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Alan Ives Obituary

IVES, ALAN B. of Hobe Sound, FL passed away on May 17th at age 87. Son of Milton and Marie, Alan grew up in New Haven, Conn. and graduated from Yale University and Harvard Law School. He moved to Miami in 1957 and enjoyed a successful career in the mortgage banking industry. Alan served as president of the Mortgage Bankers Association, was a member of Mensa, and involved in The University Club, The Leukemia Society and The Gold Diggers, performing in their annual charity shows. He is survived by his wife of 34 years Margret, sons Alan and Jonathan, daughter Kim Paris (Michael), daughter Melissa Ives, daughter in law Carol Ives and grand-children Matt, Caroline (Andy), Catherine and Alan "AJ". He will be greatly missed and remembered for his brilliant mind and keen sense of humor, his love of musical theater, sports, travel, dogs and most of all his deep love for his family. In keeping with his generosity, memorial gifts may be made to The Alzheimer's Association at www.alz.org or The Leukemia Society. A celebration of Alan's life will take place in Hobe Sound. Please contact the family for details.

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Published by the Miami Herald from May 20 to May 29, 2016.

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Olga McLeod

May 14, 2019

Kim, I know how much you adore and miss your dad. Wishing you sweet memories and peace as you remember him and hold him in your heart always.

Maggie Leon

June 13, 2016

Dearest Margret, Missy, Kim, Johnny and Alan. My deepest condolences to you all.
The last couple of weeks Alan has been in my thoughts not knowing he had passed away.
I searched his name on line to see if I could reach out to him to say hello and found he had recently left us. My heart aches as I am writing this message. Alan was my mentor, a wonderful friend and someone I loved immensely! He lived for his family while enjoying his life. He was an exceptional human being and someone I truly admire. I will always cherish the wonderful memories I have of Alan and his family. My prayers for all of you to find comfort during this difficult time.
Please feel free to reach me any time.
[email protected]

Margie Fisher

June 9, 2016

Melissa, I lite a white candle for your Dad, and said a prayer for you. I am so sorry for the lost of your Dad. I totally understand. With sincere condolences. Sending Hugs and much love. If you ever just need someone to listen please call me. I didn't know your parents, but you turned out pretty awesome. My Friend, I wanted you to know how truly sorry I am. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that you will find the strength and courage to get through this difficult time.

I extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family.❤❤ love you

May 25, 2016

Margret, we are thinking of you and all who knew and loved Alan. Your devotion to each other was clearly seen, and we are honored to have known you both through our Pan Am get togethers. We are leaving now for Ohio and will be unable to attend the celebration of his life. Know you are in our thoughts and prayers. With much love, Nancy & Norman Scherr

Paul Kelley

May 21, 2016

Always ready with a funny story or quip, Alan was blessed with a sense of humor that always left you laughing. His sharp mind and vast knowledge made him a great conversationalist and a joy to be around. I will miss him.

Olga Vespucci

May 21, 2016

Your dad was an amazing man. I can't imagine the depth of your pain. Wishing you comfort and peace. Love you, sweet friend.

Angel Cortina, Jr.

May 21, 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies. I worked with Alan at Dade Federal Savings Bank for many years and held him in high regard. It has probably been 25-30 years since I last saw him, but I always have good memories of our work experiences. God bless.

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