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SIROIS, Patrick Roger CSM (Ret.) Patrick Roger Sirois, age 50 of Killeen passed away November 23, 2010 while assisting a motorist on U.S. Highway 69 near Eufala, OK. He was born June 8, 1960 in Hartford, Connecticut to Patrick Roger Sirois and Claire (Michaud) Sirois. Patrick joined the United States Army in 1979. While serving he received the Bronze Star, the Legion of Merit, the Meritorious Service Medal (2nd Award), the Army Commendation Medal (5th Award), the Army Achievement Medal (6th Award), the Army Superior Unit Award, the Army Good Conduct Medal (7th Award), the National Defense Service Medal, the Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, the Southwest Asia Service Medal, the Armed Forces Service Medal, the Noncommissioned Officer's Professional Development Ribbon with Numeral 4, the Army Service Ribbon, the Overseas Service Ribbon (3rd Award), the Nato Medal, the Kuwait Liberation Medal(K), the Kuwait Liberation Medal (SA), Sharpshooter Marksmanship Qualification Badge with Rifle Bar, the Drive and Mechanic Badge with Mechanic Bar and the Drill Sergeant Identification Badge. Command Sergeant Major Patrick Roger Sirois retired from the United States Army on May 31, 2002. After retirement he joined the Department of Defense as a Police Officer on Fort Hood and also as a Reserve Officer for the City of Nolanville Police Department. In 2009 he was named Officer of the Year by the Nolanville Police Department making him the first Reserve Officer ever to receive this honor. He was preceded in death by his father. He is survived by his wife, Karen Howe-Sirois of Killeen; a son, Patrick Sirois, Jr. of Avon, CT; a daughter, Debra Lipham of Fort Walton Beach, FL; his mother, Claire Jalbert and her husband Arthur of Plainville, CT; two sisters, Carol Levesque of Unionville and Gloria Beaudoin of West Hartford, CT; a brother, Phillip Sirois of Marlborourough and four nephews of which he thought a lot of Shaun, Kenneth, Randy and Michael. The Sirois family will receive guests for a time of visitation from 6 - 8 p.m. Monday (November 29, 2010) at Crawford-Bowers Funeral Home in Killeen and from 6 - 8 p.m. Tuesday (November 30, 2010) at Crawford-Bowers Funeral Home in Killeen. Funeral service will be 12 p.m. Wednesday (December 1, 2010) at the Killeen Convention and Conference Center with Pastor Donald "Duke" Johnson officiating. Interment services will follow in the Central Texas State Veterans Cemetery with Full Military and Police Honors. Serving as pallbearers will be U.S. Army Specialist. Angel Felix, U.S. Army Specialist Dale Hillegass, DES Officer Anthony Fitzwater, DES Officer Jerry Staten, Nolanville Police Officer Charles Cline and Nolanville Police Officer Mike Heath. In place of usual remembrance the family suggests that memorial contributions be made to the Fort Hood National Bank for a fund that has been set up to assist the family. Words of comfort may be shared with the family at www.crawfordbowersfuneralhome.com. Services have been entrusted to the care of Crawford-Bowers Funeral Home in Killeen.



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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 30, 2010.

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Jasmine S.

June 21, 2011

I met Pat shortly after I began working at the MP station. He introduced himself to me and was friendly and kind. I am very sorry to hear of his passing. May he rest in peace. His family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.

TO MY GREAT FREIND PAT

TAMMY PEERY-JONES

April 12, 2011

i was stationed in germany with pat. he is my sons godfather. he was always the best. he would help and give you the shirt off his back. i will remember him always and he will always be a member of my family. to the sirois family. i am sorry for the loss of your husband and father and brother.

