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Thomas J. THIBODEAU Sr.

1930 - 2013

Thomas J. THIBODEAU Sr. obituary, 1930-2013, Berlin, CT

BORN

1930

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

New Britain Memorial-Sagarino Funeral Home

444 Farmington Ave

New Britain, Connecticut

Thomas THIBODEAU Obituary



Thomas J. Thibodeau Sr., 83, devoted husband of Ann M. (Montanile) Thibodeau, of Berlin, passed away on Christmas Day, Wednesday, (December 25, 2013). He was born in Caribou, Maine and was son to the late Denis and Victoria (Chaloult) Thibodeau and his beloved step-mother, Laura (Baron) Thibodeau. He attended St. Mary School, La Salette Prep School, St. Thomas Seminary and graduated from St. Bonaventure University in New York. He was an active member of St. Ann Church, where he received the H.O.P.E. award, was on the school board, taught CCD, was a lector, Minister of the Eucharist and sang in the choir. He was employed by Winslow Automatics for 20 years, retiring in 2000. A deeply religious man, Tom enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. He also loved going to the beach and doing the cooking at good old fashioned barbeques where his specialties were grilled chicken and steak. He was known for his compassion, patience, warm caring heart and kind words. He had a special sense of humor and his infectious smile would illuminate any room. A gifted speaker, he was frequently called upon to speak on many special occasions. He loved basketball and passed his passion for the game down to all of his children. He was an avid fan of St. Bonaventure and the Chicago Bulls. He had the honor of riding on a duck boat during the 2008 World Championship Boston Celtics Parade and commented that he never saw so many happy people in one place, which brought him great joy. The family would like to extend their gratitude to Dr. Neil Wasserman and the emergency department staff at the Hospital of Central Connecticut, his caregivers, Gabrielle Baawuah and Frank Appiah. He looked forward to daily visits from his daughter and 'Guardian Angel', Nancy, as well as from family and friends. In addition to his beloved wife Ann of 58 years, he is also survived and will be dearly missed by his loving children; Thomas J. Thibodeau, Jr. of Chicago, Illinois; Janet Brancifort and her husband Roy, Nancy Quedens and her husband, Phillipp, Dennis Thibodeau and David Thibodeau and his wife Christine, all of Berlin, his eight grandchildren who fondly called him 'pepere'; Jessica, Nicholas, Tyler, Thomas, Melissa, Stephanie, David and Emily and his precious two great grandchildren, Makenzie and Haylie. He is also survived by his two sisters; Rita Picard of Berlin and Betty Petraniuk of New Britain and many nieces and nephews. Thomas was predeceased by five sisters; Leola and Verlie Ouellette, Leonie Gagnon, Mary Baron and Shirley Zavalick. Tom's favorite holiday was Christmas and he loved to sing Christmas Carols. On Christmas Eve he sang his favorite Christmas song Silent Night, with his wife, Ann. "Sleep in Heavenly Peace Dad". WE LOVE YOU! Funeral services will begin Monday, December 30, 2013, at 9:00 am from the New Britain Memorial Donald D. Sagarino Funeral Home, 444 Farmington Ave., New Britain, followed by the funeral liturgy at 10:00 am in St. Ann Church. Entombment will follow in St. Mary Garden Mausoleum. Visitation hours will be Sunday, December 29, 2013 from 4-8 pm at the funeral home. For directions, online messages or view video tribute, please visit www.newbritainsagarino.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: La Salette Missionaries, 915 Maple Avenue, Hartford, CT 06114 or St. Ann Church, 47 Clark Street, New Britain, CT 06051.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 27, 2013.

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Cindy & Mark Newton

January 14, 2014

Tom, Janet, and Thibodeau Family,
It is with deep understanding that we send our sincerest condolences to you and your families.

John Truhan

January 2, 2014

Thibodeau Family, Mr. Thibodeau was a great guy, he will be missed. May he be happy, safe and in Heaven for all eternity.

Paul Gagnon

December 29, 2013

Dear Aunt Ann, Joyce and I are so sorry for the loss of Uncle Tom. He was a very special man, who I loved dearly. My Mom must of had a wonderful Christmas with her brother. I will cherished all of the memories. May God bless you at this very difficult time. Wish we would of been able to make it to the funeral. Love to all of you.
Love,
Paul and Joyce Gagnon

December 29, 2013

Mrs. Thibodeau, and family, sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers to you and your family.Your husband (father) was a good man and role model for all who knew him! He will be sadly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him!
I still have the memories of growing up with your Husband and Father on Hillhurst Ave. God bless you all, in this difficult time! R.I.P. Mark s. Mercier

Vern Pindar

December 29, 2013

Tom, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Fondly, sandy and Vern Pindar

David Thibodeau

December 29, 2013

A message to my Dad:

Dear Dad,

We are so lucky to have had you for our father. As I reflect on my early childhood, so many wonderful memories are racing into my mind. A couple that have stood out to me was going to church with you as a very young boy and wearing your neckties.They were too long for me and dragged to the ground. The other was you calling me "My Dave" ! What I realize now is how supportive and proud you were of me despite how funny I must have looked and how I wanted to wear your ties because I wanted to be just like my Dad. Now that I am older I want you to know that I am the proud one. I am so incredibly proud to have you as my dad and to be your son. I am forever grateful for all the lessons you taught and the values you instilled in each one of us. Your spirit will remain alive through me as I pass these same lessons and values down to my son, Thomas, who is named after the greatest man I ever knew, YOU DAD ! There is one thing that hasn't changed through these years and never will. I want to be just like you !

