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Charlie Gili
February 15, 2022
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this month and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Jeremy E. Ray US Army 1st Lieutenant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Christopher Holzman
June 4, 2019
1st LT Ray I miss you every day. I think of the dinner we had before you went out on your last mission. And remember hearing of your death when I got back to FOB Warhorse. SIr i will never forget the times that you made me and others around you smile and laugh. Sir there will never be an LT like you ever and I will forever reamember you tell my last days. Thank you Sir for your sacrifice helping this country safer for my family. You will be missed but never be forgotten Sir BLOOD AND STEEL!
Anderson M
December 27, 2018
11 years Sir never will i forget. Blood and Steel!!!
-Andie
Jeff Rasberry
March 16, 2017
J Ray. Always the reserved smiling person who I played football with and went through Cook and JV with. You would be 35 with a family and a few kids now. I strive to raise my kids to be a resemblance of how you carried yourself. Quiet confidence and a genuine caring heart with a sneaky sense of humor. Never forgotten brother!
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Potomac River at Harper's Ferry
Matt Gruner
June 9, 2016
Dear family and friends of Jeremy Ray,
Yesterday, I had the privilege of riding my bicycle in the honor of Jeremy. I rode several miles along the Potomac River on the Chesapeake and Ohio Canal towpath near the town of Harper's Ferry. This was part of a project to have a volunteer ride at least 1 mile for each of the 6800+ who have died in Iraq/Afghanastan (www.werideforthefallen.org).
As I read about Jeremy on this site and many others I was please to learn he was an Aggie. I spent many of my military years in Texas and flew with many Aggies. I was also impressed by what his friends and subordinates had to say about his leadership style and abilities. I think I really would have liked Jeremy had we met.
I can never know the pain you have endured in losing Jeremy, but I hope you can take comfort in the fact that thousands of Americans are striving to keep the memories of these fallen soldiers meaningful and relevant. I was pleased to have the opportunity to honor Jeremy.
God Bless,
Lt Col Matt Gruner
US Air Force (Retired)
Jaime Dooley
December 22, 2015
I miss you buddy thanks for your service to keep our country free i know you are watching over us in heaven
May 27, 2014
Thinking of you today Jer. I often talk about you and how proud I am to call you my cousin. See you one day soon. Keep smiling down and watching over us. Love you. Vanessa
Linda Bush
May 26, 2014
Remembering Lt. Jeremy Ray on this Memorial Day, May 26, 2014.
Bridget
December 21, 2013
Today I was honored to call out your name and run in your memory with the running group wearblue. We will not forget your sacrifice.
Linda Bush
May 28, 2013
Debbie and Randy - Remembering Jeremy on this Memorial Day 2013. Ya'll are always in my thoughts.
Richard Anderson
May 27, 2013
Dear family of Jeremy Ray:
My name is Richard Anderson, my son Michael Anderson served under your son. My son was wounded during the same bombing that your son was taken from you. Me and my family send our condolences to your family. My son thought very
highly Of your son. I dont think there's not a day that goes by that goes Michael doesn't think of him . God bless your entire family as you will always be in our thoughts and prayers. And once again thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
July 11, 2012
I miss you cuz! See you in heaven.
Vanessa
michael anderson
July 9, 2012
King of battle we miss you LT
Michael Spc. Anderson
April 22, 2012
Hey Lt. Their isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of that day when we lost you. We came closer than I could ever think just in those few seconds trying to maintain and cover my sector. I miss you. You will never be forgotten. 12/20/2007. Kannan, Iraq
Peggy Childers
December 20, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Jeremy E. Ray:
Please accept my remembrance of Jeremy on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Ryan Bishop
August 3, 2011
LT,
I wanted you to know, you are on my mind everyday, and have been since that day. You had a profound effect on me, and the rest of our team. We were so sorry to see you move, and broken hearted when we heard of your passing. Thank you for all you taught me, and just being a great guy in your time as our FSO. You will never be forgotten, you will always be Dragon Redleg.
Mark Turner
May 30, 2011
Today is your day Jer, thank you for your sacrifice. We miss you and think of you often. We will see you one day soon.
Peggy Childers
December 20, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Jeremy E. Ray:
Remembering Jeremy on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
JohnnyD PGR
December 20, 2010
May we never forget the sacrifice Jeremy made for us all. Thank you for your service Lt. Ray and for our freedom.
Donna Gillette
December 13, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
August 8, 2009
You are remembered and so,rest in peace.We prayed in 2007 and do so now with gratitude and a sad heart.
