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Carrie McAfee Obituary

CARRIE ROCHON MCAFEE, noted Houston educator, succumbed September 22, 2006 following a brief illness. Pursuing a busy career as teacher, counselor, and assistant principal at Houston's historic Jack Yates High School, she came to prominence in 1974 at James Madison High School when she was named first female principal of a comprehensive senior high school in Texas. Ms. McAfee's participation in professional activities, community affairs, and charitable endeavors won her numerous awards and wide recognition. Prior to her 2004 retirement, after 52 years' service in public schools, she was Executive Director of "Project Reconnect," an award-winning parental involvement initiative created under her leadership and responsible for thousands of parent contacts. A Houston resident, mentor, and activist for over 50 years in the Third Ward and MacGregor areas, she witnessed the rise of many local leaders, winning friends and admirers from all parts of the city and state. Carrie was born December 20, 1930 in Galveston, Texas to Daisy and Tom Hampton. Her roots were in Hitchcock, LaMarque, and Richmond as the youngest member of a large extended family headed by her irrepressible, much-beloved grandmother Carrie Brown. She realized her father's dream of higher education in 1951, earning the Bachelor of Arts Degree in English and History at Texas Southern University. She earned the Master of Arts Degree in English in 1963, adding Journalism studies at Texas Southern University, Lincoln University in Jefferson City, Missouri, Columbia University, New York, and the University of California at Berkeley. She certified in Guidance and Counseling the same year. She also followed postgraduate studies in Guidance and Counseling, Sociology and Clinical Psychology, and Administration at Texas Southern University, the University of Houston and the University of Texas. Ms. McAfee's professional education certifications included English and History Grades 6-12, Elementary Education Grades 1-6, Counselor, Supervisor, Principal K-12, Administration, and Superintendent K-12. Her career in education began in 1953. At Yates she was a vivacious, popular teacher, club sponsor, and academic coach remembered for her students' many competitions and activities. The prize-winning Yates Gazette newspapers and Lion Yearbooks from her early years reflect her dynamic imprint. In later years former students frequently called on her as program speaker or participant in neighborhood events and church functions. She turned to counseling with the encouragement of her greatest mentor, Dr. John E. Codwell, serving as Yates counselor during the school year and taking on summer work as Supervisor and Counselor Coordinator at Neighborhood Youth Corps for several years. In 1968 she attained an administrative post as a traditional "Dean of Girls," later designated assistant principal. In 1973 she moved to the same post at James Madison High School. A year later she broke new ground for women in school administration with her appointment as principal. For 15 years the Madison "Marlin Mama," as she was lovingly proclaimed, provided a level of leadership that propelled a little-known suburban school to local and state heights in academics, fine arts, and athletics. In her honor, the Madison school library was named for her. In 1989 she left the campus environment and provided leadership to HISD administrative district IX until 1992. In that year she moved to central administration as Executive Director in the School Operations Department. Under the leadership of former Superintendent of Schools Dr. Rod Paige she implemented a model for parental involvement recognized statewide, "Project Reconnect." Thousands of parents responded to this initiative at campus parent centers. In 2004 she quietly retired, still devoting many hours to community events, her grandchildren, and her rose garden. Carrie's accolades, honors, and awards covered the walls of her reading room at home. Their names chronicle a lifetime dedicated to achievement and enrichment of the lives of all around her: Texas Southern University (TSU) Student Body Secretary (1951), President Nu Alpha Chapter Zeta Phi Beta Sorority (1951), Lady of the Year (TSU) (1951), Wall Street Journal Outstanding Journalism Teacher (1963), WaIl Street Journal Newspaper Fund Fellow (1964), Lady of the Press Award Jack Yates High School (1964), Forward Times Newspaper Women of the Year King's Class Award (1965), Who's Who of American Women, Who's Who in the South and Southwest, American Bridge Association Board of Directors (1972), TSU Achievement of Excellence Award (1974), Houston League of Business and Professional Women Service Award (1976), State of Texas Commissioned Yellow Rose of Texas (1976), Who's Who of Black Americans, Texas Association of Secondary School Principal Distinguished Service Award (1977), Houston League of Business and Professional Women Professional Award (1978), Who's Who in the World, TSU Distinguished Alumni Award (1983), Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Award for Outstanding Performance in Education (1984), National Women of Achievement Hall of Fame (1985), National Coalition of 100 Black Women Outstanding Accomplishments in Education Award (1986), Fight for Life Community Service Award (1987), Boy Scouts of America Award of Merit (1987), Boy Scouts of America Big "E" Award (1989), Texas Commissioner of Education Appointee University Interscholastic League State Executive Committee (1989-1994), First Vice Chairman American Lung Association of Texas Executive Committee (1991), Member Board of Directors American Lung Association of Texas Houston Southeast Area (1991-1994), Chairman Board of Directors American Lung Association of Texas (1991-1994), Outstanding Woman Harris County Precinct One Legislative Ventures (1992), Member Harris County Grand Jury State of Texas (1992), Woman of Excellence Federation of Houston Professional Women (1993), Foreman Harris County Grand Jury, State of Texas (1995), Honoree Carrie Rochon McAfee Library at Madison High School (1996), National Council of Negro Women Finalist Outstanding Women Community Leaders (1996), National League of Business and Professional Women Sojourner Truth Award (1996). Among her many professional and social memberships were American Bridge Association, Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. Lambda Zeta Chapter, Young Women's Christian Association, Texas Democratic Women, City-Wide Clubs of Houston, Federation of Houston Professional Women, Friends of Hermann Park, Greater Houston Women's Foundation, Houston Association of School Administrators, Texas Southern University Alumni Association, and Parkwood Drive Civic Club. Ultimately Carrie's most significant role, often expressed in her own words, was that of family member -- daughter, spouse, mother, and aunt. She wed her college sweetheart, Lonnie Bernard Rochon and bore a daughter and son in Houston. One of the area's most popular young couples, they along with many first-generation college graduates balanced the dreams and challenges of the era. She later enjoyed a 30-year marriage to Joshua O. McAfee, who preceded her in death in 1994. They frequently engaged in their favorite sport, competitive bridge, traveling to tournaments throughout the country. When not traveling they could be found in their yard, making home improvements, with their dogs, discussing politics, or attending athletic events. Carrie demonstrated great determination and faith as her health declined. Though she embraced Catholicism as a young woman, she was often solaced by the Baptist hymns and services from her childhood. She revisited her roots at East Bethel Baptist Church and relished the spirited voice of Pastor Ronald K. Mouton. Her Christian tenets never deserted her as she endured the deaths of her parents and siblings; brothers Murphy and Tom Lee Hampton, and sisters Viola Martin Reed, Ruby Burse, Jenner V. Thorn, Mae Dee Lenor, Emily Hampton, and Hattie Mae Smith. Their children and grandchildren now mourn the loss of a favorite aunt, champion, and friend. Carrie leaves behind numerous friends and neighbors of long standing. Finally, she is survived by her loving children, daughter Rhonda Rochon Cotton and son Roy Bernard Rochon, M.D. and wife Carol, as well as precious grandchildren Ronald Timothy Cotton, M.D., Preston Bernard Rochon, and Hillary Ann Rochon. The family will receive visitors at a wake Monday, September 25, 2006, from 6:00 until 9:00 p.m. at East Bethel Baptist Church, 5702 Calhoun Road, Houston, 77021. Colleagues, former students, and friends are invited to a memorial tribute on Sunday, October 15, 2006, at 3:00 p.m. in the James Madison High School Auditorium, 13719 Whiteheather, Houston, Texas 77045

