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Melissa Hoiland Obituary

MELISSA WORRELL HOILAND Melissa Worrell Hoiland, age 60, passed away at home in Houston on the 27th of April 2013.
Melissa brought a cluster of talents and achievements that equipped her for significant volunteer posts. She was a native Houstonian. She was a 1975 graduate of the University of Texas at Austin, with a major in Education. She was also a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority. Five years later she earned a Master of Arts in Church and Society at the Luther Seminary in St. Paul, Minneapolis, while serving as Youth Director for the St. Paul Episcopal Church in Minneapolis.
In the mid-1980's Melissa lived in San Diego, where she ran the office of California's Lt. Governor Leo McCarthy. This included managing press conferences, special events and international projects. She also joined the Junior League, becoming an active volunteer in San Diego (1986-1994), Minneapolis (as active and then sustaining member to 2007), and Houston from 2008 to the present time.
Since coming home to Houston (literally, to the house where she grew up) in 2005, Melissa showed new employment strengths. She acted as financial services representative in insurance companies, and most recently as a consultant to clients with special health concerns. Melissa was a perceptive, diligent woman, whose attractive personality covered a pine of steel.
Melissa is survived by her mother, Mary Barden Worrell; her son, Edward Hoiland; and his father, Mark Hoiland; her brother, Randy A. Worrell and wife Lori, and their children Jenni, Matt, and Rainey. She was predeceased by her father, Millard G. Worrell; great grandfather, E.T. Barden; grandparents, Leonard Attwell and Lillian; and many other relatives.
A celebration of Melissa's life is to be conducted at eleven o'clock in the morning on Wednesday, the 1st of May, at Christ Church Cathedral, 111 Texas Avenue in Houston, where The Reverend M.L. Grace, Canon for Christian Formation, is to officiate.

In lieu of customary remembrances, contributions in Melissa's memory may be directed to Christ Church Cathedral Endowment Fund, 1117 Texas Ave., Houston, TX, 77002; the Junior League of Houston, 1811 Briar Oaks Ln., Houston, TX, 77027; or to the charity of one's choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Houston Chronicle from Apr. 29 to Apr. 30, 2013.

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May 4, 2013

Mary - Melissa's life intertwined with mine, as wives of the Hoiland boys. We celebrated family events and holidays together, mostly in Minneapolis, often orchestrated by our mother-in-law. Boating was a favored activity, as were lavish birthday parties for Edward, with ponies. She encouraged the cousins to keep in touch. My boys are 2 and 4 years older than Edward. I had thought Edward would get the hand-me-downs, but Melissa's style-consciousness would not allow that, and to this day, Edward is a testiment to his mother's influence. Plus, Edward outgrew our boys early on.

There were trips to Mexico, parties at country clubs, gatherings around the fire ring at the Minnetonka house, Mother's Day brunches, charity polo matches organized, and love of gardening and flowers.

Melissa produced the best Christmas photo cards - involving western and nautical themes.

She was a huge hit at dinner parties, where her wit and conversation skills shone. Plus, of course, the food was great.

She accentuated the positive and wouldn't listen to others' complaints. (Right-on.)

Melissa had hoped to make a trip to Minneapolis this month of May. We would have met for dinner, and more. I wanted to hear about her last few years in Texas. I will miss her occasional e-mails and visits.

Rhonda Kuehl

Rosemary

May 3, 2013

Melissa was a very resourceful independent woman. Like all of us, she was shaped by events from her past. My recollections of her are that she was born to be a sales person and event planner. A great story teller of her life adventures, and there were many. She was fun, elegant, and passionate with the heart of a philanthropist. Melissa possessed a great love for her son and her former husband. She lived by her values, but often in an unconventional world that was not always kind to her. Peace

April 30, 2013

Dear Mary and Randy....I remember so many good and great times at your house....especially our senior year when Missy, Pat Mosley and I walked to your house every single day for lunch! I remember when she flew to Chicago to perform my wedding and how many years later, when i was diagnosed with cancer she was there for me. She was a bright light despite any difficulties of her own. I am praying for all of you and remembering her with lots of love.
Elaine Burgher

Donna Devenney

April 30, 2013

A beautiful spirit lost far too soon. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and friends. May GOD pour out his blessings to comfort you all.

Westchester Alumni Association Inc

April 30, 2013

The Westchester Alumni Association along with the Class of 1971 express our deepest sympathy to the family of Melissa Worrell Hoiland.

John Ache

April 30, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of this and all my prayers go out to the family. May the peace of Jesus be upon all of you. I don't ever recall calling her Melissa but she was one of the kindness and bright spirited individuals I had the pleasure in knowing. I am so sorry.

April 30, 2013

Mrs Worrell, I was sorry to read about the loss of Melissa. I remember her as a darling young child because many years ago we were neighbors on Lampton Circle in Bellaire. Melissa, and in fact the entire family, was lovely, sweet and well mannered. I hope you have comfort and peace from God. Carolyn Robertson

Mary Anne HARTYE

April 30, 2013

The light of the Divine is surrounding each of you. Melissa is a lshining light for us all..

Betsy Broekemeier

April 29, 2013

I have been thinking about her more than usual lately. We will miss her. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Bludworth

April 29, 2013

Dear Mary,
Bill and I are thinking of you at this time of grief. Will have you and your family in our prayers as you celebrate her beautiful life on Wednesday.
Sincerely,
Nancy Hill Bludworth

April 29, 2013

Dear Mary, We were so sorry to hear about Melissa's passing. Know that we share your grief in this great loss. God bless you and comfort you during all the days ahead. In DAR friendship and love,
Polly Dixon, Chaplain, Alexander Love Chapter, NSDAR, Houston

Sam Ritter

April 29, 2013

We'll miss you!

April 29, 2013

My condolences to your family. may the God of all comfort help your family to endure during this time of grief.

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