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Nicholas Vinocur Obituary



Nicholas Vinocur, 26, of Simsbury, CT died Tuesday, July 7, 2015. He was born January 10, 1989 in Hartford, CT, beloved son of Ross and Nancy (Moss) Vinocur of West Simsbury, CT. He was a graduate of Simsbury High School, Class of 2007, and attended SUNY Purchase. Nick passed away after a long, brave battle with heroin addiction. After seven months of sobriety, his longest ever, the drug took hold of him again. Through everything, his family never stopped believing in him and loving him and only wish that he could have believed in himself. To all of you who are facing this horrible scourge as the family or friend of an addict, please reach out every day and be there for him or her. Let them know how much you love them and that there is nothing they could do to lose that love. Temper any tough love with your tender support. To all of you who are addicted, never give up. A slip up isn't a failure, and you don't ever have to be ashamed.Nick was not just an addict. He was a loving son, brother, and friend. He loved hiking throughout New England. He loved music and was in the process of amassing a complete collection of anything to do with David Bowie. He dreamed of hiking the Appalachian trail one day and driving cross country and being an elementary school teacher. Although he was living in a sober house in Portland, Maine and trying to make a fresh start there, he loved his hometown of Simsbury. He looked forward to getting his own place again and taking in rescue rats. He wanted to make something of himself, and we hope he knew that he already had. He was the bravest person we knew. Besides his loving parents, he is survived by his sister Claire Vinocur and her wife Krista Hennings-Vinocur of Alexandria, VA, and by his sister Jane Vinocur of West Simsbury; his grandfather, Allen Vinocur; his step-grandfather, Jerry Schindlinger; his aunts and uncles, Bob, Pam, and John Moss and Michelle Karshan, and his cousins Bree, Eric, Leah, David, Grace, Caitlin, and Riva. There are no calling hours. Graveside services will be Saturday, July 18th, 1:00 PM at the Simsbury Cemetery, 16 Plank Hill Road in Simsbury, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Connecticut Humane Society, 701 Russell Road, Newington, CT 06111 or at www.cthumane.org/donate. Please visit Nick's "Book of Memories" at www.vincentfuneralhome.com for online condolences.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 14, 2015.

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Christopher Hopkins

November 8, 2023

I only met him a couple times but he was a great person. This disease has taken many friends and family members. Hes with God and at peace from the addiction.

Andy

November 15, 2015

Nick and I were only in each other's lives for a brief period. He was kind, funny, smart, and determined. He had a beautiful smile. I'm so sorry to hear of this loss now. I'm sending love to his family every day.

Kim Daniels

August 25, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of your loss of such a special son... My best friend lost her son to this horrible drug. It was his first and last time of use. This drug took him away from his mom, dad and extended family. I pray that the days ahead will comfort you by know that others feel your loss. I'll keep Nick in my prayers.

janice weinstein

August 24, 2015

So very sorry for you loss. I, too, lost my brother to drugs...Thank you for your tender and honest words. May his memory forever be a blessing, and never in vain. Janice Weinstein

July 27, 2015

I am very sorry for what your family has gone through. It's a very tough road and it breaks your heart watching a child suffer. I will pray for your family.

Gary Goetz

July 21, 2015

May Nick rest in peace in heaven and may the deep pain of his loss be replaced by pleasant memories over time. My daughter worked with Nick at Brookside several years ago and had kind memories of him. He touched the lives of many.

July 20, 2015

I want to Thank you for such an honest, open, obituary. I as well have struggled down the very same road myself. I could only have prayed for a family such as yours. My family disowned me & if asked if we were related they would boldly tell you no. Your words have touched me in such a way I have tears in my eyes & they are not for me but for Nick. I have wanted for some time to go to schools and speak to kids about this, to tell them of my experiences & losses I have had, how this can happen to anybody. My regret is that I don't know how to do that. I have been trying to write a book about this, I have written the words straight from my heart, but how to put all that confusion in order leaves me lost still. I am going to print your obituary for Nick put it in my wallet and carry it every day with me because to know the strength you had for Nick empowers me. I know Nick & for me I will never speak of him in past tense. He is very much alive in my thoughts and prayers. I love you Nick God Bless

July 19, 2015

I light this candle for your beautiful son and for all the beautiful children lost to this horrible addiction.