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Sep. 24, 2006.

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Rita King and Robinson Family

December 6, 2018

You were on my mind today, like many other days. Your style, your grace, your beautiful face. Most of all your kindness, your tender way with words. I don't think a day goes by, that your voice is not, still being heard. You were my inspiration along with, my mom. Educators of generations who to this day learned a lot from you. Today I thought about my grandmother, how she kept your sister Violas daughter Gail, we were like family, of course I was a tiny tot, but I remember and often wondered whatever happened to Ms. Viola, and Gail. It is only by reading about you, that I learned that Ms. Viola had passed. I hate that when at JY I never knew that Ms. Viola was your sister. So even in your passing I have an answer to my question.
I was saddened when you passed, and more so after realizing the family connection. To her Children, and extended Family, I pray that you have been comforted over the years, knowing Her LEGACY lives on in the hearts of ALL who met her.

Roy Rochon

September 22, 2017

You are here today as you were 10 years ago
Forever a part of me

Roy Rochon

September 21, 2015

Always in my heart

Roy Rochon

May 16, 2014

Thinking of you today

Shirlean Jackson

October 17, 2011

I don't think there is day that goes by that we don't miss and think about our loved ones. There are easy days and then there are days that you can't understand what and why life is as it is. I guess that's the mystery of God and life. Sometimes we remember and talk about our loved ones and feeling and knowing that they are very near. Love never fades it last forever and loved ones are always very near.