Nicolas Houlihan

April 5, 2011

My name is Officer Nicolas T Houlihan from Chesapeake Virginia (CPD). I ride bikes for Law Enforcement United a charity organization that raises money for the COPS foundation and the ODMP. I have the privilege of riding in memory of Patrick this year as we ride from southeast VA to Washington DC on May 10th to par-take in National Police Week. I take this honor very seriously and would like to make any possible contact with his family or friends to let them know more about what we do and find out as much about Patrick as I can. I will be wearing an engraved metal bracelet with Patrick's information and EOW date it. I'd like to turn this memento over to the family after the ride. God bless and stay safe! I look forward to hearing from you.

michelle soldat

March 14, 2011

Claire- so sorry to hear of the loss of your son- I know exactly what you are going through- as I said, I will keep you in my prayers-keep those memories close- they are what keep you going- Michelle

cheyenne walker

February 21, 2011

pat was a good guy he was my best friend and every time i went up to the station i would ask is opat there mom. its sad to think that some so close to is no longer here but i know pat u are looking down on all of us i love you pat.

Lea Logie

January 28, 2011

Pat,

John and I just found out about your passing today , 01/27/11. We were so shocked. You were like a hamster on a wheel always going, going, going...I always joked with you that you never seemed to stop working even when you were off duty :) We never imagined that someone so fit, upbeat, thoughtful, and funny would never live to be a ripe old age, sharing stories of your heroic exploits with loved ones, family, and friends. You were the epitimy of the COPS show cop. Pat, there was no one like you. You were my fellow police academy classmate, DA police buddy, and top gun rival :) If I know you, you are still out in the world rescuing damsels in distress and helping to catch the bad guys. Except now you're doing it as an invisible angel. I don't think you would be happy any other way. "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" (James 15:3) Everyone was your friend. The good guy, the bad guy, and even the stranger. You were a hero in life and an even greater hero in death. God bless you and your loved ones until we meet again.

With great love & fond remembrance,

Shawn Erdman

December 3, 2010

RIP Top...Thanks for mentoring me and showing me that I was part of the greater good. I wouldn't be the dedicated soldier, husband and father I am today without your guidance and friendship.

SGT Shawn Erdman
(Formerly) 149th Maintenance Company, Hanau, Germany

Danica Levesque

December 3, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family forever. Love Rich, Danica, and girls.

Garnetta Carroll-Payne

December 2, 2010

I'm so glad Vincent and I were able to attend Pat's funeral. Wow - I always thought he was a really fun and nice person to be with but what I heard yesterday was amazing. Vincent has always talked so highly about Pat and he will miss him so much. My sincere sympathy and prayers go to each of you. May God give you His strength, His help and His hope.

Rodney & Gretchen Levesque

December 2, 2010

To the entire Sirois family and Pat’s close friends:

Reading all these tributes about my former brother-in-law brings back so many memories. He really was a special person and even though I haven’t talked to him in years, just knowing he is no longer with us here on earth brings tears to my eyes. My emotions are mixed though, because I know he is up in heaven with his dad Roger and my brother Ken. They’re up there together, keeping watch over us. Gretchen and I are praying for all of you and wishing you strength to get through each day, peace to comfort you and memories to sustain you in your grief. Memories, memories, they’ll keep him alive forever. I promise, each day will get better, you just have to get through them. Sending prayers with a lot of love.

Khadeja Matney

December 2, 2010

Pat you were the light in so many lives every moment spent with you was nothing less than Joy you will truly be missed but we will carry you forver in our hearts I will miss you, my children will miss you We Love you Pat

Josephine Klingensmith

December 2, 2010

Memories will keep him alive forever. He will forever be a member of USASMA Class 50.

Josie Klingensmith
USASMA Class 50 (R-10)
SGM, US Army (Ret)

Raymond Hagler

December 2, 2010

I met Pat in 2004 when he and I both served at Fort Hood as Federal Police Officers for the post. Pat was a caring individual, and more often than not, Pat went above and beyond the call of duty, so for him to stop and render assistance to a total stranger does not surprise me, it only validates Pat personality, his commitment to his profession, and to the public. Pat my friend, you will be solely missed, but not forgotten. You gave me many laughs.

R S Hagler
Chief of Police
Reno Police Department
[email protected]

Mike

December 1, 2010

PAT,
Unfortunately, you are now truely gone. RIP, as you start on your new journey. I will miss your upbeat laughter and our "cop" discussions. You will be sorely missed. TC my friend

Linda Flaniken

December 1, 2010

I feel I have missed out by NOT knowing such a great man. His life is truly an example for the rest of us. My condolences to the family.

