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Louis Bender Obituary

Bender, Louis
March 8, 1910 - Sept. 10, 2009

Louis "Lulu" Bender, 99, of Longboat Key, formerly of Harrison, N.Y., a New York City Basketball Hall of Famer and well-known criminal defense attorney specializing in tax fraud cases, died Thursday, Sept. 10, 2009, after a brief illness.
Bender, who played forward at Columbia College from 1930-1932, was selected to College Humor Monthly's First-Team All-Ivy, All-Met and All-America squads. His partnership with fellow NYC Hall of Fame inductee George Gregory Jr. and the great Sam Schoenfeld led Columbia to Ivy League crowns in 1930 and 31. Bender, who graduated Columbia College in 1932 and Columbia Law School in 1935, continued playing professionally on the Original Celtics, the Union City Reds, the Boston Trojans, the New York Whirlwinds and the American Basketball League.
Bender's basketball play gained the greatest recognition by his induction, at the age of 98, into the New York City Basketball Hall of Fame on Sept. 17, 2008, with such other great players as Rod Strickland and Kenny Anderson.
Following his playing days, Bender gained recognition in the courtroom as one of New York City's best trial attorneys, first as an assistant United States attorney in the Southern District of New York in the 1940s, where he assisted in the prosecution of members of the German American Bund during World War II and the owner of the then original and famous "Longchamps" restaurant on Broadway; and then afterwards as a criminal defense attorney, where for over 50 years, he specialized in the trial defense of criminal tax evasion prosecutions. He lectured widely on the subject, wrote numerous articles on criminal defense practice and co-authored the highly regarded "Criminal Aspects of Tax Fraud Cases."
His beloved wife of 75 years, Jean Waterman Bender, survives him, as does his two sons, Michael, a lawyer and associate justice of the Supreme Court of Colorado, and Steven, also a lawyer and prosecutor in Westchester County, N.Y.; his two daughters, Ellyn, an instructor at the University of Tampa, and Golda, a social worker for the state of North Carolina; 11 grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren. The Bender's celebrated their 75th wedding anniversary in March of 2009. They were married at New York City Hall during the depression and for their honeymoon trip rode the Staten Island ferry for a nickel. As they did in NYC, they have been frequent attendees at Sarasota's cultural offerings, including musical events at the Van Wezel, the Sarasota Opera and the Asolo Theater. They are longtime members of the Longboat Key Club, where Lou remains a tennis hero as one of the oldest players. The Longboat Key Club held the 2008 Doubles Championship in honor of his 98th birthday.
Respects may be paid to the family at the Bender's residence, 4234 Gulf of Mexico Drive, Apt. AA1, Longboat Key, from 2:30 to 5:30 p.m. Sunday, Sept. 13.

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Published by Herald Tribune from Sep. 12 to Sep. 13, 2009.

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Helen Hand

September 30, 2009

Lou was a force of nature with a zest for life that was unparalleled. He has set an awesome example of someone who lived life to the fullest and made the most of every opportunity. He leaves a huge legacy with 4 children, 11 grandchildren and 4 great grand children (and another on the way). I'll miss you, Dad.

Your Daughter-in-Law,

September 16, 2009

Lou, it was always a pleasure to see you every month in our clinic,I will always remember your gentle voice, kindness and miss your smile. God Bless you and your family,
Jan, SMH

Tom Jendrysik

September 15, 2009

Lou was one of the nicest men I ever meet. Although I did not know him very well, he would always have something nice to say especially when he compared my forehand to Jimmy Conners. The world is a lesser place now that he is gone.

September 13, 2009

I have always had fond memories of the entire Bender family-it was my second home during high school. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Lou Bender's family at this time. May the memories you have be a source of great comfort to all of you. Carl joins me in letting you know we are thinking of everyone at this sad time..
Love,
Marcia Freedman Levine

Charles Diecidue

September 12, 2009

A gentle and wonderful man. A fellow New Yorker who was both "street wise" and intellectual. It was an honor to know you and be a friend.

Benjamin Hand-Bender

September 12, 2009

Lou was an amazing man who lived a life that very few of us will be lucky enough to enjoy. Beyond his achievements, he was always caring and sincere, and could hardly be found without his famous ear-to-ear grin. I will always remember him, and try to live up to his example of passion and a lifelong strength of spirit.

His loving grandson,

JAMES MATSON

September 12, 2009

I WAS ONE OF LOU'S TENNIS FRIENDS. HE WAS THE NICEST MAN I HAVE EVER KNOWN. HE HAD A VERY GOOD MEMORY. HE WOULD REMEMBER THINGS WE DISCUSSED SEVERAL YEARS AGO. HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL. PLEASE EXTEND MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO HIS WIFE AND FAMILY. REMEMBER THE GOOD TIMES.

JAMES H. MATSON

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