Roy Rochon

October 15, 2011

It's hard to believe 5 years have passed. Your legacy is as strong as ever. Still in our hearts. Forever

Roy Rochon

October 9, 2010

Not a day passes that I don't think of my wonderful mother. Gone home but with us always. Your legacy lives within all of us you have touched. Forever.

REGINALD MILLER

September 23, 2009

Mama Marlin , was wonderful person who knew her students . I remember a time when i was at a elementry school in 3rd ward and i had been a officer in hisd for 3 years at that point .As i was walking in the door i see this graceful woman walking out ,i held the door and let her walk out she then said to me thank you very much Officer miller . and the asked me how was my brothers and sisters doing ? I was shocked because it had been over 20 yrs since i saw her last .I asked her did she remember me and she said how could she forget me which made me feel special .lol . I have always looked at her with a special respect and i have to say that they dont make Principals like that anymore and after working in hisd for 10 yrs people like her is very much needed . Reginald K Miller ( HOUSTON TX )

Gary Wade

September 22, 2009

So funny...last year this time I was on my way home. I passed Johnson Funeral an was upset because of so much traffic around the funeral home. Just to find out the next day that it was Ms. McAfee homegoing. I attended Madison High School back in 1972-74 when there was only a hand full of African American...literally a handful. Ms. McAfee loved all of her students, but I think she loved me the most. Man was I trouble, but some how Ms. McAfee was able to save me time and time again. She always inspired me to be all that I could be. I am so sorry that I missed the inital opportunity to attend her homegoing. After seeing the obituary in the paper today, finally the opportunity to publicly wish the deepest condolences to the family of my mother away from home. She was truly a mother figure in my life.

"Dirty Bird"

John G. Hightower

September 22, 2009

To the McAfee Family,
Thanks for keeping this Guest Book online and allowing me the opportunity to share a few words about a phenomenal administrator!!!! She came to Madison High School with a purpose to make it one of the best institutions in academics and athletics.She accomplished both!!!!! Renovations were completed during her tenure; and was always in attendance at the sporting events wearing her blue hat and cowboy boots.She was always approachable and made it a point to know her students.She made us all proud to be students under her leadership.
Madison High Class of 1976

pam Taylor (Griffin)

January 5, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies. Your mother was truly an amazing woman. I appreciate the climate she created for us during the time I attended Madison. She will be truly missed.
(Madison High School, Class of 77)

Angela King

December 5, 2006

To the McAfee Family, I had the honor of knowing Ms McAfee at James Madison High School, she was always a sweet and loving person. With a smile on her face always. May God be with you all.

Angela King
c/o 1985 James A. Madison

Robert Woods

November 19, 2006

Ms. Carrie McAfee you made my high school experience so memorable, as it seems to be just the other day. You will be missed, but not forgotten. You leave a legacy that many will cherish and so many are blessed to have known you. MHS c/o '81.

Dorothy Jones-Johnson

November 3, 2006

To the family of Mrs. McAfee, thank you for sharing your loved one with us for so many years she was a blessing to all who knew her. I went to Madison class of 86. It wasn't until after I graduated, she and my mom became good friends serving on various committees. May God Bless you and keep you. She left a legacy and touched many lives which so few people get to do.

Quania (Connie) Washington-Anderson

October 21, 2006

May God bless your family and keep them strong during this time of lost. You have touched the lives of so many and you will be missed. (Class of 1981)

Beverly Johnson

October 15, 2006

I regret the passing of Mrs. McAfee. Her life was one of ongoing service. Her leadership at Madison High School was inspirational. My prayers are with the family. Lean on God for the comfort that you need.

Beverly Johnson
James Madison Class of 1975

Arva Howard

October 11, 2006

"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints." Psalm 116:15

Our family was truly blessed by the loving example of grace, dignity, and integrity that Mrs. McAfee embodied. She leaves an unmatchable legacy for all of Jack Yates Lions. What a blessing she was! May our Lord and Savior give strength and comfort to her family.

Barbara Jean Neal Martin - JY'60
Eula Mae Neal Ford - JY'61
Marcella Neal Guidry - JY '62
Marvin Neal - JY'65
Arva Lynette Neal Howard - JY '69

Sherri Franklin Johnson

October 9, 2006

My prayers are with the family. I will always remember her as "Dean McAfee" at Jack Yates. She was a great example to all of the young ladies there. (Jack Yates Class of 1972)

Tina Johnson-Bryant

October 5, 2006

Mrs. McAfee will truly be missed.
To the family stay strong and remember that All Things are Possible with God Luke 1:37

Tina Johnson-Bryant (class of 82)

Annette Dickens-Simple

October 4, 2006

To the family,
Mrs. McAfee was a breath of life, she understood life better than I could ever imagine. I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless '90

JACKIE SINGLETON

October 4, 2006

To the family of Mrs Mcafee,I pray that in this difficult time that you'll grow,and become stonger. (Class 1975)JACK YATES.

