayers go out to the friends and family of MJ! What A shock! I Haven't spoken MJ in 25 years but I remember her well. Full of life, full of fun, full of love and devoted to the people in your life that were special. Sometimes things are not fair! Perhaps the saying only the "good" die young is a true-ism with respect to MJ. RIP
October 24, 2012
Up to now I have not been able to publicly acknowledge that you are not with us anymore. I will miss you. You brought so much to my life, including Rose, my partner for which I am eternally grateful. Talk to us. We will be listening. I love you, Karen.
October 23, 2012
We will miss and love MJ always. She was a dear friend and important part of our lives for over 30 years. Our lives are sweeter because of her and we will cherish the memories of laughter, love and friendship.
Our thoughts are with Laurie and MJ's loving family.
Arlene and Barbara
marilyn lamkay
October 23, 2012
dear, dear mj you will be sorely missed marilyn
Gail Pierangelino
October 22, 2012
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 22, 2012
MJ....too soon. You are missed and loved by all you touched with your generosity, laughter, silliness and seriousness, smile and presence.
I love you. rosie
BARBARA CHESLER
October 21, 2012
I WAS SO SHOCKED AND SORRY TO HEAR OF MARY JANE'S PASSING. SHE WAS A GREAT PERSONALITY AND MY MOST HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES TO YOU ALL AT THIS TIME.
Tom Hill
October 19, 2012
RIP MJ. You were among a cadre of women who helped me get my life on track through meetings at Corlear School in the early 90s. I am forever indebted to your living example of integrity, my sister.
Barbara Warren
October 19, 2012
MJ was a longtime colleague and a friend who was an early supporter of the work we did at the NYC LGBT Center to support people in recovery from addictions and transgender people. She was always willing to give away free goodies at our events and activities or just lend a hand in any way she could. We will miss her but she leaves a legacy of unselfish commitment to her community that serves as a model and inspiration for all.
Robert Woodworth
October 19, 2012
MJ had the ability to make your heart sing. Such a rare and precious spirit. May we all carry with us her lesson and her inspiration. I am blessed to have been the beneficiary of one of her countless kindnesses when my partner died years ago. My condolences to Laurie and MJ's family.
Rosemary and Sabrina
October 19, 2012
We are devastated by this news. MJ is one of the greatest women we have ever known. Her spirit, sense of humor, wisdom and leadership inspired us. We feel so fortunate to have called MJ our friend. Our thoughts are with you Laurie.
Jim Gerbig
October 18, 2012
MJ We will miss you dearly. You are in a better place now.
Nancy Fedder
October 18, 2012
It is had to understand how MJ could be gone because she was life. Her spirit and her very being made people feel good. She was fun, funny, silly and yes, her smile was the best smile ever. Laurie, please know that Sandy and I send our love.
October 16, 2012
MJ and her dear parents were so special to my husband and me. We were shocked and sorry to learn of her untimely death.
We send our deepest sympathies to her partner, her brother Jim and his wonderful spouse Nancy as well as cherished "scooter" and PJ."
Gail and Bob Siegel
Bonnie Lurie
October 16, 2012
Linnie and I were beyond shocked and saddened to hear about MJ. She was a part of our lives for so long and her wisdom and love will always be valued to us.
If there is any information on the funeral or memorial, please let us know.
October 15, 2012
MJ catered 3 events for us in NYC; I felt like she was a sister. So warm, wonderful, funny and smart that I migrated to the kitchen before and after the events to catch up with her. I heard the news when I returned from Cyprus last Friday. How can someone so alive be gone so quickly? From UNC Chapel Hill, we send our love and condolences to her partner Laurie and her family. She was singular and special and will be so missed.
Alison Jesse
MBA Admissions Office
UNC-Chapel Hill
Julie, Barbara and Kendra Tarkon Kent
October 15, 2012
We are so saddened by MJ's death. Her infectious smile and laughter will be missed as well as her passion for the causes she supported. Our love and prayers go out to Laurie may she be consoled by her family and friends. MJ's spirit will surely live in all of us.
Isa & Nanette Goldberg/Shaw
October 14, 2012
What sad news. MJ sparkled; her joie de vivre was contagious. Our heartfelt condolences to Laurie.
October 14, 2012
All of the Seidmans,three generations of us, are shocked and saddened by MJ's untimely passing. Our families go back more than 125 years, but there will never be another MJ!
Susan and Richard Seidman
barbara glassman
October 14, 2012
so very sad and shocking to all - i keep hearing her voice - seeing her smile and listening to all her ideas. her generous spirit and energy was a motivation for all
she will be missed but will always be remembered. sincere condolences to laurie and those so very close to her
Mark Fichandler
October 14, 2012
Paul and I are so shocked and saddened. If someone could tell us about funeral arrangements we would appreciate it. [email protected]
Barbara Draimin
October 14, 2012
So sudden and so sad. She always carried a big smile, good word and delicious food that nurtured us all. Love to Laurie, family, and all who were blessed by her presence.
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