Frederick Abendroth Obituary

Abendroth, Frederick Carl
Dec. 2, 1955 - Sep. 6, 2013
Frederick Carl Abendroth, 57, died unexpectedly September 6, 2013. Mr. Abendroth was born to Frederick W. Abendroth and Thelma McIntyre Abendroth in Bay City, Michigan, a graduate of Bay City Central High School in 1974. He was president of the National Honor Society and the German Club. He also was his school's representative on the Board of Education, was a member of the debate team and served as acolyte at the Trinity Episcopal Church. He graduated from Michigan State University, magna cum laude, in 1978, a member of the Honors College and Beta Gamma Sigma, an honorary business award, recognizing the top ten percent of the nation's business graduates.
He married Theresa Heamon in July 1978 in East Lansing, MI, and they attended the University of Notre Dame Law School. Fred later received his MBA degree from MSU in 1982. His investment career began with the Dart Container Corporation, where he worked from 1983-1995. During those twelve years he grew the investment portfolio from 65 million to 3.3 billion. He retired from Dart in 1995, after becoming a world traveler and President of Dart Asia Limited.
During retirement he learned how to make stained glass, volunteered with Releaf Sarasota, and grew and maintained a Certified Native Florida Landscape. Fred was also a gourmand who loved many Sarasota restaurants, and especially, the Supernova Cafe, downtown. He was also a popular member of several local internet groups where he called himself Frederick Sarasota, and specialized in writing with his sharp wit or droll humor. He was involved in various projects to benefit the city. It was common for Fred to be friendly and talkative with strangers, and he was generous to any good cause. In retirement, he took pride in mentoring others, and joy in a slower, simpler life. He is survived by his sister, Caryl Sue Abendroth of Ada, MI; his nieces Crislyn V'Soske Baughman (Bruce) of Asheville, NC, and Mekala V'Soske Winbigler (Kenny)of Wyoming, MI; his former wife and lifelong best friend, Theresa Heamon and her daughter Elena Roper of South Bend, IN; his nephew Giuseppe Prestia and his son Luca Prestia of Sarasota; and by the John and Caroline Strickland family of Sarasota (Laura and Brian Keisacker), neighbors who achieved "family" status over the years. A private memorial gathering was held at the Strickland's on September 12, 2013. A memorial service will be held also on or about Fred's birthday, Dec. 2nd. For condolences or requests for further information about the future memorial service, please contact [email protected]. The family requests any memorial donations be made to the Animal Rescue Coalition, 1408 State St., Sarasota. Arrangements are by Gulf Coast Cremations.

Published by Herald Tribune from Sep. 14 to Sep. 15, 2013.
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Sorry, I failed to write a message the first time. I'm just stumbling upon Fred's obituary, almost 7 years after his death. For a short period in the mid- to late-80s, Fred was part of a group of friends at a weekly Trivia Night at the Varsity Inn, in East Lansing. The photo is from a trip to the far reaches of Michigan's Upper Peninsula for the wedding of Gary & Terry Lassila. We're at the sign for Gary's hometown of Mohawk, MI. Fred is in the middle, I'm on the left, and Allan Morrison is on the right. We all lost touch with Fred after he moved to Florida, but Allan recently posted this photo from October 1987 and wondered what ever happened to Fred. I Googled his name and Dart Container Corp. and, sadly, found his obituary.

Patrick Affholter

Acquaintance

August 9, 2020

Patrick Affholter

Acquaintance

August 9, 2020

Fred and I were best friends during middle school in Bay City, Michigan. For a couple of young guys we often took on serious world topics of discussion. You had the coolest parakeet. You were a great success story as predicted and will be missed but long remembered Fred. Farewell till me meet again in God's hands.

Peter Smith MD

March 8, 2014

Dear Caryle,
This is your old "roomie" from freshman year at CMU. Just read about your brother in the BC Times. Remember we both had such little brothers! I'm so sorry to hear about Fred. You're in my prayers.

Laurie Smith Granlund

October 2, 2013

Dear Caryl,
I remember hanging out with Fred in his early youthful years and we were the very best friends! We were Chiller club buds and fence tag players and would love to swing on his swing set forever dreaming of the future, together. My dog, Dandy was always at freddies doorstep waiting for me to come home after school... Great memories and at that time my very BEST friend. My family wishes to extend our condolences and I hope to attend his memorial service.

Sincerely,
Cyndy Peet Hunt and family

September 30, 2013

Caryl Sue, I just read Fred's obituary in the B.C. Times. What a lovely tribute to him...it sounds like he had a great life and lived it to the fullest. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you've lost your brother. Sincerely and with love-

Amy Periard

September 30, 2013

This comes as a shock: I knew Thelma and Fred very well in the late 70's & early 80's. For some reason I was not aware there was a Fred II. He sounds like such a brilliant, interesting person. I know I missed meeting a star in my life.
Caryl our sympathies are with you in this tremendous loss.
Every time I pick up a golf club your mother & dad are right beside me.
Hugs Pam & Chuck Binder

Pamella Binder

September 30, 2013

Caryl, I am so sorry for your loss. Fred has left me with many great childhood memories. He will be missed.

Pat Johnson

September 29, 2013

Dear Caryl Sue,
I am so sorry for the loss of your only
sibling and special brother Fred. I remember Fred as a sweet child and know
your loss is great and difficult. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you
adjust to life without Fred.
May peace be with you.
Julie Swinehart Heintskill

Julie Heintskill

September 29, 2013

Remembering an old friend from BCC. You must have had an awesome life and achieved so much satisfaction in your accomplishments. Rest in peace.

September 27, 2013

Caryl Sue: While not knowing your brother, I feel like I learned a lot about his life by reading about him. It is hard to lose a sibling. Thinking about you and praying for you during this time of your life. Our brothers are enjoying the heavenly sunshine until we meet again.
Love,

Valerie Kegley

September 25, 2013

Thanks for the memories Fred.
We had some great fun together. Good bye my friend...
I will think of You often and especially when the Azaleas are in bloom.
With much love,
Peter

Peter Jensen

September 19, 2013

I'm so so so sorry to hear about your loss. He seemed like an all around great guy. May the God of all comfort guard your hearts during as you await the day when" death will be swallowed up forever. "(Isaiah25:8)

Sonya Brown

September 16, 2013

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