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for Kevin Whitaker
Chris C
November 23, 2024
I played EverQuest with Kevin and still think of him to this day
Adam Psencik
January 12, 2004
Today was the first time I heard the news. At first, disbelief, then shock, then sadness, a deep and profound sadness. My name is Adam, and I also knew your brother in game rather well. So well in fact, that last year we planned to meet each other at the UT-Austin/A&M game.....as I'm a student at the University of Texas. Well one thing led to another, and I was unable to make it due to it being on Thanksgiving Weekend and plans I had with the family. I now regret that I had to cancel meeting him like that.
Earlier this year, I quit Everquest entirely, and well.....I didn't keep in touch with Kevin. I didn't know him in real life that well, and I just sort of.....dropped off from contact of anyone here. Every time I speak to a friend I had in Everquest, I'm tempted to come back, even though I know its not good for me to do so........the only thing I miss from this game are friends like him.
To mention any specific experience I had with your brother would do him a great injustice, I can't relate much about the good times we had together. All I can tell you is that Kevin was one of the kindest people I've ever met, always willing to listen, no matter what I had to talk about. He was easy going, yet fiercely defended his principles. He could always make me laugh, or smile when I'd gone through a real rough day. Your brother was one of the few in game that I always wanted to be around.....and not only because my character was his 'meat shield', but because we were friends. I only wish I had found the time to catch up with him, to meet with him again.....especially since he lives so close to us.
I deleted my screenshots from EQ, and now I truly regret that, else I would have sent you some shots of your brother's character.......I know its nothing compared to the real thing, but that is all I had of your brother, and now I have nothing left except for a few memories. My deepest sympathies to you and your father......and may God be with you all.
Molly Adair
January 7, 2004
Kent and Bart,
We are devastated by the tragic news. Your family has been in our prayers throughout the holidays. We are truly blessed to have known such a wonderful family in the short time that we were neighbors. The memories we all have will never be broken. We miss you and you will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, The Adair family. Jim, Charl, Molly, and Emma
Casey Stavish
January 6, 2004
I'd like to give my warmest wishes to the family and friends who are dealing with this horrible loss. Take refuge in knowing that they are in better places and will see all of us another day.
Ashley Morgana Elizabeth Amber Denise Christian (Sullona)
January 3, 2004
Hello... I was not a close friend to Kevin, but I did have the honor to know him from EverQuest. He was always very kind and generous, and always had time to listen. I feel for your loss... Two years ago, when I was 21, I lost my sister. Below, I am copying the lyrics to one of the songs I sang at her funeral... I hope that the words will help you as they did me.
Return to Paradise
(Elton John/Bernie Taupin - 1978)
It's paradise here where the sun meets the sea,
There's nothing to fear and so much to be,
But soon I must go say goodbye to it all,
That homeland of mine is beginning to call.
Goodbye doesn't mean this has to be the end,
Fading dreams grow cold as ice,
And I got a feeling we will meet again,
When we return to paradise.
The wind in our hair and the sun in our eyes,
There's no need for tears and no time for lies,
So reach out your hand and I'll reach out my heart,
Remember me while we are apart.
I'm heading homeward,
Leaving sunshine and heading for rain,
But we'll return to paradise again...
---
I am very sorry for your tragic loss. I wish you the best.
Bree-Anne
December 25, 2003
I am so sorry to hear about what happened. My prayers are with Kevin and his family.
Travis Jonas
December 25, 2003
You will be missed kevin.. You touched MANY more lives than most people know.. I met you in a video game but felt I knew you thru the constant tells that we did. I hope that you find peace.
Travis Jonas
Aka Flix Flax Morrel Thule
Alan Smith
December 23, 2003
Kevin, you will be dearly missed by everyone who knew you. You were a great friend and also a great cousin. I am glad to have gotten to know you through the family. My prayers are with you and your family
Mike (aka Chimaera)
December 22, 2003
This news saddens me deeply. Kevin was such a great person, he inspired everyone who had the pleasure of dealing with him. I pray for those left behind, since Kevin's absense leaves a huge hole in the heart of everyone he ever met.
Dan
December 21, 2003
Tho we never spoke in real life Kevin was still able to brighten my day just with a simple joke. I spoke to him quite a few times over a number of years and his great personality still shone through a computer character he shall be greatly missed. I would also like to send the condolences of a person who does not yet know but will be devastated to find out because he is in boot camp at the moment. I'm sure Nick(Milen) would want me to send his regards as well he was a good friend to Kevin. You will be greatly missed my friend.