Marly Bez

July 19, 2015

Nick was my friend. People say he was shy and weird but I was shy and weird too and he accepted me for me. He was the first person I ever felt comfortable enough to truly be myself with. We could talk about anything and he introduced me to some great music. I always assumed I would have more time to get back in touch with him but sometimes things don't work out the way we planned. I wish I had kept in touch with him. He's one of the most interesting, amazing people I've ever met and I truly appreciate his personality. Along with Brooke, I felt like the three of us were a team that experienced so many memorable events together. Nick was my friend. I will always love him.

Gina Bullard

July 18, 2015

In honor of his spirit and the battle that he fought - from one addict to another - peace be with you now brother.

Liz

July 17, 2015

My heart goes out to you and all of Nicks loved ones. How selfless and brave of you to print the most moving and loving obituary about your beloved son. My own 24 year old son has battled with heroin addiction for four years. I pray for him everyday, and also temper tough love with loving support. No one really knows what an addict or his family truly goes through suffering with this disease. I truly believe your courage printing this obituary may save help a suffering addict, family member or save a life. Everyone has a legacy and perhaps Nicks was saving another life or making a deep impression upon someone in need. God Bless you and Nick.

Kim Kotlinski

July 17, 2015

God bless your family for finding the strength to support him.

Cindy

July 17, 2015

There are no words to express for the loss of your son. You have written a powerful obituary in memory of your son on what a wonderful young man he was and his battle with addiction. Although, I did not know your son, I too lost my daughter in April under the same circumstances. It is a great loss and thank you for being so honest to help others with this horrible disease. God Bless you and your entire family, my prayers are with you all.

jim

July 17, 2015

so sorry for your loss- although I did not know Nick I know many struggling with this horrendous addiction-- as a parent I cannot imagine the pain your family is going through- positive energy to all of you-- and thank you for his life.

Joyce Krupka

July 17, 2015

I'm so sorry for the loss of your son, Nicholas. I also loss my son Nicholas 5 years ago, at the age of 26 to similar circumstances. My prayers are with you. GOD Bless you. Sincerely Joyce Krupka

Billie Jo Baxter

July 16, 2015

God bless all of you and my deepest sympathy for your loss

Elaine Lonergan

July 16, 2015

So sorry for your loss of a son. I also have a son who is struggling with addiction for 10 years now. We almost lost him 3 times. I will never give up on him. This was a beautiful article. I pray to God you get through this tough time, and bless you for never giving up on Nick.

a boys mom

July 16, 2015

My heart goes out to you. You are very brave to share this story, I feel your pain as a mom that is currently walking in your shoes. I just brought my heroin addicted son home from Florida rehab/sober house after 5 1/2 months of sobriety to have him slip before a week went by. I live your in fear of what has become your worst nightmare. I know how much your son/brother was loved by you and how much he loved you. I could go on and on, I just know all of what you did and went thru to support and help him. May you feel his peace he now has and may all the good memories make your heart lighter. I pray for all of you as I pray for my son. God bless your son.

July 16, 2015

I didn't know Nicholas personally but have lived through loved ones addictions. it was so kind to remind all of that it is an illness and don't we all have empathy for the il?. I will pray for all of you and for all those struggling to be sober God bless you all.

T W

July 16, 2015

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I thank you for telling Nicholas's story, the at must have been very hard for you to do.

Heather Vass

July 16, 2015

Your loss is unfair, but hopefully others will learn from your wise words and pay them forward. God bless you, and Rest in Peace Nick.

July 16, 2015

Prayers to his family. I am sure he is resting in God's arms after such a heartfelt struggle. xoxo

Wendy S

July 16, 2015

My deepest condolences for your incredible loss. While I do not know you, I know the incredible agony of loving and being the parent of an active addict. Thank you so much for sharing your son's struggle and your strength and courage. I refuse to give up hope on my precious daughter and am so very grateful that she is safe for the moment. Many prayers to you and your family and, again, thank you for your courage.

Janet

July 16, 2015

My condolences and prayers for your family.