Margie

December 1, 2010

I will always remember your kindness and patience with the kids at the bike rodeo. i will always remember your smile. i don't think i ever saw you without one.

Erica Calderon

December 1, 2010

It was a great honor to work with you while at Hood! I could always count on you and Fitz for a laugh! Thanks for those laughs! (((HUGS)))

Sharon Sirois

December 1, 2010

I have been so very blessed for meeting Pat so many years ago. I will be forever grateful to have been given the honor of becoming his Step- Mother on the day that his Father (Roger) and I married. My prayers are being said with much love and caring for the rest of your family as well. Sharon

Michael Sirois

December 1, 2010

Karen and family,
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. We were very saddened to hear the news of Pat's death. He was such an inspiring individual who had such a servant's heart. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you all up, give you strength through this sad time. If you need anything, please let us know.

Your Cousin and family,

Michael, Vicki, David and Mike Sirois

Sarah Clark

December 1, 2010

Pat,I am at a loss for words to express how I am feeling. It is just so hard to comprehend everything that has taken place. YOU are truly a role model and it has been a honor to have been able to work and become friends with someone such as you. Your dedication, selfless service to not only your job but to your family and friends is breath taking. YOU Pat are truly my HERO.. I will see you later and Thank You for being the man you are. Your memories will be ever lasting along with you smile. Rest in Peace 822, your job is complete down here and now continue on with your new mission above. I Love You and Miss You Pat...

Alexandra Hindes

November 30, 2010

Pat you were such a good friend to my mom!! You were so nice when I met you and such a high spirit!! My deepest sympathy to Pat's loved ones and family. He will definitely be missed.

Carl Gordon

November 30, 2010

CSM Siros, You will always be remember for you energy, drive and compassion to your fellow man.

To the Sirois Family. My deepest sympathy and prays goes to you and your family during this great loss

Karen Filippi

November 30, 2010

Dear Pat,
There aren't enough words to describe the remarkable & selfless man and friend you've been. I loved your sense of humor and your smile from the first time we met. I will remember you this way, my friend. I was so looking forward to seeing you again(and meeting Karen) when I move back to Texas this month. That being said, my friend, we will meet again, one day. To Pat's family, Karen, friends, loved ones & colleagues...my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I was very honored and thrilled to know Pat and to be able to call Pat my friend! Pat will be sorely missed, I know. God Bless You All...
Thanks for the wonderful memories, my friend, and may you rest in peace.
Sincerely & With Love,
Karen Filippi

Dee Reams

November 30, 2010

Karen and Family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. My husband who also is a Police Officer, said he met your fiance' on many occasions and thought of him as an extremely honorable man. He was a true asset to the Military, DOD Fort Hood and the Nolanville Police Department. He was a true professional and will be profoundly missed. Godspeed.

Claire Lessard

November 30, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Janine Marinelli

November 30, 2010

Pat, Karen and the Sirois family, words cannot convey the depth of sorrow Sam and I feel, this is a tragic loss. Pat was a wonderful person full of laughter and life. He always had a smile for everyone, brightening even the worst of days with his words "Dynamic Duo or There is My Hero". Those words will ring in our ears every time we think of Pat. He was the true Hero, inspiring others and putting everyone before himself. Stars fell from the sky the night Texas lost it's son. Pat left his mark upon so many lives and his memory will endure in the hearts of everyone who knew him. Rest Dear Friend. Hope to see you again.

Joseph Cannon 1SG (RET)

November 30, 2010

CSM Sirois, You will be missed. I will pray for your family. My you rest in pease.

Marielle Bilodeau

November 30, 2010

To Claire, Gloria, Phillip, Carol and the whole Sirois family, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Patrick as a child and had not seen him in many years. It sounds like he grew up to be quite a man to be proud of. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

Wanda Smith

November 30, 2010

I send my condolences to the Sirois family . I stayed in touch with Patrick through the recent years. And I will miss talking to him online. He is in Gods hands now May god keep him safe. Rest In Peace my friend and Bro. In Godspeed


Wanda Stapleton Smith , Fresno California

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Selena

November 30, 2010

Pat you were my best friend, we shared a lot together. Thank you for being my friend. We had a trust bond, and I could trust in you always. I will miss you.