Brian Hollandsworth
May 26, 2009
Jeremy,
I couldn't help but think about you and your family this Memorial Day. Memorial Day has always been a somber holiday, but it seems even more so in recent years. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
Brian
T Starman
January 17, 2009
I offer my deepest condolences for your loss
SPC. Anthony Gisondi
January 8, 2009
1LT Ray, I will never forget the things you taught me. As we prepare to return home your memory will be with us always. It was an honor to serve with you.
In Memory of Jeremy ~ (Debra Estep)
December 28, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jeremy, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
December 19, 2008
To the family of 1st Lt. Jeremy E. Ray:
Jeremy gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Rebecca Johnson
December 12, 2008
Hey Cuz, was thinking about you today, as i do frequently, and a few weeks ago on your birthday. I looked at your facebook page and stared at it for a good ten minutes. Sometimes I still can't believe it and bust into tears at work. Can't wait to see you again in Heaven one day.
Kenna Larra
December 5, 2008
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Sincerely,
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Allison Ray
November 26, 2008
Happy Birthday Jeremy! We miss you today and we'll miss you very much tomorrow. A big family dinner won't be the same without you.
Chris Turner
November 11, 2008
I think of your service and sacrifice everyday! I hope you were honored today in Heaven for Veterans Day!
Kathi Shady
November 7, 2008
As the holidays approach, I know that it will be hard for you. My family is thinking about you and the sacrifice that you and Jeremy gave for his country. My nephew thinks of him often and always tells us what a wounderful person he was.
November 6, 2008
I'm missing you Jer!
Love,
Allison
Mark Turner
August 14, 2008
Well Jerm its been a while but you are still missed. I have your picture on the wall at my office and it will stay there. I look at every morning and say hey. It reminds me every day to take each day as a gift and enjoy it. You are a true hero to us all. I know God has you in the best place in Heaven. " There is no greater gift than when a man gives his life for another".
July 6, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Ray and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 6, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Ray!
Linda Bush
June 8, 2008
Dear Debbie and Randy,
I just today learned of Jeremy's death. The only reason I can think of that i was not aware was probably because my daughter (a now discharged Sgt in the Army Reserves) was in the hospital having surgery that day.
No words can take away your pain and as a mom, I mourn with you. I recall my conversations with the two of you at JVHS football games when we discussed Jeremy going to Texas A&M and being in the Corp. I know he was a proud Aggie and an even prouder soldier.
As parents, you have made the ultimate sacrifice, your son. As an American, I thank Jeremy and you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Allison Ray
May 26, 2008
This day has forever changed for us because of you. I bet you were honored in Heaven today, too. We love you and miss you!
Salliann Schippers
May 25, 2008
To the Ray family,
In church today our pastor gave out the names of some of the fallen soldiers from these past months. My son picked the paper with Jeremy's name on it. We will honor Jeremy this Memorial Day and thank you for raising a hero. We also pray for your family that the God of all comfort is with you and that he will bless your family.
Cheri O'Brien
May 11, 2008
To the family and friends of 1LT Jeremy Ray. I hope and pray that God has provided you all with love, comfort and peace. I am sending all of you a warm hug from a stranger who cares about you, your loss and your well being. I personally didn't know Jeremy, but my nephew did. If he was anything like my nephew, then he was an incredible man! My nephew, (Chad) aka "The Golden Child" is the man in the middle of photo #3. I appreciate all of the efforts, sacrifices and heros within all of our armed forces. I will continue to pray everyday. Not only for my nephew, but for all of the men & women standing beside him, fighting for our country. Jeremy, please rest in peace, your duties here are done and I thank you. Please continue to help watch over the troops. God Bless you, your family and friends, my nephew and all the men & women serving in this war. I will continue to do what I can from here.
PFC Ian Larson
May 9, 2008
Sir,
It was an honer to have served as your gunner and RTO from training on Ft Hood through our rotation at NTC. Being your eyes and ears when you took a simulated hit in NTC. Being your voice when we were boots on the ground in the MOUT site. I'll never forget the way you were always out front with the rest of us soldiers, leading by example and preparing us to deploy to Iraq. You are greatly missed by the soldiers of King Battery sir.
Brave Rifles Sir!
Allison Ray
April 27, 2008
Hey Jer,
I had my first real dream with you in it since you left. It was great! We were all together having a great time. Just like the last time that you, Justin and me got to hang out. I miss your e-mails and the thought of you coming home in 9 months.