Marty Mingo

October 3, 2006

To God be The Glory. On behalf of the graduating Class of 1980.Mrs. Carrie R. McAfee was the epitomy of what a first lady should be.She was eloquent,intelligent, kind and loving.My wife (Sherene) has already commented on Mrs. McAfee. However I just want to say that I appreciate the atmosphere that she created and the love that she displayed towards us her students.

Janice Kelso

October 3, 2006

I wish to extend my deepest sympathies to the family. Mrs. McAfee was a force of nature and will be truly missed. I worked very happily at Madison for many years and have many fond memories of Mrs. McAfee and the time I spent there. She was always very good to me and was an inspiration for me and many other people.

Sherene Mingo

October 3, 2006

We would like to extend our deepest condolences to the family of Mrs. McAfee. She was truly an inspiration to those of us who had the pleasure of crossing her path. Our memories of her will never die...
Marty and Sherene (Thomas) Mingo c/o 1980

Nellie Sanders

October 2, 2006

Hi, when I heard of the passing of your mom,my heart was truly saddened.Mrs. Mcafee was such a classy lady, she was my mom away from home. She was my counselor at Yates in the 60's. I always told her, when I become an adult, I would like to pattern my life after her. She loved the children, we knew it. She will be missed and I am so glad that there will be a memorial service at Madison, where I work, A true legend has left us in body, but not in our minds. I thank God for her touching my life.

Aquanette Caldwell-Lacy

October 2, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the McAfee family.

Class of 1980

Delores James Jefferson

October 1, 2006

I would like to give my deepest sympathy to the family. Carrie was a dear friend. We grew up together in Richmond, TX and went through grade school together and shared many hopes and dreams. I will miss you dearly. My prayers are with the family.

Written on behalf of Delores James Jefferson by her daughter
Leavery Davidson.

Jackie (Garcia) Belmarez (Madison, 1984)

October 1, 2006

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Mrs. McAfee. She was a remarkable and inspiring woman and educator. I hope to impact my students the way that Mrs. McAfee, her teachers, and her counselors did for me. My deepest sympathy for her family.

Rodney Watson

September 30, 2006

I would like to give my deepest sympathy to the family. She was also my principle at MHS c/o 86. I know it is hard to smile at times like this, but it was always two things I know I could get from Mrs. McAfee when I saw her in the hallway: one thing was no matter what she always had that bright smile that reminded me that my day would be alright and the second was that she would have on her New Balance tennis shoes because she was always ready for what ever was about to happen. So remember when it is hard to smile, smile anyway because she always did.

Kathleen Captain

September 30, 2006

I am saddened and shocked to learn about the loss of Mrs. McAfee. This woman wrote the book for us girls from the "sixties". I am grateful to God that He blessed us "3rd Ward Girls" with the honor and priviledge of Mrs. McAfee. She set the example of what a lady should be, of what a black woman should be, of what your future should be about, and what giving back to the community should be. Words have not been written to adequately describe this woman of excellence and achievement. God put her in all our paths for a reason and only HE knows that reason because HE is the "all knowing and all powerful" God. We followed her, we listened, we loved her, we admired, honored, and respected her because it was the right thing to do as she set examples for all in Jesus name.

Rhonda and family, we are all better people for having your mom in our lives. The education community today needs poeple with the "skills, grace, and insight" of of Carrie McAfee.

God makes no mistakes. She was loaned to us for awhile to teach and guide. Now The Father has said "Well done my good and faithful servant." "Your work here is finished."

Do not be sad for Carrie Hampton Rochon McAfee. She has fulfilled her purpose, she has touched many lives in many generations. This time should truly be a celebration of life as GOD intended it to be.

May GOD have mercy on her soul, may GOD bless the family and the lives she touched. Thanks be to GOD as we are all better because of her.

Kathleen Captain
William E. Miller Jr. High School
Class of 1968
Phillis Wheatley Sr. High School
Class of 1971

Linda Knight Burkley

September 29, 2006

Rhonda and Family,
I would like for you to know that your mother was a most gracious lady and a true pioneer in education. She always made me feel at home and special when we visited her home. Her light will forever shine in you, your brother , and your son. Even though you will be sad for many, many days to come, you have the true assurance that her life was one that was lived well and that she lived her life in the way that God wanted her to. Have comfort in knowing that your mother was someone special and when God made her He was pleased.

