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John L. Harris

1945 - 2016

John L. Harris obituary, 1945-2016, Cheshire, CT

BORN

1945

DIED

2016

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Alderson-Ford Funeral Homes Inc - Cheshire

615 South Main Street

Cheshire, Connecticut

John Harris Obituary



John L. Harris, punster, lover of good wines and great stories, died Wednesday January 13th after a brief, unexpected illness, with his wife, Patti Flynn-Harris and son Zack Harris by his side and holding his hands. He was born in Oberlin, OH April 22, 1945 to Daniel A. and Aletha (Stacey) Harris and predeceased by them and his brother Daniel E. Harris. He graduated DePauw University and Yale School of Divinity. He managed Wine & Whiskey, a local Cheshire business for 15 years. After career adventures and travels with Eider Brothers, Inc., Brescome Distributors (now Brescome Barton), Monsieur Henri Wines (now Gemini Spirits & Wine), Mommessin Wines, Schieffelin Distributors, and Executive Acura, he returned to Cheshire to work for Cheshire Package Store. But wine women and song were not his only loves. He loved, when his health allowed, hiking Connecticut's forests and fields. He could name birds by their songs, indentify mushrooms and flowers at a glance, point out constellations and all their stars. He was so proud of his great-great-grandfather, Charles Stacey, who won the Medal of Honor at the Battle of Gettysburg, that he became a scholar of the Civil War, and could expound on battles, strategies and personalities at the drop of a hat. He loved the stories and legends of Native Americans and indigenous peoples of all nations. From his faith and Yale Divinity School background, he could discuss biblical passages with insight. He loved to cook, to work in his gardens, and enjoyed God's nature around him. But more than anything, he loved his family, Patti, Zack, daughter-in-law Heather and especially his grandsons Ethan and Eli. His love extended to his sisters-and brothers- in-law, Maribeth Flynn and Tom Gubanich, Peggy Flynn, Matthew Flynn and Marty and Cathy Flynn. He leaves behind hundreds of stores that will make them smile and laugh for years. But they will miss him telling them. Visiting hours will be Saturday, January 23rd 12 p.m. to 2 p.m. at the Alderson-Ford Funeral Home of Cheshire, 615 S. Main St. A prayer service will follow at 2 p.m. Burial will be held at the convenience of the family. For online condolences, to share a photo or a story, please visit www.fordfh.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 17, 2016.

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February 4, 2016

Dear Patti,
I am so sorry for your deep loss. I wanted to let things settle for you a little and give you some time.
Would love to talk to you, and please know you are deeply in my heart and prayers.
Through time and distance we continue to share a solid foundation of friendship that we established in SRL.
Know of my love and friendship.

Behringer

January 26, 2016

Dear Patti,

The moon was huge tonight and again, as I have since learning of John's passing, think of him. I remember his reading "Owl Moon" to my Brownie troop and I swear I can hear him still.
The love you two shared is inspiring.

Your old neighbor,
Lori Reeves

Ellen Maxwell Beifus

January 17, 2016

Dear Patti,
My sincere condolences at this very sad time, my dear friend. Indeed John lived an extraordinary life, enjoying all it had to offer, and now enjoying all that heaven has to offer. May he rest in eternal peace.
In love and friendship, Patti,
Ellen

Erin Komar

January 17, 2016

Patti and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

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