Kathy C

July 16, 2015

Thank you for that beautiful tribute to a son who struggled with an addiction. As a parent of a 32 yr old heroin addict, I understand how hard it is to watch that struggle, yet still provide the love they need.

Claire Malloy

July 16, 2015

I didn't know Nick, or your family. Someone shared his obituary via Facebook with the caption "Read this, even if you didn't know him." I did, and I was moved to share the obituary myself captioned "I never knew this young man. After reading this I don't ever want to forget him. He was important and he mattered, as is his beautifully written obituary." I need to thank you for writing something that has been able to convey the importance of one life to perfect strangers. Eighty-six people have shared it from my post alone, to date. In the depth of your tragedy you have made a difference, with honesty and grace. Thank you for that. I write this with the sincerest of thanks, continued hope, and deep respect for your loss.

Colby Moore

July 16, 2015

I had the great pleasure of working with Nick for several years. He was a great co-worker and friend. On behalf of everyone's lives he impacted from the Brookside family,
Rest In Peace Nick, you will be missed.

July 16, 2015

My heart goes out to your family....my son passed on 11-5-09 of an overdose he was only 22. We went to compassionate friends please check it out on the computer... It was comforting to talk to other people that had lost a child they knew how we felt .

Kerry LaCafta

July 16, 2015

I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son to this horrible disease...addiction. The words and message in the obituary are some of the most courageous, heartfelt and beautiful that I've seen. The message is sure to hit home to many and to help many more. May your son have now found peace...the struggle is now behind him. My heart goes out to you, as a parent myself, and will be praying for you and yours.

Ana Spellman

July 16, 2015

My condolences! Sending prayers to all

Jill Clark

July 16, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Nick's story and who he was as a person. I admire your courage to talk about his struggle and to show he was more than just an addict. Your family is in my thoughts.

July 15, 2015

Prayers being sent from a stranger that knows all too well the curse of drugs and alcohol. May you find peace....

Dawn Emery

July 15, 2015

As so many others I felt compelled to tell you how truly sorry I am for your loss of your beloved Nick. Thank you for your wonderful words of truth and love and using his obituary to help others, you may never realize how many you have touched. May you find comfort and love knowing Nick is helping many.

July 15, 2015

I am the mother of a 26 year old heroine addict. I am moved by your courage in sharing your sons story. It was a very brave and selfless thing to do. God be with you .
Kathi Ybarra
Yuba City Ca

Darlene THompson

July 15, 2015

Thank you for your honesty and being forthright about addiction. I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure Nicholas was an amazing young man. My condolences to your family. As a survivor of several people who have died to overdose, and as a woman with personal experience, my heart aches for you; while I am extremely grateful for your courage to tell the truth about this illness. God bless you and your family.

Grace

July 15, 2015

I admire and respect your desire to support and educate all those affected by drug addiction rather than hiding. Being open hopefully helps others and helps survivors heal. We lost a daughter to suicide and feel it's helpful to be open about this illness as well. My heart aches for all of you.

Jennifer Sanborn

July 15, 2015

I am so touched by your courage in sharing this story, letting us meet and touch all aspects of your dear son, brother, friend. I pastor a small church in Enfield, CT, and we'll be praying for you as you seek comfort in your sadness.

Linda M

July 15, 2015

Your love for your sweet Nicolas is in every truthful word. It is exhausting to love a person afflicted with addiction, but much more exhausting to be the one with the disease. Each person who speaks honestly about addiction helps to end the stigma. I believe that real solutions can be found when we, as a society, stop viewing addiction as a moral or character issue and start treating it as a health issue. My heart aches for all of you and I'm filled with gratitude that you were so achingly honest.

July 15, 2015

Rest In Peace Nicholas.
My deepest sympathies to your loving, supportive family.

July 15, 2015

So sorry for your loss. I lost 3 close friends and almost a fourth to this horrible drug. Your son's addiction is over and he is at peace. God bless you and your family. You sound like wonderful parents. Do not blame yourselves, heroin is stronger than much love. R.I.P. to your son

July 15, 2015

My heart is sad from seeing this news. I had Nick and Claire in music classes at Tootin' Hills School a long time ago and I always remember them fondly. (Jane too, not sure if I had you in class) Thank you for your honesty and compassion in this obituary. My heart goes out to all of you. Patty Ryan Lepak

Debbie Honeycutt

July 15, 2015

My condolences to the family. My daughter also struggles with this disease. I'm heartbroken that another one of our children has lost his battle. Prayers for the family.