Darius (Renalan) Chan
December 21, 2003
Kevin was a good guy. Although I only knew him through EverQuest, the times we had were good and he was a great guy. I'll always remember the countless times he gave me advice on things pertaining to real life or in the game. He will be sorely missed.
Steven (Kallamindar)
December 20, 2003
Kevin (Eonwe) was one of the greatest human beings I have ever had the privalage to call friend. My sincerest condolences to his family. Kevin's memory will live on in the hearts of all those he touched.
Doo Kyung Park
December 19, 2003
With Kevin(Eonwe) in Everquest, it was a great time of my life.
Kevin, I will miss you. Rest in peace
Doo Kyung aka Enrudaru
Seoul(South Korea)
Chad Hopper
December 19, 2003
This world needs more people like Kevin. Even though I have not had the pleasure of meeting him in person, I have played with him online for several years. He will truly be missed. And for his family, my deepest condolences to you all. May god bless you all with better times, and take care.
William
December 19, 2003
Words can not express how I felt when I got the message of this great loss. I knew Kevin / Eonwe via Everquest and will never forget the fine person he was.
William aka Wathlon
Roosendaal (The Netherlands)
Dayylin
December 18, 2003
I never had the pleasure or honor of meeting Kevin, but I like many others feel his loss. Based on what others have said, this world is a less friendly place without him. Our prayers are with you.
Brian AKA Dayylin
Heralds of the Gods
Cazic-Thule
Kim Delaney
December 18, 2003
Kevin will be missed. I met him a few times in game. Clerics seem to know each other. My heart goes out to his family and they will be in my prayers.
Elorrah
Cleric of Rodcet Nife
Barbara French
December 18, 2003
I never had the good fortune to meet Kevin, but I have heard such good spoken about him in the Everquest world I cannot help thinking that the world is lessened today. My thoughts and prayers are with the survivors of this terrible loss.
nick
December 18, 2003
rest in peace to kevin and his father.
Robert Holland
December 17, 2003
Such a loss is a shame
May the Lord lessin your pain
All the fun and adventure we shared
And each day I knew he cared!!
I will not forget the loss of such a true Person. I know as I lost 2 brothers and so many friends have passed. May the lords love wrap you and keep you hole for Your loved ones have gone home you will see them in time Yes they know they are in your minds. your heart feels greif and so much pain Once again it is such a shame!!!!
Hugs and heartfelt Hope to you
*writen by Robert J
Robert Cubilla
December 17, 2003
I also met Kevin on Everquest. He was one of the best guys in the game and was very helpful to me a few times, and for no reward other than a smile and a thank you. So I thank his family now, for sharing him with us.
Autius
Paul Orlik
December 17, 2003
I knew Kevn through Everquest. He was an amazing guy, fun to be around and a joker and when it came to serious times he was serious.. Now there was no time for me to say bye to him so I feel discontent and I wish I could've said bye to him now.. I wish his family the best and hope everyone who knew him can remember all the good things he did.
David Johnson
December 17, 2003
The world needs more people like Kevin in it. He was one of the most generous and kind people that I have ever come across. He will be greatly missed. My condolances to his family, and prayers go out to Kevin and his mother.
Ryan Hancock
December 17, 2003
Kevin was a great person. I knew him through EverQuest as did many others. He will be missed greatly not because of a game, but because of the impact he had on others. He was a role model to many and a helpful person to countless more. He brightened the world for many with his kindness and generosity.
My prayers go out to the Whitakers.
Marc Mountjoy
December 17, 2003
I knew Kevin from the game Everquest and spent countless hours talking with him and having great laughs. I probably played with him for over 2 1/2 years and was simply the nicest guy. His loss will hit hundreds of people in this game which is a testament to his character. Humor, sensitivity, and honor is the words I would use to describe Kevin. Please accept my condolences during this horrible tragedy.
Senaleb (in-game name)
AkA
Marc Mountjoy
Timothy (Boraron)
December 17, 2003
Kevin you and your mother with be greatly missed. My prayers and wishes go out to the Whitaker family. I never met Kevin in person, but have known him on Everquest for about a year. He was the nicest person that i ever met on EQ. The server and FE will miss you Kevin and also miss your one of a kind charm.