Love,
Allison
Dan Brochu H-1 '05
April 8, 2008
Dear Ray Family,
Jeremy was one year my superior in the Corps of Cadets at Texas A&M. He was a leader unlike any other. His presence was always there even if he wasn't yelling and screaming like all of the others. He was a man I tried to emulate when I got to where he was. He was a great guy and he is truly missed.
Alan Burks
March 28, 2008
Dear family and friends of LT Ray,
I read Jeremy's memorial today in Texas Aggie magazine.
My son, 2LT Peter Burks, memorial is just above Jeremy's.
As a fellow Gold Star family, please know that Jeremy is remembered, honored and valued just as you are.
Thank you for raising such a hero.
If there is anything we can do for you, even if it is just to talk and share, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Alan Burks
Father of 2LT Peter Burks
KIA November 14, 2007
Baghdad, Iraq
Spc Smith
March 22, 2008
Sir,
You where a great Lt I am Honored that i was your driver those few weeks In NTC. HWB 1/3 ACR lost a great PL a great LT and over all a great guy.
P.S.I will never forget the time zappa did the impersonation of the commander and you had the biggest smirk on your face.
Stacie Malone/Mitchell
March 13, 2008
To the Ray Family:
I knew Jeremy through football in high school. As one of his athletic trainers I was privileged to see him almost everyday. A friend of mine happened to come into the gun range I manage a few weeks ago and gave heartbreaking news. Images of Jeremy came to mind on the field and the casual conversations we would have while he was on the sideline. He was a person you would always look to when you needed to smile. Always a happy guy. Jeremy will be missed by my entire family (my mother works at JVHS) We send our love and prayers to you, and will be so excited to join him when we all get to paradise!
Chris Turner
February 25, 2008
It's been two months since you were taken away from us and I'm still at a loss for words. I hope you can hear me when I say thank you! Thank you so much for your courage and sacrafice! I am honored to call you my cousin. I am proud to have known such an amazing person and an American Hero. You will never be forgotten. I'll see you when I get there!
SHIRLEY DONEY
February 12, 2008
REST IN PEACE 1ST LT. RAY, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Rest In Peace
Michael iezzi
February 12, 2008
Father we entrust our brother Jeremy to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Jeremy in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Mary Aston
January 20, 2008
My son, Spc. Daniel Aston, was with your son on the 20th of December when they were attacked. My heart aches for you and the loss you must endure. I will never forget your son, Jeremy, he will forever be in my heart. I pray that God gives you the strength to make it through the days ahead.
Donna (Huckabay) Carvalho
January 19, 2008
My family's prayers and thoughts are with you. Your son is a hero and honor to you and JV. I remember when the boys were born. My love to all the of Ray family including the aunts and cousins which I knew.
Daniel Aston
January 17, 2008
My deep sympathies for your loss. I was with your son in Kanaan that morning. Feel free to contact me.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 10, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Ray family in the loss of Jeremy. I did not know Jeremy, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jeremy you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
January 9, 2008
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Darren Pike
January 9, 2008
I am quite certain Jeremy is in Fiddler's Green...enjoying a drink from his canteen with other Brave Rifles Troopers! My heart is saddend for your loss...may God Bless you and keep you! Brave Rifles / Veterans!
Libby Fowler
January 8, 2008
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Jeremy E. Ray: How my heart aches with the loss of another one of our finest! Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you now and for the days to come. My son, Spc. Crockett Fowler Butler, will depoy to Iraq in April. Please include him in your thoughts and prayers. GOD BLESS AMERICA AND GOD BLESS 1st LT. JEREMY E. RAY!
Michael Kaner
January 8, 2008
My nephew was with your son at the time of the attack on December 20. I cannot comprehend your loss and I know there are no magic words to relieve your pain, even momentarily. Your son was truly an admirable man and soldier. I remember him in my prayers and want you to know I am in awe of his service to his country. He is truly a great American.
Bruce Twenhafel
January 8, 2008
On behalf of Campus Activities at the University of Houston, please know that the Ray family is in our hearts and prayers.
John Shelton
January 8, 2008
Hello Rays --When Scott and ross told me of this loss I was sick for a week and cannot imagine what you are going through.
I certainly have thought the world of both of your fine boys.
I am thinking of you everyday
Beverly Westmoreland
January 7, 2008
May God comfort and over shadowing love be with you in your time of need. Thank you for your sacrifice.