An addicts mom
xoxo

Brenda Phillips

July 15, 2015

My heart hurts for all of you. My daughter is also a recovering addict. She has been clean for 8 years. We all went through hell as a family. But as you did I never gave up on her. This is a terrible addiction. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Cathy Bartell

July 15, 2015

May you find strength in the knowledge that your message is being spread far and wide.

Fern

July 15, 2015

Although I didn't know Nicholas, nor do I know his family, I want to extend my deepest sympathies for your loss. In posting his cause of death, perhaps someone will be able to get help for themselves or for a loved one. I'm sure he always knew he was loved. My sincere condolences.

Sussanne Murteza

July 15, 2015

To the family and friends of Nick,

Such a moving tribute sharing his life experience with those willing to take the time to read Nicks Obituary. It's very sad and it is often for those who pass away young and much before their time, their demons, regardless if it's drugs, speed, and sometimes even love. I pray for the family and friends of this young man. I pray more that he looks down on his loved ones through a new vision of peace. RIP Nick, thank you for the lesson no one but a person of battle and bravery can teach!

May God offer you comfort during this time through prayer. It is my hope that you find solace in the love you share.

Regards and offering of love,
Sussie Gineo Murteza
Scottsboro, Alabama

American Technology Services

July 15, 2015

On behalf of Krista's co-workers, we're terribly saddened and sorry to hear about Nick. Claire and Krista and the Vinocur family: you're in our thoughts. -

Matt Constantine

July 15, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss . I have struggled with addiction most of my life and only another addict understands what we go through. You are wonderful people to post this message as a reminder of what the family goes through too. I believe we do go to another place and I'm sure your son is at peace now.

Chris Cobb

July 15, 2015

Ross, Nancy and Family,
I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Nick was a brave young man with an incredibly loving family. Your tribute and words were moving and, God willing, will help save others from the horrible pain that Nick and your family have endured. You are all in our prayers.

Josette Lumbruno

July 15, 2015

There are no words.

July 15, 2015

My heart aches for you and your family as you now go forward in life without Nick. I didn't know Nick and don't know your family, but my husband and I lost our beloved daughter to heroin at the age of 22. The words you have written about your dear son's struggle, your unending and unconditional love for him, your admiration of his ability to achieve success and his strength in striving for goals even while in the midst of his struggle so mirror our own family's experience. I thank you for sharing so much of yourself and will pray for peace for your family in the days and years to come.
Janis C., New Haven, CT

Greg Brown

July 15, 2015

So sorry for you all. He looks and sounds like such a promising kid. He is the second loss of a friend's child in the last two months to this poison. I will do all I can to educate the kids around me. My own sons learned to stay away as a result of their uncle's death from it, but these lessons are too hard to bear. Again, so very sorry.

Jeanne mcDonald

July 15, 2015

What a beautiful obituary and tribute to your clearly much loved son. He will be with you always.

Abigail Wood

July 15, 2015

I didn't know Nicholas but stumbled across his obituary earlier today.
I have to say it is one of the most powerful and honest depiction of the realities of addiction I've ever read. I cannot imagine the strength it took to write that after suffering such a tremendous loss.
As someone who's struggled with heroin addiction myself, I can say Nicholas seems to have been truly blessed to have such a loving, supportive and amazing family.

Mike M

July 15, 2015

I did not know Nicholas but just saw the obituary and wanted to reach out and give my condolences to you all and praise for the praise you gave him. It's very moving and hope in some way feel that he found the peace he sought and the love he received from you all. God bless

Danielle Keyes

July 15, 2015

Sorry for your loss. I lost my beautiful cousin Kelci last August to Heroin, which then made me get sober, have been for 10 months and am trying to help others as well. Come join my facebook page and post updates, pictures, stories ect. Lookup Heroin Epidemic Awareness Launch or the direct link is : www.facebook.com/heal2016

tonya wilburn

July 15, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers. I have a recovering daughter that has been clean 189 days. I worry and cry every day for her. U and your family is in my thoughts. God Bless

Matthew Koenig

July 15, 2015

Sad for your loss but inspired by your message of hope and courage to explain your son's disease. True courage to help others in your time of sorrow. God Bless!