Kristie Neet
December 16, 2003
I knew Kevin from Everquest also. He was one of a few that I always looked up to and strived to become as good. I'm still in shock over all of this, and in a state of deep sadness not only for the loss of a friend. Also for the loss the family has endured, with losing Kevin and Patricia.
Bart and Kent, I hope god grants you the strength of mind and body to make it through this painful time. I hope you both fully recovery, I realize nothing can ever replace your loved ones. I just hope you may find a sense of peace eventually. You both have my prayers and my love. My heart goes out to you both.
I will miss Kevin (Eonwe) forever! Great friend, cleric, and guildie in the lands of Norrath.
~ Reigna
Carrie Lang
December 16, 2003
Kevin was one of those rare, special people that only saw the good in people it seems. In an online community where people are often just a name on the screen, he was one of those ones that everyone knew, and everyone liked or loved. That just speaks volumes for the type of person I'm sure he was in real life.
May Kevin and his mother be sitting next to God, and may his family find peace one day soon. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you all...God Bless you all.
Patrick Mc.
December 16, 2003
My sincerest sorrow goes out to the Whitaker family. This news has had a very profound and tragic affect on many people, myself included. Kevin was a very great person. He had an impact on a great many people throughout the world - even if for most of them it was through a computer. His spirit, his outlook, and his heart was felt by all that met him. Mr. Whitaker, you should be very proud. Kevin was someone many strive to be.
Pat Mc (aka Drackore from Everquest)
Tim Martin
December 16, 2003
As long as someone is remembered, they are never truly gone from us. Kevin will never be forgotten.
Elizabeth ~
December 16, 2003
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow;
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there; I did not die.
Phung Ly & the staff of Settegast-Kopf Company
December 16, 2003
May the good memories held deep within your heart, help to soothe your spirit at this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.
Our deepest sympathy.
Nicole LaPorte
December 16, 2003
You will be deeply missed Kevin. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Whitaker family.
Jeff Gilbert
December 16, 2003
Kevin,
You were such a great friend. I met you in Kindergarten and we went to the same school through 3rd grade. Thanks for all the laughs and joy you brought into my life, and all of the other people's lives you have touched.
Whitaker Family - My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dylan(Shorrty) Goforth
December 16, 2003
Kev, I know you're in heaven right now, probably wearing a Vulak robe and chanting DOZEKAR DOZEKAR DOZEKAR over and over. You wouldn't want any of us to be sad right now, and you probably wouldnt understand it if we were. When the Cubs beat the Astros this year, I'll be thinking of you. My only hope is that you know how much you meant to everyone who met you. I will see you someday.
Tom
December 16, 2003
Kevin was one of those upstanding people who made it a point to be a friend no matter what it took. I was fortunate to have valued that friendship while I could take advantage of some really good times.
The world is a far worse place now that so many people have been deprived of the simple pleasures of laughter Kevin could bring out.
Hold the door for me E, I'll see you when my time comes.
Rob Cover
December 16, 2003
I would like to send my deepest Condolences to the Whitaker Family on the Loss of Patricia and Kevin my heart goes out to you in this time of need.
Kevin although I didnt know you in person you were one of the nicest people I have ever had the priveledge of knowing, I'm writing this through the tears and still in shock how something like this could happen you will forever be in my thoughts and prayers I will miss you.
Sparafacile.
Jeff
December 16, 2003
A poem I came across years ago thats been a help to me.
"Ascension" by Colleen Corah Hitchcock
And if I go,
while you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
-behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
-both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
...I will be there.
Jeff aka Genadiel
December 16, 2003
Deepest sympathies from MT, and know they watch us now from a much better place.
Rich Torno
December 16, 2003
Kevin and I shared many a laughs throughout our years gaming together in EQ. Your warmth, humor, and kindness will be remembered. My condolences to all his family and friends. Know that he will be greatly missed. -Jordaan
Joel Clark
December 16, 2003
Deepest condolences from the Clark family.
Shawn Bragg
December 16, 2003
Your family is in our prayers,may God be with you in this time of tragedy.Kevin has touched so many peoples hearts,without even meeting then face to face.he will surely be missed.
Shawna Bauer
December 16, 2003
I met Kevin playing Everquest and he was a remarkable young man. Kind, patient, always willing to help.
The world has suffered a great loss and it is a sad time for everyone.
Kevin will always have a special place in our hearts.
My condolences to his family and friends.
Please if you need anything feel free to contact me.