Dr. Madeline Washington

September 29, 2006

Words can not express how sadden that I am to hear about the passing of my former principal, "Mama McAfee" but God always chooses the most beautiful flowers for His heavenly garden. I send my prayers and love to the family of Mrs. McAfee. She will truly be missed!

Dr. Madeline Washington
James Madison C/O 91
Senior Class President

Paula Webster (Robinson)

September 28, 2006

First of all I would like to express my deepest sympathy to
Mrs. McAfee's family. Although words can not begin to ease the sorrow of your loss. Please know that you are in the prayers of so many who care....

There are not enough words, nor time in the day. To express how much Mrs. McAfee has touched everyone of our lives. I was a student under the directions of Mrs. McAfee. At James Madison..

Mama Marlin was an inspiration to all that came her way. She had this smile about her. That would glow from a mile away. And when she walked into a room. She would lighten the entire room up with her smile. She always had such kind words to say to every student. God has sent us a beautiful strong Black Angel. Whom no doubt in my mind has spread so much love, and encouragement to every student she came in contact with. Mama Marlin, Has left many memories for us all to treasure. She will be greatly missed.

*Yesterday's influence...
*Today's memories...
*Tomorrow's reunion...
Class Of 1986 James Madison

Marsha Duffield

September 28, 2006

September 28, 2006
To the family, my prayers are with you and my God be with you at this time. Ms. McAfee was truly a wonderful person. I can remember when I had problems as a teenager being that I had a child at a early age, I could to her and she would always encourage me to keep my head up and finish school. And that's what I did. She will always be remembered.

Marsha Duffield and family c/o 1986
May God bless you

Peggy Franklin

September 28, 2006

My prayers are with the family in this time of sorrow. Rejoice in knowing that Ms. McAfee has touched the lives of so many in ways we can not express. An entire generation of Houstons young has learned from her and loved her dearly. Far winds and following seas, Ms. McAfee. May God bless you. Class of 1986.

Debra Sledge

September 27, 2006

Mrs. McAfee you will be truly missed. I will always remember your smile, as you walked the halls. You were a great encouragement to us all. God truly blessed us with an Angel.


C/O 82
Madison Sr. High

noel "slurp" wright

September 27, 2006

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Franklin Thornton

September 27, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the McAfee family. May God strengthen you through this difficult time.

Dana Kaufman

September 27, 2006

Dear Rhonda,

I'm sending my condolences to you in the hopes that you will remember me from the Texas Democratic Women of Harris County. I remember your mother introducing you and your son at one of our functions.

I was shocked and saddened to see your mom's photo and obituary in Sunday's Houston Chronicle. I had no idea that she had been ill. I, along with many others, share your sorrow.

Your mom was truly a remarkable lady and I am proud to have called her my friend. May her spirit live within each of us.

With affection,
Dana Kervin Kaufman (formerly Simons)

Holly (Strader) Blackmon

September 27, 2006

Although you have now gone to be with the Lord, we find comfort in knowing that you truly touched all of us in so many ways. Your fond memories and beautiful smile are forever embedded in our hearts and mind. I'm glad God shared you with us.

Love you always......

Cheerleader
Madison High School, Class of 81

Steven Martin

September 27, 2006

Thank-you for your warmth, sincerity, blessings, support and mostly LOVE. You are truly one of Gods Angel and I feel blessed to have crossed your path.

Steven Martin
C/O 81 Madison Sr.High
Class Pres.

From the Class of 81 James Madison
Sr. High we offer our condolences to all family and friends

Elvena Mayo - neighbor

September 27, 2006

Mrs. McAfee's family is one of dignity. I know she was very proud of her children and grandchildren. God is blessing them right now.

Richard Cunningham

September 27, 2006

I'd like to express my deepest sympathy for the McAfee family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mrs. McAfee will be greatly missed but not forgotten. Let's not forget this is the lady that made madison what it is today.
Class of (1979-80)

Warren Hearne

September 27, 2006

Well Done My Good and Faithful Servant, Your Labor Was Not In Vain.

Class of 81' - MHS

Norma Fielder-Williams

September 27, 2006

I thank GOD for sharing a great pioneer of education for "not just the minority, but the majority" and for breaking the barriers that we all can be proud to say "Well done, Well done, my good and faithful servant.
My prayers go out to the Rochon and McAfee Family

(MHS - Class of 81')

Davetta Daniels

September 27, 2006

You were a beacon of light for teachers,counselors,principals,parents, children, parents and community.As a fellow educator, you were the model, one which I chose to emulate. Your wisdom, wit, charm and smile will be sorely missed. I pray that your soul will rest peacefully in our Heavenly Father's mansion.
Sincerely,
Davetta Mills Daniels

Joyce Smith (Yates Class 1971)

September 26, 2006

May God bless your family in this time of sorrow. Your legacy lives on through the many lives you touched. God Bless and Keep your family.

