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Michael Donnelly Obituary

DONNELLY, Maj. Michael W., USAF. Ret Major Michael W. Donnelly, United States Air Force (retired) On Thursday, (June 30, 2005) Major Michael W. Donnelly, 46, died after a relentless ten-year battle with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), also known as Lou Gehrig's disease. His loved ones were at his side at the time of his death. Before retiring with military honors in 1996, Major Donnelly, a dedicated career fighter pilot, served his nation proudly. Over the course of his 15-year career, he flew first the A-10 Warthog and then the F-16 Falcon. During Operation Desert Storm he completed 44 F-16 combat missions over Iraq as a member of the 10th Tactical Fighter Squadron stationed at Hahn Air Force Base in Germany. At the time of his retirement, he was serving as Chief of Standardization and Evaluation while assigned to the 80th Flying Training Wing at Sheppard Air Force Base in Wichita Falls, Texas. Upon his retirement, Major Donnelly received the Meritorious Service Medal for outstanding service to the United States. In this role, Major Donnelly trained NATO fighter pilots from over 16 countries and developed entirely new flying operations for the largest flying training wing in the world. His many other honors included the Air Medal with three oak leaf clusters, the Aerial Achievement Medal, the Air Force Commendation Medal with four oak leaf clusters, the Air Force Achievement Medal and the Top Gun award. Diagnosed with ALS in 1996, Major Donnelly spent the next nine and a half years in the service of his fellow gulf war veterans, thousands of whom are suffering from a host of debilitating and life-threatening illnesses brought about by exposure to nerve agents and other toxins, spent depleted uranium munitions and experimental vaccines. In 1998, Major Donnelly published a book, Falcon's Cry: A Desert Storm Memoir, that chronicled his struggle. Untiring in his labors, he testified before Congress, appeared on numerous television and radio news and talk shows and granted interviews to countless newspapers and magazines for as long as his faculties allowed and even after they no longer did. Notably, he appeared on the Larry King Show, gained coverage for his cause in the Hartford Courant, the New York Times, the Washington Times, the Boston Globe, People, the Journal Inquirer and many other news outlets large and small in the United States and Europe. After six years of courageous and impassioned effort, and while suffering greatly from the progression of his own illness, Major Donnelly was the prime mover behind the government's acknowledgement of the connection between service in Operation Desert Storm and the elevated incidence of ALS. As a result, scores of gulf war veterans suffering from ALS were immediately granted retroactive service-connection status, which resulted in the payment of the veterans' benefits they earned when they served their country. In addition, his efforts led directly to the release of millions of dollars in federal research money to support the study of ALS incidence among gulf war veterans. Major Donnelly received a BA in history from Fairfield University in 1981 and an MBA from Midwestern University in 1995. In 2003, Fairfield University bestowed an honorary Juris Doctor degree upon him for his selfless service to his nation and to others. A warrior until the end, Major Donnelly never surrendered to the relentless progression of the degenerative disease that ended his life. Everyone who ever met him, whether hardened reporter or dear friend, fellow veteran, caretaker or politician, remarked upon his incredible grace and courage in the face of a terrible and invariably fatal illness. He had an infectious, crooked smile, a disarming wit and the dancing, mischievous blue eyes of an Irish charmer. Major Donnelly touched many, many hearts throughout his short life, but especially since his diagnosis with ALS. He will be greatly missed by all. He leaves a wife, Susan Allen Donnelly, and two children, Erin, 18, and Sean, 13, and his parents, Rae and Thomas Donnelly, all of South Windsor. He also leaves a sister and brother-in-law, Lisa and Michael Hayes, also of South Windsor, a brother and sister-in-law, Tim and Ana Donnelly, of Weston, and a sister, Denise Donnelly, of Rockport, MA. He also leaves five nieces and nephews, Emily and Madeleine Hayes and Olivia, Grace and Colin Donnelly. In lieu of flowers, his family kindly requests that donations be sent to the ALS Association of Connecticut, 4 Oxford Road, Milford, CT 06460. A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday, July 6, at 10 a.m. at St. Margaret Mary Church, 80 Hayes Rd., South Windsor. His family will receive friends for memorial hours Tuesday, July 5, from 4-9 p.m. at Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, 419 Buckland Rd., South Windsor. To leave on-line condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 2, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Michael Donnelly

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Bob Hauck

May 29, 2006

Mike was one of the finest young men that I had the privilege of coaching. May he rest in peace.