I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND ALWAYS DAD,

"Your Dave"

Jane Clavette

December 29, 2013

To a wonderful man who will be greatly missed who had a great knowledge of many subjects I enjoyed listening to. Rest in peace until we all meet again.

Rita & Frank Reali

December 28, 2013

Ann, Nancy & family, we were so saddened to hear of Tom's passing! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

December 28, 2013

Dear Aunt Ann and family, We are all so saddened to hear of uncle Tom's passing. He's left us with so many wonderful memories growing up. Such a good man he was. May he now be re-united with mom and all the others in heaven. He is going to be truly missed by all....Love you all....
Danny & Phyllis

Jeanna Chaloult-Feeney

December 28, 2013

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Danny and Betty Di Natale

December 28, 2013

Ann and Family,
May Tom forever rest in peace. Our heartfelt sympathy is with all of you now, in the passing of a wonderful person to have known, Tom. He has left many with fond memories and prayers for all of us at those special occasions. I always wondered how he managed to get through all those years, with all those sisters. As you all can see he conquered it all. He gave of his time to teach others about the importance of faith in their lives and lived that faith, with his family. He touched my family with prayers at our special occasions. So Tom, although you have passed into another life, you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. And yes, REST IN HEAVENLY PEACE!

Henry McCray

December 28, 2013

Looking at the guest book Mr.Thibodeau made this world better for being here.If Thomas jr. was one of the coaches for the giants Midget football team in 1970 city champions have him contact me at [email protected] he made a positive impact in my life.If not the family still has my deepest sympathy.

Gary & Terry Ouellette

December 28, 2013

We are so deeply saddened to hear the news of Uncle Tom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in this very difficult time. Uncle Tom's patience, kindness, dedication to family and unending faith have been passed along to so many of us in his family. He will be missed greatly but will live forever in our hearts and in our memories.

Gary Oakes

December 27, 2013

Dennis I am saddened to hear about the loss of your dad. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. May you find peace in the memories you cherish and may he live in your heart forever.

Kim Ploszaj

December 27, 2013

Janet, Mrs. Thibodeau and your entire family,

My condolences and heartfelt sympathy is extended to your entire family during this tough time. I hope your he has found his ever lasting peace and surrounds you all with his presence.

Maxine Neufville

December 27, 2013

To The Thibodeau Family. Mr. Thibodeau will be missed deeply by so many. Dennis always had wonderful things to say about his dad here at the D.E.E.P. I know God will comfort you all knowing that Mr. Thibodeau left a legacy behind to following in his wonderful footsteps. God bless.

Lil and Bob Aldi

December 27, 2013

Growing up, Uncle Tom's example and influence touched our lives to the highest levels. Our hearts go out to you,
Aunt Ann, Janet, Tom, Nancy, Dennis, David and your families. We were blessed to know him. May you find comfort that so many became better people just by knowing him. Love,

Jack Wozniak

December 27, 2013

So sorry for the loss of your dad. Our sympathy goes out to you and your whole family. The loss of a loved one truly breaks ones heart, but knowing that friends you have made in your life are also sharing your sorrow may perhaps add a measure of comfort to you in this time of grief.
(childhood friend from New Britian)

Jenese Clark - Prince

December 27, 2013

Dennis and the Thibodeau family
Mrs. Annie I'm so sorry for your lost I love you and if there is anything I can do for you I hope you would call on me

Dennis I'm so sorry for your lost you were there for me when I lost my mom two years ago and I will NEVER forget it

Thibodeau family my heart goes out to the family you guys will be okay it will take sometime but things will get better support your mom she will need all of you

Patricia McCartan

December 27, 2013

Ann and Family,
we will always remember our early years in New Britain which we shared with you and Tom.
Please accept our condolences.
We are living in Florida and cannot be there but our thoughts will be.
Tom and Patricia McCartan.

Mary & Tony Lazzaro

December 27, 2013

Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to Ann who will miss Tom more than anybody else. He was a great guy. He was a great person to talk to.

Thomas Silverio

December 27, 2013

TomThibs .My condolences to you and your family,We all were raised in a great city and we were all tought the true values of of life through our parents,I didn,t know your father but I knew you,Its all a tribute to him,he must of been a great man.God bless you and your family in this sad time.

Leah Adams

December 27, 2013

Dear Ann and the whole family, we send our deepest sympathies to you during this difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you as you mourn, but also rejoice and celebrate a life well lived, a man well loved. In Christ's mercy and love, Ron, Leah, Jerid, and Hayley Adams

Nancy, Tom and Tyler Pereau

December 27, 2013

Our deepest sympathies on the loss of Tom, such a great man. I have many fond memories of him! Much love and hugs during this difficult time.

December 27, 2013

Janet,
My heartfelt condolences on the passing of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

Ruth Moisa Bergeron

Richie & Luisa Grogan

December 27, 2013

To Nancy Our Thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow

Danny Gagnon

December 26, 2013

Aunt Ann, As I matured and became an adult my admiration for Uncle Tom grew tremendously. Even though we didn't see each other often enough, I realized how special he was. The kindness, patience, love and deep faith he displayed in life makes me proud to know he was my mom's only brother. Donna and I send our prayers and sympathy to you, Tommy, Janet, Nancy, Dennis, David and family. Love, Danny Gagnon

Gloria Kannenberg

December 26, 2013

Ann,
So sorry to hear of your husband's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. May God Bless you and keep you in His loving care.

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