Eric harper

September 26, 2006

As I think back to my Marlin years, I will always remember your smile. You epitomized the character of a strong black women and leader. More important, you showed how much you cared and made time for us all. Thanks for motivating me.

Eric Harper
C/O 85'

Andre Ward

September 26, 2006

I have never forgotten the kindness she displayed to me during the years I attended James Madison C.O. 82

September 26, 2006

My parents always told me that in life you will only meet 5 people in your life that you will respect, admire, honor, love and try to imitate all in one. I am honor to say that Mrs. McAfee is one on my five people. I will be miss her, but she will never be forgotten.

LaDeana Harris
Class of 1982

Greg Hicks

September 26, 2006

There is a void in our world today as we mourn the passing of one of education's true mavericks and icons.

I thank God for the legacy Ms. McAfee's life will carry on through my own, as well as through the thousands like me who were impacted by her gracious efforts. She was a powerful symbol of strength, endured adversity with grace and remained steadfast in her dedication to developing young adults.

My fondest memories of Ms. McAfee were the times when our basketball team was tops in the State and she would come to the games in her light blue cashmere suit and launch a public relations blitz with teachers, students and parents like no one I have seen. She built upon our athletic prowess to instill in us the pride and confidence to compete in life against anyone anywhere -- and WIN!

Thanks to Ms. McAfee and the talented teachers who followed her, I, too, can be the change that I wish for world.

May God bless Ms. McAfee's soul, and comfort her family and friends.

Respectfully,
Greg Hicks
Class of 1980

DeAnza Sharpe-Solomon

September 26, 2006

I will keep your Family in my Prayers.

Sabrina Flannigan

September 26, 2006

To the McAfee Family
"Mama Marlin" will surely be missed.She was an inspiration to me and my four other siblings who attended MHS. Be assured that she is in a beautiful kingdom, resting and knowing that her job on earth was "well done" God Bless.
Sabrina Flannigan c/o 81

Muriel Brown Larry

September 26, 2006

May God give you strength to endure during this time of sorrow. Our God will not allow you to go through this without giving you the assurance to endure.

Carrie Rochon McAfee
"A Virtuous Woman"
Psalm 31



Mrs. Carrie McAffee was my Dean of Girls at Jack Yates High School. I also worked in her office for two years. She was the perfect example of being a lady. She exemplified "poise and womanhood". When needed, she'd correct with the same level of tact. It's very understandable why she was "Dean of Girls".

During my senior year in college, I was assigned to student teach under Mrs. Ada Tasso at Madison High School. Again affording me the opportunity to work under Mrs. McAfee. Our last encounter was about six or seven years ago in San Antonio, Texas at a conference for Parental Involvement. I could not believe my eyes when I saw her. She has been and always will be a becon in my life. I thank you all, her family, for allowing her to have impacted so many lives in our educational journey.

Felicia Lyons-Byrd

September 26, 2006

I graduated from Madison in 1983, and my high school years were some of my best experiences. Mrs. McAfee and Mrs. Maura were very positive role models for me. I pray that the Lord continue to comfort you during your loss and it is so important to rememeber what you all have share together. May the Lord continue to bless you all.

Kim Metoyer

September 26, 2006

May God continue to Bless the McAfee Family. Kim Metoyer, Project Reconnect 2002-2005

Jerome Edwards, Jr.

September 26, 2006

May God Bless the McAfee Family. I am just one of many that had the pleasure of knowing such a lovely lady in Mrs. McAfee. I know i will miss her and so will James Madison High School and all those that attended school there under her leadership. Praise the Lord at all times. Class of 1988.

Rachelle Pollard

September 26, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. McAfee's family and friends. May God comfort and keep you.
Rachelle Pollard, Madison c/o'87

Willadene Washington Glover

September 26, 2006

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Diana Buchanan

September 25, 2006

To the family of Carrie McAfee, May God be with this family. She will truely be missed, but not forgotten. All my love and prays.

Diana Jones Buchanan

ROSALIND COLEMAN

September 25, 2006

MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU All. MAY GOD BLESS YOU IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. SHE WAS SUCH A SPECIAL LADY.

rosalind coleman class of '84

Gary Welborn

September 25, 2006

May God be with the McAfee Family - Mrs. McAfee was a great inspiration to many students who walked the halls of Madison High - myself included. She will be missed - May God be with you.