Dianne Lami
January 4, 2008
Your family, Allison, are in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your wonderful brother-in-law. May you and your family sense the Lord's presence and His strength at this difficult time. and it's okay to cry.
Kathi Shady
January 2, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. My nephew Mike Anderson was with Lt Ray when the bombing happened. My family would like to send our deapest sympothy. We will be thinking about you.
Don and Nancy Weaver
January 2, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived and know we are so grateful for the ultimate sacrifice that Jeremay and your family has made for the freedom for all.
Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.
Paul Martin
January 2, 2008
Although I did not know Lt Ray, I am sure he is at home in "Fiddler's Green" with all the other Brave Rifles who have preceded him down the trail.
All our thoughts are with you,
Paul & Kathy Martin
Russell Hamley
January 2, 2008
No words can express my sympathy for the pain your family is experiencing. The ultimate sacrifice for your country speaks to the quality of yourself and those you left behind. God has taken you for a better place in his eternal plan.
Chaplain Dan Gates
January 2, 2008
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of first Lieutenant Ray. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Sonja Durand
January 2, 2008
To the family of Jeremy Ray, we send our sympathy and prayers to you and to thank you for a wonderful young man who served his country! From the mother of First Sergeant T. Durand
Kristin Smith (a CRBS Mom alum)
January 2, 2008
Dear Randy and Debbie,
My heart just aches and breaks for you with the death of Jeremy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
May God's comfort sustain and strengthen you today and always.
Nancy Fritz
January 1, 2008
Ray Family,
As I only met Jeremy a few times in the past months, I know that he left this world making a difference. His and your sacrifices will never be forgotten. Your family will always be in our thoughts.
Charann Thompson
January 1, 2008
Jeremy deployed with my husband who is also a part of King Battery, and as a family member of a deployed servicemember, I grieve for you and your tremendous loss. May God's incomprehensible peace and love sustain you in this difficult time.
Richard and Joann Fritz
January 1, 2008
Our hearts grieve with you. We met Jeremy when we visited Fort Hood in October. He was a fine young man who like so many American soldiers before him has given the ultimate sacrifice so others can be free. God will sustain you at this time. You are in our prayers.
'99 H-1 Raider
January 1, 2008
On behalf of the H-1 Raider class of '99 I would like to express our most heartfelt sympathy and deepest regrets for the loss of Lt. Jeremy Ray.
Although many of us did not know Lt. Ray personally I can say, without hesitation, that his sacrifice will not soon be forgotten by anyone in the
Aggie family, most certainly his H-1 brothers. He will be missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Lt. Ray's family and friends during this most difficult of times, and may God grant you all His comfort and peace.
Respectfully,
Reece Orr
Charles&Tammy Myers
January 1, 2008
We are deeply sorry for your (our) loss. Words are not enough to express the feeling of loosing a son or daughter. Just knowing he is in a greater peace that someday we will know. Our son is with HWB 1/3ACR. "WE ARE...KINGBATTERY"
Kara Wheat
December 31, 2007
To the Ray Family-
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Jeremy was a classmate of mine and a wonderful, respectable young man. I enjoyed seeing him in the halls of Jersey Village High School on the weekdays and the pews of JVBC on Sundays. I proud to say that I knew a young man like Jeremy who was an outstanding citizen and a good soldier. Jeremy will be missed but not forgotten. The Lord has a plan- a plan for Jeremy, and a plan for your family.
Maureen Andrews
December 31, 2007
My husband deployed to Iraq with LT Ray and KING battery. Although they were not in the same platoon, he respected and admired him. Of course there aren't any words to express the deep sympathy we all feel for your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, and we feel your loss and share in your sorrow. God bless you, and may God's grace be with you during your time of grief.
Smiling Hero
December 31, 2007
Hero Ray in Maine
December 31, 2007
Melissa Starr
December 31, 2007
I did not know your son personally but my husband did. He is also in 1/3 and has always said such wonderful things about him. I am so sorry for your loss, your whole family is in my prayers. Jeremy is a hero and will live on forever in the hearts of everyone who knew him. Thank you for raising such a wonderful, honorable, man.
Charles Amankwaa
December 31, 2007
He was my platoon leader in Dmc.He was one of the most respected officers because he set the pace and leads as an example.He will forever has a place in my heart.I will never forget him.
Liza Blanco
December 31, 2007
To the Ray Family,
K know that words can not begin to express how sorry we are for your loss.