Krista MacGregor

July 15, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss. Your words are powerfully beautiful and you set a magnificent example for parents and families who deal with addiction within the family. You are all in my prayers and heart.

Ellen phillios

July 15, 2015

So terribly sorry for your loss. Addiction is an awful disease. Find peace.

Lori

July 15, 2015

May Gods love and mercy bless and strengthen all of you. I too lost my son 8 years ago who also was born on January 10 1989 Our Angel Boys are watching over us ❤

Fran Peccerillo

July 15, 2015

My heart and soul aches for you. Please know that you and your family will survive the tragic loss of your son because your memories and your support for each another will help you each day. My daughter has lost her husband to this addiction when he was only in his 20's. The pain is still real as is the love. May God bless and keep you strong.

July 15, 2015

So sorry to hear about Nick's passing. Addiction is such a terrible and difficult illness to live with. Very few people truely understand the struggle. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
- The Scheetz Family

July 15, 2015

To the Vincour family, how brave you are. Your sons' obituary is being shared on FB. I lost a love of mine to this last year. This Heroin addiction affects so many of us. It reaches far beyond the person themselves, it hurts family, friends, co-workers, etc. Nick's struggle is over, but ours continues, because it is a feeling of such helplessness. We tried everything and it wasn't enough, the addiction is that strong. A family's private struggle , now made public. May all of us say thank you for sharing your thoughts about Nick. God Bless you. Sincerely Heide Blackak

Stephen Waldmann

July 15, 2015

Thank you kindly for your words of hope for others in this grief stricken time of yours. Kind words of perseverance and love further the bonds of love and family,

CAROL OLINGER

July 15, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss... I admire your son for trying to stay sober, it is a horrible battle to witness. God Bless you and your family... God be with you

barbara stein

July 15, 2015

so sorry for your loss

Koons Family

July 15, 2015

Wishing peace and comfort to your family....God Bless

Peg Otto & Family

July 15, 2015

I will hold your family in my heart and in my prayers and send you my deepest condolences today and in the coming days. Our family shares in the loss of a child to this horrible disease and understand the challenge and bravery your son faced in his battle to regain his life. Thank you for sharing his story - this is all we have to help fight this plague that is taking our children. To loss a beloved child is the deepest of losses and holding on to the love, the joy and the beauty of his life will help carry you through the days to come. We will hold him in our heart too.

Loretta Fiora

July 15, 2015

I cried so hard when I read this. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm going to hug my children a little tighter today.
Loretta Fiora
Unionville

Deirdre Aylward

July 15, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. My heart is with your family.

Knowing parent

July 15, 2015

Our prayers for healing are sent your way. The roller coaster of addiction is a long and difficult ride. Please have faith that you and your family did everything you could have done. Unfortunately, as this disease takes hold of the whole family and we learn as we go along. There is nothing you could have done that would change the result. That is the sad reality of this disease. Love, thoughts and prayers sent your way.

Annie Clark

July 15, 2015

I am so sorry for the loss of your fine guy on the this Earth with us, and so proud of your wonderful, bold tribute to him. May you find peace in the good memories. My most heartfelt sympathies to you all.

Lisa Bovee

July 15, 2015

May God Bless your Family. So sorry for your loss. Your Family will be in My Prayers

Hope McKay Rice

July 15, 2015

My empathy and condolences to you and your family. Thank you for speaking so honestly and lovingly about your son. Those could have been my words years ago and I am sure you spoke for many.

jim languth

July 15, 2015

Your son's beautiful obituary is going to save a life. Probably many lives. Thank you so much for sharing, we all know that wasn't easy, but we families and friends of addicts will always remember your son and will keep him in our prayers. God speed Nicholas, and keep watch over your loving family. Mr. & Mrs. Vinocur, your strength and thoughtfulness is a great example for all of us, Thank you.

July 14, 2015

Peace and love.