Madison High Class of 1989

CLARENCE (HORSE) HILL JR

September 25, 2006

TO THE MCAFEE FAMILY,MAY THE GOOD LORD BLESS YOU ALL,REJOICE IN THE LORD,AGAIN I SAY REJOICE IN LORD.MAY YOUR BURDENS BE SMALL,AND YOUR HEARTS LARGE.MRS.CARRIE MCAFEE WILL ALWAYS STAND AS A SAINT,SHE WILL TRULY BE A EDUCATOR IN HEAVEN,GOD BLESS YOU,ALWAYS.

Barbara Fields

September 25, 2006

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Rose Bosley

September 25, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Jesse Woods

September 25, 2006

My deepest sympathy lie with the family at this time of great sadness. Mrs. McAfee will be greatly missed.

Dan Blade - Madison Class of '81

September 25, 2006

To the family of Mrs. McAfee,

Our deepest condolences are with your family during your time of sorrow. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless. Dan Blade

Jean Williams

September 25, 2006

You was love and will be miss. From your Neice....Jean

Jean Williams

September 25, 2006

You was love and will be miss. From your Neice....Jean

Robin Armsted

September 25, 2006

May you Rest in Peace Ms. Mcafee
Class 1982

Darlene Williams

September 25, 2006

On behalf of my siblings, I want to send my sympathies to Ms. McAfee's family. My sisters Annie and Regina and my brother David were all students at Madison High School under Mr. McAfee's leadership. May God be with her family.

Rodney Ball and Tracey Brass Madison Class of 1991

September 25, 2006

"Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with all thy might." Ecclesiastes 9:10.
We know that Mrs. McAfee had blessing hands that did the work of the Lord. We are forever grateful for her diligence in the scholastic achievements of her students, peers, community, and family.

To the family "May the Lord continually bless you with heaven's blessings as well as with human joys."- Psalms 128:5. Our prayers are with you.

stephanie edwards-hunt

September 25, 2006

Your Family is in my heart and in my prayers during this time. Take comfort in the memories that will always remain.

Ronald Cederic Harris

September 25, 2006

Rhonda, my prayers are with you and your family. Your mother still lives on in the hearts of countless others.

Roderick Harrell

September 25, 2006

I would like for the family of Mrs Mcafee to know this,"To be absent from the body,is to be present with the LORD our savior".May he continue to give you strength and just remember to just "STAND" on his word.

God bless

Emily Moton

September 25, 2006

Mrs.Carrie Rochon McAfee was my Director of "Project Reconnect,"

Paul Lede

September 25, 2006

Mrs. McAfee the Madison Community will miss you for a long time but your legacy will go on forever. You were an inspiration to all of us. You told me once, that in order to be successful in life, first you must always have integrity. I'd would like to express my deepest sympathy to the McAfee family. I'm proud to be a Madison Graduate,(Class of 85) thanks to Mrs. McAfee.

Dwayne Adams

September 25, 2006

You will be greatly missed, love and prayers for your family.

Dwayne Adams(Class of 1980)Madison

Fred Wagner

September 25, 2006

Mrs. McAfee thanks for the love and motivation. You have inspired me and several members of my 1981 Madison Marlins basketball team. Your acts of kindness are often mentioned and will never be forgotten.

William Thomas

September 25, 2006

I, William Thomas, as well as my brother, Broderick, and sister Lecrecia are deeply saddened by the news of Mrs. McAfee's passing. We would like to thank God for allowing us to be blessed by her during our times at James Madison High School. She will forever be loved and missed. She was a principal that made students appreciate and want to go to school. Our prayers are with her family. God Bless.

Cedric , Katie & Casandra Johnson

September 25, 2006

The heart hath its own memories, like the mind. And in it are enshrined the precious keepsakes, into which is wrought, the givers loving thoughts.
We offer our sincere condolences on the lost of your loved one. Although there are no words to ease your grief at this difficult time, we hope these words will offer you some comfort.
Sincerely,
The Johnson Family

Vernita Grimes

September 25, 2006

Dear Rhonda & Family,
May God grant you the strength that you need. May you cherish the memories and good times that you had together. She is at rest.

Sincerely,
Vernita Grimes

Shirlean Jackson

September 25, 2006

I wish that I take away the hurt;
I wish that I could take away the pain;
I wish that I could give you back what you have lost;

But all is not lost;
All is not hurt and pain;

All is free from pain and hurt;
And love is never lost;
Love is the memory that lingers in your heart;
Love is the smile that you will always cherish;
Love is saying yes to “Ma” when you want to no;

The hurt and pain goes away;
And the memories overflow like flowers in the field;
But the memories of the void space in your life will forever remain.
Not void of the one you love and the one who loves you, but void of touch.