He was my husband's section leader briefly in 1/3 but left an everlasting impression. One of his favorite memories of LT Ray was when they had combatives and were partnered together, it was raining and muddy but that didn't deter them from completing their task or getting muddy. I met him there briefly as it was time for chow and they did not have much time to eat and change. I talked with him at the FRG meeting and he was such a wonderful person and proud soldier.
My husband was deeply affected when they were informed about LT Ray. We would like your family to know that however brief his time here was, he touched so many lives in such a positive and inspirational manner that he will never be forgotten. May you take comfort in knowing how many people loved him, and will continue to keep him alive in their hearts.
With deepest sympathy,
PFC David and Liza Blanco
CPT John Fritz
December 31, 2007
To the Ray family. I am so sorry for your lost. Your son was my platoon leader who wanted nothing but to do his job well and right, and take care of his soldiers. He will be missed but never forgotten in the KING battery.
Marisa Martin
December 30, 2007
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
The Davis Family (CRBS alums)
December 30, 2007
Dear Ray Family,
We were shocked to learn this morning at church that you had lost your beloved son as he served in the line of duty. We are thankful for his service to our country and we are praying for you at this most difficult time. We send our deepest sympathy to your entire family. May God continue to comfort you and give you His peace.
Kim Kirtley
December 30, 2007
We are so sad for your loss. Please know how grateful we are for the heart of a soldier and his desire to stand up for our country.
Our hearts are heavy for you, and we pray that God in His mighty way will give you peace beyond all understanding.
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the Lord. "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts."
Robert Ivany
December 30, 2007
May the good Lord bless you and your family. I am sure that He has welcomed Jeremy into His arms.
PFC Andrew Dauchy & Denise Dauchy
December 30, 2007
Ray Family,
My husband had the honor of serving in Iraq with Jeremy. Our hearts, our thoughts and our prayers are with you through this sad and difficult time. Jeremy's sacrifices will never be forgotten and he left this world a true hero to us all.
Sharon Fair
December 30, 2007
To the Ray Family,
My son called yesterday to tell me about roll call without you son to answer when his name was called. My son told me that Lt. Ray was a good guy and a great soldier. I thank you and honor your sons memory for being there for my own son. I know there is nothing to say to make it better, but when my son died, 20 years ago, I recieved this poem and would like to share it with you.
When I must leave you
For a little while
Please do not grieve
And shed wild tears
Or hold your sorrow to you
Through the years
But start out bravely
With a gallant smile
And for my sake
And in my name
Live on and do
All things the same
Feed not your loneliness
On empty days
But fill each waking hour
In useful ways
Reach out your hand
In comfort and cheer
And I in turn will comfort you
And hold you near
And never, never
Be afraid to die
For I am waiting for you in the sky!
Claudia Torres
December 30, 2007
Dear Ray family,
I am sorry for the lose of your son/brother. My husband deployed with your son in Nov. I did not have the honor of knowing your son but my husband tells me he was a great man and soldier. I hope that the memories you have shared with your son will comfort you in this time of sorrow. I will keep you in my prayers. Thank you.
Haley Bruce
December 30, 2007
LT Ray was my husbands platoon leader in Iraq. I never got the chance to meet him but Brandon has only had wonderful things to say about him. We are so sorry for your loss. Y'alls family is in our prayers at this very difficult time.
Christine Durand
December 30, 2007
Dear Ray family, I am so very sorry for your loss.Jeremy leaves such a huge void behind. I pray for all of you and hope that you find comfort in God.
Priscilla Myers
December 29, 2007
Mr. and Mrs. Ray, I had the privilige of meeting you and Jeremy on the day our guys left for Iraq. My husbands name is Chuck and he served with Jeremy at DMC in Iraq. You were so kind to us and our daughter as we sat for such a long time in the grass next to the building. I have been praying faithfully for your family since I heard about your loss. I pray that God will give you the strength and comfort that only he can give.
This I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the Lords great love we are not comsumed, for his compassions never fail. Lamentations 3:21-22
Michael R. Wimberly
December 29, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ray and family
....Heart felt condolences is all we can muster for there are no words, no thoughts, no profound wisdom that we can offer to console you or to answer the nagging question, why, why, why. The pain stings like a never ending and merciless reminder that cannot be controlled. And there is pitifully little relief from the conscience reality of the loss of your son.