Kathy Fallon

July 14, 2015

So sorry for your loss.....I lost my beautiful 29 year old son 2 mos ago to an addiction....I know the pain you feel.....you and your family are in my prayers

Shannon N

July 14, 2015

Im very sorry for your loss. God Bless Your Family

July 14, 2015

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your precious son.
A Knowing Parent

Annette Whitbeck

July 14, 2015

I'm so very sorry for your loss. There is nothing worse than lossing a child. You are in my prayers.

Daniel Sapda, MD

July 14, 2015

So sorry to hear of the loss of this fine young man. Nick was always a pleasure to interact with. As parents and professionals it is very difficult many times to know the demons that invade our charges.
I pray Nick finds peace.
D.L.Spada, MD

Peggy Budny

July 14, 2015

I don't know your family but must say how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your son. May he be at peace at last. Thank you for posting about his struggles. It may help one other person. God Bless your family.

Susan Gentile

July 14, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I have a beautiful nephew that is struggling with this horrible addiction. He tried to commit suicide in October. This addiction is taking our children. May you have comfort in knowing that he is no longer suffering from this horrible drug. God bless

Pam Schenck

July 14, 2015

Nancy and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your son. Although I did not know him, or your other children, you were a neighbor growing up and our families were friends. Please keep your special memories close to your heart during this difficult time. May God bless you all.
Best, Pam Connors Schenck, east Hampton, NY

A Knowing Mother

July 14, 2015

God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Your thought to impart wisdom to others during this tragedy is a strong and generous gesture. May your memories of your beloved Nicholas bring you some peace.

July 14, 2015

Sorry for your loss, I too am an addict . This hits home Thanks

Carolyn Miller

July 14, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I am a 1981 SHS graduate with 3 grown children of my own. I can't imagine the pain. I appreciate you sharing your story and advice. With many positive thoughts and prayers, Carolyn Bonnar Miller

Dan Sherr

July 14, 2015

Ross, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Heroin has emerged as a major intervention to the well being of our youth. Know that difficult circumstances like yours provides the ongoing impetus to work for its elimination.

Brooke Lindstrom

July 14, 2015

Love you Nick

July 14, 2015

I am so very sad to learn about this awful loss. Nick was a sweet quiet boy and I was always happy to see him at my house with my daughter, Marly, or at Brookside Bagels. He was a polite young man. I cannot imagine the pain of your loss. I am so very impressed that you used Nick's obituary as a place to send along hope and a strong message to other families and people struggling with addiction. What a brave and wonderful thing to. With condolences. Meg Feinberg (Marly Bezrudczyk's mom)

Hope Rice

July 14, 2015

My family and I have had to live with your heartbreak after losing our cherished son/brother from this dreadful disease and I understand completely every thought you shared. My condolences and appreciation for your integrity in sharing this with others. He is at peace now and took your love with him.

Marie Tyler Wiley

July 14, 2015

With deepest sympathy I send to the Vinocur family love and respect. Respect for your honesty in your son's death. Such a tragedy for each one of you. And love from around the country to let you know you are not alone and we all feel the pain from the loss of one child, anyone's child...and in this case...yours. May you blessed with strength and may memories of happy times fill your hearts. Peace & Love

A Friend

July 14, 2015

Thank you Nick's family for your courageous and inspiring testimonial of your beloved son. May he now be at peace. And many people pray for his family to find peace. You are not alone. God bless all of you...

Nekita Lamour

July 14, 2015

My condolences. Though I never met, I know of your great family and they sure will miss you.

Kim and Lynn Hennings

July 14, 2015

We are so sorry for your terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Vinocur and Moss families

Cindy Parsons

July 14, 2015

Very sorry to hear about Nick's struggles and his passing. He was a student in my animation class at SHS where I got to know what a funny, creative young man he was. I know that he will be missed by family, friends, and all that had the opportunity to know him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Rich & Joan Colbert

July 14, 2015

Mr. & Mrs. Vinocur,
My wife and I read the heartfelt obituary for your son Nick and felt compelled to send our condolences. Please know that families like ours who have loved ones battling the illness of addiction stand with you to honor the memories of your son. May he rest in peace and may you find strength to endure his passing. God Bless!

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