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Clarence McIlwain Obituary

Clarence Ray McIlwain January 6, 1935-August 8. 2009 CLARENCE RAY McILWAIN, 74, passed away Saturday at his home in Bryan, TX. Visitation will be from 5:00 P.M. to 7:00 P.M. Sunday August 9 at Memorial Funeral Chapel in Bryan. Funeral services are scheduled for 3:00 P.M. Tuesday August 11, 2009 with visitation beginning at 2:00 P.M. at Memorial Oaks Funeral Home, 13001 Katy Freeway in Houston. Burial will follow at Memorial Oaks Cemetery with Deacon Bill Scarmardo officiating. Clarence was born January 6, 1935 in West Helena, Arkansas. He graduated from Maribeu B. Lamar High School in Houston in 1954 and was a member of the 1953 Texas State Championship Football Team. He attended the University of Texas at Austin on a football scholarship. He served two years in the United States Army. He was the owner of Chimney Rock Heating and Air Conditioning Service in Houston for 25 years and retired to Bryan in 1998 after living in Bellaire, Texas for 38 years. He is preceded in death by his parents Viola and Ruben McIlwain. Clarence is survived by his wife of 54 years, Jerry Lesikar McIlwain of Bryan, TX; daughter Cathy Meyer of Houston; son Brian McIlwain and Paula White of Houston; grandson Kyle Meyer and granddaughter Kristina Meyer both of Houston; two sisters, Patti Mancuso and husband Cullen of Bryan, and Janette Hopper of Burleson, TX; two brothers Ernie McIlwain and wife Glenda of Houston and Wesley McIlwain of Houston; eight nephews and five nieces. In lieu of flowers, we request donations be made to the American Heart Association.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Aug. 9, 2009.

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A.J. & Billie Long

August 21, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jeff Bogran

August 11, 2009

"Brian, We are saddened by the news of your fathers passing, we know the world was a better place with him in it and we know he will be missed dearly" Jeff Bogran and Family

Elizabeth Smith-Gillespie

August 10, 2009

Our thoughts & prayers are with you. With our Deepest Sympathy, we send our love. Words are never enough at a time like this.

Elizabeth & Bruce Gillespie

Scott Jordan

August 9, 2009

I am so sorry to hear the sad news of Mr. McIlwain's passing. Brian, you and your family are in my prayers.

Jeanne Jacobus

August 9, 2009

Dear Jerry and family, we are so very sorry for your loss. When I think of Clarence Ray, I think of the picture of him with Chuck and Kyle, when he took them fishing in Hermann Park. That's the first fish Chuck ever caught! Clarence Ray was a wonderful man, loving husband, father and grandfather, and along with all the other McIlwains, a great neighbor. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers during this sad and difficult time.

Fondly,
Jeanne and Chuck Jacobus

August 9, 2009

We are sorry to read of the death of Clarence. We are keeping you and yours in our prayers. John & Jeannine Curtis

August 9, 2009

TO JERRY & ALL OF THE FAMILY,OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE FOR YOU IN THIS TIME OF GRIEF.WE WILL ALL MISS CLARENCE,HE WAS ALWAYS THERE WHEN WE NEEDED HIM & ALWAYS WITH A SMILE ON HIS FACE.I WILL MISS HIS E- MAIL THAT WE HAD GOING ALMOST EVERY DAY.

GOD BLESS BILL & BARBARA HUFF

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