Gather with family and friends and comfort one another and we your friends and neighbors will pray that you find peace without bitterness. Jeremy is at peace in the arms of the Lord for he no longer feels the pain or fears that life in the flesh makes us bear. Know well that he is safe for salvation of a confessed believer has been pre-purchased and it is irrevocable.
Last week my wife and I attended the graduation of our daughter in law at Texas A & M. In the ceremony 41 young Aggies received their commissions. It was a special moment that captivated all who attened. I noticed tears in my wife's eyes as she began to sob. She was praying for their protection. We all feel your pain.
Heartbroken Aggie
December 29, 2007
Dear Ray Family,
I did not know your son, but I grieve for your loss. As a fellow Aggie, I am heartbroken that we have lost a member of our family. Yesterday afternoon, as I turned onto the feeder road, I saw just ahead of me on the highway the Patriot Guard Riders. My coworkers, who were in the car with me, exclaimed, "What's going on?" I said, "We lost another soldier, and all those men have come to honor him." We pulled over to the side of the road and sat in silence as the funeral procession passed us by. I wiped a tear from my eye as I remembered honoring a dear friend of mine KIA in Iraq just one year ago. My heart ached for all of Jeremy's family and friends. He was, without a doubt, a brave, selfless man - and the world is a better place for having known him. On April 21, 2008 I will stand at Muster and answer "here" for your amazing son. Thank you for your family's ultimate sacrifice. I hope God grants you peace and understanding.
"Mark them present in our hearts.
We'll meet some other day
There is no death, but life eterne
For old friends such as they!"
First Sergeant Durand
December 29, 2007
To the Ray Family; I am First Sergeant Theodore Durand from KING Battery. Your son & brother, was very much "my son" too. I feel a tremendous loss and pain, but a heartfelt appreciation for having known and been able to stand beside Jeremy. He was and will always be a part of this battery and will stay with me forever. We are sincerely a better and prouder unit because of him.
Jeremy and your family will remain in our hearts and prayers.
Rob and Gloria McCreary
December 29, 2007
Dear Randy, Debbie and Justin,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son and brother Jeremy. We met many years ago when my daughter, Christine, and Justin were in the "Peter Pan" play and we carpooled to their rehearsals.
As we gather around you in thought and prayer, we ask that the God of all comfort would comfort you in this time of need and keep you in His peace. Much love to you and all your family.
CPT Brian Hollandsworth
December 29, 2007
Jeremy,
It was an honor to have known and served with you in our great Army, our great Regiment, and our great Squadron. We are all deeply saddened by your sacrifice, but we are increasingly honored to have known you. May the Ray family find peace and comfort in the arms of our Savior in this deeply trying time.
Brave Rifles!
Col. Richard L. Quinn
December 29, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Ray: I am Col. (Retired)Richard L Quinn, Executive Director of the 3d Cavalry Association, and Honorary Commander of Tiger Squadron-1/3 ACR. I only met your son once and that was right before he deployed. He impressed me then as a fine young man and dedicated professional. Since his tragic death, I have had the opportunity to learn more about him from those who knew him well and they have confirmed my impression of him. Thank you for allowing me the honor of attending his funeral. It truly was a celebration of a short but wonderful life. If there is anything I can do for you and yours please do not hesitate to call. You are great people and we welcome you all into The Regimental Family. - Brave Rifles.
Diane Atherton & Family
December 29, 2007
Dear Friend,
May I offer my condolences to you and your family of the loss of your son,Jeremy. You have always been and always will be PROUD of your son, he was a wonderful person . Also know how appreciative I am, along with so many others, of what his life means,that we as Americans may continue to have our freedom .
THANK YOU, God bless for Jeremy's service to his country and may everyones prayers help you to make it thru this time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you---
Pauline Knutson
December 29, 2007
"We wish time spent with our loved ones would last forever, and in our hearts it will"
Praying for your family as you grieve through the loss of a great Officer.
Mother of Officer 2LT Tracy Alger KIA 11/1/07
Kim Monien
December 29, 2007
To the Ray Family.
I knew your son and brother for just a short time, He worked with my husband in the 3d ACR, but everytime i saw him he would make me smile.. I was proud and honored to be the at the funeral.
The 3d ACR family will always be here if you need us.
God bless your family.
PFC John Bailo
December 29, 2007
dear family members of LT Ray, I wanted to say how sorry I am about your loss. I was there when LT Ray died. He was attached to my unit and working with me and others at the DMC in Iraq. He was a good leader and a great man. The suicide bombing took us all by suprise, none of us ever thought one would hit us. I am sorry for your loss.
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