((huggs)) to all
Christopher Patrick
December 16, 2003
Kevin was truely an inspiration to all he met. He was one of those souls who simply makes life better. He will be missed.
Clinton I.
December 16, 2003
You touched so many lives without even a handshake. Your wonderful reputation preceded your name.
May God now shine his light on you, as you have brightened the lives of so many others.
My condolences to the family and friends all over the world.
Alex ~
December 16, 2003
Kevin I'll never forget how nice and sweet you were...Hope you are happy where you are now.
To his family...I wish you a speedy recovery and strength in your time of need.
Seumas Meighan
December 16, 2003
I never knew you in real life. I only knew you in EverQuest. I however know your personality and I as well as many others will greatly miss you. I hope your shining up above. My condolences to the rest of the family.
Marty
December 16, 2003
Although I had never met Kevin in person, I was a friend and fellow online gamer of his for about 3 years. I had alot of long talks with him about life and what he wanted in the future. I am sad to hear that he will never fulfill those dreams. From the few years I spent talking with him over an online game, I could gather that he was one of the most caring, selfless people that could bring a smile to my face as well as many others he touched within our online community. Kevin ( Eonwe ) You will be missed greatly friend. I don't remember a time ever in my life.. when I cried about the loss of someone I didn't know in my Real Life... today was that time for me.
My thoughts and prayers are with you always..
Marty AKA Silinius, Fury's Edge
Isaac Lee
December 16, 2003
I'll see you soon Kevin.
Samantha Page
December 16, 2003
Kevin, You turned my upsidedown world rightside up when I needed it. Even if you were half way across the world. You will forever be a part of my heart.
To the family. May god be with you. Find the strength to carry on and try your hardest to take care of yourselves.
C Wilson
December 16, 2003
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalms 34:18
Praying that God would flood you with His grace at this sorrowful time.
Alex S.
December 15, 2003
To the Whitaker family. I met Kevin a couple of years ago playing Everquest. He had such a positive effect on all he met. It was a display of a young man mature beyond his years. I considered him a friend, and he will be deeply missed.
Adam Miller
December 15, 2003
Kevin, Tricia, Bart, and Kent, you are all in my prayers. Kevin was very loved and an extraordinary person. He always saw the cup as half-full. May God bless you all and you have a speedy recovery.
Lisa Palmer
December 15, 2003
To the Whitaker family,
Kevin seemed to have been a fine young man. The community I knew him in will forever be affected by it. He will be so fondly remembered for all of his help within that community. May God bless you and keep you from any further harm. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. May you have speedy recoveries from your injuries. /salute Eonwe
Jason Bronson
December 15, 2003
Kevin was truly an amazing young man, I cannot express my sorrow for his loss in words. He truly was one of the nicest guys i have ever had the privliedge to meet.
God Bless You Kevin.
Melissa Neilson
December 15, 2003
I went to school with Bart in junior high and live in the same neighborhood, but never directly knew Kevin. I just wanted to tell the family I pray for them. The community we grew up with will help you through this. You are all obviously deeply loved.
Sonja Horsak
December 15, 2003
Dear Whitaker family - You are in our thoughts and prayers during these dark days. We know God will see you through it all, and will give you His peace. We ask a special blessing for Bart, that he may find comfort and peace.
December 15, 2003
Kevin will be missed greatly by his friends & family. He had just begun his life. May god be with you all to ease the pain you are feeling. It's such a great tragedy what has happened to you all.
God bless you...
A Houstonian.....
Gina Morgan Roberts
December 15, 2003
Thinking of you, praying for you. May God bless you all.
Robert Galny
December 15, 2003
Words cannot express our deep sympathy and sense of loss to our family. Our love, support and prayers are with the entire family and young Kevin will be terribly missed by all of us.
Barbara
December 15, 2003
My deepest sympathy for your loss. May your faith in God be the rock that you need to get you through these difficult days ahead. Your family is in my prayers.
Barbara
Marilyn Powell
December 15, 2003
Aunt Marie and dear family,
My thoughts and prayers will be with each of you during this very difficult time. May God Bless You.
I love you,
Marilyn
DIANE GRIZZOFFI
December 15, 2003
Kent:
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your wife and son. God will watch over them now. I pray for you and your family.
Diane (Duoto) Grizzoffi
(Austin High School)
Holli Horsak
December 15, 2003
Dear Whitaker family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know God will be with you and carry you through these difficult times. May God bless you in everything you do.
Sincerely, Holli Horsak
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