Denise McAssey Powell

November 30, 2010

Dear Sirois Family,
I remember Patrick from Batchelder School. We were in some of the same classes together and as the years have gone by he was a person I remembered from my childhood. He was caring, warm and so funny. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Denise McAssey Powell

Ron

November 29, 2010

Once in a while life’s pathways allow us to cross paths with a person who is genuine and real. Pat had an endless capacity for the needs of others and was only capable of goodness. Pat would have done anything in the world for anyone who he thought he could help. He was full of love and brought fun and laughter with him everywhere he went. I know a few men who are not shadowed by Pat and his greatness. You have set the bar high for us all. You were a wonderful person and a greater friend you will be missed by many. I just have to ask, “Did the truck you were issued up there come with wooden blocks so you could reach the pedals”? Rest in Peace, Pat.

William Beaver

November 29, 2010

See you at "Fiddler's Green" my friend

William Beaver

November 29, 2010

Pat, The short time in a lifetime that I came to know you, You have enfluenced my entire family with the advise and knowledge that you shared with us. I feel as though I have lost a member of my family, until we meet again, God Speed

Vasilios Emmanuel Glimidakis

November 29, 2010

In memory of Patrick Sirois
A true and faithful man who gave his life saving a person on November 23, 2010 in this location.

God alone understands.

Dear Sirois and other families,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless him and his family

Shelly Whitneck-Slota

November 29, 2010

Patrick was my step brother. Although I have not seen him for many years I still remember his kindness, laughter and giving nature. He was the best of us all.

Edward Cherry

November 29, 2010

I would like to express my condolences to the family of Pat . He will be surley missed.

Lt Edward J Cherry Fort PD

Melllie Fino

November 29, 2010

Dear Friend, I am sorry you are gone.You were one of a kind,Full Of Love & kindness.Thank you for sharing your Positive Energy with all of us.You will be Greatly missed.

Krystal McHugh Buchanan

November 29, 2010

Pat you will be truly missed. Praying for you and your loved ones. may you rest in peace

Isreal Alvarado

November 29, 2010

Still can't believe you are gone, but I guess it was just selfish of us to want to keep you when he obvisiouly needed you for greater things. Rest in peace Pat.

Yulonda Schmidt

November 29, 2010

Pat Sirois, I loved you! You were a great friend and an inspiration to everyone who knew you...Rest In Peace Brother, I'll see you in Heaven, your works here on Earth touched so many lives, and your Christ like love for your fellow man has earned you a magnificent crown in Glory! I will miss your smile and you..well, being you! It was an honor to know you and a privledge to serve with you.

Charlotte Kanzenbach

November 29, 2010

Pat, it still just doesn't seem possible that you're gone. You were one of the kindest people I've ever known. Thank you for being such a good friend to Wendy and to our entire family. There was never a dull moment when you were around. You loved to make people laugh. You were the kind of police officer that others should aspire to be. You gave your life doing what you loved to do....helping others. You will be SO missed but never forgotten. Thanks for the laughs and the memories dear friend. God speed, Pat.

Terry Garrison

November 29, 2010

Pat

Although only a few years younger then me, I have always thought of you as one of my own kids. And it feels like I'm losing one of my own. You will always be with us, you will be truly missed by the entire family. Keep it safe in Heaven until I am called to join you, Luv you Brother

Keisha Murray

November 29, 2010

Pat was a selfless man to the end. He was a natural leader who inspired all that he met. He made me want to always strive to be better. I am saddened to see him go, but I know that one day I will see him again. I will forever strive to live and work by Pat's example. I hope that I can make him proud. My prayers are with his family.

Pam Cory

November 29, 2010

To the Sirois family .I am sorry for your loss, it seems Patrick was a fine and brave man. To save the life of a stranger the way you did was the act of a true Hero. Your act took your life but you saved my son James Snowden. For that you will always be a Real Hero to my family and myself. Go in Peace and Thank you.