Jerry Hilliard

July 29, 2005

Denise,

I'm so sorry for you and your family. It saddened me to see your grieving picture in the paper. I didn't know your brother, but I knew you, so he must be awesome. I'm very proud of you, your writing, and how you stood by him.

My three boys went to East Catholic so I've followed his story through different ECHS publications.

Best wishes to you and yours.

Mr. "Hill" from Timothy

Edwards School

Renee Antaya

July 12, 2005

With My Deepest Sympathies to the Donnelly Family.



I was lucky enough to be at WDRC when Michael was promoting his book and I meet the greatest guy I could have known. Michael touched my heart and soul, and I always remembered him so vividly. I am so proud to have known him and to have been a part in what he was all about and his cause. Michael, it is now time for me to read your book, the waiting was done for a purpose I now understand fully. Rest in Peace Gentle Soul. With fondness.

Gretchen Levesque(Kreuzer)

July 7, 2005

To Maj. Donnelly's family,



You do not know me...but you know my Dad, Mike Kreuzer of East Windsor. He is currently riding his bike along the Lewis and Clark Trail to raise money for ALS research. My brother, Mike Jr. is beginning his 4th year with this dreadful disease. Unlike your Mike, ours was not in the service, he just had a bad turn of fate.



My family and I want to send you our deepest thoughts and prayers on the passing of Mike and will keep his family in our prayers.



Wishing you peace

George Urban

July 7, 2005

I'm saddened to hear about Mike. I read his obituary and all I could think was what a courageous and great person. I stand in awe of his achievements – and am indebted to him for all the sacrifices he made for our country. I wish I had known Mike (I missed him by a few years at Fairfield U.). My Thoughts & Prayers. -George



btw, Tom was my first boss (Billings) and was such a good influence on me (razor sharp and a great wit). It sounds like Mike shared these noble qualities too.

Ted Tyma

July 7, 2005

To the Donnelly family:



I wanted to express my heartfelt sorrow to your remarkable family concerning Mike. The Mike that I knew from college had a competitive spirit that served him after college in being an accomplished pilot and dealing with his disease. I know that each and everyone on our Fairfield University friends feel blessed to have known Mike. He loved our secret saying "GNAY." GNAY, Mike, and may you rest in peace.

John Leary

July 6, 2005

Tom and Rae...

I am sorry to have been away over the weekend and not be able to deliver my thoughts in person. You and Michael have been in my prayers over the years, and I will remember him particularly at Mass tomorrow morning. God bless you both...

Beverly McCraw

July 6, 2005

My deepest sympathies are extended to Michael's family. Having worked with the National ALS Registry for Veterans for almost 2 years, Michael is well known to all who work here. May God bless you and bring you comfort--and hopefully soon we will find a cure for this dreadfull disease. Beverly

Gordon Hay

July 6, 2005

I'm Jady Hay's Dad. Mrs Hay and I wish Mike's family and parents our heartfelt sympathy. These have surely been trying times. We have Falcon's Cry and have recomended it to many others as essentiual reading. Our love to you all.

Laura, Mark and Sam Laraia

July 6, 2005

To the Donnelly and Allen families, our thoughts and prayers are with you:



You can shed tears that he is gone

or you can smile because he has lived.



You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back or you can open your eyes and see all he's left.



Your heart can be empty because you can't see him or you can be full of the love you shared.



You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.



You can remember him and only that he's gone or you can cherish his memory and let it live on.



You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back or you can do what he'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

Raoul Tomasi

July 6, 2005

Dear Mike, You fought to give us a better world and bravely endured a time of wounded wings. Now you’re flying again, much higher than ever. Don’t worry about our tears, we know you’re happy, it’s just hard for us to accept your departure from this earth we love so much. I wish you the best voyage to the place where we’ll meet again.

Marie Passanisi-McDonald

July 6, 2005

Dear Rae, Tom and family,

All I can say is what a "Hero" Mike was, in more ways than one. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and all of your family. I remember the last time I saw Mike and what a smile he had on his face when he talked of Carl. May all the best memories of Mike and all the happy times you had together remain with you forever.