Memories of love never go away;
Life as we know it fades; but suspended time;
Is love that last a lifetime;
Hold on to the beautiful memories of those we love;
And that love is never far away;

Wish I could take away the pain and the void;
But we all go away from earth;
But never the love we shared or the memories.

God always knows best because He loved us first.
May you have the comfort of knowing that you are loved.

sjackson

Betty Elam

September 25, 2006

My deepest condolences to the family. May you find confort in the memories of the beautiful life your loved one lived. May God bless you and comfort you during your time of sorrow.

Mary Ann Williams

September 25, 2006

To the Rochon and McAfee families: I had the pleasure of knowing this grand lady through the School Administration Dept. at HISD where we worked together. I am a firm believer that God allows people to cross paths for a reason. My reason for meeting Mrs. McAfee was to truly learn how to be dedicated, strong, and most of all to keep a sense of humor. May the love of God comfort you at this bereavement period in your lives. Find peace in knowing that Mrs. McAfee lived and loved well.

Roderick Bell

September 25, 2006

To the family of Carrie R. McAfee,

My condolence is with your family during your time of sorrow.

Roderick Bell
Madison High School, Class of 81

Mary Goffney Brannon

September 25, 2006

May the love of God surround you and family at a time of bereavement. She will be missed!

Michelle Lewis

September 25, 2006

Definitely missed but never forgotten. So many lives were touched and changed by her greatness. I am honored to have had the opportunity to receive my diploma from her during graduation from the class of 1980. I still have that picture. May God send his peace and confort to the family. Remember God makes no mistakes and you have nothing to be sad about but rejoice and cherish the memories. She is a Legand.
Michelle Lewis-class of 1980

Comalita Lee

September 25, 2006

As a representative of James Madison Class of 1990, I would like to send my love and prayers for Mrs. McAfee and her family. Mrs. McAfee was a great inspiration to all of us and she will truly be missed. Be Blessed

LINDA BRANCH

September 25, 2006

I'd like to express my deepest sympathy to the McAfee family.
She was a great counselor and she will be missed.
May GOD be with you.
Linda(Harper)Branch
Jack Yates(class of 69)

Gail Willis

September 25, 2006

Our prayers are with the Cotton and Rochon family. May God continue to bless and keep you.

Much love; your cousins,
Gail and Worris Willis

Officer B. Farris HISD Police

September 25, 2006

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Ms Annette/Jeannette Cole-Dockins/Cole

September 25, 2006

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

Sandra Estelle (Pope)

September 25, 2006

I'd like to express my deepest sympathy for the McAfee family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mrs. McAfee will be greatly missed but not forgotten. (Class of 1981)

Deborah Harris

September 25, 2006

To the Family of Carrie R. McAfee,

Yo have my deepest sympathy during our time of sorrow. Trust in God, believe in God. God will always be there for you.

Arthur Triplette

September 25, 2006

My deepest sympathies to the McAfee Family, and may God be with you always. I know that I was privileged to have been guided by Mrs. McAfee when I was a student at Jack Yates, and I thank God for being so honored. Mrs. McAfee was a remarkable person who was also a very friendly and pleasant mentor/advisor/supporter. She was a smart and strong Black woman, and we always knew that she really cared about us. I know that because she so often told us that she wanted us to be successful at school and in life. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Vice-President, Jack Yates H.S. Class of 1964

Jason Fletcher

September 25, 2006

I was deeply saddened to learn of Mrs. McAfee's passing. As I think of people who inspired me to be an educator myself,"Marlin Mama" is certainly at the top of the list. Though she was only my principal for one year, I will always chreish the words of wisdom she shared with me as a young high school student. My prayers are with her family and loved ones infinitely as I remind you not to mourn the death, but CELEBRATE THE LIFE!!!

Mr.Jason Fletcher
Drum Major, Madison High School 1992

Peggy McIntyre Collins

September 24, 2006

May God bless the McAfee family. Mrs. McAfee was a jewel that will be truly missed. Jack Yates class of 1970

Jan & Verna Nezart

September 24, 2006

Mrs MCAfee was the principal who gave me my first teaching job on March 17, 1975. She hired me fresh out of college. Principal McAfee referred to me as a child teacher like she had been. I have always had the warmest regards and respect for her having stood her grounds as the first female high school principal in the state of Texas. A little piece of my heart will go with her. She will be missed. So many people will have so many nice things to say about her that I hope it will be a comfort for days to come. You are in my prayers and may God Bless.

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