Steve Story

November 28, 2010

I have lost a true friend. Pat always smiled and seemingly never had a bad day. He was a truly dedicated professional who always motivated us and kept the job fun. Pat loved law enforcement and truly gave his life helping others. Pat and I had many discussions over the years and it was obvious that he truly cared about those he served. He died doing what he loved and lived his life every day as if it were his last. RIP my friend until we meet again. "Rooster"

Terry Dampier

November 28, 2010

Pat i never got to meet you but my son (Sgt James Dorris) spoke very highly of you and looked up to you as his mentor Thank you for being a friend to him i know a man of your honor will be missed.

april raines

November 28, 2010

I will always remember you for your big kind heart and your overflowing compassion. Our community will never be the same without you here. Your smile and laugh is something i immediately think of when your name is mentioned. You touched so many lives and made a huge impression on so many more....you are truly an angel for our community...those whose lives you have touched will be forever changed and your memory will never be forgotten as your compassion and zest for life are the qualities everyone you met noticed and picked up on. May God bless your family in their time of healing.

Pat doing what you did best

Ken Mahoney

November 28, 2010

Ken and Janet Mahoney

November 28, 2010

Pat you were a great soldier, cop and friend to Janet and I. I am only sorry that we cant make the trip from Virginia to see you one last time. Just pull up a bench and we will hold a reunion in the great blue line in the sky. Many thanks for your support of my family and your friendship.
You will truly be missed

Kim Munley

November 28, 2010

Pat, you are now MY superhero! You use to call me yours but what you did was so selfless and the type of person you are on a daily basis. I miss you so much! I love you brother!

Rene St. George (Det Ret)

November 28, 2010

Brother Patrick, I am proud to call you "Brother" in every sense of the word. You have always been my hero from day one. Words cannot express what an inspiration you have been to me, I am so proud of you... you are my hero. You will be missed but you will live on in our hearts. Rest in peace Brother.

Matthew Hicks

November 28, 2010

Pat, you know all I have to say and how I feel. You will really be missed by many and always loved. Thank you for some of the happiest memories EVER, and they are still coming as I see all these new pics and videos of you! You know I've known Karen for years and she's shared some stories with you about us working together. Since I've known her, I have seen her go through some very hard times, and throughout those years, I have never seen her more happy until you came into her life. Even though your passing is devastating to all of us, Karen and your family will have all the support they need from our DES family. Your a good man Pat. Rest In Peace little buddy. All my love, Matthew "506"

Maggie O.

November 28, 2010

Prayers go out to the Family. I am so sorry to hear about Pat. He was so loved and cared for by many:) RIP!

Nancy Perry

November 28, 2010

I did not know you but my deepest Condolences go to your Family.All of you will be in my thoughts and Prayers.God Bless Your Family.I know you were a Good Man and so does God.Rest In Peace!

November 28, 2010

Patrick they say we're all here for a reason, some never know what that reason is,you were one of the blessed,you alway's new and just knowing you we knew too. Thank you for being a wonderful person you've touched so many in such a short time. We will miss you cuz, but we know your in great company.
Louis and Louise Verville

SAM RAY

November 28, 2010

I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME, I CHERISHED THE THOUGHT THAT WE WERE FRIENDS. I MISS YOU AND YOU ARE LOVED BY SO MANY. YOU WERE A STRONG FORCE, JUST BEING YOURSELF. THANK YOU FOR BEING MY FRIEND, REST NOW IN HEAVEN. GOD BLESS.

CPL S.E.RAY

shelly anderson

November 27, 2010

I will miss you Pat. Im sorry I will not be there to say good by. I will never forget you and your selfless sirvist.

never forgotten

November 27, 2010

Angie Del Rosario

November 27, 2010

My deepest condolences, I only met him for one day and thought he was a great human being. He will be truly missed by everyone. My thoughts and prayers to the family. Rest in Peace Pat.