Lauren (Miller) & Mark Cattel Cattel

July 6, 2005

To the Donnelly Family,

Although Mark and I are on vacation in DE, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. We wish we were able to stop at the wake and memorial service but due to timing we will not be able to make it. Your entire family should all be considered hero's along side Michael. God bless all of you and all of our hero's all over the world who are fighting to protect us!



Love,

Kathy & Jon Hale

July 5, 2005

Our condolences on Mike's passing. He was a great inspiration.

Paula Jackson Hurley

July 5, 2005

Denise, I am so sorry about your brother Michael. He did so much for so many. He is a true American hero. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Paula Jackson Hurley.

Bill Krawski

July 4, 2005

Mike, your last formation joinup with the Almighty. Kick the tires, light the fire, tickle the torch, grear up, flaps up, after burner, your got leads wing within a 1/4 turn, through the contrails,over the top, on to heaven. (Former F-100 driver, and Pontiac too)

Barbara Kohout Pacelli

July 4, 2005

To all of the wondeful Donnelly family: You are all in my prayers. I am a better person for having known Mike and am grateful for the time I spent with all of you. Barbara Kohout Pacelli

James Throwe

July 4, 2005

I am glad I got to know Michael before he came ill with ALS disease. Knowing him after made it easier to recognize him as a true American hero whose courage and determination were beyond belief in his valiant efforts to help other servicemen whose suffered injuries and disease from battle zones.He is in my prayers forever in my life.

Jim Throwe Brigadier General (ret) US Army

Caroline & Sid Blecherman

July 4, 2005

Our hearts and prayers go to Michael's loving, courageious family. Michael, more than anyone else in our lifetime, made us proud to be Americans.



May God comfort you in your hours of need.



With love and appreciation,

Ashley Sheridan

July 3, 2005

Major Mike was a great man, not only for what he did, but for who he was. This world is a better place for him being in it. He will be sorely missed.

My deepest condolences to his family.

Liz Murchie

July 2, 2005

Denise, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Love Liz and Bob Murchie

Melanie, Ed and Gregory Gillis

July 2, 2005

We share deeply your grief over Michael's passing. He was a hero, not only in the Gulf War, but in the way he lived his life. His grace and courage were indeed an inspiration. Mike will forever be a hero in our hearts and we will sadly miss him. Our deepest sympathies and love to the entire Donnelly family. God Bless you Mike.....fly high!!

Nancy Weber

July 2, 2005

He Has Slipped

The Surly Bonds of Earth...

Put Out His Hand

And Touched the Face of God



Thank you for all you did for our Country.

Paul I Davis

July 2, 2005

It was my privilege to be one of

Mike's history professors at Fairfield U. and to speak at his book ceremony in the Quick Center

and to meet all his great family

then. My heart and prayers are with you now and I know Mike is

blessing us all from Above. Of all

of my thousands of students over the years he is one of those of

whom I am most proud. His legacy

is truly manificent.

glen and laura hacker

July 2, 2005

A classmate,friend,athlete,outdoorsma

n,aviator,warrior,husband and father.We will always remember and miss you Mike."to fly west my friend is a flight we all must take for a final check"-author unknown

Gary Heckman

July 2, 2005

Mike -

You will be sorely missed. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. Growing up you were a great friend and as an adult your accomplishments and courage are something we all aspire to. God Bless. Gary & Kathy Heckman.

Bill Fogarty

July 2, 2005

"May those who

love us,love us

And those that

don't love us

May God turn

their hearts;

And if he doesn't

turn their hearts

May He turn

their ankles

So we'll know them

by their limping."

an old Gaelic blessing

Sincere condolences to the Donnelly warrior family from the Fogarty warrior family.

Bob & Kathy Sumislaski

July 2, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family on the loss of your loved one.

Gary,Carol and Dave Schultz

July 2, 2005

Our family feels honored to have had the privilge of knowing Mike. He was a beautiful person, a true Man among Men. His courage is rarely seen these days, an inspiration to all of us. Our prayers to Sue Erin Sean and the entire Donnelly family and friends

Herb & Gloria Byk

July 2, 2005

Tom & Rae, Please accept our condolences on the tragic death of Michael. We know what a difficult time this has been for your family.

Please express our condolences to the rest of the family.

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

July 2, 2005

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

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