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BESTOR, Andrew Scott
Andrew Scott Bestor, son of Roger Scott Bestor and Nancy Roser Bestor, died on June 2, 2011. He was a resident of Washington, D.C. Born in Hartford, on April 29, 1963, Andrew grew up in Glastonbury and worked during the summer on farms on John Tom Hill. He graduated from Glastonbury High School and from Allegheny College, in Meadville, Pennsylvania, where he received a B.A. in history. He served in the National Guard and worked, among other places, for Schal Associates in construction consulting in Chicago and Japan, and for the Boeing Company in Seattle, Washington. Andrew had a deep interest in American history and politics. He was an avid user of public libraries and considered them to be essential to the preservation of a democratic society. He especially loved the Library of Congress, where he became a familiar figure in the Jefferson Reading Room and where he worked for the last six months of his life. Predeceased by his father and his brother John, Andrew leaves behind his mother, a life-long Glastonbury resident now in Concord, MA; and his four sisters, Susannah Walker, of Redmond, WA, Jane Fair Bestor, of Somerville, MA, Clary Bestor Williams, of Concord, MA, and Maria (Roo) Zimmer, of Albuquerque, NM. He also leaves behind thirteen nieces and nephews.
A family memorial service was held on July 16, 2011 in Buckingham Cemetery, Glastonbury. Donations in Andrew's memory can be made to: The Library of Congress, Attention: Disbursing Office, Friends of Preservation Fund, 101 Independence Avenue, S.E., Washington, D.C. 20540-9130, or to the National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI) 3803 North Fairfax Drive, Suite 100, Arlington, VA 22203 or online at www.nami.org.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 24, 2011.

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Rob Fromberg

July 29, 2024

I taught Andy in a fiction-writing class at Northwestern University in Chicago sometime in the 1980s. He was an unforgettable person: always smiling, wildly energetic, boldly idiosyncratic. I loved his writing and even more loved getting to bask in his very bright light.

Angel

March 27, 2021

I have good memories chatting with him on my way to work in the Senate. Sad hearing about his premature passing. He will live on the memory of many people who saw him in his one-man demonstrations. Rest in peace Mr Bestor.

Andy was a prodigious advocate of nationalized health care

July 15, 2015

Andy the eternal seeker of democratic ideals

July 15, 2015

May 30, 2014

Andy.

May 30, 2014

Oh, what a tragic loss! Andy had a brilliant mind. I went to GHS with Andy (Class of `81), but moreover dated his brother, John (who preceeded Andy in death). I am sorry I just got the news. Been away for 20 years in the service (Navy Nurse, Ret.). Jennifer Dutton told me yesterday on daytrip to Peacefield (John Adams' homestead). There was no peace at Peacefield with this news. What happened? I maintain John's grave site with flag, flowers, or wreath for 30 years, on every visit home. There were no new additions to the family plot. I am stunned. Grieved. Thank you for keeping this mourning site open for late-comers. I can't find Nancy (411 Concord, MA has no record of her). So, herein, my heart goes out to Mrs. Bestor, mother, Nancy, and Andy's family and closest friends. Andy had the most brilliant mind and sense of justice; I suppose that was too painful.
My condolences,
Heather "Veronica" (Pfeifer) Southby
Glastonbury, CT

Bryan Adrian

February 18, 2012

I just read about Andy's demise this morning, while looking him up on Google from my home in Tbilisi, Georgia, because i had not received an email response from him for 8 months. I met Andy about 2004, and he helped me with my luggage to the airport when I left Washington, DC, Sept. 2006, to work in Tbilisi. He and I had quickly become fast friends for a few years, and his affection and humor and warmth and intelligence was like a fountain of effervescent life. We would both spend full shifts doing research at the Library of Congress, from opening to closing sometimes. Andy had a keen investigative mind that could probe to the heart of hidden secrets, and he had a sense of truth that was awesome. He had some moments when he got carried away, but if you read his blogs if they are still online [I will check it out soon], he was right more than he was wrong. Andy, your death struck me harder than most deaths, it is a real loss for me. Thanks for putting me up in your flat for a few months also, when i lost my job. I hope you told your mother how much you loved her as often as you told me, in your "sweet" taciturn way, in which you manifestly betrayed your urge to not tell yourself or others how deep was your love for her. I often wanted to meet her and have a conversation with her in Spanish, if i recall correctly she has a PhD in Spanish, you told me proudly.

James Gossweiler

January 21, 2012

I attended Allegheny College during the same period (1981-85), and I clearly remember Andy. He was a super nice guy...friendly to everyone. I recall, he had a keen interest in Japanese culture at the time. I also remember seeing him on campus occasionally in his National Guard uniform. I guess the genuine nature of his character made an impression on me. His college nickname was Yorgi or the Yorg, but I called him Andy. I wish you peace, Andy.

Doug Wilson

January 4, 2012

My deepest sympathy to Andy's family. I learned of this sad news from the Allegheny Magazine. He was a friend in college and after, and I'll always remember his unique humor and lively conversations about history and government. Yorgi will be missed.

Lisa Healey

December 30, 2011

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Andy in college and he even went skiing once with my family in Vermont. I heard through the newest Alleghenian Magazine so you may hear from more of us. I did loose contact but remember him as being a very nice guy with a great curiosity about history. I was not surprised to hear he was in the national guard. My deepest sympathies go out to you.

Donna Decker

November 27, 2011

I offer my condolences to Andy's loved ones. I met Andy in Washington, D.C. two years ago. He was a beloved friend of my partner, John Sharp. We spent hours together, John and Andy and I, walking many miles of D.C. and talking and thinking and sharing. I would not have missed this opportunity for the world. His passing is a heartache for John -- who loved Andy and cared for him with a dignity and mindfulness that continues to touch me. I am so sorry for the pain of all who loved Andy. I wish him the peace he so deserves.

At Chinatown, Washington, D.C. 10/2009

John Sharp

November 23, 2011

Oh, I am so heart broken. I have so many fond memories of Andy and was so happy to have caught up with him in D.C. after years of only the occasional contact. My deepest sympathies. I share your sorrow and my thoughts are with you.

Damian Walker

October 2, 2011

Good-bye, old friend. I hope you find peace in eternity.

L.E.D.N., Andy (Yorg).

Andrea Von Kaenel

August 6, 2011

My condolences to Andy's family. Andy was a friend in college and beyond. His unique outlook on life made for many hours of interesting conversation over the past few years. He was one of a kind and will be missed.

Alan Redfern

August 3, 2011

I was sorry to hear of Andy's passing. I knew him from Allegheny College but had not been in touch for a long time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Greg McGee

August 3, 2011

Mrs. Bestor, I'm sorry to hear of Andy's passing. Please accept my condolences and know my thoughts are with you. I'll always remember Andy as my loyal friend and thoughtful mentor at Allegheny.

Jonathan Usdin

August 3, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Andy enriched my life at Allegheny with his keen wit, pleasant smile, and passionate approach to his interests. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and Andy's friends.

Tim Burgess

August 3, 2011

My condolences to the Bestor family.

I went to college with Andy and kept in touch with him over the years. His smile and sense of humor are what I remember when I think of him.

Nancy Dennler

July 27, 2011

Mrs. Bestor and Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you I am so sorry to hear about your son.

the Kristoff's

July 26, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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