Uncle Pat's visit to CT, July 4th, 2008

Michael Beaudoin

November 27, 2010

Uncle Pat,
It was a privilege and honor to call you my uncle. I will never forget all the great times spent together, you were one of the funniest and most caring people i've ever met. I'll never forget the countless stories from when you were a drill seargent or all the videos you used to show us of you chasing bad guys. You passed away doing the only thing you knew, which was helping people. You are and will always be a hero. Give em hell up there, especially Pepe, I know he was waiting for you.

Love You!

Grant Moore

November 27, 2010

You're such a part of so many lives. Now that part will just be void. No matter how much we need you now, Heaven needed you more. Heaven was needing a hero. Somebody just like you. Brave enough to stand up for what you believe and follow it though. When we try to make it make sense in our minds. The only conclusion we come to is that Heaven was needing a hero like you. Yes, Heaven was needing a hero...that's you. Rest in peace my brother. You may be in heaven, but you will always be in our memories and our hearts.

Lori Hodge

November 27, 2010

There are people that come into your life that make such an impact. Pat was that person. You were such a great guy, outstanding officer, friend, you will never be forgotten. Your light will shine forever in our hearts. Thank you for touching my life and my heart! You are so missed!
My prayers are with the family as you go through this difficult time.

Michael Burnette

November 27, 2010

We love you little buddy

Ryan S

November 27, 2010

Pat, you will always be an inspiration to everyone. You will greatly be missed but you will live on forever in every one our hearts. It was a privilege and honor working with you.

Mark Trepanier

November 27, 2010

Although I know Pat attained the rank of Sergeant Major before retiring from the Army, I always knew his as 1SG Sirois. He was hard but fair, and it wasn't until a while after he left the job that I truly appreciated the man he was and the things he did for our unit. I absolutely hate that Pat's gone, but the fact that he died helping a stranger tells you what a great guy he was and that he put others ahead of himself all the time. He will be missed by many more people than he could have ever imagined.

Kenneth Mahoney

November 27, 2010

Pat you were a great person, friend and Police Officer. You played many roles in your life, being a father, a husband, a brother, a solider, and Policeman. Now we must let you go to your next role as an angel to look over us. We will not say goodbye, just see you later. We will see each other again someday. Give them hell 822. I love and miss you.

angel sutton

November 27, 2010

my thoughts and prayers go out to the family and loved ones of officer patrick sirois he way a great person who always had a smile on his face pat you will truly be missed by many people keep s safe from heaven above

November 27, 2010

Patrick, you were such a great inspiration in my life and so many others. A better friend and mentor will never be found.

Patrick and myself on my last day at Fort Hood

Nicholas Van Hammond

November 27, 2010

November 26, 2010

Officer Pat will be greatly missed and always admired!

Michelle Willman-Van Hammond

November 26, 2010

I will never be able to say enough about Pat. He gave himself to everyone he met. He was funny... Caring.. and a great partner to my husband. I never had to worry because I knew they'd be alright. They might come home dirty.. but ok. Karen, you were a great friend at a time where I really didnt know anybody on Hood and I thank you sooo much for that. I know there are no words to express how sorry I am. I'm prayin for ya.

Michelle Willman-Van Hammond

Jenni Snyder

November 26, 2010

Pat, it's hard for me to grasp the fact that you're no longer here. You're the one I turned to and called when I needed advise about being a cop and the first one on my mind when all heck broke out at Fort Hood last November. Your smile was completely contagious and you were a friend to so many. In my heart I know you were doing what came so naturally to you and in my mind I imagine you patrolling the heavens, on your bike. You were like a brother to me and I'm truly blessed to have met you. Please know that you will never be forgotten and many of us look forward to seeing you again. Rest in peace dear friend! God Bless you Karen! You're in my families thoughts and prayers.

Jeffrey Hildebrand

November 26, 2010

Patrick I am very sorry to see someone with your level of compassion and love for his family and friends lose your life , but know that you are never truly gone you will always be here in the hearts and minds of everyone you has had the privilege of knowing you and having you in their lives. God bless you for all you and Karen for being a part of my life. It was an honor to be a part of the escort in bringing you back home and a truly amazing sight seeing just how many people feel the same as me. I know I will see you again someday . Rest in peace brother.

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